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How to Return your Libido
2008-12-12 06:41:00
Those who think that sex is all about penetration and foreplay serves as a starter may soon find sex not so amazing as it was at the beginning. For couples who start feeling that their sex life became a little more predictable, the best tip would be to put the intercourse aside and indulge in sensual pleasure. Let the arousal build up If lovemaking had turned into routine for you, you know what is going to happen the next day in your bedroom, it is high time to have a break and let both of you feel some starvation for each other. Abstain from intercourse for some time and let your desires accumulate enough. Of course, there is no need to do it if you cannot handle the abstinence, but it may sound quite reasonable if you want your sparkles back in your bedroom. Use your senses There is indeed no need to make every sexual encounter end up with intercourse. Prolong your and your partner's pleasure, simply enjoying a sensual night. Stroke each other, give each other a whole body mass...
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Multiple partners vs. one partner
2008-05-03 18:11:00
Sexologists say that most women and men lie about their previous sexual experiences, underestimating (for women) or overestimating (for men) the number of sex partners. Making the secret of your past can be quite understandable as people tend to make certain conclusions based on sexual behavior. But why men tend to boast about the multiple partners they had and women try to hide the real number of partners?Indeed, does number of partners tell about your skillfulness in bed? Most probably not. Most experts agree that most satisfying sex is among long-term partners. There are several reasons for that:Frequency of sex Couples that live together, have higher frequency of sex, that benefits both partners, keep them fit and more confident. However, there is always a possibility that regular sex may turn into monotonous sex when sexual excitement fades with the time. But if both partners are willing to do some changes in their repertoire, their experience becomes really precious.For those ...
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Sex in the water
2008-04-28 18:11:00
Sex in the water is often a way to beat the bedroom boredom and add some spice into sex life. However, not all the water adventures end up in sexual bliss for couples. Sex in the bath can be tricky enough and you should be prepared to face certain discomfort.Stay wetFirst of all, in spite of the fact that you won't have lack of moisture in the bathroom, your body will be dry in the most intimate zones. In fact, water washes away all the natural lubrication, making penetration less comfortable. The gentle tissue of the vagina can become irritated and together with other chemicals like bubble bath, soap and oils it may cause some irritation and make you more susceptible to thrush.So if you want to stay lubricated during water fun, it is better to use some lubricant that is not water-soluble like silicone lubricant.Make it a safe placeBath tube can be not suitable for sex fun as the surface is quite slippery to perform water sex just like the movies show it. Make sure you have some su...
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What if his libido disappeared?
2008-04-22 17:11:00
Low sex drive is rarely associated with men, however more women are reporting about their husband's lack of interest in sex. Why does your man refuse to have sex and what can be done in this situation?Usually, sex problems in men are usually related to their partner's lower sex drive when he wants more than he gets. If the situation becomes quite the opposite and a woman is the one to beg for sex, this seems like a warning sign. In fact, loss of libido in men is very common. One of the reasons for that may lie in the changes that occurred over the next years. Today a man is feeling the same increased pressure as women, who are not only aimed at career building but also need to be good dads and husbands. Isn't this surprising that the increased burden often leads to sexual fluctuations?Another reason is the common misconception that men always want and are ready to have sex and only women are inclined to mood swings that affect their sex lives. But men just like women also feel st...

Using fingers to please her
2008-04-14 17:11:00
Stimulating your woman's private parts can become the most intimate and amazing experience for both of you. However, using your fingers to please women can be quite a difficult task, especially if you do not have enough practice.Treat her clitoris gentlyProbably the most common mistake men do when stimulating women's clitoris with their fingers is when they imitate their penis stimulation. When it comes to her clitoris, any harsh stimulation can spoil her pleasure. First of all, explore her genitals, finding her clitoris, her labia and the opening of vagina. Do not start right with clitoral stimulation, give her some time to build up the arousal. Besides, rubbing her in the wrong place can be quite annoying and ineffective. Run the tips of your fingers over her inner thighs, play with her pubic hair, gently touch her labia to make her anticipate pleasure. Tease her until she will hint you by spreading her legs wider or pushing her thighs forward.Avoid monotony There is no need to...
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Sex in public places
2008-04-12 17:11:00
Having sex in public places is a very common fantasy of men and women. The most adventurous couples are ready to engage in a thrilling fling in a restaurant bathroom, a backseat of the car, on the desk in the office and other places where sex becomes a forbidden fruit.Why sex seems so much exciting in public places? Most of your friends who have done it in public places would probably say that routine in sexual relationships urged them to seek for out-of-the-bedroom scenery. Others would say that the only thought of getting caught adds a lot of fresh sensations they lacked. If you are one of those people who find it extremely arousing to have sex in public places, then you might need some recommendations.Choose the right placeCommon places where men and women have sex are: parks, public bathrooms, plane bathroom, movie theaters, cars, woods and fields, elevators, office, department store restroom, swimming pool, balcony, roof, telephone booth and others. Before you decide to have se...
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How to become sexually attractive
2008-04-03 17:11:00
Think sexySexual appeal comes from our minds even more than our body. If you dress in the sexiest lingerie, but are ashamed of showing your body and are constantly worrying about your partner's reaction - you won't be enjoying the pleasures of sex. If you are used to think that having sex is bad or practicing some forms of sex is embarrassing then your message to your body would be the same.Start with positive thinking about your body and sex as a great part of your relationships that brings you pleasure and makes you closer with your partner.Learn your bodyDo not expect your partner to know everything about pleasing you. Your body is individual and so are your reactions. Have enough time to explore your genitals; clitoris, labia and vagina. It is known that women, who masturbate, have better chances to experience orgasm. Spend some time alone to know what gives you the most pleasure and how would you want your partner to stimulate you.Many women require a lot of time before they ...
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Men's Greatest Sex Fears
2008-03-26 16:11:00
He may look confident and invincible, still having feeling quite nervous in bed, which can make your sex life less pleasant. What are the most common things men are afraid of in bed?Performance anxietyThe fear of not being able to perform well in bed can make him avoid sexual intimacy and bring some tension in your relationships. This is especially true, if he had an embarrassing situation in the past. Once being a subject of mocking he may no longer want to initiate sex with someone else.If you think that your partner might suffer from performance anxiety, the most important thing is to be careful and not to push things. Show him that you value him as a person and try to create a relaxing atmosphere having fun and playing some roles. Be the one to initiate sex and lead the game.Fear of being compared to another manThere is no need to say that your man wants to be the only one and any comparison to someone else makes him feel insecure. If you mention about your ex and your previous...
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How to Overcome Shyness in Bed
2008-03-25 16:11:00
For many men and women the joys of pleasure are overshadowed by fear and anxiety about their sexual performance. There are a lot of different reasons that do not make us feel at ease when we are with our partner. Usually it is a more complex problem, connected with self-image, previous experience or some discomfort you feel with your partner. Shyness and Body ImageDo you consider making love in the dark only? Many men and especially women feel embarrassed to get naked in front of their partner. Negative body image is what can make your sex life less enjoyable. You may think that your body is not as beautiful as those seen in magazines and movies and as a result compare yourself with some ideal. This is a serious obstacle to a better sex life when partners share intimacy and have to be open to each other.First step to overcome your shyness connected with negative body image is to change the way you think about your body. You should understand that there are women of all sizes and sh...
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Most Common Myths about Infidelity
2008-03-20 16:11:00
Happy couples do not cheatMost people believe that if a man cheats on his wife he is living in an unhappy marriage. This often implies that a woman is mostly responsible for her husband's unhappiness, being the reason why her man cheats. However, many psychologists say that many partners who have wonderful sex life and love each other nevertheless do not refuse to have an extramarital affair. Interesting enough, more than a 50 percent of men often claim about living in a happy marriage.If you have an extramarital affair that means that you don't love your partnerAnother common misconception about infidelity is that you might think that the only fact that your partner loves you will save your marriage from extramarital affair. In fact, It's more about your partner's value system and his or her character. If your partner is used to lie in other areas of life, you cannot be sure that he won't hide something from you in intimate relationships.Some people, in spite of living in an u...
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How to hint your partner to do better in bed
2008-03-13 16:11:00
Silence is a an enemy of every sexual relationships, but what if your partner is not doing it right for you in bed and you don't want to hurt his/her feelings. Does it mean that you should tell your partner about your dissatisfaction or better keep it a secret? I would say that it's better to open up than let your relationships die. Your partner won't know what you dislike, unless you tell about it, but what is really important - how you tell this. Give your partner the initiativeDo you feel like you are the only one who is making all the efforts in bed? If your partner is completely unresponsive and doesn't want to give you a feedback, this can be a right time to change the situation.First of all if you notice that your partner is motionless and tense, ask her or him what bothers him/her and what are your partner's thoughts and feelings. If he/she is worried about something talk about it. If your partner is nothing but relaxed and unwilling to reciprocate, you may focus her/hi...
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Faking orgasm
2008-03-13 16:11:00
We all know that faking orgasm is like lying to your partner, and what are the consequences of such a lie?Many women would secretly confess that they faked an orgasm at least once in their lives. In most cases they would say that they did it to boost their partner's self-esteem. One hand they feel sexier, claiming to reach the peak of pleasure, on the other hand they try to ensure their partner's efforts were not useless. And while some acting can be good enough to keep your romance look good at the surface, the lies and other problems may sooner or later appear as a result of faking orgasm.The most common problem that one can face when faking orgasm is making your sex life more and more dissatisfied. First of all your partner won't learn what feels good to you and how he can improve the situation. Instead, he will be pleasing you in the wrong way, being convinced of his excellent performance. Without knowing your real feelings, he won't be able to make you feel better.Doesn't ...

Get in Touch with Your Senses
2008-02-14 17:11:00
One of the common complains for long-term couples is connected to the lack of passion and slowly diminishing sensations with the time. If you want to improve your sexual relationships and bring in more sensuality in your sex life your primary aim is to learn focusing on your sensations. This may help if you are worried about your performance or gone off sex for some period. First step is aimed to focus on your sensations and make them more intense. Do it in a form of an exercise. Decide who will be the active partner or set the rule of switching the parts. Settle in a warm comfortable atmosphere and make sure you are alone with your partner so that nothing can interrupt you. You may dim the lights and use a soft background music. You may also leave some clothes on or start with being completely naked. Now you will need to relax, while your partner will be touching you , avoiding genitals and breasts areas. You should focus on your sensations, when your partner runs his hands over y...
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She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore
2008-02-08 17:11:00
Times when you couldn't take your hands off each other are long gone and she may no longer urge for sex as she used to. This situation is quite common for couples after the initial stage of sexual madness is over. Is it a normal situation for a woman to want less sex once she settles in stable relationships and what are the causes decreased sexual desire?Physical exhaustionOne of the common problems faced by young mothers or working women is that at the end of the day their sexual desire is totally diminished due to the abundance of day-to-day tasks, care about a new-born baby, work and other duties. Is it so surprising that a flame of love subsided under pressure of daily routine.What to doAsk her about her state - she may well confess you that tiredness made her desire disappear, which gives you a good opportunity to share your duties and leave at least some time for yourself only.Lack of excitementDo not blame the disappearing desire of your partner if your sex repertoire didn'...

She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore
2008-02-08 06:41:00
Times when you couldn't take your hands off each other are long gone and she may no longer urge for sex as she used to. This situation is quite common for couples after the initial stage of sexual madness is over. Is it a normal situation for a woman to want less ex once she settles in stable relationships and what are the causes decreased sexual desire?Physical exhaustionOne of the common problems faced by young mothers or working women is that at the end of the day their sexual desire is totally diminished due to the abundance of day-to-day tasks, care about a new-born baby, work and other duties. Is it so surprising that a flame of love subsided under pressure of daily routine. What to do Ask her about her state - she may well confess you that tiredness made her desire disappear, which gives you a good opportunity to share your duties and leave at least some time for yourself only.Lack of excitementDo not blame the disappearing desire of your partner if your sex repertoire didn...

Five Hot Spots to Reach Simultaneous Orgasm
2008-01-23 06:41:00
Simultaneous orgasm is what many couples dream to achieve, though many find it quite difficult due to different time required to men and women to reach the big O. It is possible for both partners to make the earth move at the same time if they both learn how to control your performance. Scrotum Pull down Scrotum is not only sensitive area but a good indicator of a man's readiness to ejaculate. As much as 75 percent of men ejaculate in two minutes after the beginning of the intercourse. Early ejaculation is the first obstacle for you to achieve simultaneous orgasm. One of the early signs of forthcoming ejaculation is when man's scrotum gets closer to he shaft of the penis. The little trick here is to pull down the scrotum a little bit to delay the ejaculation.Perineum Press Another spot that has a potential to delay the orgasm for a man is perineum located between the anus and scrotum. This helps to retain ejaculate and helps to prolong pleasure. Though be careful while pressing ...
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Five Hot Spots to Reach Simultaneous Orgasm
2008-01-23 06:41:00
Simultaneous orgasm is what many couples dream to achieve, though many find it quite difficult due to different time required to men and women to reach the big O. It is possible for both partners to make the earth move at the same time if they both learn how to control your performance. Scrotum - Pull down Scrotum is not only sensitive area but a good indicator of a man's readiness to ejaculate. As much as 75 percent of men ejaculate in two minutes after the beginning of the intercourse. Early ejaculation is the first obstacle for you to achieve simultaneous orgasm. One of the early signs of forthcoming ejaculation is when man's scrotum gets closer to he shaft of the penis. The little trick here is to pull down the scrotum a little bit to delay the ejaculation.Perineum - Press Another spot that has a potential to delay the orgasm for a man is perineum located between the anus and scrotum. This helps to retain ejaculate and helps to prolong pleasure. Though be careful while press...
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The Secret of a Better Sex Life
2008-01-14 06:41:00
ExperimentFill your sex life with colors and make it as varied as possible. Do not be afraid to try something new and go beyond the limits as long as both of you agree. There is no other way to know what is best for you than experimenting. Be curious about your partner's needs and help him or her discover their centers of pleasure. You may change the place, indulge in role-playing, try some new positions and fulfill your secret sex fantasies to keep things fresh and intriguing. Do not let your dissatisfaction growSexual relationships do not die one day. In most cases, sex problems, little misunderstandings and dissatisfaction grow with the time and finally these leads to total disagreement. All couples experience some difficulties and have their own vision of ideal sex life. The secret of couples who manage to have better sex life is the ability to discuss all the problems openly not hurting their partners. Many ticklish situations are inevitable and being honest about your needs ...
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How to Return your Libido
2007-12-12 06:41:00
Those who think that sex is all about penetration and foreplay serves as a starter may soon find sex not so amazing as it was at the beginning. For couples who start feeling that their sex life became a little more predictable, the best tip would be to put the intercourse aside and indulge in sensual pleasure. Let the arousal build up If lovemaking had turned into routine for you, you know what is going to happen the next day in your bedroom, it is high time to have a break and let both of you feel some starvation for each other. Abstain from intercourse for some time and let your desires accumulate enough. Of course, there is no need to do it if you cannot handle the abstinence, but it may sound quite reasonable if you want your sparkles back in your bedroom. Use your senses There is indeed no need to make every sexual encounter end up with intercourse. Prolong your and your partner's pleasure, simply enjoying a sensual night. Stroke each other, give each other a whole body mass...
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Foreplay for a Romantic Mood
2007-11-23 18:11:00
A good foreplay for a woman is half or even the most of pleasure she recalls from lovemaking. Basically, anything that proceeds to intercourse can be called a foreplay, which can be in a form of erotic massage, sensual talks, oral sex, role-playing. Are there any rules for good foreplay and how to learn the art of arousing your woman's sensual side? Kiss her sensually Long kisses will never be old-fashioned even if you settled yourself in long-term relationship. When did you last kissed her long, gentle and deep? What was your kiss like? Forget about "kiss-her-goodbye" style and give her the most sensual treat. Hold her in you hands as though protecting and linger on her lips. Feel the moist and softness while fluttering your tongue though her lips, savor them with your lips, slowly going inside her mouth. Your tongue should not act as an intruder but more like a seducer opening her to your desire step by step. Keep away from her main zones Slow down, guys, it is not the time...
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10 Foreplay Tricks She Will Like
2007-11-12 18:11:00
KissingGive her gentle kisses all over her body to find her sensitive spots. You may be surprised to discover new hidden zones on the back of her neck or inner thighs. Use your lips only while kissing, slowly gliding them along her skin waking her body with every touch of your lips.LickingYour tongue is a best tool when you explore her body. Skillful lovers know that tongue can be even more artful in bringing woman to orgasm. For warming up you can start from her neck and ears working down to her navel and belly, continuing your way up her back and buttocks. Keep it wet and your tongue flat and relaxed while fluttering along her body.TouchingHer skin is very receptive to touch so use your hands to awaken her body. Spontaneous moves are highly appreciated by ladies so do not ignore small signs of attention outside the bedroom. Place your hand on her knee or on her thighs when she is not expecting it. She will feel a nice tingle that will attune her for something more spicy.Massage...
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Lap Dance Guide
2007-11-08 18:11:00
If you want to make a real surprise to your lover, the best way to do so is to take him aback with a lap dance. Lap dance is an erotic dance that is usually performed when your partner is seated. The observer should keep to the rule of not touching you during a lap dance (which makes it extremely arousing) and you are trying to virtually seduce your lover with your performance. Though you might not be a professional, some basic techniques are easy to learn. How to startSet the mood The most important thing for performing lap dance is to feel sexy and attractive for your beloved one. If you start criticizing yourself, you simply cannot deliver the erotic message to your lover. Take off the clothes and look at yourself in the mirror - you should admire your own body. Keep in mind that he loves you in spite of all the minor imperfections. You can also do some rehearsal: close your eyes, sway your hips in tune with music, imagine yourself as a kitten to make your movements smoother. D...
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