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Do you have a sex appeal?
2007-03-05 14:00:02
How often do you hear: he or she has a sex appeal. So what it's all about? I thought a lot about that very "something" that actually attract us to a person sexually. And I come to a conclusion this is not connected with looks, like height, weight, pretty face or chic appearance. In fact, specification of sex appeal is far beyond the outward image. It's something that goes obscurely from the personality we have. In the age were beauty and style rush gains its power, we sometimes loose the sense of what the real attractiveness and sexiness is. We watch over dozens of celebrities, read fashion magazines and take pains in order to make this acquired external look work on us. But in this race for ideal we actually loose that special-self. That's probably refers to women mostly, as they tend to put a lot of efforts on useless things and seem to go even far from the real goal. If talking about the opposite sex, sex appeal in men definitely has little to do with looks. So what makes...
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Men's sex victories
2007-03-05 14:00:02
I have to say that very often men try to boast of their sex victories to attract women's attention, which in fact is quite irritating. Yes, confident and masculine are in favor to "weaker sex" but who said that praising yourself is a good way to show your best traits? In fact, the more you blow your own trumpet, the more I see it as a weak point. Probably it's a social pressure that makes it possible to see sex victories as an essential part of masculinity approval, but in most cases men and women notions of good seduction tactics do not gee. Of course, no one will argue that an experienced man is more appealing to most women, but quantity doesn't always equal quality. And if for early adolescence such a macho can make a slight excitement stir, it won't work for a woman at the height of her sexuality. Sad to say, bad boys are still in charge and while personally I've fallen for them many times, I have to admit the excitement dispels very fast. If you want to follow the reputa...
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Differences in sexual desires
2007-03-05 14:00:02
For many couples, the problem of sexual desires imbalance sometimes is the acutest issue. When sexual urges of both partners don't meet, feeling of resentment and dissatisfaction is likely to result. On the one hand, it seems pretty natural when one is more initiative and the other one more receptive in sex, but that is not often the case. The problem often is more critical for a partner who has bigger appetite for erotic pleasures. And contrary to common misbelieve; low desire partner is not often a woman, but rather a man. In this case, woman finds it much difficult to beg for sex. What can be done in the situation when computer and work become man's best friends? That is so common question to hear from "happy-married" wives. Unfortunately, for such a situation when the initial excitement disappears, we tend to feel settled and comfortable even to an extreme degree. The core of the matter often lies in seeing sex as a routine, an old habit where it eclipses fun and pleasur...
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Man-woman friendship
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Do you have friends of the opposite sex? I consider myself quite a broad-minded person, who is open to build relationships that are not all about sex, but none of the friendships with the opposite sex survived long enough. What's the matter? I think that any relationships that involve individuals of the opposite sex always have an air of "that thing". You cannot deny it. Like flirt is the same "light erotic turn-on" towards the object of your interest, friendship is a kind of latent sex attraction that one day will just find its way out. The only exception I see is in a situation where your friend has homosexual orientation. Just think when we say this phrase: "Can we just be friends?" Right, when we know there is no chance for any sexual relationships with that person. No one actually expects to keep a friendship alive, as that is a best excuse not to hurt someone's feelings. As for the friendship itself, it's hard to say there is nothing going on between two of you, when yo...
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Intellectualized sex
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Though sex is basically an animal instinct which hasn't undergone considerable changes through evolution, we hardly can tell that we will consent to satisfying our sexual urges in a simple and easy way. In fact, all we do during sexual activity is much the same our dumb animals do. Yes, multiple researches show that we still "smell out" the potential lover and choose each other instinctively according to a level of hormones. However, you won't beat that the excitement of pure physical thing is very temporal without intellectualizing element. What I want to say is that we derive pleasure not from the intercourse alone but rather from things that are not physical by nature. For me, an intellectualized sex is the only one which has a chance for longevity. What can turn us on more than words of affection or a flirty game? Or why does a role-playing is so attractive? Intel lectualizing sex doesn't mean to solve complicated math's problems before you have an intercourse (though why no...
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Quickie: woman's view
2007-03-05 14:00:02
While reading various sex guides, I found that many sex experts are advising on prolonging sexual pleasure and lingering on sexual act as much as possible. I won't argue with this recommendation, as there is a deal of truth in it. Having primitive sex act on a regular basis is indeed harmful to any relationship, but as with any other instruction there is always BUT... On the other side, I will not be enthusiastic about a long-drawn foreplay or an intercourse that resembles me a gold mining process. Just stop guys, don't make it a hard job and neither do we need it. Sex should be taken easier than most of us are used to see it. If you don't feel like having a long romantic evening, just skip it. No one is willing to take sacrifices. Women do appreciate quickies, but this should be an artful quickie, not a primitive one. Many men misinterpret the meaning of a quick sex, considering it as a wham bam thank-you ye -ma'am. I am sure woman is able to have an orgasm from a quickie w...
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Sex banned by love
2007-03-05 14:00:02
I always wondered some men's logic according to which a woman he is in love with is a kind of untouchable in terms of any sexual relationships with her. The usual reasoning sounds as follows: I love her, I respect her, that's why I don't want to have that dirty thing with her. To most women it will sound at least illogical or to say more, quite strange. And here probably where gender differences are outlined to the most.In fact to most women the longer relationships and intimacy with a partner, the more fulfilling and exciting sex is. Unlike "the weaker gender" men seem to dissociate both into two opposites. Just ask any man of his ideal woman, and you will get the answer: "It depends on my intentions. If she is to be a life companion, I'd prefer a nice girl and if I need to spent a night or two and have real fun I'd choose a hot horny chick." Where does this prejudice come from? Always considered sex to be a pleasant part of loving relationships where it certainly benefits ...
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Women's fear of penis
2007-03-05 14:00:02
A well-known psychoanalyst Freud has described: women have a kind of penis envy, persuading women are so much impressed by men's inborn possession of the manhood that can almost faint in presence of it. Indeed the oldest prejudice that women simply jump out of their pants to see what penis size their partner has remains topical. But it seems to me that this myth survives only within males circle. In fact, most women I am acquainted with are likely to have more of a fear feeling than admiration. Some men are also so excited at the idea that they deliberately demonstrate their penis and expect you to be ravished by its looks. But let's think...most women are brought up in fear of male genitals, being threatened that it can hurt and thus have no trust towards it. To say more, a lot of "happy married" wives are still unaware what does this organ looks like. To most women "penis" is a kind of unknown creature which has quite unpredictable behavior, and seems to act separately from it...
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Will working out improve your sex life?
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Visiting a nearby gym on a daily basis may seem a really good idea if you want to improve your shape. You are supposed become more energetic and fit that will benefit your sex life. But can you say it for sure that putting all your energy in working-out is going to make a change in intimate matters? Great body image- more sex? In fact, we need to clear out the true reasons for choosing to spend a pastime on fitness with "improving your sex" in mind. Many women and men go in for sports thinking that it will help them have more success among the opposite sex thus increasing their chances of maintaining good sexual relationships. Their work-out interest results from dissatisfaction with their own body shape ("too fat, too skinny-and thus less sexually attractive"). This may really have sense, but for one detail. Sex appeal has not so much to do with the pure body image but more with the way you present yourself. When you don't feel yourself as sexy, others hardly believe you ar...
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Does she want you?
2007-03-05 14:00:02
Very often I hear that men are concerned with women's complexity and are puzzled to address a her with a sexually-explicit proposal so that not to be dumped right on the spot. While men's readiness to have sex with any woman under favorable circumstances is quite accepted the burden of public eye doesn't encourage a woman to say "yes" just as simple. In fact according to one related joke: If you hear woman's "no" it means "try again" If you hear woman's "I don't know" it means "yes" If you hear woman's "yes" it means "may be" If you hear woman's "may be" it means "no" However funny it may sound this is mostly true with minor reservations, intonation of the answer matters as well. I hate to say it, but the "sophistication" of these phrases take place insofar men make a classification of women on "nice" and "naughty" polarity, where woman's "yes" may automatically spoil her image. To anticipate men's disgust of such perplexed answers I can say that we need some kind of...
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