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Where to go from here?
2008-01-28 21:58:00 When it comes to goals, you may wonder where to go from here. You may be bombarded with choices and feel unsure of your next steps. Take a moment to imagine what your world would be like if you lived consistently from your heart, expressed love and appreciation to people more than you already do. You may be less aware of your true hopes and fears than you are about other aspects of your life. If you are aware of your feelings, you may find it challenging to express them as you would like. As you assess where you are, and move ahead, these steps can guide you:1) Listen to vibes within yourself. You may forget to listen, but your own energy waves communicate as vibrations. As you become more attuned to your energy fluxes, you will make choices that create a more harmonious life. You will take steps that enable you to feel more comfortable and confident and achieve a new equilibrium.2) Review the meanin...
Heal your unconscious self-sabotage
2008-01-28 07:44:00 We each have many sides to our personalities that are active in different situations. In reality, we are complex beings full of inconsistencies and contradictions. We have parts we acknowledge and reveal to others, and more private aspects we keep to ourselves. The hidden parts escalate and do us damage if we don't choose to review and transform.Amidst your varied sides of your persona, you may be unaware of the deeply ingrained negative views that you generate, harbor and perpetuate, to hold you back from dreams. As you learn to raise awareness of these negative views and why you have them, you slowly deconstruct your self-critical side to heal your unconscious self-sabotage.1) Reflect on your past. We all have memories of discomfort, situations where we were labelled negatively, such as weak, unlovable, inadequate, unforgivable, unworthy, or not good enough. People may have told us the... More About: Healing , Sabotage , Heal
4 Advantages to connecting with your spirit guides
2008-01-28 03:26:00 Many people like the idea that Higher Forces in some form are present to guide and protect them. Yet, the same sorts of people may wonder if they would get anything worthwhile out of learning to connect and more actively work with their spirit guides. Before you decide to research this subject further, seek psychic advice or, investigate devoting time to a course, you may ask what incentives you have to decide to exert any effort in this direction. As you contemplate, consider these four ideas:1) Discern what you really want. This process isn't as cryptic as you might think. To connect with your spirit guides, you must learn to quiet your mind. This is often achieved through meditation. Experiencing serenity or "mindfulness" enables you to listen more closely to your inner voice, to develop new faith in yourself. You grow to more readily distinguish between what fee... More About: Paranormal , Guides , Spirit , Connecting , Ages
What if your success is measured by pure joy?
2008-01-27 07:43:00 Some people believe a sense of success is directly proportional to the joy you feel at a given time. That is, to develop conscious, deliberate awareness of what contributes to your joy shapes your perception of success. You are free to choose your thoughts. Discern whether your thoughts and beliefs are compatible and complimentary. Let's say its not physical objects or experiences that define your success. Rather, its emotions evoked by the process and your visions of the way you would like things to be. Your mind and physical body emit signals with intent. You either adapt to align or do not align. You either accept lulls and also temporary periods of satisfaction or, you take steps to better understand what you want, why and how to generate good vibes more often. If the latter would be your personal preference, where would you begin?1... More About: Success , Pure
5 Tips to tap into your divine gift of creative power
2008-01-27 04:25:00 When you sense you receive guidance to undertake something profoundly new, you can feel safe, protected and loved during the process. To reassure yourself is a choice. We each have innate skills, including natural intuitive and clairvoyant abilities. Even if you do not choose to develop such skills for use in a career, you would benefit from being able to access different information sources as you navigate various phases of your life. For some people, life purpose is a notion that changes and may evolve with them. Other people believe a sense of purpose can be lost or forgotten. You may benefit from help to tap into your divine gifts of creative power to reinforce meaning and purpose. Your intention is key. Whenever you ask for guidance, it will be given. It is up to you whether you will choose to be receptive and when. If you decide to explore what you have yet to exper... More About: Creative , Power , Tips , Paranormal , Gift
Cut through the fog
2008-01-26 23:24:00 Some people believe they get sick from things they don't control, events that unfold outside themselves. These people blame other people, things they ate, genetics, their environment. They succomb to anger, fear, guilt or regret. They feel like powerless victims, unable to release negative thoughts and feelings they generate, but don't want. Some people believe they get sick as they refuse to permit themselves to live according to their true feelings. They become convinced the world is deliberately against them. They assume they must compete, struggle and suffer to earn inner peace and well-being. These people may find it difficult to relax, to accept themselves and become accountable for holding themselves back from connecting with the soul. Transforming how you think and perceive offers a means of healing. What has occurred in your mind is an illsion based on stress, fear and worry.... More About: Healing
Paulo Coelho & 5 lessons to uncover the truth of Self
2008-01-26 04:37:00 Whenever your mind wanders to human inspirations who are writers, you may be struck by the characters they invented or something about their writing style. You may have connected with some aspect of their life history, if you happen to have insight into such things. Then again, there may be something enigmatic or mysterious about the person that evokes positive feelings you may not clearly explain.I'm in the process of completing a book which draws from over 700 people who have inspired me at different stages of my life. Some are well-known, others aren't. Some are gone. Others are still in this world. This blog thread highlights some of the individuals. They come from different backgrounds, countries and offer diverse points of view. Paulo Coelho is a man whose philosophies and life experiences leave me guessing and also gathering more faith in my inner self. These are 5 lessons I have gained from sharing adventures with his u... More About: Truth , Lessons , Paulo Coelho
What about the instruction manual?
2008-01-26 00:51:00 Remember what it felt like when you were dreaming about something special and then, you finally got it? You got so excited that you started using it before you decided to read the instructions. What happened after that might not have made you feel so good. Maybe you broke it. Maybe you fudged something. Maybe you're not sure exactly what you did. Maybe you felt guilty? angry? stupid? disbelief? Maybe instructions were nowhere to be found or, the words that were didn't help you to solve your latest problem. What to do? Where to turn?I've known people to be over-enthusiastic about examples of technology, and then found themselves motivated to do new kinds of learning very fast. Sometimes we behave in ways that lead us to get ahead of ourselves. Then, we realize its meaningful to take a few steps backward. Events in life will unfold in ways that invite us to slow d... More About: Education , Instruction , Manual
Trigger your wounds so you can heal
2008-01-25 02:22:00 Engaging in relationships triggers wounds. That's right. You invite people into your life to help you confront aspects of yourself that you have been avoiding, ignoring or disempowering. People we encounter behave in ways we need to experience, tell us what we need to hear, whether or not this enables us to feel good at the beginning.Relationship choices are conscious or unconscious efforts to awaken our dormant compassion and fearlessness. Every person you meet prompts you to rethink why you have become convinced you feel hurt or defeated. You can choose to believe the presence of each person confirms your distorted beliefs about yourself or, you can interact to get to the bottom of your guilt, shame, distrust, and inner wounds.Each of us lives an earthly reality that is partly distorted. This helps explain why it can seem difficult to uncover our true feelings, and get to identify our authentic dreams. It takes courage to be willing to turn inside and ... More About: Relationships , Heal
Turn inward to open your heart
2008-01-24 22:54:00 The soul, it is said, is disconnected from what you eat and drink. The physical body requires nourishment the soul does not. What you ingest inwardly from the physical world offers fewer clues to who you are and your state of health than what you express outwardly from within. Learn to grasp meaning behind your behaviors.To achieve a state of absolute purity and to reconnect with your true inner self, its necessary to recognize, decipher and rise above negative feelings. They are actually outward symptoms of your misunderstandings and false beliefs, ironically created to sidetrack you from the dreams that drive your soul. Your mind concocts a vision based on its biases and memories. You may be inwardly imbalanced yet, unaware.Each time you experience anger, frustration, self-doubt or other negativity, its an opportunity to become aware of the power feelings exert over you, to realize that choosing not to open yourself up to self-growth may simply invite more intense suffering,... More About: Open , Healing , Heart , Turn
Prophetic wake-up call?
2008-01-24 06:09:00 Analysis of the week on dream submitted by D.T. of Trollhatten, Sweden.Dream: I was racing my speed bike with a sense of freedom. Scenery was familiar. As I arrived at the centre of an intersection, the oncoming traffic light went green. A car raced forward and hit me head on. My face was red with blood. I stiffened on impact and don't recall the driver showing any remorse. An ambulance took take me to hospital. Miraculously, I left with only minor injuries yet, lost my bike. I awoke relieved. Not long after this, in real life, I experienced that very same scenario. Nonetheless, I didn't see what was coming and wonder about an innate gift?Predomiant Emotions: fearlessness, pride, denial, remorse, suffering and deja-vu.Interpretation: Although anyone can heighten sensitivites like psychic abilities, you are drawn to specific themes. You may experience a sense of loss, denial, precarious states of well-being, and longing for reasons other than th... More About: Wake , Call , Wake up
Transmute negative energy & emotion
2008-01-24 01:33:00 How many people do you know who don't yet recognize their inner power to lighten negative energy and emotional burdens? This is Lightwork, an innate ability of all human beings. Yet, not everyone takes time to learn to apply themselves. You only begin to notice and think about new things as you evolve to feel mentally ready. How would you know if you are? Which signs would you discern? What could you do next? 1) You sense some kind of discomfort. You only begin to consider possible change if something bothers you as you perceive yourself where you are. You notice imbalance or desequilibrium. You have ability to follow the thread back in time to reflect and determine triggers for your change of heart. Once you identify the Source, you identify the direction you wish to follow to feel more comfortable.2) You begin to question who you are . You are becoming more attuned to how you think, your underlying motives and external influences. You realize many facets exist to your being... More About: Energy , Consciousness , Negative , Emotion
"I tried that once and it didn't work!"
2008-01-23 02:59:00 You may perceive yourself as the kind of person who is overly-sensitive, too easily discouraged and quickly gives up on yourself before you give yourself a real chance. You may forget, but you didn’t always think this way. Something happened to shatter your self-confidence. Right now is the perfect time for a crash course in the benefits of risk-taking. Choose to remove the foggy glasses to perceive differently. 1) Discern your innate patterns. As an infant, when you were learning to walk, chances are, you didn’t perfect this skill right away. Infants instinctively exert effort to pick themselves up, after each fall. Since you likely walk upright these days, or at least have experience doing so, you weren’t completely discouraged after your first attempt at walking. You can reflect on other instances where you weren’t easily discouraged. Take when you learned to ride a bike, when you learned a sport or another physical skill. You can... More About: Work
Move beyond the Matrix
2008-01-22 12:09:00 Some people sense success is basically learning to accept whatever ideas arise in the mind, while recognizing you are a silent observer of what transpires. Yet, what the quest for truth is the tip of the iceberg? How do you tell if a vision is yours?If you think of Neo in the film The Matrix , success for him becomes a question of disbelieving the senses, deconstructing his memories, and redefining what is possible. Like Neo, we each become the vibrational equivalent of what we ask for in our world, and may discover we didn't really want what our minds projected.How is it a human being can evolve to observe and experience directly without getting influenced by emotion, judgment and the pull to interpret right or wrong? You may sense that heat, pressure, tension and other perceptions, aren't necessarily controlled by your body or mind. What would that mean to your vision of success? Where are you headed ... More About: Move , The Matrix , Trix
Uncover the real explanation
2008-01-21 10:17:00 I know a divorced man who searches for his dream partner. By choice, he has repeatedly dated women who don't seem to meet his ideals. His pattern has been to see multiple women at the same time because he fears the one he starts out with won't work out. Just as he predicted, things fell apart. The others broke it off as well, after learning that he hadn't been loyal, honest, trustworthy or faithful.Whatever the nature of your personal life, your self-image is conveyed in your thoughts and behaviors with others. You do this consciously and subconsciously. Your true feelings will be mirrored back at you by your dates or partner(s). You may seek to avoid relationship failures yet, still invite them in. Its never too late to learn what it takes to develop your faith, renewed courage, confidence and self-love.1) Stop assuming the worst. The Law of Attraction tells you that you will get exactly what you wish for. Buying into fear of inadequacy, unworthiness and rejection will... More About: Relationships , Real
6 Lessons I've learned from Mohandas Gandhi
2008-01-21 05:33:00 Mohandas Gandhi is one of my inspirational mentors. I got a lot out of his quasi autobiography which he prefers to call, 'The Story of My Experiments with Truth.' Whenever you choose to learn about someone, its natural certain things will stand out and enable you to rethink what makes you who you are. If you to desire to probe the dreams of your soul, you may appreciate key lessons I've learned from Gandhi :1) Engage in regular self-reflection. Gandhi favored self-study. He dedicated himself to a life-long moral and spiritual quest to discern what made him who he was. He grew to believe only truly humble humans glimpse Truth beyond ego. He grasped an inter-connectedness with all. His experiments explored the meaning and value of his own salvation. As such, he regularly took stock of his life and considered directions for his future, before measuring himself against his own standards. 2) Shape your life according to your highest ideals. Gandhi came to... More About: Lessons , Learned
3 Tips to rethink your reactions
2008-01-20 13:23:00 Many people are involved in relationships which trigger feelings of discomfort. This may mean you don't get along. This may mean someone seems to exploit you or push emotional buttons. It may be your co-workers, your boss, your partner, your parents, your in-laws, your siblings, or someone else you would rather avoid. Why not rethink the meaning of your impulse? What are you really avoiding? Its useful to realize each person you meet is meant to teach you things about yourself and the world. Before you react harshly or negatively, consider these points:1) Realize your judgement hides the truth. Your instinct may evoke hard feelings like anger, fear and grudges that surface. This actually invites more of the same from whomever bothers you or, from other people you have yet to meet. Ask yourself why certain people or their behavior bother(s) you. Your answer reveals parts of yourself you fear or... More About: Relationships , Tips
Search for your true mind
2008-01-19 01:34:00 More and more people are motivated to understand deeper realities. Yet, the process of learning meditation can also seem discouraging. You may not be making progress as fast as you would like. You may resent your effort when the results just don't come the way you desire. Why might people prevent their own progress?1) Fear. To stand back from the comfort of common noise, predictability, and the daily existence you're familiar with, you must confront deeper, unresolved feelings inside yourself. The ego-mind tends to do anything to evoke fear and discomfort so you no longer sense the truth about yourself is beyond what you already think you know. Meditation is a means to enable you to teach yourself to listen differently, to heighten your sensitivities and reframe fear as illusion.2) Confusion about happiness. People who win money are often not as happy as we assume. People who have suffered health setbacks and peo... More About: Search , Mind , True , Consciousness
3 Tips to re-interpret the apparent slump
2008-01-19 00:42:00 Discouraged job-seekers and transitional career people approach me for advice. They frequently ask if there isn't something wrong with them. After all, they say they set career goals and find themselves repeatedly put off or discouraged by prospective employers. These seekers focus on what they sense is lost or missing. If you feel stuck in a rut or like you're going nowhere fast, consider these tips:1)Examine your patterns. Its easy to assume not getting what you think you want in a job or career means you're doing something wrong. Its common for people to self-criticize, punish and self-reprimand when goals aren't reached as planned. It makes sense to deduce you have something to do with your results. Yet, couldn't you perceive things differently? What if you began to realize not getting certain jobs was a blessing? What if you realized you've been developing transferable skills you didn't notice before? What if the Universe is nudging you in more suit... More About: Tips , Careers , Interpret , Slump , Pare
Open your mind to a new approach
2008-01-18 03:05:00 Wealth creation is a concept that invites you to gain new insight into your deepest resistence. Rather than aggravate your seemingly natural desires, this post offers you occasion to reflect on your motives, underlying beliefs and what you really want:1) Take steps to understand why your life is not more abundant. Abundance presents itself in different packages. Its grounded in your perception and levels of self-understanding. The opposite of abundance is scarcity. If you sense scarcity in your life, and desire to create more abundance, this relates back to reasons why you don’t love yourself. That’s right. Lack of self-love and lack of unconditional self-acceptance simply invite more forms of wanting and poverty. How you feel mirrors what you project and experience. Rest assured, anyone can reverse an apparent trend or pattern in themselves. Acknowledging what you don't want is growth. 2) Learn to relieve your burdens. Whatever you think you wish for, from things ... More About: Open , Mind
Get to the crux
2008-01-17 08:20:00 Some people get confused about the requirements for success. It doesn't mean you have to foresee and control each step of self-development. Who you see reflected in the mirror isn't the only influence on the direction of your life. What if you began to understand success means far more than your state of mind? What if each of your thoughts and behaviours was engaged in a much larger process aimed at prompting you to give up what you assume are fundamental beliefs? Would you get to the crux? Would you confront your fear of being successful?1) Free will. If you are to change any aspect of yourself or your life, then this must be your choice. As far as your ego is concerned, 'success' means encouraging you to stay as you are. Left to your own ingrained desires, you might not choose to confront issues or situations which would enable you to redefine success. You get to decide what will happen. Whic...
Re-assess what you really possess
2008-01-16 08:21:00 You may come to view situations you don't love or appreciate as problems, headaches, or even nagging distractions. Yet, what if you reviewed these supposed problems and reframed them as lessons instead? The nature of your awareness would begin to sense problems as opportunities. How would this step change you life? Consider states of being like our completeness and perfection are unchanging. Human beings evolve with opportunities to become more conscious of such reasons for inner peace. Yet, many people grow up to live in ways that separate them from original connections with their spirit. Since you're still learning, this includes you.Beliefs are human inventions. What you learn from parents and society about views of right and wrong all contributes to your learning process. You learn from how you're treated, how your emotional needs are defined, ignored or repressed. You deduce whether your sense of identity is acceptable, or whether you should feel dissatisfied, frustrated, in... More About: Consciousness
Petrified hedgehog
2008-01-16 06:34:00 Analysis of the week on dream submitted by Anonymous in Melbourne, Australia.Dream- Various animals moved quickly around a room. Most of them avoided the fireplace. A black shade was pulled down in front of that opening, almost to the floor. Yet, a curious hedgehog bent over to look underneath the shade. He saw a light and became petrified stone. Other animals avoided him. His transparent soul floated through the stone but animals couldn't see this. Then, people entered a nearby room. Opaque, spider web-like film covered their bodies. They emerged transparent with deep, blue eyes that stared ahead. They no longer sense as before.Predominant Emotions- fear, conformity, enlightenment.Interpretation- Animals draw attention to particular physical or behavioral traits, basic desires, and sexuality. You have choices to stick with the crowd or go out on a limb. Not everyone fears getting burned by taking risks. You no longer shade yourself from meaningful opportuni...
Transparent vision or ghostly memory?
2008-01-16 03:12:00 Analysis of the week on dream submitted by J.N. of Adelaide, Australia. Dream - After my grandfather's funeral in Britain, I slept on the sofa of his former home. During the night, I dreamed I sensed him and my deceased grandmother seated nearby, smiling at me. They were transparent beings. When I awoke briefly in the darkness, I was too scared to turn around and physically verify it. Predominant emotions - surprise, confidence, sorrow, fear, disbelief, reassurance. Interpretation - Its important to recognize physical means don't enable us to verify what is happening on a non-physical plane. Yet, as you learn to consciously astral travel, to become lucid, you can learn to verify things from your experience. This means you become more aware of your subconscious feelings and interpretations. You may have awoken in astral and encountered a reunion of your grandparents' souls. To awaken during a dream, doesn't mean you're always conscious of being in astral. You may ... More About: Memory , Vision , Transparent , Pare
Progress differently from this moment
2008-01-15 04:38:00 To progress differently from this moment, at this stage in your life, requires that you realize its not your job to "improve" per se. In fact, at a very basic level, each human being represents perfection. To reframe your sense of progress in this life, reframe your thinking based on the nature of your choices. That is, each choice you make to love and forgive is to reclaim the power that fear had stolen from you.1) Recognize when your beliefs are “out of whack.” If your mindset isn’t helping you realize dreams, it’s hindering you. To identify this is a first step to positive change. If you disregard an issue, then it doesn’t phase you or influence you. Yet, if it turns out ego and pride drive you, then you are thwarting your potential for new forms of success. Learn to see through the excuses and defenses you offer to explain procrastination or distractions. To permit a protective ego to control you means you choose to ... More About: Moment , Progress , Diff
The key to everything
2008-01-13 21:03:00 Analysis of the week on dream submitted by "Mrs. M" in Istanbul, Turkey.Dream: I dreamed two guests left my hotel without turning in the key. I awoke frantic in the night and asked my husband to remind them about it before their early departure. Turned out, they didn't forget to leave their key. Yet, two days later, two other guests arrived at the airport before they remembered. It was a quite hassel to get it back. I felt frustrated and thought back to my dream.Predominant Emotions: Anxiety, discomfort, edgy, reassurance.Interpretation: The key tends to represent what is important to you in life. You may fear losing what you hold most dear yet, life experience proves these fears are unfounded. Why buy into your wild imagination? Its possible you're afraid of falling from position/status in your community or work setting. Upon closer look, you can discern this indicates you have lost control and your emotions are controlling you. Aren't you jumping the gun by a...
Where are they when you need them?
2008-01-12 23:16:00 You may ask where your guardian angels are, especally when you think you need them. If this is your general attitude, I would invite your to consider the real meaning of emotions and reactions behind your view:1) What makes you so convinced you look in the right places? More often than not, people base their beliefs on limited knowledge or understanding. Remind yourself you are always learning and your assumptions may be unfounded. Your beliefs about angels may relate to grudges about religion or other negative vibes you project for other reasons. If you read that you will encounter angels at a certain place and it doesn't happen, then you may mistakenly generalize and assume they don't exist. You must discern the truth from within, not from external opinions. Why not assume angels are where you choose to look? Seek and ye shall find.2) How do you know they left your side? Divine beings are your constant, supportive companions. How you react to your life circumstances doesn... More About: Guardian Angels
Awaken & revitalize your spirit
2008-01-11 21:23:00 Every moment of the day you're discovering new things about yourself. Yet, how well-informed do you feel? Are you likely to remain motionless and disinterested or, will you decide to realize you can awaken and revitalize your spirit?1) Relax & breathe. This may sound simple enough, but more and more people forget how to do this consciously and regularly. Its far more common to sense people rushing through life without thinking. So, make a more conscious effort. Remind yourself what its like to close your eyes and count to ten to settle your mind.2) Realize you're in the presence of friends. Yes, this is the case. Friends in sight may be human, but you also have constant, spiritual companions. They invite you to rediscover your destiny. To acknowledge spirit guides enables you to better trust your instincts. True friends love and support you, no matter what.3) Embra... More About: Consciousness , Spirit
Review what you think you already know
2008-01-11 20:09:00 Some people assume goal-setting is limited to the pursuit of things that are important to them. You've heard about it, and so, you identify a target and go after it. Yet, isn't there still more? What if the time arises that you realize you forget who you are, why you're alive, or lose sight of where to go next? This is preciely the time when its desirable to review what you think you already know about goal-setting.1) You get out of life not what you desire, but who you are. You can set as many goals as you want. Yet, only the pace of your self-awareness enables you to uncover goals that aren't imposed on you or chosen based on external influence. The goals you truly realize will assist you to clarify what you already intuit inside yourself. You're on the right path when you find reason to feel more grounded, self-confident and reassured. You are the person who will lead you to the most fulfilling life.2) You decode your emotions ... More About: Review
Rethink your "piece de resistance"
More articles from this author:2008-01-10 23:17:00 Success is perceived differently by everybody. Each of us has views on a lifestyle or activities that define our most appealing vision, let's say its like our "piece de resistance." You may wonder if its okay to change your view on this, and wonder how others will react to any changes in your behavior. As the result of my recent trip to Istanbul, Turkey, I share a story that offers a perspective on dream-making.I met a man who runs his small hotel as a family business. It appears modest on the outside and has simple ethnic decor inside. You may ask how the business came to be. As it happens, the owner used to be a chef in fast-paced London (U.K.) restaurants. He climbed the ranks, worked busy days, six-days per week in some fascinating venues. For some chefs, success is apprenticing with masters, working in key restuarants, or becoming head... More About: Resistance , Piece 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 |




