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The HOW Sessions: Your First Steps
2008-02-17 19:45:00
Attachment, neediness, all that stuff that makes me feel desperate.  I work on this as hard as my homework.  The feeling of being totally comfortable with being alone.  Only needing the love of my lil ol self.  I feel this is totally possible, as opposed to what all you naysayers think.  I’d rather be a ...
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Take a chill pill and go REAL natural? Part 2
2008-02-13 19:29:00
This is a continuation of the previous post.  If you haven’t read it, read it now… Take a chill pill and go REAL natural… Body language.  BL.  Bod lang.  Bola.  Cool new term?  "She just got eaten by the bola constrictor."  Maybe. Anyway, body language is key.  Natural s?  All they really have is body language.  That’s all it ...
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Your Erroneous Zones
2008-02-12 01:44:00
  Well, here it is.  The book that I love.  This is not a deep book.  It is not a book that will dig into the anals of your brainals with nutty complex psychological theory.  This book is simple, Wayne Dyer wrote it that way.  He states: “I have tried to avoid intricate explanations, largely because I ...
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Through the eyes of a really hot girl?
2008-02-07 04:20:00
This is what a girl sees when she first meets you:   Some random guy with no personality, standing in the corner.  There is NO reason she should get to know you.  If you approach and she is totally uninterested, it’s because she sees this. So what do you think you need to do?  Well obviously, you need ...
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Take a chill pill and go REAL natural?
2008-02-04 00:16:00
  I was about to make a long, prolific post, but tonight after going to the bar I decided to talk about this instead.  I’ll save the big one for another time. Almost every guy that I have met in the community has a mindset that getting a girl takes a shitload of value and “game” to ...
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Jeffy is definitely not a life chode
2008-01-31 16:57:00
I wake up and I read this newsletter article by him. This is what it means by a DOER. This guy is a doer. He epitomizes the opposite of a life chode. I’m not saying to do exactly what he says in here or you are a life chode, I ...
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The HOW Sessions - Part 1: Life Chode
2008-01-27 02:05:00
Okay, since natural game is like boomin’ up hard like a Saint Bernard and other outdated forms of game are leaving town with a frown, the talk of state is coming up everywhere. I love this, it’s the same way I feel about the indie music scene, it tastes good to hear all this ...
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Woah! Things to come?
2008-01-23 22:24:00
Oh I want to get into state! Oh please help me!!! Oh!! These are things I hear from people all over the world. Me as well. I spend all of my time studying about how to get into state. Strike that, I spend all of my time studying on ...
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No, I?m not dead?
2008-01-23 04:46:00
I am improving my life. I went into hiding for months preparing to make this business into something revolutionary and not just some weekend workshop like every other company has. I want it to be different. Anyway, I have a book recommendation for you. This book is phenomenal and there is no way ...
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Nightlife Serenade Phone Coaching!
2007-09-23 20:20:00
I am now giving phone coaching, it is going to be great. $50 for one hour. $150 for four hours. Beat that.
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Yet Another Nightlife Serenade Podcast!
2007-09-12 04:27:00
Hey lovers and daughters. I just did another podcast with some gems in there. Also just talking more about becoming unattached and content with yourself. Self validated.Plus, the “get in state” technique that abolishes all other “get in state” techniques. This is gonna be fun, and kick your butt at the ...
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Nightlife Serenade Podcast - Part Deux!
2007-09-05 07:55:00
Okay, here is the first podcast that I am publishing for the mailing list recipients. Just to give you a taste of stuff I’ll be talking about. I kinda did this one on a whim, so it’s me blabbing about stuff. I talk about becoming interested in a girl, value, and being ...
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New Nightlife Serenade Podcasts! (w/MBP stylee)
2007-08-31 20:44:00
I will be doing consistent podcasts exclusively for mailing list subscribers. I will also be answering mailbags on the podcasts as well, so send in all your questions, e-mail them to me at mybirthdaypony@gmail.com and I will do my absitively best job at answering them. I’ll also just blab about things I have ...
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mybirthdaypony Starts The New Jersey Lair!
2007-08-16 21:23:00
I have met up with some fellow community guys in NJ who ended up turning into friends, and we all decided to start up a lair for New Jersey .This lair will encompass all methods, all skill levels, and all ages. If you are in New Jersey and interested in making friends all with the ...
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Nightlife Serenade Podcast - Part 1
2007-08-10 00:15:00
A recent bootcamp I was discussing storytelling, voice dynamics/tonality, getting people to open up, amongst other things. I also make up the most random story about a bunny rabbit getting eaten by a dog. It was weird… just how I likey.Have fun. While you’re listening, think of some stand-up comedians that you love. ...
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Nightlife Serenade Workshop Review #2
2007-07-22 22:22:00
 Kevin with some girls he met at Hemingway’s in Seaside Heights, NJ My July 13-15 workshop, my student Kevin did an amazing job. He learned so much and what I love about him is he really worked hard at progressing and took everything I said and put it into practice. He is now going ...
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Calibration and Vibe 101
2007-07-06 18:47:00
Me and JiggeyBo I like to have fun. I get all excited when I meet new people. I like to hug most people when I meet them. And who doesn’t like a good hug? It “breaks the social ice” as I like to call it. It shows I’m comfortable with myself, ...
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Nightlife Serenade Workshop Review
2007-06-25 01:35:00
June 15, 2007 - Anthony This is a review from one of my recent clients. He learned a lot, and he made the workshop an enjoyable one for me to teach. —————— ;—————̵ 2;—————R 12;– Honestly, my first impression of Anthony wasn’t great. We went out to the boardwalk just to see where our game was before we started with ...
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Your Personality
2007-06-19 08:36:00
I know who I am. I know I have a great personality. I know everything about myself. Thing is, when I approach a random person, all they see is a hollow body. They see a blank canvas. They have no idea about all of the fantastical things that are actually ...
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Building social circles?
2007-06-09 18:03:00
The excitement of meeting a girl in a bar is a great feeling. To build a random relationship out of nowhere and escalate to intimate places quickly is unlike any other experience I can think of. It also can produce a lot of flakes, for no reason. Maybe she already has a ...
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The ?Immediately? Rule
2007-06-03 10:04:00
This is one of my most simple and most effective posts ever. Ever. Last week I stepped into my local Seaside Heights bar by myself expecting to spark some conversation with people, and maybe some pretty girls. I sat down, had myself a beer and chilled out. I was about to ...
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Strike while the iron is hot
2007-06-01 03:53:00
YouTube DirektLink I’ve been noticing more and more that I wait way too long before I make my intentions clear and take the interaction to where I want it to go. I’ll think to myself, “Oh, it’s going fine between us now, but I want to wait just a LITTLE bit longer before I make ...
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Vibing like children
2007-05-29 09:15:00
“Most schools teach children to be unimaginative…Many teachers think of children as immature adults. It might lead to better teaching if we thought of adults as atrophied children. Many ‘well-adjusted’ adults are bitter, uncreative, frightened, unimaginative, rather hostile people [anyone you know fit this description?]. Instead of assuming they were born that way, or that ...
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What the heck do I talk about?!
2007-05-27 21:58:00
Hey gang, I’ve been getting a lot of questions lately via IM concerning WHAT TO TALK ABOUT. Huge topic. And I decided, instead of just telling you some nice answer to dwell on for a few minutes, I would much rather hear what everyone else thinks. So answer me this, in as ...
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Be average, be obvious
2007-05-19 22:35:00
The improviser has to realise that the more obvious he is, the more original he appears. I constantly point out how much the audience like someone who is direct, and how they always laugh with pleasure at a really 'obvious' idea. Ordinary people asked to improvise will search for some 'original' idea because they want to be thought clever. They'll say and do all sorts of inappropriate things. If someone says 'What's for supper?' a bad improviser will desperately try to think up something original. Whatever he says he'll be too slow. He'll finally drag up some diea like 'fried mermaid'. If he'd just said 'fish' the audience would have been delighted. No two people are exactly alike, and the more obvious an improviser is, the more himself he appears. If he wants to impress us with his originality, then he'll search out ideas that are actually commoner and less interesting. Ask people to give you an original idea and see the chaos it throws them into. If they...
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Take the social initiative
2007-05-04 22:06:00
I want you doing one thing, meeting new people, SOCIALIZING! This may or may not have to do with pickup. Remember, you can not be successful with girls until you make this your lifestyle. I want you to be the social guy that everyone knows. I want you to INSPIRE people ...
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mybirthdaypony?s Social Exercises: Week 3 - Give Approval
2007-04-24 18:05:00
This week, spend all of your time looking for things that you may be able to appreciate about other people. Don’t worry about anything else except thinking about finding the good in things. This does not mean you should lie, and compliment about stuff you don’t like, but instead, find reason for you ...
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mybirthdaypony?s Social Exercises: Week 2 - Speak With Emotion
2007-04-12 09:41:00
This week I want to work on relating to others in your interactions. I feel I think too hard to relate to someone when I speak to them initially. Remember that relating is easy, its not what you say, but how you listen. When you can step inside the person’s shoes and ...
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mybirthdaypony?s Social Exercises: Week 1 - Questions
2007-04-01 06:54:00
During basketball practice when I was a kid, coach didn’t just tell us, “Alright team! Get out there and play some B-Ball!” and expect us to rock out. Nor did he spend time discussing how to play basketball, and then tell us to go out and do what he just told us. It ...
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How to escalate attractively?
2007-01-22 21:50:00
When you escalate a situation, you must believe truly that this is the right path to take. Just escalating is not enough, you must do it where the risk you take is something that you BELIEVE will happen. Here are the steps… 1. Take a risk in escalating.2. Have confidence that the risk you ...