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4 Ideas to help trigger more "ah-ha" moments
2008-02-08 04:43:00 We've all been there. You can hear a penny drop in the silence as you to realize something makes sense in your life that didn't before. The truth is passed on and grasped through life experience. You may describe personal revelations as "ah-ha" moments, those instances when you gain profound insight to raise your soul-level awareness. Yet, how can you connect with your soul in ways that will generate more positive developments in your life? You may be eager to reframe unresolved feelings and confusing events. To become an astute witness, you must learn to step back from your conditioned mind. Consider these ideas to help trigger more "ah-ha" moments: 1) Choose to not to view yourself as 'victim.' Its a reflex to attribute blame, to judge about what you perceive was wrong with a person or a situation, and to complain how you suffer. This attitude diverts focus from growth, nurtures negative energy and further di... More About: Ideas , Consciousness , Moments
5 Ways to live openly with apparent duality
2008-02-07 23:50:00 To live without judgement is to allow apparent duality while sensing the value in everything. Rearrange your thoughts so that the sharp edges of life go right through you. Wisdom is knowing you are nothing. Those who know keep quiet, live impartially, do not discriminate. We can evolve to learn more about the unsentimental sort we are:1) Live a unified life. Our standards of perception are grounded in the physical world. Comtemplate that criticism isn't always necesary or helpful. Choose to be at peace with what you observe. Move freely without attachment to outcomes. Forget ideas of where you think you should be. Its all illusion. Trying itself only exists because of beliefs of not trying exist. Decide to approach every situation with an unbiased attitude.2) Choose not to explain yourself. Sense the texture of misunderstanding that you create. Don't get caught up in wh... More About: Consciousness
Journey back to love
2008-02-07 07:26:00 You may not realize you are on a healing journey back to experience unconditional love and compassion. This process requires that you take steps to discover and come-to-terms with your inner wounds. Didn't know you had any? You are invited to explore everything about yourself, including the reasons behind your mindsets. Certain aspects of yourself are imbalanced and would benefit from re-alignment. Life offers opportunities to re-balance your perceptions and your self-view.1) Teach yourself to discern emotional wounds. As you discern reasons for your own discomfort, you evolve to a position where you can decide to take steps to heal yourself. If you choose, you can also share your lessons learned and assist others to heal.2) Develop your compassion. The ability to develop a more positive attitude about your own life and conditions enables you to further your healing process and also to develop new insight into compasio... More About: Love , Journey , Healing , Back
10 behavioral revelations from Allan and Barbara Pease
2008-02-07 00:01:00 Allan and Barbara Pease are experts in human relations and body language. They have sold over 20 million books including, Why Men Don't Listen and Why Women Don't Read Maps, Why Men Lie and Women Cry and The Definitive Book of Body Language: how to read others' thoughts by their gestures. They're also popular public speakers.Yet, even if you have never heard of these people, these 10 tips taken from their books will trigger your own "ah-ha" moments. After all, as you dream, devise a plan and proceed unconsciously, its your underlying thoughts and emotions that determine the result: 1) Being perceptive means being able to spot contradictions between someone's words and their body language. (Being self-aware means discerning these things in yourself).2) For a man, success in the mating game relies on his ability to read the signals being sent to him, as opposed to being able to initiate. Women's ... More About: Revelations , Allan , Alla
Buddha & views to shatter false assumptions
2008-02-06 10:46:00 Sometimes inspirational mentors can be well-known yet, rather obscure. They can set an ideal or a standard which prompts you to reflect on how you view yourself. For me, Buddha represents mystery and heightened awareness. The three phases of his life experience--Siddhartha the prince, Gautama the monk, and Buddha the Compassionate, enlightened one, all set examples that urge the rest of us to redefine our own awakening:1) Discover the truth. According to Buddha, the individual person or concrete sense of self are illusions. He grew to sense how ignorance and attachment lead human beings to create false assumptions and misunderstandings, including getting stuck in a limited self-view, rather than embracing unconditional love and infinite potential. He urges us to willingly rethink the meaning and temptations of ownership, possession and control.2) Believe in karma. This brings us to the principle of... More About: Views , Assumptions
7 Ways to experience your authentic self
2008-02-06 05:06:00 To experience your authentic self would mean to experience your deepest, heart-felt dreams. As you evolve to deduce that how you think creates who you are, then you will sense benefits in these steps which can guide you to get-in-touch with your soul:1) Be present. No matter what you have in mind, to be present solely in body won't get you where you wish to go. You need to evolve to be present emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. This implies developing greater holistic awareness of yourself. Sift through the barriers you project that keep you focused and grounded in the past.2) Speak your truth. This means you learn to express how you feel with no fear of judgment, reprimand, criticism or punishment. You can express feelings while nurturing love and respect for others, and for yourself. As you work on whatever issues relate to your particular soul development, you will also connect wit... More About: Experience , Consciousness
4 Tips to discern more about yourself through blogging
2008-02-05 05:13:00 The more you read about blogs and blogging strategies, the more you may think about how similar strategies could assist you in different ways. Inspired by Tina Su of ThinkSimpleNow.com who wrote a great guest blog on Problogger, and also inspired by ideas offered by Jason Ivers on A Miracle A Day.com, I decided to prompt you to ask some of your own questions to empower you to develop dreams in your own way:1) Why are you blogging? Lots of people blog to pass the time. You may do it when you're bored, daydreaming or, to satisfy a desire to learn. Some of us blog to connect with like-minded people, to search for answers, to obtain advice or direction or, as a means to compensate for emotional voids. You may be driven to forge relationships or to postpone another reality. Probe yourself with questions to get the ball rolling. As you figure out why yo... More About: Tips , Blogging
Transcend the pain
2008-02-04 08:43:00 Do your habits of perceiving and understanding your life serve you or do you serve them? Pain is a signal you can learn to explore and grasp at different levels of awareness. What you sense in your present, or anticipate in your future is grounded in your limited view ofthe past. How would you dissolve unwanted patterns and unlock your true intuition?You only cope with pain as you accept and understand its message. As you evolve to recognize meanings behind your pain, that is, the reasons for past emotional wounds in need of healing, the quality and intensity of your pain changes. In other words, you discover more effective ways of dealing with it. You can react positively to pain, and find ways to heal. You can encourage an absence of intention to dwell on the past. The more pain you expect, the quicker the controlled will of your ego will thwart your plans to access your unconscious, and the harder it becomes to filter your percep... More About: Consciousness , Transcend
What are you trying to prove?
2008-02-03 12:57:00 You may be unsure how you would define your sense of success. Perhaps you wonder whether the way you approach the subject now could or should change. As you go through your process of self-reflection, it will help to eliminate what success isn't: 1) Success isn't defined by what you do. The nature of your work isn't an accurate measure of self-worth. Your identity isn't based on the category or label you get in relation to your source of income. Success isn't something you gradually achieve based on your level of responsibility, social status, military rank, position, employer, pension fund or, degree of external approval that evaluates your performance. If you earn a lot of money or a little money, this doesn?t translate into a lot or a little success. Its not allocated based on seniority. Its revealed based on whether you learn to do what you do to the best of your ability. 2) Success isn't guaranteed (or not) by your Alma Matter. The institutions that provide y... More About: Prove
Rethink the value of your dreams
2008-02-03 07:49:00 For some reason, you may sense a desire to probe the depths of your soul. You might be searching for answers and have been told the answers you seek lie within. Where does this lead you? Many people don't yet realize dreams are an extremely valuable tool to raise self-awareness. As you self-examine, you also develop and strengthen extra-sensory perception. You may underestimate your gifts and the path can follow to clarify and shape these priceless treasures. These questions are offered to help guide yourjourney:1) What's the connection? Since some dreams are actually messages conveyed from other dimensions, learning to recall your dreams is actually developing your ability to recognize and listen to messages from dimensions other than the physical dimension where you are. The dream messages you receive may seem to be from people you know or strangers. Each one is significan... More About: Dreams , Consciousness
Prepare to be more receptive
2008-02-01 09:26:00 James Van Praagh is a mental medium who interacts with 'the Other Side' in ways that may inspire human beings to communicate more effectively as they are. His life work connecting the Spirit realm with our own encourages us to prepare to be more receptive for different kinds of communication throughout our lives.In your own life, you may expect clear directives, familiar words and behaviors. You may overlook subtle messages and reactions that urge you to listen to your intuition, or another side to a situation. We each have opportunities to review experiences and rethink how we respond. Learn to accept things are not always what you initially think.1) Focus on external messages. If you're deadset on joining a particular business, organisation or furthering a relationship, and things seem to go wrong, you may be missing important messages. When you make repeated, incorrect turns,feel misdirected, like the ...
Poised for change
2008-01-31 13:03:00 Analysis of the week on dream submitted by P.S. of Torquay, Australia.Dream: During my dream, my male friend and I approached two young jockeys. They were in the saddle of their race horses in the middle of a race. Yet, these horses we focused on weren't winning. Curiously, these jockeys and the race were in slow motion. I decided to take control. My friend reluctantly followed. We ran up to the jockeys, I pushed them off their horses. We struggled to push the horses to the finish line. We beat all the other horses. I yelled at my friend for being slow, yet I felt guilty.In reality, my friend and I had bet on two horses that didn't place in that particular race. We were angry and disappointed about our choices as well as the small financial loss. I admit, I'm also rather negative in my thinking and somewhat critical in my comments to this friend and other ... More About: Change
Expand your perspective
2008-01-30 23:10:00 Each day offers new opportunities to learn more about the power of positive thinking in your own life. You may underestimate what it can do to support you in reaching new goals. You can do more than simply observe changes in yourself. You can become an active participant and act to transform your visions and hopes into your new reality. As you decide to acknowledge the power you exert in this moment, you will experience a rush of positive energy. What does this mean? It means you begin to make the connection between believing in yourself and realizing you are expanding your vison of what is possible. How you think determines what you experience. Make the connection. Imagine how your life will unfold as you grasp you can create and release limits your own limits. Decide to unleash different kinds of perspectives. Consider the benefits of taking the following steps:1) Prepare your mind. ... More About: Perspective
Shed light on your ignorance
2008-01-30 02:12:00 What are your most bizarre or agonizing beliefs and why do you color them this way? Why choose to project certain emotions with certain images? How does it shape your illusions?Illusions may be seen as mental blocks you create when you decide not to deal with your emotional discomfort or its underlying causes. You have an incredible ability to condition your mind to believe anything, and your choices always offer ongoing chances to learn. Whenever you generate negative emotions, your vibration is slow and dense and life you choose to experience is on that wavelength. You draw discomfort and pain toward you or people who seem to evoke it. This is your unconscious request. Vibes reverberrate. You convince yourself of doubt and fear when you only really invent them. You may feel disheartened by aspects of your existence, and yet, you create it all by refusing to confront patterns you don't want to see. When people choose not to be accoun... More About: Light , Ignorance
John Holland & 4 tips to evolve at your pace
2008-01-29 13:29:00 Its common for people to question how to "tune into" their lives. John Holland 's 2003 book explains how he was "Born Knowing" that he was a psychic medium, but it took him years to decipher the messages all around him that have led him to live the life he does today. He has taught me the value of not listening for what I want to hear, but the value of opening my senses to detect all that I need to experience for my own personal progress.Of course, not everyone feels destined to follow an esoteric path. Whatever you're working toward, it has already been sticking out in your mind. It makes sense to pause and reflect differently about what's going on around you, even if you don't make heads or tails of things, at least not right away. 1) Probe your senses for clues to your gifts. Information comes to us in different forms. We get words, feelings, images, smells, tastes and ex... More About: Tips , Pace , Evolve
Where to go from here?
2008-01-28 21:58:00 When it comes to goals, you may wonder where to go from here. You may be bombarded with choices and feel unsure of your next steps. Take a moment to imagine what your world would be like if you lived consistently from your heart, expressed love and appreciation to people more than you already do. You may be less aware of your true hopes and fears than you are about other aspects of your life. If you are aware of your feelings, you may find it challenging to express them as you would like. As you assess where you are, and move ahead, these steps can guide you:1) Listen to vibes within yourself. You may forget to listen, but your own energy waves communicate as vibrations. As you become more attuned to your energy fluxes, you will make choices that create a more harmonious life. You will take steps that enable you to feel more comfortable and confident and achieve a new equilibrium.2) Review the meanin...
Heal your unconscious self-sabotage
2008-01-28 07:44:00 We each have many sides to our personalities that are active in different situations. In reality, we are complex beings full of inconsistencies and contradictions. We have parts we acknowledge and reveal to others, and more private aspects we keep to ourselves. The hidden parts escalate and do us damage if we don't choose to review and transform.Amidst your varied sides of your persona, you may be unaware of the deeply ingrained negative views that you generate, harbor and perpetuate, to hold you back from dreams. As you learn to raise awareness of these negative views and why you have them, you slowly deconstruct your self-critical side to heal your unconscious self-sabotage.1) Reflect on your past. We all have memories of discomfort, situations where we were labelled negatively, such as weak, unlovable, inadequate, unforgivable, unworthy, or not good enough. People may have told us the... More About: Healing , Sabotage , Heal
4 Advantages to connecting with your spirit guides
2008-01-28 03:26:00 Many people like the idea that Higher Forces in some form are present to guide and protect them. Yet, the same sorts of people may wonder if they would get anything worthwhile out of learning to connect and more actively work with their spirit guides. Before you decide to research this subject further, seek psychic advice or, investigate devoting time to a course, you may ask what incentives you have to decide to exert any effort in this direction. As you contemplate, consider these four ideas:1) Discern what you really want. This process isn't as cryptic as you might think. To connect with your spirit guides, you must learn to quiet your mind. This is often achieved through meditation. Experiencing serenity or "mindfulness" enables you to listen more closely to your inner voice, to develop new faith in yourself. You grow to more readily distinguish between what fee... More About: Paranormal , Guides , Spirit , Connecting , Ages
What if your success is measured by pure joy?
2008-01-27 07:43:00 Some people believe a sense of success is directly proportional to the joy you feel at a given time. That is, to develop conscious, deliberate awareness of what contributes to your joy shapes your perception of success. You are free to choose your thoughts. Discern whether your thoughts and beliefs are compatible and complimentary. Let's say its not physical objects or experiences that define your success. Rather, its emotions evoked by the process and your visions of the way you would like things to be. Your mind and physical body emit signals with intent. You either adapt to align or do not align. You either accept lulls and also temporary periods of satisfaction or, you take steps to better understand what you want, why and how to generate good vibes more often. If the latter would be your personal preference, where would you begin?1... More About: Success , Pure
5 Tips to tap into your divine gift of creative power
2008-01-27 04:25:00 When you sense you receive guidance to undertake something profoundly new, you can feel safe, protected and loved during the process. To reassure yourself is a choice. We each have innate skills, including natural intuitive and clairvoyant abilities. Even if you do not choose to develop such skills for use in a career, you would benefit from being able to access different information sources as you navigate various phases of your life. For some people, life purpose is a notion that changes and may evolve with them. Other people believe a sense of purpose can be lost or forgotten. You may benefit from help to tap into your divine gifts of creative power to reinforce meaning and purpose. Your intention is key. Whenever you ask for guidance, it will be given. It is up to you whether you will choose to be receptive and when. If you decide to explore what you have yet to exper... More About: Creative , Power , Tips , Paranormal , Gift
Cut through the fog
2008-01-26 23:24:00 Some people believe they get sick from things they don't control, events that unfold outside themselves. These people blame other people, things they ate, genetics, their environment. They succomb to anger, fear, guilt or regret. They feel like powerless victims, unable to release negative thoughts and feelings they generate, but don't want. Some people believe they get sick as they refuse to permit themselves to live according to their true feelings. They become convinced the world is deliberately against them. They assume they must compete, struggle and suffer to earn inner peace and well-being. These people may find it difficult to relax, to accept themselves and become accountable for holding themselves back from connecting with the soul. Transforming how you think and perceive offers a means of healing. What has occurred in your mind is an illsion based on stress, fear and worry.... More About: Healing
Paulo Coelho & 5 lessons to uncover the truth of Self
2008-01-26 04:37:00 Whenever your mind wanders to human inspirations who are writers, you may be struck by the characters they invented or something about their writing style. You may have connected with some aspect of their life history, if you happen to have insight into such things. Then again, there may be something enigmatic or mysterious about the person that evokes positive feelings you may not clearly explain.I'm in the process of completing a book which draws from over 700 people who have inspired me at different stages of my life. Some are well-known, others aren't. Some are gone. Others are still in this world. This blog thread highlights some of the individuals. They come from different backgrounds, countries and offer diverse points of view. Paulo Coelho is a man whose philosophies and life experiences leave me guessing and also gathering more faith in my inner self. These are 5 lessons I have gained from sharing adventures with his u... More About: Truth , Lessons , Paulo Coelho
What about the instruction manual?
2008-01-26 00:51:00 Remember what it felt like when you were dreaming about something special and then, you finally got it? You got so excited that you started using it before you decided to read the instructions. What happened after that might not have made you feel so good. Maybe you broke it. Maybe you fudged something. Maybe you're not sure exactly what you did. Maybe you felt guilty? angry? stupid? disbelief? Maybe instructions were nowhere to be found or, the words that were didn't help you to solve your latest problem. What to do? Where to turn?I've known people to be over-enthusiastic about examples of technology, and then found themselves motivated to do new kinds of learning very fast. Sometimes we behave in ways that lead us to get ahead of ourselves. Then, we realize its meaningful to take a few steps backward. Events in life will unfold in ways that invite us to slow d... More About: Education , Instruction , Manual
Trigger your wounds so you can heal
2008-01-25 02:22:00 Engaging in relationships triggers wounds. That's right. You invite people into your life to help you confront aspects of yourself that you have been avoiding, ignoring or disempowering. People we encounter behave in ways we need to experience, tell us what we need to hear, whether or not this enables us to feel good at the beginning.Relationship choices are conscious or unconscious efforts to awaken our dormant compassion and fearlessness. Every person you meet prompts you to rethink why you have become convinced you feel hurt or defeated. You can choose to believe the presence of each person confirms your distorted beliefs about yourself or, you can interact to get to the bottom of your guilt, shame, distrust, and inner wounds.Each of us lives an earthly reality that is partly distorted. This helps explain why it can seem difficult to uncover our true feelings, and get to identify our authentic dreams. It takes courage to be willing to turn inside and ... More About: Relationships , Heal
Turn inward to open your heart
2008-01-24 22:54:00 The soul, it is said, is disconnected from what you eat and drink. The physical body requires nourishment the soul does not. What you ingest inwardly from the physical world offers fewer clues to who you are and your state of health than what you express outwardly from within. Learn to grasp meaning behind your behaviors.To achieve a state of absolute purity and to reconnect with your true inner self, its necessary to recognize, decipher and rise above negative feelings. They are actually outward symptoms of your misunderstandings and false beliefs, ironically created to sidetrack you from the dreams that drive your soul. Your mind concocts a vision based on its biases and memories. You may be inwardly imbalanced yet, unaware.Each time you experience anger, frustration, self-doubt or other negativity, its an opportunity to become aware of the power feelings exert over you, to realize that choosing not to open yourself up to self-growth may simply invite more intense suffering,... More About: Open , Healing , Heart , Turn
Prophetic wake-up call?
2008-01-24 06:09:00 Analysis of the week on dream submitted by D.T. of Trollhatten, Sweden.Dream: I was racing my speed bike with a sense of freedom. Scenery was familiar. As I arrived at the centre of an intersection, the oncoming traffic light went green. A car raced forward and hit me head on. My face was red with blood. I stiffened on impact and don't recall the driver showing any remorse. An ambulance took take me to hospital. Miraculously, I left with only minor injuries yet, lost my bike. I awoke relieved. Not long after this, in real life, I experienced that very same scenario. Nonetheless, I didn't see what was coming and wonder about an innate gift?Predomiant Emotions: fearlessness, pride, denial, remorse, suffering and deja-vu.Interpretation: Although anyone can heighten sensitivites like psychic abilities, you are drawn to specific themes. You may experience a sense of loss, denial, precarious states of well-being, and longing for reasons other than th... More About: Wake , Call , Wake up
Transmute negative energy & emotion
2008-01-24 01:33:00 How many people do you know who don't yet recognize their inner power to lighten negative energy and emotional burdens? This is Lightwork, an innate ability of all human beings. Yet, not everyone takes time to learn to apply themselves. You only begin to notice and think about new things as you evolve to feel mentally ready. How would you know if you are? Which signs would you discern? What could you do next? 1) You sense some kind of discomfort. You only begin to consider possible change if something bothers you as you perceive yourself where you are. You notice imbalance or desequilibrium. You have ability to follow the thread back in time to reflect and determine triggers for your change of heart. Once you identify the Source, you identify the direction you wish to follow to feel more comfortable.2) You begin to question who you are . You are becoming more attuned to how you think, your underlying motives and external influences. You realize many facets exist to your being... More About: Energy , Consciousness , Negative , Emotion
"I tried that once and it didn't work!"
2008-01-23 02:59:00 You may perceive yourself as the kind of person who is overly-sensitive, too easily discouraged and quickly gives up on yourself before you give yourself a real chance. You may forget, but you didn’t always think this way. Something happened to shatter your self-confidence. Right now is the perfect time for a crash course in the benefits of risk-taking. Choose to remove the foggy glasses to perceive differently. 1) Discern your innate patterns. As an infant, when you were learning to walk, chances are, you didn’t perfect this skill right away. Infants instinctively exert effort to pick themselves up, after each fall. Since you likely walk upright these days, or at least have experience doing so, you weren’t completely discouraged after your first attempt at walking. You can reflect on other instances where you weren’t easily discouraged. Take when you learned to ride a bike, when you learned a sport or another physical skill. You can... More About: Work
Move beyond the Matrix
2008-01-22 12:09:00 Some people sense success is basically learning to accept whatever ideas arise in the mind, while recognizing you are a silent observer of what transpires. Yet, what the quest for truth is the tip of the iceberg? How do you tell if a vision is yours?If you think of Neo in the film The Matrix , success for him becomes a question of disbelieving the senses, deconstructing his memories, and redefining what is possible. Like Neo, we each become the vibrational equivalent of what we ask for in our world, and may discover we didn't really want what our minds projected.How is it a human being can evolve to observe and experience directly without getting influenced by emotion, judgment and the pull to interpret right or wrong? You may sense that heat, pressure, tension and other perceptions, aren't necessarily controlled by your body or mind. What would that mean to your vision of success? Where are you headed ... More About: Move , The Matrix , Trix
Uncover the real explanation
More articles from this author:2008-01-21 10:17:00 I know a divorced man who searches for his dream partner. By choice, he has repeatedly dated women who don't seem to meet his ideals. His pattern has been to see multiple women at the same time because he fears the one he starts out with won't work out. Just as he predicted, things fell apart. The others broke it off as well, after learning that he hadn't been loyal, honest, trustworthy or faithful.Whatever the nature of your personal life, your self-image is conveyed in your thoughts and behaviors with others. You do this consciously and subconsciously. Your true feelings will be mirrored back at you by your dates or partner(s). You may seek to avoid relationship failures yet, still invite them in. Its never too late to learn what it takes to develop your faith, renewed courage, confidence and self-love.1) Stop assuming the worst. The Law of Attraction tells you that you will get exactly what you wish for. Buying into fear of inadequacy, unworthiness and rejection will... More About: Relationships , Real 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 |




