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New FRANCO SEDUCTION launched !
2008-05-14 08:57:00 The new Franco Seduction ´s service has been launched.From now on all my writings about pick-up, seduction and female relationships are available on:http://www.francoseduction.com On Franco Seduction information about:- Franco Seduction products and books- Pick-up and seduction coaching- Relationship coaching- Consultations- BootcampsWelcome !Cheers, FrancoCheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players More About: Launched
Using her orbiters at your advantage
2008-04-27 21:21:00 Guys, an "orbiter" is a guy who is all the time around a hot woman usually without arising her attraction so much that she would be interested in him that much...Cheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players
Notice
2008-04-05 12:26:00 Franco Seduction web site will be offline until Mon 7, April for works connected with the internet provider´s safety system. I will not be able to answer to emails to franco@franco-seduction.com until then. You can contact Franco at: francoseduction@gmail.com and after monday to the former email address.Cheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players More About: Notice
The core of Materialista (Ho) game
2008-04-03 12:24:00 Guys, I have abandoned the use of the "Ho" term for being too judgmental. Synonymous of "Ho" will be Materialista. It better indicates the game of this kind of woman without being so judgmental. Here I am going to describe the core of the Materialista´s game..Cheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players More About: Game , Core
Bootcamp - Helsinki, Finland on June 7-8, 2008
2008-03-27 12:12:00 I am very pleased to announce Real Modern Man's first ever bootcamp, which will take place in Helsinki , Finland on June 7-8, 2008 with Franco and Joseph W. South.Cheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players More About: Bootcamp
Examples of calibrating value
2008-03-15 13:35:00 Guys, at a request from Tranztrade I write this article where I expand more the concept of value and calibrating value in a relationship with a female...Cheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players More About: Examples
Screening: how she treats others
2008-03-01 12:09:00 Guys, one thing you need to learn to evaluate when you first pick-up a woman is how she treats other people...Cheers, Franco http://www.franco-seduction.com Online Seduction School for Single Men, Husbands and Players More About: Treats , Screening
Different reactions to Cocky and Funny
2008-02-18 21:20:00 Guys,"Cocky and funny" is a set of behavioral attitudes put up by you, which raises attraction in a woman. This means being humorous and at the same time being a challenge her. You achieve this by being direct, assertive and at the same time humorous. Very often cocky and funny means also reframing the usual traditional frame of a man kissing up to her to get sex and closeness. Being cocky and funny makes of you the Prize and puts her to qualify to you, instead. It is a total reframe of the male - female interaction. Examples of cocky and funny: "If you buy me a drink, you might get lucky tonight" "I can't please every girl but I'll give you a chance tonight" "Yes, I like to talk with you but there is no way I am letting you to have sex with me !" "Stop hitting on me, you stare at me all the time, people can see us !" Anyway PUAs with a lot of field experience know that women are not all the same and that calibration is very, very important. There is a wide range or responses to C... More About: Funny
The Paranoia Test
2008-02-06 11:46:00 There has been a lot of discussion about Rapport and it´s importance in Pick-up and Seduction.In regard to this subject I can only repeat once again that "the map is not the territory" and that "every behavior has a positive intention behind it". In a word: there is no final truth. If our purpose is to have sex with a woman we might very well pick-up and seduce women without bothering too much about Rapport but in my opinion what we will get then will be a lot of sex but also a lot of trouble and LSE women. In a word: the skill of being in Rapport with another human being is a sign of good psychological healthy in a woman. Again this is only a belief from my actual map of the world. I have had different maps in the past. There is a group of woman who has paranoid tendencies i.e. they have a low level of Basic Trust and it is important to detect them early on during pick-up. So one thing you can do along the sarge is the "Rapport Test ". You quickly detect something which might be of... More About: Paranoia
Having you verbalize the Matrix.
2008-01-19 15:37:00 One thing which women will do with you to test your strength or to get power over you will be: having you verbalize the Matrix .The people with the greatest power and the greatest social wisdom rarely verbalize the Matrix.Some examples of verbalizing the Matrix.In a social environment with heterosexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals.AFC: "I think people should learn to appreciate sexual diversity"By doing that the socially impaired person is showing his/her limited social skills by verbalizing what all the others are sub-communicating.There are anyway situations where she will force you to verbalize the Matrix. Those situations are usually something she does which involves your vital interests. This is especially true and much trickier in longer-term relationships with women.For example: you live with her and she does not pay her part of the expenses. You come home and see unpaid bills on the desk.Not verbalizing the Matrix would be in this case a huge mistake. It is true that everyone sho... More About: The Matrix , Trix
Mutual Gazing
2008-01-01 15:06:00 Happy New Year to All of you Guys!Some months ago Joseph Went South was visiting me in Helsinki. We had lot of fun sarging and we alternated times of sarging with times of working on our projects.I was silently observing our behavior when we were at the flat. We were sometimes chatting about what we were doing and there were very long periods where each one of us was silently staring the computer, a book, in a word mutual gazing between us was only for the time we had action.We were both quite happy with the situation: sometimes action, sometimes exchanging data, sometimes withdrawing. Go share the same flat with a woman and you will notice something interesting: as soon as you start to direct your attention to something and you are not facing her it will not get long before she starts to attempt for rapport. This will mean for her getting your gaze moved towards her.This is instinctual and has been for a woman a survival mechanism. She has to read your emotions to have some idea of... More About: Mutual , Mutu
Female Perversions. Blueprints in Relationships
2007-12-20 08:56:00 Guys,Female sexuality in relationships and otherwise is influenced by many complex factors many guys have absolutely no clue of. Male sexuality is visual. This at the simplest level means that we can fuck whatever moves as long as what is moving owns a wonderful sexy couple of tits, nice eyes, beautiful smile, and nice ass. You know what I am talking about. When a man is pervert he is usually very "visually and physically" pervert. But women, women are different. When they are pervert they are usually "emotionally" pervert. So if you have a gorgeous woman with you in a relationship don?t make the mistake to believe that if she has difficulties in orgasming or any kind of other difficulties in regard to her sexuality that you could do miracles by applying terribly effective sexual techniques without calibrating the emotional factors. Women, in fact, have lot of Blueprints . A Blueprint is an "emotional path" which makes a woman attracted and emotionally aroused under certain circumsta... More About: Relationships
Testosterone Mismatch and Balance of Power
2007-12-16 08:54:00 Nature has arranged things so that male testosterone gives to males an extremely strong need for sex. This gives to women advantages on the "market of sex and relationships".Every woman on the Planet knows that if she enters a bar a small "hint" to sex from her - or in many cases even without her - will get her the chance of getting prompt sex under minutes from the time she gets in.I am reading right now on another forum about this "shit test" a woman gave to a guy in a relationship"Her: I?m not gonna say you can?t date other women, but if you?re sleeping with me, then I don?t want you sleeping with anyone else?that?s just disgusting!"Now when interpreted from the point of view of traditional morals what this woman is actually saying is:"If you are having a relationship with me then you shall be physically faithful to me otherwise I will condemn you with eternal guilt for being such a pig"Instead - attention, attention ! - when interpreted from the point of view of evolutionary psy... More About: Power , Testosterone , Balance
The Power of Asking and Female Relationships
2007-12-08 18:38:00 Guys,when you become a PUA and an expert Seducer you will soon notice that Asking Good Things from women will improve your relationship with them much more than Giving.Asking has a magic power: as psychologist Robert Cialdini has pointed out in his writings when a person gives you good things this person is usually prone to backward rationalize "why am I doing this? I must like this person a lot if I do this to him/her!"Women were born with influence psychology in their blood as they did this for centuries to men long before Cialdini was born.This is also one important psychological mechanism which makes of men slave to their women, especially when they are in the Provider role.Many guys ask from themselves: "Why I do this? Why do I give her all while she is being me such a bitch?".Well because she is using the Power of Asking. She simply asks you things and she is making in that way of herself the Prize in your eyes.You can do the same !In the field of Female Relationships you will...
How To Bust Her Balls
2007-12-06 10:57:00 A skill which is important for you to have to raise and maintain a woman´s sexual attraction is the skill of "busting her balls".This means in practice in a playful way:1. Giving her prompt feedback on her illogical statements, imperfections, silly thing she does.2. Giving her prompt feedback when she tests you.By doing this you are giving a lot of good messages to her:1. You don´t need her. If you would be emotionally or sexually dependent from her you would not have the guts to do this.2. You induce sexual submission. She gets the feeling of being that "little, silly girl" with you.It makes for her easier to be sexually receptive with you.3. You screen out of your life pro actively masculine women who are not able to be happy with a guy who is in charge of them. This is worth to do because this kind of girl will next you when you do this and you will do yourself a favor: you will not need to invest your time into a woman who will not be able to be a real woman with you in future a... More About: Balls , Bust
Rapid Lover Provider Switch. Making of her a Sex Slave.
2007-11-21 11:30:00 Guys,if you have a sensitive stomach better you go reading the next article.In fact this is about slavery, about making of her your sex slave. Also it is meant to be a discussion about some ?technical details?.Mean used: Rapid Lover > Provider Switch .In the wonderful novel by Choderlos De Laclos Valmont asks advice from his servant on how to make a woman he is seducing do something he wants by using sex.He answers: ?Sir, when we give sex to a woman we are only doing what she wants. From there to have her do what we want there is a long way?.Here the servant is giving a great lesson to his master.When you are sarging women successfully and you are having the attracted, you seduce them and give them the best sex in the world what you are doing is simply give them what they like and what they want.But what if you want to make her what you want? For example get into 3somes, 4somes, please you in the bed like you want, maybe give you money, have her work for you in regard to your tasks a... More About: Slave
Open Relationships
2007-11-16 16:25:00 Guys,The family institution has changed in the last century. No one is going anymore to die without the family in the rich countries of our world.Along with that process men have increasingly gave up ownership on woman's mind and body and focused on free time on having fun, on having a quality life.This has brought up the issue of open relationships and marriages. Every man who is in love wants to be forever with the woman he loves.Falling in love is a biological process bringing to a psychosis. One major danger in an open relationship is one of the two falling in love for someone else and abandoning the main partner. This risk is only slightly higher than the risk one of the two could fall in love on the work place or with an occasional partner in a bar.Anyway this risk is big enough for creating trouble and fears to people wanting open relationships i.e. relationships where both are free - either together or separately - meet and have sex with secondary partners.To be able to be ... More About: Relationships , Open
EFAs and Relationship Damage Control
2007-10-21 21:21:00 Guys,as we have seen in other writings an EFA ( Early Frame Announcement ) is a frame which the woman presents to you early in her interaction with you.By the means of this frame she is usually "announcing" what she will be as a person, how she will behave in the relationship, what she will want from it.Such frames could be:HB: "I like rich business men who are active and wealthy" ( Translation: I like you if you have all the time a lot of money, or: I like you if you kill yourself with work everyday so I do not need to have you all the time around )HB:"I like free minded people who are not control freaks" ( Translation: I will do whatever I want in the relationship and you will not have a word about it )HB:"I feel uneasy with people who do not have a direction in life" ( Translation: I like a man who leads me )Sometimes EFAs can be quite straightforward like:HB:"I am a traditional woman and I like men who pay for restaurants" ( Translation: if you want my pussy you better use your ... More About: Relationship , Control , Damage , Damage Control
The Meaning of Female Ambivalence
2007-09-22 09:13:00 Men are logical creatures and even when playing The Game and building relationships with females they tend to build structures based on a > b > c > d > e > f.. and so on.This is both a good thing and a bad thing.The good thing is: when you create a Structure you are doing something Yang i.e. masculine.That is a secret wish of every woman: to find a man who is able to build a safe and strong Yang structure around their Yin.Ambivalence is defined like ?A state of having emotions of both positive and negative valence or of having thoughts or actions in contradiction with each other, when they are related to the same object, idea or person (for example, feeling both love and hatred for someone or something). The term is also commonly used to refer to situations where 'mixed feelings' of a more general sort are experienced or where a person experiences uncertainty or indecisiveness concerning something.?So when females introduce their Yin ambivalence they succeed in getting a lot of po... More About: Female , Meaning
Her Mother is your Karma
2007-09-02 21:19:00 Guys,It is time for your Franco to tell you how a woman?s own mother relationship influences a relationship outcome.Watch carefully a woman?s mother relationship when you screen her for a relationship because - as we could say with historical words - "Her mother relationship is also your Karma " from the moment you say her the word ?I love you and I want to be with you forever?Write this down, this is not a joke.This is something you need to remember so to avoid a lot of pain.As a rule: when you sarge a woman, she falls in love for you and you decide to start a long-term relationship ALL what happened in her relationship with her mother will start to influence the way she relates to you with mathematical precision from Day I. Actually knowledge of this kind of things is extremely useful also in pick-up and seductions.In fact a woman goes through developmental stages and not to make this post too complicated let?s forget the latency and evaluate how two crucial periods will influence ... More About: Mother , Arma
Prescreening in Pick-up
2007-08-29 15:02:00 Guys,this is for you little bit more advanced guys who can approach women in a relaxed way, without the so called "approach anxiety". Guys who are still training approaching women will surely need this later on.Male testosterone gives to a man an extreme urge to discharge sexually with a good looking woman. This happens very often at the expenses of screening the woman. This is because male sexuality is visual: the vision of a beautiful rear or nice tits, beautiful mouth, teeth can trrigger such a sexual drive in you that you forget other important issues.In a word male evolutionary screening is not made to screen for the quality of her personality. It is made to screen for physical qualities related with the skill of bear children. A man is in fact potentially in the condition of fathering many, many children with different women.This is something you need to remember before you approach women.So there are some microseconds before the approach starts you can use for this. Guys who ... More About: Pick , Cree , Screening
Detecting why she controls herself
2007-06-03 18:50:00 Guys,the term Buying Temperature (BT) refers to a constellation of behavioral signs shown by the girl in response to your seduction game. You know the signs: giggling, laughing at your jokes, lower body movements, submissive look and so on. One typical reaction of women when their BT raises is the attempt to control it. This attempt to control it has been mistaken for centuries by men for being "bitchiness", being "uptight" or "unavailable" which actually is all wrong. It is true that women control their BT for social and moral reason and that is a major reason for ASD but there is another more biological and important reason which men - under the influence of their M/W complex - failed to see. One of the main reasons a woman needs to control her own BT is simply the huge, overwhelming intensity of it. Having said this when you notice that a woman tries to control her own BT you need to ask from yourself why she is doing that. A feminine HSE woman will usually be in good touch with ...
Proactive Time Constraints
2007-05-12 10:12:00 Guys,Something I regularly do in my pick-ups is to create time constraints early on. When you do this you are distinguishing yourself early on from the AFC crowd in a way that she will surely notice.This works especially well on Day II meetings and can be a good substitute to phone game. This is good especially for busy guys like me. I am quite a lot into business activity and my schedule is so busy that I rarely have the time to chat too much over the phone with people. Even if I would plan to do that I would surely forget to do the calls. So I have to structure everything to make sure it will happen.After you pick-up her you let go a few days, about 2-4 days.Then when the times come to go for a Day II you use the following structure:- You coming from something fun and exciting.- The time constraint.- You going to something fun and exciting.For example I may tell her that:- Until 6pm I am in a business meeting with sauna and drinks with business partners who came from abroad.- I ca... More About: Time , Stra , Strain , Const , Proactive
Franco´s 6pm - 10.30 pm Rule
2007-04-22 09:38:00 If you are a single man, you do MLTRs ( Multiple Long-Term Relationships) and you notice that one of your women you are with is exhibiting disturbing behavior give her the Fran co´s 6pm ? 10 pm rule. This is taken from military life. Usually in time of peace this is the time soldiers are let to go out of their unit when they are not in active operations for having fun, meeting girls and so on. You reverse it and give it to the girl. The rule is made for guys who work day time but if work at night you can of course change this time to fit your needs. It is only indicative. As disturbing behavior we can list: - Not letting you sleep a night, restlessness. - Too demanding. - Intruding in your own businesses all the time without being asked to do so. - Gets drunk too heavily and too often. - Gets drugs. - Talking too much ( at the point you cannot concentrate in your normal activities ) Add to the list what you feel is ?disturbing behavior?. When you are... More About: Rule , Franco , Franc
Alpha Male & Nurturing Love
2007-04-19 12:38:00 Guys,a woman can love basically in two ways:- Adult Love - Nurturing LoveNurturing love is an instinct. As such it is stronger than her will. In a word: women are hardwired to nurture. This instinct is meant to have children grow up safely.Nature is sometimes a bitch. Instincts are very primitive brain features and they are meant to overcome our conscious will. Sometimes they direct themselves there, where they should not.As Alpha Male if you let a woman nurture you what will happen is that it will destroy her sexual desire towards you and also her respect towards you will die sooner or later.A good example of how a real male relates to his own weaknesses is from the life of Julius Caesar. He suffered of terrible headaches and he treated them by.. long, strenuous marches with all the weathers. As Alpha Male s your destiny is to protect other people and live your life without being nurtured too much. You are alone with that job. You should not fear death and sickness. You... More About: Ring
About Fairness and Female Relationships
2007-04-11 21:01:00 Guys,one of the biggest mistakes men make in their relationships with women is projecting into them their male thinking.One of the masculine features they usually project into women is fairness.When this mistake comes back to byte their asses they do not understand what happened, they cannot understand why their girls come back to them in such a self-centered, selfish way in response to their fairness.Well there is a simple reason fro it:: fairness is - in fact - an invention of men.Men have been providers to women and children along all the thousands of years of Evolution so they feel terribly guilty if everything is not "shared in a fair way."This is the responsibility you feel when you know you have the power. Women are different: their job was for thousands of years to invent ways to have the men give them and their children part of the preys of their hunting, for the seek of their survival.Being fair was easy to men: they had the power and access to food and resources.Being fai... More About: Relationships , Female , About , Fair , Ships
Be unpredictable to raise women?s attraction
2007-03-22 19:38:00 How to be unpredictable to raise women?s attraction in pickup, seduction and relationships.Men and women differ from each other in several ways. One of them is that men are more logical and women are more emotional. Brain scientists have recently even started to prove this true by the use of brain research methods.A consequence of this is that men enjoy much more than women repetitive actions and feelings.Yes: a man can watch every Sunday his favorite football team or have the same pair of shoes for months and still be interested in both for very long periods of time.Women are emotional and they get bored easily if they don?t get their emotional highs and lows ( also the lows! ) from times to times.There is nothing more boring to women of a guy who watches his football team every Sunday at the same time or calls them always at the same time!So do you want to kill attraction in a woman: be predictable !A common mistake husbands and boyfriends do very often is this: as soon as they sa... More About: Attraction , Tabl , Table , Trac
Ambivalence About Democracy
2007-03-12 21:23:00 Guys,one of the most common means a woman uses to bind the mind of her male to her is ambivalence about democracy.This is done by feeding the mind of the guy with two signals which are in conflict between each other.HB:"I like men who lead me and tell me what to do"andHB:"I am a free woman and I want to be your equal"This is a Double Bind which is almost impossible to resist and the main reason I have been many times very doubtful about is it safe for a guy to be a Provider in a relationship.Because it puts you in the impossibility of leading the group, including her.If you are doing decision she will tell: "You are keeping me from being free, you are controlling"If you don´t do decisions she will tell :"You are not leading me, you are not a real man, you don´t take the direction of our relationship"I have solved this by always putting a price to my leadership.In a word when I lead I also demand things from her as a reward for leading her.This solves only in part the problem because... More About: Democracy , About , Demo , Vale
Neediness Management
2007-03-10 10:10:00 Neediness management is essential to be a successful PUA ( Pick-up artist ) and even more essential to have good relationships with women.The distinction between biological and psychological, body and mind does not exist in reality. All of these happen together, as a whole.This is true for neediness, too.If you try to understand neediness by considering it only a "psychological" issue you will never understand it fully and you will never be able to manage it.Neediness is first of all a biological, physical phenomenon and not only an abstract ¨psychological problem.The Brain has a biological ¨rewarding/punishing" system, which - by the means of hormones andneurotransmitters like endorphins, dopamine, serotonin - rewards us by giving us pleasure any time we do something which is essential for the survival of the individual and the species.Such things are for example moving, running ( hunting, fighting, escaping ), having sex (children ), eating sugar ( essential for the brain )The sam... More About: Management , Need , Ness , Mana , Manage
Calling her on her bullshit periodically: she will love you for it.
More articles from this author:2007-02-28 22:05:00 Guys,you can recognize how hot is a woman - between the other means - by how often she will put you in the situation that you have to call her on her bullshit.Women with a high sexual drive ( HD women ) will do that constantly and in a cyclical way.Women with a low sexual drive ( LD women ) will run on you more subtle mind tests, they are more likely to test you on how much they can manipulate you. I am going to post about them soon.But women with a high sexual drive, the HD women, they are something unbelievable.. they will come up with lot of explanations and drama stuff like..HB:"You know.. I am sure that X,Y,Z are like A,B,C .. " and "bla, bla, bla, explanations, explanations, explanations".. and the they will tell you more and more and more stuff which is not true, imprecise, totally subjective and most of all totally from their own point of view.They will do that because.. they need to feel under their skin from times to times your testosterone.If your girl or wife is of this ... More About: Love , Bullshit , Alli , Bulls , Shit 1, 2 |



