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What is a good foreplay?
2007-08-08 18:11:00
A good foreplay sets the mood of a sex play and make any sexual experience more colorful and spicy. If you think that foreplay was so incredible that it could substitute the act itself, then you are lucky to have satisfying and harmonious relationships.However, there is still some misconception about what do we really want from a foreplay and why do we need one. That's why I thought that it would be of useful to bring this issue to light. What are the most common myths about foreplay and how to do it right? Myth: Woman need a long foreplay to get aroused Many men still believe that the longer they linger on a foreplay, the more aroused a woman would be. However, this is not always true. Besides the fact that different woman require different time for a foreplay, sexual needs of one woman can be changeable as well. The main thing is not the length of the time spent on a foreplay but an excitement that this foreplay brings in. You may get aroused from a kiss one time or require a l...
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Learn to experience vaginal orgasm
2007-08-06 18:11:00
Nothing contributes to our sexual pleasure so much as penetration. The urge to penetrate and to be penetrated is very strong in most men and women. Penetration is not only a biological act that connects us but also an act that brings the feeling of fulfillment and ultimate satisfaction. However, not every woman learns to enjoy penetration as much as other activities. The fact that many women have problems reaching vaginal orgasm is partly linked to inability to enjoy penetration. However, every woman can certainly derive pleasure from penetration and experience one of the most powerful physical sensations. 1. Make sure you are fully aroused Some women claim that they do not enjoy vaginal penetration simply because they are penetrated at the wrong time, which means they didn't become aroused enough. Sexual arousal is not mechanical for many women and doesn't come to a number of hot spots to pamper. If you feel that your partner's actions doesn't bring you to the necessary excite...
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Little things that shatter the love ship
2007-08-03 18:11:00
You may not even had an idea that sweet couple you always thought of as most peaceful would break up. Relationships do not end suddenly, the misunderstandings grow and one day you find yourself bitter and disappointed in the end. But if you simply think over the things that could possibly lead to coldness in your relationship, you will notice that things that make a bad day for your partner are minor ones and you could well do without them.First thing that is destructive to a relationship is the urge to make you partner perfect for you. Now that you both have grown up with all the habits and small whims and kind of order you both felt comfortable, you think that yours is right and other's is wrong. Another person doesn't fit the world you are used to live for many years. Very often we truly believe that we can change the person and make him "better". But each of you find it hard to accept the fact that your partner is just different. What should you do? Just understand that in ...
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If love is not around, is sex enough?
2007-07-12 18:11:00
Who wouldn't want to have healthy fulfilling relationships with a soul mate? However, not all of us are going to meet love and sex in one person. What should you do if you are starving for sex and your better half is still not there by your side? Should you buy a vibrator or sex doll or find a nice companion to spend lonely nights? I remember watching a video where a man lived with a love doll as if it was a real woman. Wasn't that a good example of our urge for closeness ? Pure sexual release doesn't bring satisfaction. You cannot buy warm touch or sweet kiss. People deal with lack of relationships differently. Some are content with more or less satisfying sexual relationships and ignore the emotional side. And what about a person who has quite high sexual drive but doesn't agree for a fling or two. There are people who are content with not having sexual relationships if they don't love their partner. Others think of sex as a pure biological function just the same as eating t...
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Woman on top: how to ride a man
2007-07-09 18:11:00
Woman on top sex position can be not only very gratifying for a woman but also one of the most favorite guy's position. The reason is simple: being the receiver in the process of lovemaking, he can simply enjoy the ride while watching the beautiful curves of female body. However, being on top doesn't only mean you sit there and move. In order to derive most pleasure from top sex position, woman and men need to find the best comfortable and enjoyable angle to move.There are a lot of variations to woman on top sex position. You can choose some of them:Man lies on his back, woman leans forward towards man's face, resting on her hands.Man lies on his back, woman faces away from man.Man is sitting with his legs wide open, woman embraces him sitting on top and facing him.Man is sitting, woman is sitting on him facing away.Man lies on his back, woman is lying on him with her legs along his body.Man is sitting with his legs wide open, woman lies on her back ,facing the man, resting on h...
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What place is sex in your relationship?
2007-06-29 18:11:00
Defining the importance of sex in a relationship can be actually an answer to its durability. Usually, when a relationship starts with passion, when two people are attracted to each other almost immediately, the physical side come to the fore leaving all the other aspects asides. However, when none of the partners have found things in common and sex fades away with the time, the relationship dies. That is not the rule, there are a lot of cases when people get to know each other after the fever pitch is over. But this example shows the actual place we give to sexual relationships. Another case is when both partners have different values regarding their relationships. For example, sex is very important for a man, while his girlfriend or wife is less interested in sexual relationships giving the preference over emotional side. The difference can become crucial in shattering this relationships, thus making them more fragile and more liable to conflicts. For a partner who gives number on...
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Female ejaculation
2007-06-22 18:11:00
Women seem to overrun men in many things and if earlier such thing as ejaculation was associated with men's power, nowadays women can squirt during orgasm. Although the nature of this phenomenon is mainly a subject of many disputes, many scientists still insist on the existence of the female ejaculation. As far as it is known vaginal fluid that woman produces during orgasm is a result of G-spot stimulation. As well as G-spot, both issues seem to be mysterious, beginning with the very location of the G-spot till the existence of female ejaculation. First experts thought that fluid released in women is merely urine that resulted from the pressure on the bladder. However, tests showed that composition of this "juice" had nothing to do with urine. Many women on hearing about ejaculation and encouraged by their partners became highly interested in the ways they can achieve this ejaculation.So can a woman ejaculate? It is known that stimulation of a G-spot is one of the shortest ways to ...
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Female ejaculation
2007-06-22 18:11:00
Women seem to overrun men in many things and if earlier such thing as ejaculation was associated with men's power, nowadays women can squirt during orgasm. Although the nature of this phenomenon is mainly a subject of many disputes, many scientists still insist on the existence of the female ejaculation. As far as it is known vaginal fluid that woman produces during orgasm is a result of G-spot stimulation. As well as G-spot, both issues seem to be mysterious, beginning with the very location of the G-spot till the existence of female ejaculation. First experts thought that fluid released in women is merely urine that resulted from the pressure on the bladder. However, tests showed that composition of this "juice" had nothing to do with urine. Many women on hearing about ejaculation and encouraged by their partners became highly interested in the ways they can achieve this ejaculation.So can a woman ejaculate?It is known that stimulation of a G-spot is one of the shortest ways to a...
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Selfish lover – what to do
2007-06-12 18:11:00
Having a partner who enjoys sexual pleasure but doesn't want to give as much attention to your sexual needs is a major problem in the relationships. When the courtship is over, many couples face the situation where one of the partners is more demanding and receiving while the other "pleases" him or her. If such relationships are consensual – it's most likely that both will live happily ever after and enjoy the togetherness till the old age. But in case when the other partner feels dissatisfied with the situation, the problems are likely to appear sooner or later.What should you do if you feel that you lover skips the foreplay too often or is thinking about his or her pleasure in the first place? 1.Be open and honest No need to say that lovers that are used to communicate all their difficulties have less problems than those who prefer to keep silence out of fear to hurt his or her feelings. In fact, there is no such a thing as perfectly fit lovers – we learn to adjust our needs to...
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Selfish lover Â– what to do
2007-06-12 18:11:00
Having a partner who enjoys sexual pleasure but doesn't want to give as much attention to your sexual needs is a major problem in the relationships. When the courtship is over, many couples face the situation where one of the partners is more demanding and receiving while the other "pleases" him or her. If such relationships are consensual Ã¢Â€Â“ it's most likely that both will live happily ever after and enjoy the togetherness till the old age. But in case when the other partner feels dissatisfied with the situation, the problems are likely to appear sooner or later.What should you do if you feel that you lover skips the foreplay too often or is thinking about his or her pleasure in the first place? 1.Be open and honest No need to say that lovers that are used to communicate all their difficulties have less problems than those who prefer to keep silence out of fear to hurt his or her feelings. In fact, there is no such a thing as perfectly fit lovers Ã¢Â€Â“ we learn to adjust ou...
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Love your partner like a stranger
2007-05-28 18:11:00
The best way to revive the romance in long-term relationships is to look at your partner as if you are on a first date.University of British Columbia psychology conducted a research were couples had to pretend they never met before.In the experiment, 31 couples were interacting with a stranger of the opposite sex and later were asked to act with their partners as though they were talking to stranger. As a result of the "strangers meeting" between the partners, they felt elated and their sense of well-being increased.Investigator Elizabeth Dunn, an assistant professor at the UBC Department of Psychology says that our behavior with strangers is different because we try to make them like us, showing our better side. Researches suggested that when we interact with people we know quite good, we can let ourselves act unpleasantly.This study proves that we always suspected: we try hard to create a good impression at the initial stage of a relationship and as the relationship grows we ofte...
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What's your sex position?
2007-05-15 18:11:00
There were written dozens of sex position guides including well known Kamasutra to enjoy sexobatics and make partners merge in ecstasy. Most sexologists advise on a better position for mutual satisfaction however many partners still stick to one or two positions, which is not due to the fact that certain position brings in the most satisfaction. In most cases a woman or a man doesn't want to try a position he or she feels awkward, uneasy and hilarious. Actually, every sex position has it's own interpretation and many partners disagree on this issue because they look at sex positions from their own point of view. Man on top Missionary position is one of the most common sex positions where a man lies face to face with a woman. Some ancient savages were surprised to see missionary position as the most common way they “did it” was from the rear entry. Posi tive view For some women missionary position implies certain security where man's body almost protects a woman. Besides this ...
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Sex is the best way to make up
2007-04-20 18:11:00
It starts all of a sudden and no one know who was the first to blow. Insulting remarks and furious faces lead you far from the initial topic of your discussion. Are you in the mood to kiss? Ouch. And what about having sex? Many men would do it eagerly, while women are more reluctant to have any sexual contact with their partner. This lies in the gender differences: men are used to see sex more detached from emotional side, while for a woman it's often two of a kind things. She cannot even imagine how can you touch her at such a stressful moment. This approach is mistaken. In fact, research published by Psychosomatic Medicine suggested that sex is the best stress reliever as sexual contact increase the oxytocin hormone released after orgasm makes you more friendly. This means only one: you had a fight-have sex and all your misunderstandings disappear. However strange it may seem, sex is really a good way to make up, but only if you had a minor “fight”. The thing is that after ...
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Monogamous sex: natural or imposed?
2007-03-27 18:11:00
You will hardly find an advice that one-night stand is good thing to do, while most people would approve that sex in a long-term relationships is an ideal to strive for. Actually a lot of facts say against casual sex to imply health risks or emotional dissatisfaction, while not mentioning that sex with same partner may as well become a harm for today's reality. Nowadays, we are basically not pressured to have sex after marriage neither does our sex life limited to traditional way of lovemaking. What we are really faced with is the freedom to have pleasure in all its forms. However monogamy works for marriage, i.e. creating a nice-family image, but it shadows a great deal of problems. In fact, sex is getting less friendly with the couples when they are left to satisfy each others needs in the long run. Routine and other responsibilities will sooner or later dominate the initial spur of hot emotions at an early stage of the relationships. Easy access and familiarity make physica...
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Neo-swingers: the truth behind the curtain
2007-03-06 02:01:05
Things has changed considerably since the beginning of swinger's era. The air of romance and whole philosophy of swinging with strict rules are no more on the top priority for most people involved in this lifestyle. In fact, if you are not aware of all the peculiarities of swingers' principles , you may think it's just a lusty activities some perverts wish to engage, but every devoted swinger would probably say that they do it to experience a new form of sexual relationships. Others will say that divorce rate is much lower and adultery is twice as little met among swinger couples than those who have more traditional outlook on intimate matters. All this could be particularly true if not some transformations over recent years of swinging lifestyle. New swingers ads Adult swinger websites are now abundant in ads where "single guys are looking for singles girls to attend parties with". These are individuals who have no partner, but who nevertheless want to get in a swinge...
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Thorny way to orgasm
2007-03-05 14:00:02
The most of information you can find out about female orgasm will surely refer to the elusiveness and difficulty to reach it conventionally. It is suggested that orgasm is a kind of "work" and sometimes it really is. The question is who should be working on this? The role of the conqueror is usually reserved by men, which is not actually right. Everyone knows women sexual responsiveness is a complicated thing, though not everyone realizes that we are responsible for getting what we want. That is very often neglected by women. Of course we cannot underestimate the role of caring and considerate lover, but the first thing any woman should take into account is that however experienced partner he is –"telepathy" is a rare occurrence among men and "guess how" game is indeed a difficult task for a man who is mostly straightforward and simple in his intentions. A true desire to reach the big O is inseparably linked to wish to help your partner in your body exploration. Unfortunatel...
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Age gap: pro or contra sex
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Does age matter? In terms of personal relationships numerous researches show that the optimal age difference between partners is the less the better. Men should choose younger women with no more than 5 years gap to make up a good match. But in reality we come across a wide variety of exceptions, where age difference is more than "average" and thus a lot of disputes occur in this regard. If we talk about committed relationships, a big deal here is about one partner being more experienced than the other. And while in a "man older than woman" situation age difference is quite acceptable because men are supposed to be wiser, more reasonable and all in all guide a weaker sex in their life, in situation when a woman has an age priority over a man things are not that simple. If talking about relationships with a woman being older than man it may seem rather an unfavorable perspective for a couple. But just having the peculiarities of female and male sexuality, this age gap is working q...
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Coming together
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Since you have an intense sexual life you may have tried dozens of way to please your partner. But it can hardly compare with the idea to experience a storming togetherness with your lover. Not so long ago everyone talked about simultaneous orgasm if not as the only and ultimate sign of sexual satisfaction but at least as the usual consequence of intimate relationships. I wouldn't deny that coming together can be a very appealing idea but its fulfillment has a dream-like nature (which means you can dream about it but you shouldn't expect it to come true). I don't mean to become so pessimistic about simultaneous orgasm, and I cannot speak of everyone but achieving total mutuality is kind of hard mission for all orgasm-enthusiasts. The fact that dozens of women take pains to experience something close to "casual" orgasm, such a daunting task is too much of a good thing. The basic principle of all the techniques to come together is the coherence of your actions (movements) and in...
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Jealousy - love's enemy
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Is jealousy natural in a relationship? Few people will claim that they never faced a green-eyed monster. Nevertheless a lot of people consider jealousy a sign of love. But these are probably not those who suffer from this feeling on a daily basis. What is jealousy? Basically, jealousy deals with possessiveness, uncertainty and fear, which altogether makes a person experiencing these feelings quite unhappy. Some people give expression to jealousy, pursuing their lovers with accusations and turning their lover's life into hell. But even more difficult situation is when a person who is jealous keeps his or her feeling hidden and letting the torture reside inside. In this case, jealousy is even more dangerous cause it doesn't have any way-out. Is there any way you can cope with this feeling? The only possible way I see is the realization core of it. And first of all fight with the essence of the matter, not with its expression, because a person ca be angry on the outside but may ...
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Rules of attraction
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Being quite unprejudiced to opposite sex's looks, I still won't deny that appearance has certain value in choosing a mate. Though, good looks is not a last word in making us guide towards bedroom ecstasy, I realize there is certainly something that catches my eyes, makes my hands wet and urge me to forget all the common sense. Very often men ask me about how looks matter and I assure them that character is all important, yet I'd feel that myself not really sincere. But what I also observed was a strange coincidence- usually when something disguised me in appearance it later resulted in same disappointment about person's personality. For example, you meet with a man and he is not that good-looking and you say to yourself: "hey, looks are not all important - you will get to know him- may be he is a good person" and you close your eyes to these small drawbacks and lie to yourself that we are all not perfect. Keeping in mind how did it ended up with that handsome jerk, you persua...
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Do we need to get closer?
2007-03-05 14:00:02
The incompatibility of men and women's desires are well seen in how do we understand the meaning of intimacy. It seems that what a woman need for good sexual relationships comes in conflict with what man want or to be more precise what he finds superfluous. No wonder sometimes partners often end up at different sides of the couch. The thing is that in woman's mind sex and feelings are related where the closer a man – the easier her sexual desires show themselves. For a woman, emotional and physical sides are closely complimentary, where one thing proceeds from the other. The better you get to know the significant other – the more you want to get intimate physically. It is important for her to feel that man understands her which usually triggers a wish to pass on to physical unity. Such an urge meets with an amazed face of her lover who in its turn wishes a mysterious woman that will be like an eternal secret to him. Once a woman becomes an open book for a man his desires are le...
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Kamasutra for small penis
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Start every single sexual act of yours with a kind of meditation. Just to relax and concentrate on the thoughts like: "My penis is not small. My penis is perfect. Women adore my penis." And then feel your penis getting bigger. Take a look down there... Are there any changes? Ok, now let's get to the practice. Make her be ready Kamasutra position: Face to face You look in her eyes and undress her slowly. Remember that man's power is in his hands. Use your hands to stroke her body, caressing every inch of it, saying: “Wow, it feels so good (awesome, fantastic etc)”(you may of course engage your imagination to invent something more unique). Watch your penis lifting up. Kamasutra position: Hands to clitoris Move your hands to the center of woman's pleasure...yes, down there. Clitoris is your best friend. Gently glide your fingers around this love bud. When you are not sure you are doing it right – take her hand to help you in this job. Kamasutra position: Face to clitoris Now...
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Talk to her basic instinct
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Does every other girl you like meet a bad guy, who in the end turns out to be three times worse than you are? When trying to impress a girl, men often turn her away by a slight word. A woman falls in love through her ears - it's true. But it's not like you can speak nonsense for hours - it very important to know what to say. In fact all he has to do is not talk to her, but to her basic instinct. What do you say wrong and how to make a situation work for you? Wrong: Every time I watch Titanic I feel tears falling down my cheeks. Her instincts say: How am I going to survive with this sentimental specimen? He'll faint when he finds out I shave my legs? Right: Well, I am not used to cry, but once ...no I won't talk about it again. Her instincts say: He is so emotional but so strong to hold his feelings under control. Like a real man who is able to understand me when I need it and I know he will stay cold-blooded if i am in danger. Wrong: I am not ready for serious relationships(...
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Men hate it
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Do you know what the worst men dream is? A corpse bride- woman who is simply lying down during sex, uttering no sounds, showing no sign of pleasure or any slightest reaction. In fact, that's the type of woman any man would willingly avoid and pretend he had never met. Some men I've talked about would tell about their feelings in the following way: "I feel as though I am raping and torturing her. She won't even move. If I ask her:"Do you like it? She would nod, but the expression on her face would be best described as "nothing"." "It makes my desire gradually fade away. I am frustrated and confused – is she sleeping or waiting for the play (if I can call it a play) to come to an end?" Can I add more to this? Sleeping beauty is attractive only in fairy tales. In real life women who don't react to their partner either physically or emotionally are ultimately much more unappealing than a woman who is not so attractive but passionate. The thing is that any man is searching for...
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Safe rape - an ultimate woman's dream
2007-03-05 14:00:02
One of the most negative things sex can associate with is rape. No one denies that pleasure and sexual assault don't make a pair... with a rare exception. A lot of women claim to desire for a "safe rape" as one of the most arousing experience. So what is "safe rape"? To tell it more precisely, I would name it an intercourse spiced up with elements of brute force. The usual scenery takes place between well-known partners or an attractive stranger who is "tough but somewhat patronizing" and who is absolutely confident of his actions, the more so he never doubts his abilities or so called success of the most passionate night you both are going tr have. A woman will certainly resists his charms first but soon gives in to his vigor to experience divine pleasure of capitulation. Due to all this a session, where man enforces woman to have sex, takes her without any condition or objections becomes so appealing to many women. Anticipating the possible disapproval, I can say that no woma...
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