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Help On Relating Emotions
2007-01-18 23:04:00 Whenever humans speak to each other, they are always somehow relating emotion in their words, in the body language, and in how they express what they’re feeling. The reason humans talk is to transfer and relate emotions to someone, even if they do not actually voice the emotion. It is inferred. Nightlife ... More About: Emotions
The Platonic Vibe and Beyond
2006-12-25 10:52:00 You?ve learned about personal vibe, how to connect with a girl, how to have genuine interest and how to keep a conversation going. You also read about getting sexual, but what about before all that? What about the platonic vibe? To me, the most overlooked aspect of meeting someone new is the platonic level ... More About: Vibe
An open letter to a Charisma Arts instructor?
2006-12-16 21:51:00 I wasn’t feeling my usual outgoing self when my roommate’s girlfriend brought us to some school affiliated Asian club party. All of the girls were nerdy and unattractive looking, so I stayed away. I realized that this type of thing has been happening to me lately, if not, all of my life. ... More About: Charisma , Open , Arts , Letter , Open Letter
Scariest thing in the entire world - Part 2: Sexual Escalation
2006-12-11 08:32:00 It’s ironic. Once you start creating more sexual vibes you will see that it’s not even a risky thing to do but rather something women welcome. Ok lovers, here’s the part two of the saga. This post is to clarify and expand on points on being sexual. (Before I continue, an SOI stands for “Statement ... More About: World , Entire , Part , Sexual , Thing
Conversation as an art
2006-12-05 01:30:00 “Men and women will become incredibly boring to each other if the art of connection ever becomes a quantified science. Those who adhere to strict rules and structure of human relationships tend to leave their personalities behind. They become stiff and wooden. Always in their wooden heads thinking their wooden thoughts and rarely in ... More About: Conversation
Scariest thing in the entire world - Part 1: Approaching
2006-11-21 11:17:00 Yes, that’s Vince Vaughn. If you haven’t already, go and see Swingers. He is a great example of Alpha Nice. Most of my posts have to do with inner game and learning how to build confidence in order to approach and connect with girls. In a nutshell, feeling confident to approach is inner ... More About: World , Entire , Part , Thing
PUA Community on Facebook
2006-11-19 22:17:00 I like this idea because it is a good way to get to know other people in the community, and helps you easier connect and network with them. I understand how some kids may want to keep their PUA identity a secret, and that’s fine. To me, I openly tell girls that I ... More About: Community , Facebook
What do you want to learn about?
2006-11-06 21:33:00 Hey everybody! I’m curious, what are some things on your mind that you are having trouble with? Sticking points? Questions? Let me know and maybe I will answer it for you in the next post. Love,mybirthdaypony P.S. - Please do not ask about things that are covered already in my blog, the eBook, the ... More About: Learn
How To Keep A Conversation Going
2006-10-31 20:50:00 So many guys IM me with the question, “How do you keep up conversation?” I get things like, “After the initial topic, it kind of just trails off from there.” It’s a problem that I tend to have myself from time to time. Here’s the best answer.. In order for conversation to flow easily and ... More About: Conversation
How To Be An Alpha Male
2006-10-20 04:05:00 “I called this girl that I met a few days ago. We were supposed to hang out tonight, so I left a message on her voicemail when she didn’t pick up. But you know what? If she doesn’t call me back, I do not give a shit. There are tons of other girls that would ... More About: Alpha , Male , Alpha Male
Nanu, nanu?
2006-10-01 10:54:00 Hey! I don’t want you to think I stopped posting, so I decided to let you know that I am taking some time to get more experience with everything I have been learning these past nine months with Charisma Arts and the Juggler Method. I am having the time of my fucking life excelling socially. ...
To laugh, or not to laugh
2006-09-12 19:45:00 Remember that what you say is only half the equation. Practice making the right expression to go along with your words. You may not be doing that, hence your face is free to laugh. Make sense? Don’t laugh at your own jokes. Bad idea for many, many reasons. However, it is okay to laugh after she or ... More About: Laugh
Unlearn how to be a pickup artist
2006-09-07 18:37:00 As a singer, the way I had to learn singing was by learning it backwards. You have to ‘unlearn’ to sing. You are naturally a good singer as a child, but as the years pass you eventually learn bad habits that will make your neck tense, make you support your air wrong and ... More About: Artist , Pickup
Be specific!
2006-09-03 01:14:00 When you are talking to a person, you are talking to a PERSON. They have feelings, they have thoughts, blood running through them. When you talk to a person, make your wording and rewarding exclusively for THAT person. That’s what saying her name is all about. You are showing that you ... More About: Specific
Is she boring?
2006-08-30 22:08:00 “Oh, I’m a realtor.”“Oh really? Tell me about that.”“Oh well, blah blah blah.”“Oh really? That’s so interesting, it must be so rewarding to show people houses. You’re like a personal little friend that the house hunters can have.”What I’d really like to say:“You know what, I don’t care about your boring job.” In my last ... More About: Boring
Inner Game
2006-08-26 20:48:00 “You have to want to fuck yourself before anyone else will want to fuck you.” -Johnny Saviour Most of our teachings in Nightlife Serenade has to do with caring about other people, and bringing out the best in them. But how can we do that without being confident about ourselves? In order to not ... More About: Game
Speaking in a provocative manner..
2006-08-23 00:34:00 Emotionally relating to someone is a powerful tool to let the person know you understand what they are talking about. With Charisma Arts, we’ve learned that after someone tells you something, we can find the emotion behind it and relate that same emotion with an experience of our own. Not only can you ... More About: Speaking , Manner
The Statement Vacuum
2006-08-21 03:34:00 The Statement Vacuum is a vibe technique and very simple. It can be used both verbally and nonverbally. To sum it up, it is just confidence and the fact that you want to be judged by people. I use it especially during my approach, it’s something I don’t even think about really, it’s a vibe ...
Losing The Agenda (Detaching yourself from the outcome)
2006-08-21 03:25:00 Okay, like everyone else in the world, I’m a pretty needy guy. I want people to like me, I want girls to be obsessed with me within five minutes of meeting me, I want to be friends with everyone. This is human nature, we are naturally selfish. We are on a neverending adventure to be ... More About: Agenda
On rewarding?
2006-08-20 20:39:00 Bill Clinton: She doesn’t drink, she’s never drank. I stuck on that way too long.mybirthdaypony: Ohhhhh!Bill Clinton: I made it too big a deal.mybirthdaypony: Oooooh. A major sticking point I spent a lot of time working to fix up was rewarding to what is deserved. This is another topic related to calibration as most ...
Shit tests and other bullshit
2006-08-19 19:39:00 Okay, I’ve been so far away from the rest of the community that a word like ’shit test’ is almost foreign to me. I’ve done this for a reason, aside from JM, everything else seems to poison my head with people having alterior motives and trying to fuck you over. Never think about ... More About: Bullshit , Shit , Tests
Teasing?
2006-08-18 02:20:00 If you approach a girl and start teasing her within the first minute of meeting her, you already fucked yourself over. Know why? It’s a form of supplication. You wouldn’t tease an incredibly ugly girl when first meeting her. It’s obvious why, because you aren’t attracted to her. Girls are ...
Calibration and Being Natural
2006-08-17 23:07:00 To me, calibration is being human. It’s being perceptive, and reacting in congruence to your surroundings. To me, calibration is not a very conscious thing. You must let your instincts take the reigns and let your mind flow on all cylindars. What I mean by that is don’t actually be ‘thinking’, ... More About: Natural
Say her name
2006-08-16 03:02:00 Simple as that. When you are in conversation with a girl, say her name a healthy amount of times. It lets her realize that you two are people and that you recognize her. One time a girl I was seeing asked me if I had taken social skills classes as a kid because I ...
I learned the hard way about kino
2006-08-16 02:43:00 I met this attractive Bulgarian chick on the boardwalk a few nights ago. What I love about people that don’t live in America is their ability to be blunt yet still polite. I was consistently kinoing the entire time. Some taps here, some light pushes there. I know that after the ... More About: Kino , Hard , Learned
It?s OK if you aren?t ON
More articles from this author:2006-08-16 01:34:00 Whenever I am ON, I am in heaven. Whenever I am OFF, I hate it. I would spend most of my day being depressed about how shy and introverted I am being, and trying to somehow get out of that terrible mindset. Sometimes I can snap out of it, usually though when I ... 1, 2 |
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