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She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore
2008-02-08 17:11:00
Times when you couldn't take your hands off each other are long gone and she may no longer urge for sex as she used to. This situation is quite common for couples after the initial stage of sexual madness is over. Is it a normal situation for a woman to want less sex once she settles in stable relationships and what are the causes decreased sexual desire?Physical exhaustionOne of the common problems faced by young mothers or working women is that at the end of the day their sexual desire is totally diminished due to the abundance of day-to-day tasks, care about a new-born baby, work and other duties. Is it so surprising that a flame of love subsided under pressure of daily routine.What to doAsk her about her state - she may well confess you that tiredness made her desire disappear, which gives you a good opportunity to share your duties and leave at least some time for yourself only.Lack of excitementDo not blame the disappearing desire of your partner if your sex repertoire didn'...

She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore
2008-02-08 06:41:00
Times when you couldn't take your hands off each other are long gone and she may no longer urge for sex as she used to. This situation is quite common for couples after the initial stage of sexual madness is over. Is it a normal situation for a woman to want less ex once she settles in stable relationships and what are the causes decreased sexual desire?Physical exhaustionOne of the common problems faced by young mothers or working women is that at the end of the day their sexual desire is totally diminished due to the abundance of day-to-day tasks, care about a new-born baby, work and other duties. Is it so surprising that a flame of love subsided under pressure of daily routine. What to do Ask her about her state - she may well confess you that tiredness made her desire disappear, which gives you a good opportunity to share your duties and leave at least some time for yourself only.Lack of excitementDo not blame the disappearing desire of your partner if your sex repertoire didn...

Five Hot Spots to Reach Simultaneous Orgasm
2008-01-23 06:41:00
Simultaneous orgasm is what many couples dream to achieve, though many find it quite difficult due to different time required to men and women to reach the big O. It is possible for both partners to make the earth move at the same time if they both learn how to control your performance. Scrotum Pull down Scrotum is not only sensitive area but a good indicator of a man's readiness to ejaculate. As much as 75 percent of men ejaculate in two minutes after the beginning of the intercourse. Early ejaculation is the first obstacle for you to achieve simultaneous orgasm. One of the early signs of forthcoming ejaculation is when man's scrotum gets closer to he shaft of the penis. The little trick here is to pull down the scrotum a little bit to delay the ejaculation.Perineum Press Another spot that has a potential to delay the orgasm for a man is perineum located between the anus and scrotum. This helps to retain ejaculate and helps to prolong pleasure. Though be careful while pressing ...
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Five Hot Spots to Reach Simultaneous Orgasm
2008-01-23 06:41:00
Simultaneous orgasm is what many couples dream to achieve, though many find it quite difficult due to different time required to men and women to reach the big O. It is possible for both partners to make the earth move at the same time if they both learn how to control your performance. Scrotum - Pull down Scrotum is not only sensitive area but a good indicator of a man's readiness to ejaculate. As much as 75 percent of men ejaculate in two minutes after the beginning of the intercourse. Early ejaculation is the first obstacle for you to achieve simultaneous orgasm. One of the early signs of forthcoming ejaculation is when man's scrotum gets closer to he shaft of the penis. The little trick here is to pull down the scrotum a little bit to delay the ejaculation.Perineum - Press Another spot that has a potential to delay the orgasm for a man is perineum located between the anus and scrotum. This helps to retain ejaculate and helps to prolong pleasure. Though be careful while press...
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The Secret of a Better Sex Life
2008-01-14 06:41:00
ExperimentFill your sex life with colors and make it as varied as possible. Do not be afraid to try something new and go beyond the limits as long as both of you agree. There is no other way to know what is best for you than experimenting. Be curious about your partner's needs and help him or her discover their centers of pleasure. You may change the place, indulge in role-playing, try some new positions and fulfill your secret sex fantasies to keep things fresh and intriguing. Do not let your dissatisfaction growSexual relationships do not die one day. In most cases, sex problems, little misunderstandings and dissatisfaction grow with the time and finally these leads to total disagreement. All couples experience some difficulties and have their own vision of ideal sex life. The secret of couples who manage to have better sex life is the ability to discuss all the problems openly not hurting their partners. Many ticklish situations are inevitable and being honest about your needs ...
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How to Return your Libido
2007-12-12 06:41:00
Those who think that sex is all about penetration and foreplay serves as a starter may soon find sex not so amazing as it was at the beginning. For couples who start feeling that their sex life became a little more predictable, the best tip would be to put the intercourse aside and indulge in sensual pleasure. Let the arousal build up If lovemaking had turned into routine for you, you know what is going to happen the next day in your bedroom, it is high time to have a break and let both of you feel some starvation for each other. Abstain from intercourse for some time and let your desires accumulate enough. Of course, there is no need to do it if you cannot handle the abstinence, but it may sound quite reasonable if you want your sparkles back in your bedroom. Use your senses There is indeed no need to make every sexual encounter end up with intercourse. Prolong your and your partner's pleasure, simply enjoying a sensual night. Stroke each other, give each other a whole body mass...
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Foreplay for a Romantic Mood
2007-11-23 18:11:00
A good foreplay for a woman is half or even the most of pleasure she recalls from lovemaking. Basically, anything that proceeds to intercourse can be called a foreplay, which can be in a form of erotic massage, sensual talks, oral sex, role-playing. Are there any rules for good foreplay and how to learn the art of arousing your woman's sensual side? Kiss her sensually Long kisses will never be old-fashioned even if you settled yourself in long-term relationship. When did you last kissed her long, gentle and deep? What was your kiss like? Forget about "kiss-her-goodbye" style and give her the most sensual treat. Hold her in you hands as though protecting and linger on her lips. Feel the moist and softness while fluttering your tongue though her lips, savor them with your lips, slowly going inside her mouth. Your tongue should not act as an intruder but more like a seducer opening her to your desire step by step. Keep away from her main zones Slow down, guys, it is not the time...
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10 Foreplay Tricks She Will Like
2007-11-12 18:11:00
KissingGive her gentle kisses all over her body to find her sensitive spots. You may be surprised to discover new hidden zones on the back of her neck or inner thighs. Use your lips only while kissing, slowly gliding them along her skin waking her body with every touch of your lips.LickingYour tongue is a best tool when you explore her body. Skillful lovers know that tongue can be even more artful in bringing woman to orgasm. For warming up you can start from her neck and ears working down to her navel and belly, continuing your way up her back and buttocks. Keep it wet and your tongue flat and relaxed while fluttering along her body.TouchingHer skin is very receptive to touch so use your hands to awaken her body. Spontaneous moves are highly appreciated by ladies so do not ignore small signs of attention outside the bedroom. Place your hand on her knee or on her thighs when she is not expecting it. She will feel a nice tingle that will attune her for something more spicy.Massage...
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Lap Dance Guide
2007-11-08 18:11:00
If you want to make a real surprise to your lover, the best way to do so is to take him aback with a lap dance. Lap dance is an erotic dance that is usually performed when your partner is seated. The observer should keep to the rule of not touching you during a lap dance (which makes it extremely arousing) and you are trying to virtually seduce your lover with your performance. Though you might not be a professional, some basic techniques are easy to learn. How to startSet the mood The most important thing for performing lap dance is to feel sexy and attractive for your beloved one. If you start criticizing yourself, you simply cannot deliver the erotic message to your lover. Take off the clothes and look at yourself in the mirror - you should admire your own body. Keep in mind that he loves you in spite of all the minor imperfections. You can also do some rehearsal: close your eyes, sway your hips in tune with music, imagine yourself as a kitten to make your movements smoother. D...
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Bedroom crises: how to survive
2007-10-19 18:11:00
Almost every couple at some point of their life comes to a dead-end. And though sex crises are quite natural, leaving them unsolved is a worst thing to do. How to heal a relationship before you reach a break-up? Sex out of sync Not all couples match perfectly when it comes to sexual needs and frequency of sexual encounters. In fact many partners experience such difficulties from time to time, when one of you is not feeling in the mood for passion while the other needs sex more often. One of the way-outs is to make an agreement where both of you can have compromise on matters where you seem to be on the opposite sides of the couch. Not in the mood for sex? If it happens over and over again - it's time to create the right mood yourself. Indulge to your fantasies, take a time for yourself, have an intimate talk before you engage in sexual activity. Make a first step and soon you partner will meet you halfway. Sex time-out The time when your partner is miles away from you can be reall...
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Hot and Spicy Oral Sex Tips
2007-10-04 18:11:00
Add some taste to oral sex and rub his penis with a mint-flavored lube. Both will have a bit of fresh impressions. When you go to a party, wear some edible panties and wait till you can find a secluded place. Ask him to eat your panties without taking it off. Kiss and then subtly blow on her clitoris in turns. Such an oral delight will feel very pleasant and delicate. Take his scrotum in your mouth and make circles around his testes with your tongue. Simultaneously try humming your favorite tune - this will create pleasant vibrations. Give oral sex when your partner is asleep. Nothing is better than waking up with oral strokes of your lover. Ask him to take off your panties not using his hands - with his mouth. During a breakfast tell him he is your toast with gem or a cake and "eat" him. It's even better to talk to him during the process, saying how much you like to savor the "toast". During oral sex, give him waves of hot and cold sensations. Drink hot tea and lick his pen...
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How to initiate sex
2007-09-26 18:11:00
There are a lot of men secretly dreaming about their woman initiating sex. In most cases they say that a burden of always being the first to hint on sex turns it into a task. There are many reasons why women prefer to be a receiving side including those who unconsciously express their negative attitude towards their partner or sex in general. However, the old belief that man should be the one to do most of the "work" is still living. But if you never suggest any ideas or never think about inviting your lover to a sex romp, sooner or later he will think you are either not interested in him or you simply try to hide your dissatisfaction with him. 1. Tease him Initiating sex is not about asking in-your-face, but more about giving him signs you are waiting for the event and you want him. You may not even seek for words when delivering that message to your partner. Simply put on a sexy lingerie or better bend over at the right time showing no lingerie under your short skirt. 2. Ma...

How to initiate sex
2007-09-26 18:11:00
There are a lot of men secretly dreaming about their woman initiating sex. In most cases they say that a burden of always being the first to hint on sex turns it into a task. There are many reasons why women prefer to be a receiving side including those who unconsciously express their negative attitude towards their partner or sex in general. However, the old belief that man should be the one to do most of the "work" is still living. But if you never suggest any ideas or never think about inviting your lover to a sex romp, sooner or later think you are either not interested in him or you simply try to hide your dissatisfaction with him. 1. Tease him Initiating sex is not about asking in-your-face, but more about giving him signs you are waiting for the event and you want him. You may not even seek for words when deliver that message to your partner. Simply put on a sexy lingerie or better bend over at the right time showing no lingerie under your short skirt. 2. Make him anti...

How to talk dirty
2007-09-14 18:11:00
I am convinced you will hardly find a more powerful aphrodisiac than sexual fantasy. In long-term relationships, when you've learned a lot about each others and tried variety of sex positions, you will inevitably look for something more exciting. And you don't need to go further in your search than your lover's world of sex fantasies. One of the most common sexual fantasies are dirty talks in bed, that's where words become really precious. What really tickles many people is the way their partner talks to the during sex play. There is no need to worry about penis size as long as you know how to use words to arouse your lover. Discuss it with your partner First time you'll try talking dirty in bed you may feel awkward. It may seem as though you are acting in a scene - well, there's nothing wrong with that- you both know what you want and as long as you both find it arousing you will learn how to act more natural. It is advisable to ask your partner in advance if he or she f...
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How to talk dirty
2007-09-14 18:11:00
I am convinced you will hardly find a more powerful aphrodisiac than sexual fantasy. In long-term relationships, when you've learned a lot about each others and tried variety of sex positions, you will inevitably look for something more exciting. And you don't need to go further in your search than your lover's world of sex fantasies. One of the most common sexual fantasies are dirty talks in bed, that's where words become really precious. What really tickles many people is the way their partner talks to them during sex play. There is no need to worry about penis size as long as you know how to use words to arouse your lover. Discuss it with your partner First time you'll try talking dirty in bed you may feel awkward. It may seem as though you are acting in a scene - well, there's nothing wrong with that- you both know what you want and as long as you both find it arousing you will learn how to act more natural. It is advisable to ask your partner in advance if he or she ...
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Sex fitness
2007-08-30 18:11:00
Are you concerned about your body image and wish those little things and excessive fat would disappear as fast as possible? Many men and women choose to keep to a fitness schedule that they sometimes find routine and tiresome. There is no way to persuade you on giving up your daily walking habits or quit exercising? If you don't know yet - sex is the best natural fitness one can get absolutely free and with additional bonus - pleasure. Yes, we talk about sex. Almost everyone is aware of health benefits that come with regular sex: stronger heart, healthy sleep, stronger immune system but nothing is more tempting than an idea to lose weight with sexercises. As long as you are decisive about fitting your body and get maximum satisfaction from your sex fitness, you can start right away! In order to increase the benefits of sex fitness you only need to follow following tips: Have regular sex Try to have sex not only when you are in the mood for sex but also to create that mood before yo...
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5 tips to spice up the encounter
2007-08-24 18:11:00
Even if you think that you are quite satisfied with your sex life, there is always a room for experiments and small tips that can sparkle things up and surprise your partner. Aroma bath Do you really want to turn sex into something special? Then one of the first things to do is to leave usual and comfy bedroom. To create a relaxing and sensual atmosphere you may need to prepare an aroma bath. Fill the bath with warm water, put some aroma oils and scented candles. The sensation of warm water and pleasant odor will increase your sensitivity. Sex in the bathroom will feel especially good for slow and relaxed lovemaking. Erotic massage There is no need to master art of erotic massage in order to please your partner. What you really need is some imagination and playful mood. You can stroke his body with your hair, or your breasts, you may ticklishly run your eyelashes along his body. Don't rush to his penis or testes, this you may leave as a dessert. Explore every inch of his body unt...
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Introduction to role-playing
2007-08-17 18:11:00
Nothing is more refreshing for sexual relationships than role-playing where you can fulfill your and your partner's secret desires in most unconventional way. I've decided to fill that gap by introducing a number of articles dedicated to role-playing. Many couples complain about routine in their relationships saying they have tried almost all the possible sex positions and are in search of real exciting something to make a change in their intimate lives. If you think that role-playing is for kinky people only, you might be completely wrong. Turning regular sex into role-playing is not only fun thing but also a great helper for any sexual relationships. How to introduce erotic role-playing? There is no need to start a whole scenario to enjoy erotic role-playing. Of course, the costumes and right setting contributes to better sense of reality, but if don't have necessary equipment, your imagination can be your best friend in changing the usual sex scene into an intriguing story. Fi...
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What an adult movie can and can't teach you
2007-08-13 18:11:00
Not so long ago I've heard a man boasting he gained his experience from adult movies. This was quite surprising to hear. I always thought of adult movies being a kind of shortest way to get off. We are used to look at x-rated movies and magazines as a matter you don't openly discuss, however, millions of people hide the truth about their porn addiction and often blame themselves for browsing and watching "forbidden" material. Getting back to the 'educational' side of adult movies, I thought that they are not so bad in the end. First of all, they are quite informative, I mean that so many people discover the variety of sexual practices like oral sex, anal sex and dozens of different sex positions watching these movies and get aroused by them. Another question is that what is shown in a movie can be absolutely unsuitable in real life. Porn movies show ideal sex life where men and women moan and groan during sexual acts and have amazing sex every time once they touch each other. Wo...
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What is a good foreplay?
2007-08-08 18:11:00
A good foreplay sets the mood of a sex play and make any sexual experience more colorful and spicy. If you think that foreplay was so incredible that it could substitute the act itself, then you are lucky to have satisfying and harmonious relationships.However, there is still some misconception about what do we really want from a foreplay and why do we need one. That's why I thought that it would be of useful to bring this issue to light. What are the most common myths about foreplay and how to do it right? Myth: Woman need a long foreplay to get aroused Many men still believe that the longer they linger on a foreplay, the more aroused a woman would be. However, this is not always true. Besides the fact that different woman require different time for a foreplay, sexual needs of one woman can be changeable as well. The main thing is not the length of the time spent on a foreplay but an excitement that this foreplay brings in. You may get aroused from a kiss one time or require a l...
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