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Mutual Gazing
2008-01-01 15:06:00
Happy New Year to All of you Guys!Some months ago Joseph Went South was visiting me in Helsinki. We had lot of fun sarging and we alternated times of sarging with times of working on our projects.I was silently observing our behavior when we were at the flat. We were sometimes chatting about what we were doing and there were very long periods where each one of us was silently staring the computer, a book, in a word mutual gazing between us was only for the time we had action.We were both quite happy with the situation: sometimes action, sometimes exchanging data, sometimes withdrawing. Go share the same flat with a woman and you will notice something interesting: as soon as you start to direct your attention to something and you are not facing her it will not get long before she starts to attempt for rapport. This will mean for her getting your gaze moved towards her.This is instinctual and has been for a woman a survival mechanism. She has to read your emotions to have some idea of...
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Female Perversions. Blueprints in Relationships
2007-12-20 08:56:00
Guys,Female sexuality in relationships and otherwise is influenced by many complex factors many guys have absolutely no clue of. Male sexuality is visual. This at the simplest level means that we can fuck whatever moves as long as what is moving owns a wonderful sexy couple of tits, nice eyes, beautiful smile, and nice ass. You know what I am talking about. When a man is pervert he is usually very "visually and physically" pervert. But women, women are different. When they are pervert they are usually "emotionally" pervert. So if you have a gorgeous woman with you in a relationship don?t make the mistake to believe that if she has difficulties in orgasming or any kind of other difficulties in regard to her sexuality that you could do miracles by applying terribly effective sexual techniques without calibrating the emotional factors. Women, in fact, have lot of Blueprints . A Blueprint is an "emotional path" which makes a woman attracted and emotionally aroused under certain circumsta...
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Testosterone Mismatch and Balance of Power
2007-12-16 08:54:00
Nature has arranged things so that male testosterone gives to males an extremely strong need for sex. This gives to women advantages on the "market of sex and relationships".Every woman on the Planet knows that if she enters a bar a small "hint" to sex from her - or in many cases even without her - will get her the chance of getting prompt sex under minutes from the time she gets in.I am reading right now on another forum about this "shit test" a woman gave to a guy in a relationship"Her: I?m not gonna say you can?t date other women, but if you?re sleeping with me, then I don?t want you sleeping with anyone else?that?s just disgusting!"Now when interpreted from the point of view of traditional morals what this woman is actually saying is:"If you are having a relationship with me then you shall be physically faithful to me otherwise I will condemn you with eternal guilt for being such a pig"Instead - attention, attention ! - when interpreted from the point of view of evolutionary psy...
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The Power of Asking and Female Relationships
2007-12-08 18:38:00
Guys,when you become a PUA and an expert Seducer you will soon notice that Asking Good Things from women will improve your relationship with them much more than Giving.Asking has a magic power: as psychologist Robert Cialdini has pointed out in his writings when a person gives you good things this person is usually prone to backward rationalize "why am I doing this? I must like this person a lot if I do this to him/her!"Women were born with influence psychology in their blood as they did this for centuries to men long before Cialdini was born.This is also one important psychological mechanism which makes of men slave to their women, especially when they are in the Provider role.Many guys ask from themselves: "Why I do this? Why do I give her all while she is being me such a bitch?".Well because she is using the Power of Asking. She simply asks you things and she is making in that way of herself the Prize in your eyes.You can do the same !In the field of Female Relationships you will...

How To Bust Her Balls
2007-12-06 10:57:00
A skill which is important for you to have to raise and maintain a woman´s sexual attraction is the skill of "busting her balls".This means in practice in a playful way:1. Giving her prompt feedback on her illogical statements, imperfections, silly thing she does.2. Giving her prompt feedback when she tests you.By doing this you are giving a lot of good messages to her:1. You don´t need her. If you would be emotionally or sexually dependent from her you would not have the guts to do this.2. You induce sexual submission. She gets the feeling of being that "little, silly girl" with you.It makes for her easier to be sexually receptive with you.3. You screen out of your life pro actively masculine women who are not able to be happy with a guy who is in charge of them. This is worth to do because this kind of girl will next you when you do this and you will do yourself a favor: you will not need to invest your time into a woman who will not be able to be a real woman with you in future a...
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Rapid Lover Provider Switch. Making of her a Sex Slave.
2007-11-21 11:30:00
Guys,if you have a sensitive stomach better you go reading the next article.In fact this is about slavery, about making of her your sex slave. Also it is meant to be a discussion about some ?technical details?.Mean used: Rapid Lover > Provider Switch .In the wonderful novel by Choderlos De Laclos Valmont asks advice from his servant on how to make a woman he is seducing do something he wants by using sex.He answers: ?Sir, when we give sex to a woman we are only doing what she wants. From there to have her do what we want there is a long way?.Here the servant is giving a great lesson to his master.When you are sarging women successfully and you are having the attracted, you seduce them and give them the best sex in the world what you are doing is simply give them what they like and what they want.But what if you want to make her what you want? For example get into 3somes, 4somes, please you in the bed like you want, maybe give you money, have her work for you in regard to your tasks a...
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Open Relationships
2007-11-16 16:25:00
Guys,The family institution has changed in the last century. No one is going anymore to die without the family in the rich countries of our world.Along with that process men have increasingly gave up ownership on woman's mind and body and focused on free time on having fun, on having a quality life.This has brought up the issue of open relationships and marriages. Every man who is in love wants to be forever with the woman he loves.Falling in love is a biological process bringing to a psychosis. One major danger in an open relationship is one of the two falling in love for someone else and abandoning the main partner. This risk is only slightly higher than the risk one of the two could fall in love on the work place or with an occasional partner in a bar.Anyway this risk is big enough for creating trouble and fears to people wanting open relationships i.e. relationships where both are free - either together or separately - meet and have sex with secondary partners.To be able to be ...
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EFAs and Relationship Damage Control
2007-10-21 21:21:00
Guys,as we have seen in other writings an EFA ( Early Frame Announcement ) is a frame which the woman presents to you early in her interaction with you.By the means of this frame she is usually "announcing" what she will be as a person, how she will behave in the relationship, what she will want from it.Such frames could be:HB: "I like rich business men who are active and wealthy" ( Translation: I like you if you have all the time a lot of money, or: I like you if you kill yourself with work everyday so I do not need to have you all the time around )HB:"I like free minded people who are not control freaks" ( Translation: I will do whatever I want in the relationship and you will not have a word about it )HB:"I feel uneasy with people who do not have a direction in life" ( Translation: I like a man who leads me )Sometimes EFAs can be quite straightforward like:HB:"I am a traditional woman and I like men who pay for restaurants" ( Translation: if you want my pussy you better use your ...
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The Meaning of Female Ambivalence
2007-09-22 09:13:00
Men are logical creatures and even when playing The Game and building relationships with females they tend to build structures based on a > b > c > d > e > f.. and so on.This is both a good thing and a bad thing.The good thing is: when you create a Structure you are doing something Yang i.e. masculine.That is a secret wish of every woman: to find a man who is able to build a safe and strong Yang structure around their Yin.Ambivalence is defined like ?A state of having emotions of both positive and negative valence or of having thoughts or actions in contradiction with each other, when they are related to the same object, idea or person (for example, feeling both love and hatred for someone or something). The term is also commonly used to refer to situations where 'mixed feelings' of a more general sort are experienced or where a person experiences uncertainty or indecisiveness concerning something.?So when females introduce their Yin ambivalence they succeed in getting a lot of po...
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Her Mother is your Karma
2007-09-02 21:19:00
Guys,It is time for your Franco to tell you how a woman?s own mother relationship influences a relationship outcome.Watch carefully a woman?s mother relationship when you screen her for a relationship because - as we could say with historical words - "Her mother relationship is also your Karma " from the moment you say her the word ?I love you and I want to be with you forever?Write this down, this is not a joke.This is something you need to remember so to avoid a lot of pain.As a rule: when you sarge a woman, she falls in love for you and you decide to start a long-term relationship ALL what happened in her relationship with her mother will start to influence the way she relates to you with mathematical precision from Day I. Actually knowledge of this kind of things is extremely useful also in pick-up and seductions.In fact a woman goes through developmental stages and not to make this post too complicated let?s forget the latency and evaluate how two crucial periods will influence ...
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Prescreening in Pick-up
2007-08-29 15:02:00
Guys,this is for you little bit more advanced guys who can approach women in a relaxed way, without the so called "approach anxiety". Guys who are still training approaching women will surely need this later on.Male testosterone gives to a man an extreme urge to discharge sexually with a good looking woman. This happens very often at the expenses of screening the woman. This is because male sexuality is visual: the vision of a beautiful rear or nice tits, beautiful mouth, teeth can trrigger such a sexual drive in you that you forget other important issues.In a word male evolutionary screening is not made to screen for the quality of her personality. It is made to screen for physical qualities related with the skill of bear children. A man is in fact potentially in the condition of fathering many, many children with different women.This is something you need to remember before you approach women.So there are some microseconds before the approach starts you can use for this. Guys who ...
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Detecting why she controls herself
2007-06-03 18:50:00
Guys,the term Buying Temperature (BT) refers to a constellation of behavioral signs shown by the girl in response to your seduction game. You know the signs: giggling, laughing at your jokes, lower body movements, submissive look and so on. One typical reaction of women when their BT raises is the attempt to control it. This attempt to control it has been mistaken for centuries by men for being "bitchiness", being "uptight" or "unavailable" which actually is all wrong. It is true that women control their BT for social and moral reason and that is a major reason for ASD but there is another more biological and important reason which men - under the influence of their M/W complex - failed to see. One of the main reasons a woman needs to control her own BT is simply the huge, overwhelming intensity of it. Having said this when you notice that a woman tries to control her own BT you need to ask from yourself why she is doing that. A feminine HSE woman will usually be in good touch with ...

Proactive Time Constraints
2007-05-12 10:12:00
Guys,Something I regularly do in my pick-ups is to create time constraints early on. When you do this you are distinguishing yourself early on from the AFC crowd in a way that she will surely notice.This works especially well on Day II meetings and can be a good substitute to phone game. This is good especially for busy guys like me. I am quite a lot into business activity and my schedule is so busy that I rarely have the time to chat too much over the phone with people. Even if I would plan to do that I would surely forget to do the calls. So I have to structure everything to make sure it will happen.After you pick-up her you let go a few days, about 2-4 days.Then when the times come to go for a Day II you use the following structure:- You coming from something fun and exciting.- The time constraint.- You going to something fun and exciting.For example I may tell her that:- Until 6pm I am in a business meeting with sauna and drinks with business partners who came from abroad.- I ca...
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Franco´s 6pm - 10.30 pm Rule
2007-04-22 09:38:00
If you are a single man, you do MLTRs ( Multiple Long-Term Relationships) and you notice that one of your women you are with is exhibiting disturbing behavior give her the Fran co´s 6pm ? 10 pm rule. This is taken from military life. Usually in time of peace this is the time soldiers are let to go out of their unit when they are not in active operations for having fun, meeting girls and so on. You reverse it and give it to the girl. The rule is made for guys who work day time but if work at night you can of course change this time to fit your needs. It is only indicative. As disturbing behavior we can list: - Not letting you sleep a night, restlessness. - Too demanding. - Intruding in your own businesses all the time without being asked to do so. - Gets drunk too heavily and too often. - Gets drugs. - Talking too much ( at the point you cannot concentrate in your normal activities ) Add to the list what you feel is ?disturbing behavior?. When you are...
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Alpha Male & Nurturing Love
2007-04-19 12:38:00
Guys,a woman can love basically in two ways:- Adult Love - Nurturing LoveNurturing love is an instinct. As such it is stronger than her will. In a word: women are hardwired to nurture. This instinct is meant to have children grow up safely.Nature is sometimes a bitch. Instincts are very primitive brain features and they are meant to overcome our conscious will. Sometimes they direct themselves there, where they should not.As Alpha Male if you let a woman nurture you what will happen is that it will destroy her sexual desire towards you and also her respect towards you will die sooner or later.A good example of how a real male relates to his own weaknesses is from the life of Julius Caesar. He suffered of terrible headaches and he treated them by.. long, strenuous marches with all the weathers. As Alpha Male s your destiny is to protect other people and live your life without being nurtured too much. You are alone with that job. You should not fear death and sickness. You...
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About Fairness and Female Relationships
2007-04-11 21:01:00
Guys,one of the biggest mistakes men make in their relationships with women is projecting into them their male thinking.One of the masculine features they usually project into women is fairness.When this mistake comes back to byte their asses they do not understand what happened, they cannot understand why their girls come back to them in such a self-centered, selfish way in response to their fairness.Well there is a simple reason fro it:: fairness is - in fact - an invention of men.Men have been providers to women and children along all the thousands of years of Evolution so they feel terribly guilty if everything is not "shared in a fair way."This is the responsibility you feel when you know you have the power. Women are different: their job was for thousands of years to invent ways to have the men give them and their children part of the preys of their hunting, for the seek of their survival.Being fair was easy to men: they had the power and access to food and resources.Being fai...
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Be unpredictable to raise women?s attraction
2007-03-22 19:38:00
How to be unpredictable to raise women?s attraction in pickup, seduction and relationships.Men and women differ from each other in several ways. One of them is that men are more logical and women are more emotional. Brain scientists have recently even started to prove this true by the use of brain research methods.A consequence of this is that men enjoy much more than women repetitive actions and feelings.Yes: a man can watch every Sunday his favorite football team or have the same pair of shoes for months and still be interested in both for very long periods of time.Women are emotional and they get bored easily if they don?t get their emotional highs and lows ( also the lows! ) from times to times.There is nothing more boring to women of a guy who watches his football team every Sunday at the same time or calls them always at the same time!So do you want to kill attraction in a woman: be predictable !A common mistake husbands and boyfriends do very often is this: as soon as they sa...
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Ambivalence About Democracy
2007-03-12 21:23:00
Guys,one of the most common means a woman uses to bind the mind of her male to her is ambivalence about democracy.This is done by feeding the mind of the guy with two signals which are in conflict between each other.HB:"I like men who lead me and tell me what to do"andHB:"I am a free woman and I want to be your equal"This is a Double Bind which is almost impossible to resist and the main reason I have been many times very doubtful about is it safe for a guy to be a Provider in a relationship.Because it puts you in the impossibility of leading the group, including her.If you are doing decision she will tell: "You are keeping me from being free, you are controlling"If you don´t do decisions she will tell :"You are not leading me, you are not a real man, you don´t take the direction of our relationship"I have solved this by always putting a price to my leadership.In a word when I lead I also demand things from her as a reward for leading her.This solves only in part the problem because...
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Neediness Management
2007-03-10 10:10:00
Neediness management is essential to be a successful PUA ( Pick-up artist ) and even more essential to have good relationships with women.The distinction between biological and psychological, body and mind does not exist in reality. All of these happen together, as a whole.This is true for neediness, too.If you try to understand neediness by considering it only a "psychological" issue you will never understand it fully and you will never be able to manage it.Neediness is first of all a biological, physical phenomenon and not only an abstract ¨psychological problem.The Brain has a biological ¨rewarding/punishing" system, which - by the means of hormones andneurotransmitters like endorphins, dopamine, serotonin - rewards us by giving us pleasure any time we do something which is essential for the survival of the individual and the species.Such things are for example moving, running ( hunting, fighting, escaping ), having sex (children ), eating sugar ( essential for the brain )The sam...
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Calling her on her bullshit periodically: she will love you for it.
2007-02-28 22:05:00
Guys,you can recognize how hot is a woman - between the other means - by how often she will put you in the situation that you have to call her on her bullshit.Women with a high sexual drive ( HD women ) will do that constantly and in a cyclical way.Women with a low sexual drive ( LD women ) will run on you more subtle mind tests, they are more likely to test you on how much they can manipulate you. I am going to post about them soon.But women with a high sexual drive, the HD women, they are something unbelievable.. they will come up with lot of explanations and drama stuff like..HB:"You know.. I am sure that X,Y,Z are like A,B,C .. " and "bla, bla, bla, explanations, explanations, explanations".. and the they will tell you more and more and more stuff which is not true, imprecise, totally subjective and most of all totally from their own point of view.They will do that because.. they need to feel under their skin from times to times your testosterone.If your girl or wife is of this ...
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Using a Pivot while doing pick-up
2007-02-25 20:50:00
A "Pivo t" is a girl you bring with you when you go out to pick-up girls. This can seem strange but believe me.. it is very powerful.The most primitive instincts of a woman are programmed to check - between the other things - do other women like you and want to have sex with you before she can feel sexual and emotional interest for you.In a way when you pick-up women and seduce women being seen with a woman is a subliminal signal to other women that you are the deal.One cannot understand how powerful this is if he has not tried it personally. I remember how many years ago I had a couple of Greek girl giggle all the evening while hugging and having at my side on of my Pivots.We had all a lot of fun.. and at the end I collected both girls´ emails. I remember I was quite unsure which one of the two I will choose.. and I endend up choosing both.A Pivot can be for example a girl you appreciate a lot like a friend, a girl who for a reason or another is resisting you or a girl .. who is loo...
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My Girlfriends Say That..
2007-02-20 07:52:00
Guys,a big, big mistake men do which causes them lot of trouble with women is that.. they do not listen carefully to women´s sub-communication.Of course I don´t mean "listen to women" like nice guys do. I mean listen carefully to women so that you know what to do to get what you want..:) Women say very important things in a pretty indirect way.If you want to know where you stand in your seduction with her or otherwise improve your relationship with women listen her carefully.. especially when she says things like..My girlfriends told x,y,z..Like:HB:"My girlfriend says her husband is so nice.. he does everything for her.. "Translation from womanese:"I am getting less horny for you because I feel YOU are becoming too nice to me.. "HB:"My girlfriends get bored of theather and movies all the time. They told me there are some exciting places in Far East to visit.. "Translation from womanese:"I am getting bored. Do something about it and fast.. otherwise I will be less horny for you and m...
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Block her while seducing her..
2007-02-16 19:10:00
Guys,when you are at a more advanced level in seducing women you will notice that one thing which raises their interest in many cases - not all of course, there are also women who will jump on you after 5 min. of the first meeting - is when you have them to wait and they cannot figure out why you do that.When they cannot figure out why you do that and you block them on the way of seducing them you are giving an important message: all the other women must want you a lot because.. you have no rush into their panties.This is something you can deliberately use to increase a woman´s interest and it is because of their primal instincts which force them to consider of higher value a man who does not need them.Beware: this is advanced.To do this successfully you really need to have your own game figured out otherwise you will come out as indecisive and non masculine.After you have your first contact with her she will of course be sure that you will try to get into her panties as fast as any...
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Masculine dominance makes women horny
2007-02-11 06:52:00
This is a report of a seduction of mine of a few years ago. I could tell hundred of stories like this.In this report I describe a situation where it takes from the meeting to the lay about one hour, one hour and half.This is achieved by establishing quick sexual and psychological dominance on the woman.Well to understand this story you need to know that the country where I live is basically a capitalistic country with a strong socialist presence. One of the most disturbing way the socialist part of the country expresses itself is.. bad customer service in bars, restaurants and so on.It is a way to tell people:"In this country we don´t serve people, we are all equals". So the gut feeling you get is that of: "We barely stand in this restaurant, shop or bar the existence of something like "customer".I was born in a country, Italy, where between the other fucked up things there are a few wonderful things and one of them is that the service is always and in many places extremely good and...
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Become her... Daddy.
2007-02-06 20:28:00
Guys,you can seduce a woman in a very effective way by.. becoming her Daddy . Well I am not saying you should walk to the next lawyer´s office and do the papers to adopt her but.. you can make her feel like she would be your little daughter. Believe me: on many women something like this has an irresistible aphrodisiac effect.Now first of all early in your seduction you can use this Daddy thing as a test to detect the kind of relationship she has with men in general. When you meet women you need to remember that every woman´s background is different and that their background histories may be quite peculiar.So you may have in front of you the typical Daddy´s daughter who simply adores her father and had more or less a normal mother relationship or.. the daughter of an alcoholic father who beat her mother and she.. she simply hated him.. and her mother as well.You never know.So while you are in the middle of a random conversation you make her a compliment.. and say:"You look so cute.. I...
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Please, go talk with your girlfriends about that.
2007-02-01 07:11:00
Guys,when a woman is attracted to you and considers you the Prize she will start to increase the amount of emotional talk when in contact with you. The stronger is her sexual instinct the more she will do that.I assume you like the hottest women.. :) One of the most important features of the betaising process is when a man starts to react to her emotional talk and how that happens. At the times of patriarcal societies no one would have blamed the man for being silent. Nowadays the effemminate "politically correct" culture made possible for men to be blamed for not getting into that emotional talk. Many men - between them very strong Alpha males - make the mistake of somehow "agreeing" to it on the woman´s terms.That is a mistake.You can and must use emotional talk with a woman but the content and the purpose of it has to be on your own terms for you to remain attractive to her and should not be on woman´s term.For example this is wrong:HB:"I feel that in this house the interior sho...
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Woman´s Bisexuality
2007-01-29 08:47:00
Woman´s sexuality is essentially - at least on the platonic level - bisexual.The mismatch created by nature between male and female communication makes for the woman having at least some platonic "lesbian" friendship a matter of psychological survival.In history men have always practiced war and hunting and left women at home. So guess on which chest they had to cry. A female chest, for sure.I have been traveling a lot. Interestingly in "politically correct countries" there is an increase in woman´s bisexual tendency. There is also an increased tendency by men to form harems as a reaction to women raising their stakes on the market of love relationships.Instead when I travel to more traditional countries - between these some country of the former Soviet Union and some Asian country - I meet always women who are genuinely sexually attracted by men and I find that women in those countries have sublimated at the maximum extent their attraction towards the same sex.It is for me enough...
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There is some work "I don´t let him do"
2007-01-28 10:08:00
To understand women one has to be good in understanding their sub-communication.. there is a statement in this conversation which has a lot of meaning.. ( in bold )Look how this guy is under control.This is a conversation I was having a few years ago at a bar with a married woman, with two small children. Her aim was to find a "secret lover" who does not "push her for sex" ..She had been "pushed" by another guy who was her lover quite long before me.This in woman´s sub-communication means that she did not find a man who would be able to be the Prize for her. She will not be able to have satisfying sex until then.When I asked "pushed on what?" she said this guy wanted "sex with her once a week".. Then it came out that she had another lover and that she saw him only 3-4 times a year.. because.. he lived so far from the town..Not too much of a passionate woman I would say. At that time when we started a relationship I seduced her by being very unavailable to her.. to which she responde...
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Don´t do it !
2007-01-27 20:36:00
when you are in a relationship and everything is going well, she is attracted and you are for her the Prince when the time comes and she starts to talk with about how "fairly" washing the dishes, cleaning the floor, doing the food are "shared" between the two of you well that isthe time to..Tell her plain and simple: Honey, I don´t do it.Bring her to the restaurant instead, pay for the cleaner and if there are children hire a nanny and bring her to dance.Let her complain.Simply don´t do it.Why?Because a woman´s attraction is strictly linked to the man´s rank and if you lower your rank she will lose attraction for you.With all the consequences.By telling her no you help yourself, her and the relationship.Cheers, FrancoCheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players

A man without money cannot stand me..
2007-01-27 14:20:00
I am on the bed, relaxing. Lot of memories come to my mind.. This one is from one of my former lovers, HBSwedish. When she said this I had to write it down."I don´t like men who appreciate only money and business.. but a man without money cannot cope with me.. "Nice isn´t it?:)Cheers, FrancoCheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players
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