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Bedroom crises: how to survive
2007-10-19 18:11:00
Almost every couple at some point of their life comes to a dead-end. And though sex crises are quite natural, leaving them unsolved is a worst thing to do. How to heal a relationship before you reach a break-up? Sex out of sync Not all couples match perfectly when it comes to sexual needs and frequency of sexual encounters. In fact many partners experience such difficulties from time to time, when one of you is not feeling in the mood for passion while the other needs sex more often. One of the way-outs is to make an agreement where both of you can have compromise on matters where you seem to be on the opposite sides of the couch. Not in the mood for sex? If it happens over and over again - it's time to create the right mood yourself. Indulge to your fantasies, take a time for yourself, have an intimate talk before you engage in sexual activity. Make a first step and soon you partner will meet you halfway. Sex time-out The time when your partner is miles away from you can be reall...
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Hot and Spicy Oral Sex Tips
2007-10-04 18:11:00
Add some taste to oral sex and rub his penis with a mint-flavored lube. Both will have a bit of fresh impressions. When you go to a party, wear some edible panties and wait till you can find a secluded place. Ask him to eat your panties without taking it off. Kiss and then subtly blow on her clitoris in turns. Such an oral delight will feel very pleasant and delicate. Take his scrotum in your mouth and make circles around his testes with your tongue. Simultaneously try humming your favorite tune - this will create pleasant vibrations. Give oral sex when your partner is asleep. Nothing is better than waking up with oral strokes of your lover. Ask him to take off your panties not using his hands - with his mouth. During a breakfast tell him he is your toast with gem or a cake and "eat" him. It's even better to talk to him during the process, saying how much you like to savor the "toast". During oral sex, give him waves of hot and cold sensations. Drink hot tea and lick his pen...
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How to initiate sex
2007-09-26 18:11:00
There are a lot of men secretly dreaming about their woman initiating sex. In most cases they say that a burden of always being the first to hint on sex turns it into a task. There are many reasons why women prefer to be a receiving side including those who unconsciously express their negative attitude towards their partner or sex in general. However, the old belief that man should be the one to do most of the "work" is still living. But if you never suggest any ideas or never think about inviting your lover to a sex romp, sooner or later he will think you are either not interested in him or you simply try to hide your dissatisfaction with him. 1. Tease him Initiating sex is not about asking in-your-face, but more about giving him signs you are waiting for the event and you want him. You may not even seek for words when delivering that message to your partner. Simply put on a sexy lingerie or better bend over at the right time showing no lingerie under your short skirt. 2. Ma...

How to initiate sex
2007-09-26 18:11:00
There are a lot of men secretly dreaming about their woman initiating sex. In most cases they say that a burden of always being the first to hint on sex turns it into a task. There are many reasons why women prefer to be a receiving side including those who unconsciously express their negative attitude towards their partner or sex in general. However, the old belief that man should be the one to do most of the "work" is still living. But if you never suggest any ideas or never think about inviting your lover to a sex romp, sooner or later think you are either not interested in him or you simply try to hide your dissatisfaction with him. 1. Tease him Initiating sex is not about asking in-your-face, but more about giving him signs you are waiting for the event and you want him. You may not even seek for words when deliver that message to your partner. Simply put on a sexy lingerie or better bend over at the right time showing no lingerie under your short skirt. 2. Make him anti...

How to talk dirty
2007-09-14 18:11:00
I am convinced you will hardly find a more powerful aphrodisiac than sexual fantasy. In long-term relationships, when you've learned a lot about each others and tried variety of sex positions, you will inevitably look for something more exciting. And you don't need to go further in your search than your lover's world of sex fantasies. One of the most common sexual fantasies are dirty talks in bed, that's where words become really precious. What really tickles many people is the way their partner talks to them during sex play. There is no need to worry about penis size as long as you know how to use words to arouse your lover. Discuss it with your partner First time you'll try talking dirty in bed you may feel awkward. It may seem as though you are acting in a scene - well, there's nothing wrong with that- you both know what you want and as long as you both find it arousing you will learn how to act more natural. It is advisable to ask your partner in advance if he or she ...
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How to talk dirty
2007-09-14 18:11:00
I am convinced you will hardly find a more powerful aphrodisiac than sexual fantasy. In long-term relationships, when you've learned a lot about each others and tried variety of sex positions, you will inevitably look for something more exciting. And you don't need to go further in your search than your lover's world of sex fantasies. One of the most common sexual fantasies are dirty talks in bed, that's where words become really precious. What really tickles many people is the way their partner talks to the during sex play. There is no need to worry about penis size as long as you know how to use words to arouse your lover. Discuss it with your partner First time you'll try talking dirty in bed you may feel awkward. It may seem as though you are acting in a scene - well, there's nothing wrong with that- you both know what you want and as long as you both find it arousing you will learn how to act more natural. It is advisable to ask your partner in advance if he or she f...
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Sex fitness
2007-08-30 18:11:00
Are you concerned about your body image and wish those little things and excessive fat would disappear as fast as possible? Many men and women choose to keep to a fitness schedule that they sometimes find routine and tiresome. There is no way to persuade you on giving up your daily walking habits or quit exercising? If you don't know yet - sex is the best natural fitness one can get absolutely free and with additional bonus - pleasure. Yes, we talk about sex. Almost everyone is aware of health benefits that come with regular sex: stronger heart, healthy sleep, stronger immune system but nothing is more tempting than an idea to lose weight with sexercises. As long as you are decisive about fitting your body and get maximum satisfaction from your sex fitness, you can start right away! In order to increase the benefits of sex fitness you only need to follow following tips: Have regular sex Try to have sex not only when you are in the mood for sex but also to create that mood before yo...
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5 tips to spice up the encounter
2007-08-24 18:11:00
Even if you think that you are quite satisfied with your sex life, there is always a room for experiments and small tips that can sparkle things up and surprise your partner. Aroma bath Do you really want to turn sex into something special? Then one of the first things to do is to leave usual and comfy bedroom. To create a relaxing and sensual atmosphere you may need to prepare an aroma bath. Fill the bath with warm water, put some aroma oils and scented candles. The sensation of warm water and pleasant odor will increase your sensitivity. Sex in the bathroom will feel especially good for slow and relaxed lovemaking. Erotic massage There is no need to master art of erotic massage in order to please your partner. What you really need is some imagination and playful mood. You can stroke his body with your hair, or your breasts, you may ticklishly run your eyelashes along his body. Don't rush to his penis or testes, this you may leave as a dessert. Explore every inch of his body unt...
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Introduction to role-playing
2007-08-17 18:11:00
Nothing is more refreshing for sexual relationships than role-playing where you can fulfill your and your partner's secret desires in most unconventional way. I've decided to fill that gap by introducing a number of articles dedicated to role-playing. Many couples complain about routine in their relationships saying they have tried almost all the possible sex positions and are in search of real exciting something to make a change in their intimate lives. If you think that role-playing is for kinky people only, you might be completely wrong. Turning regular sex into role-playing is not only fun thing but also a great helper for any sexual relationships. How to introduce erotic role-playing? There is no need to start a whole scenario to enjoy erotic role-playing. Of course, the costumes and right setting contributes to better sense of reality, but if don't have necessary equipment, your imagination can be your best friend in changing the usual sex scene into an intriguing story. Fi...
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What an adult movie can and can't teach you
2007-08-13 18:11:00
Not so long ago I've heard a man boasting he gained his experience from adult movies. This was quite surprising to hear. I always thought of adult movies being a kind of shortest way to get off. We are used to look at x-rated movies and magazines as a matter you don't openly discuss, however, millions of people hide the truth about their porn addiction and often blame themselves for browsing and watching "forbidden" material. Getting back to the 'educational' side of adult movies, I thought that they are not so bad in the end. First of all, they are quite informative, I mean that so many people discover the variety of sexual practices like oral sex, anal sex and dozens of different sex positions watching these movies and get aroused by them. Another question is that what is shown in a movie can be absolutely unsuitable in real life. Porn movies show ideal sex life where men and women moan and groan during sexual acts and have amazing sex every time once they touch each other. W...
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What is a good foreplay?
2007-08-08 18:11:00
A good foreplay sets the mood of a sex play and make any sexual experience more colorful and spicy. If you think that foreplay was so incredible that it could substitute the act itself, then you are lucky to have satisfying and harmonious relationships.However, there is still some misconception about what do we really want from a foreplay and why do we need one. That's why I thought that it would be of useful to bring this issue to light. What are the most common myths about foreplay and how to do it right? Myth: Woman need a long foreplay to get aroused Many men still believe that the longer they linger on a foreplay, the more aroused a woman would be. However, this is not always true. Besides the fact that different woman require different time for a foreplay, sexual needs of one woman can be changeable as well. The main thing is not the length of the time spent on a foreplay but an excitement that this foreplay brings in. You may get aroused from a kiss one time or require a l...
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Learn to experience vaginal orgasm
2007-08-06 18:11:00
Nothing contributes to our sexual pleasure so much as penetration. The urge to penetrate and to be penetrated is very strong in most men and women. Penetration is not only a biological act that connects us but also an act that brings the feeling of fulfillment and ultimate satisfaction. However, not every woman learns to enjoy penetration as much as other activities. The fact that many women have problems reaching vaginal orgasm is partly linked to inability to enjoy penetration. However, every woman can certainly derive pleasure from penetration and experience one of the most powerful physical sensations. 1. Make sure you are fully aroused Some women claim that they do not enjoy vaginal penetration simply because they are penetrated at the wrong time, which means they didn't become aroused enough. Sexual arousal is not mechanical for many women and doesn't come to a number of hot spots to pamper. If you feel that your partner's actions doesn't bring you to the necessary excite...
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Little things that shatter the love ship
2007-08-03 18:11:00
You may not even had an idea that sweet couple you always thought of as most peaceful would break up. Relationships do not end suddenly, the misunderstandings grow and one day you find yourself bitter and disappointed in the end. But if you simply think over the things that could possibly lead to coldness in your relationship, you will notice that things that make a bad day for your partner are minor ones and you could well do without them.First thing that is destructive to a relationship is the urge to make you partner perfect for you. Now that you both have grown up with all the habits and small whims and kind of order you both felt comfortable, you think that yours is right and other's is wrong. Another person doesn't fit the world you are used to live for many years. Very often we truly believe that we can change the person and make him "better". But each of you find it hard to accept the fact that your partner is just different. What should you do? Just understand that in ...
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If love is not around, is sex enough?
2007-07-12 18:11:00
Who wouldn't want to have healthy fulfilling relationships with a soul mate? However, not all of us are going to meet love and sex in one person. What should you do if you are starving for sex and your better half is still not there by your side? Should you buy a vibrator or sex doll or find a nice companion to spend lonely nights? I remember watching a video where a man lived with a love doll as if it was a real woman. Wasn't that a good example of our urge for closeness ? Pure sexual release doesn't bring satisfaction. You cannot buy warm touch or sweet kiss. People deal with lack of relationships differently. Some are content with more or less satisfying sexual relationships and ignore the emotional side. And what about a person who has quite high sexual drive but doesn't agree for a fling or two. There are people who are content with not having sexual relationships if they don't love their partner. Others think of sex as a pure biological function just the same as eating t...
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Woman on top: how to ride a man
2007-07-09 18:11:00
Woman on top sex position can be not only very gratifying for a woman but also one of the most favorite guy's position. The reason is simple: being the receiver in the process of lovemaking, he can simply enjoy the ride while watching the beautiful curves of female body. However, being on top doesn't only mean you sit there and move. In order to derive most pleasure from top sex position, woman and men need to find the best comfortable and enjoyable angle to move.There are a lot of variations to woman on top sex position. You can choose some of them:Man lies on his back, woman leans forward towards man's face, resting on her hands.Man lies on his back, woman faces away from man.Man is sitting with his legs wide open, woman embraces him sitting on top and facing him.Man is sitting, woman is sitting on him facing away.Man lies on his back, woman is lying on him with her legs along his body.Man is sitting with his legs wide open, woman lies on her back ,facing the man, resting on h...
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What place is sex in your relationship?
2007-06-29 18:11:00
Defining the importance of sex in a relationship can be actually an answer to its durability. Usually, when a relationship starts with passion, when two people are attracted to each other almost immediately, the physical side come to the fore leaving all the other aspects asides. However, when none of the partners have found things in common and sex fades away with the time, the relationship dies. That is not the rule, there are a lot of cases when people get to know each other after the fever pitch is over. But this example shows the actual place we give to sexual relationships. Another case is when both partners have different values regarding their relationships. For example, sex is very important for a man, while his girlfriend or wife is less interested in sexual relationships giving the preference over emotional side. The difference can become crucial in shattering this relationships, thus making them more fragile and more liable to conflicts. For a partner who gives number on...
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Female ejaculation
2007-06-22 18:11:00
Women seem to overrun men in many things and if earlier such thing as ejaculation was associated with men's power, nowadays women can squirt during orgasm. Although the nature of this phenomenon is mainly a subject of many disputes, many scientists still insist on the existence of the female ejaculation. As far as it is known vaginal fluid that woman produces during orgasm is a result of G-spot stimulation. As well as G-spot, both issues seem to be mysterious, beginning with the very location of the G-spot till the existence of female ejaculation. First experts thought that fluid released in women is merely urine that resulted from the pressure on the bladder. However, tests showed that composition of this "juice" had nothing to do with urine. Many women on hearing about ejaculation and encouraged by their partners became highly interested in the ways they can achieve this ejaculation.So can a woman ejaculate?It is known that stimulation of a G-spot is one of the shortest ways to a...
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Female ejaculation
2007-06-22 18:11:00
Women seem to overrun men in many things and if earlier such thing as ejaculation was associated with men's power, nowadays women can squirt during orgasm. Although the nature of this phenomenon is mainly a subject of many disputes, many scientists still insist on the existence of the female ejaculation. As far as it is known vaginal fluid that woman produces during orgasm is a result of G-spot stimulation. As well as G-spot, both issues seem to be mysterious, beginning with the very location of the G-spot till the existence of female ejaculation. First experts thought that fluid released in women is merely urine that resulted from the pressure on the bladder. However, tests showed that composition of this "juice" had nothing to do with urine. Many women on hearing about ejaculation and encouraged by their partners became highly interested in the ways they can achieve this ejaculation.So can a woman ejaculate? It is known that stimulation of a G-spot is one of the shortest ways to ...
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