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We Have To Talk...
2008-04-09 00:00:00
Hey man, I've been talking to a friend of mine who's literally the best guy I know for escalating from approaching to bed with a woman in a few hours. He's the guy who introduced "Natural Game" to the pickup community several years ago. He’s Vin DiCarlo, and you probably know about him from his mind blowing articles posted on our site: http://www.seductiontuition.com/vin-dicar lo/ You've probably seen guys who are successful with women using all Different kinds of methods.  There is a lot of material out there that deals with techniques, methods and inner game. Anyway, Vin has put all his best ideas into a new book called The Attraction Code and after reading the preview copy I can tell you its like NOTHING else out there.  Its is NOT Techniques, it is NOT a method and it is NOT Inner Game. He's only launching the book to a private list but because Vin's a friend of mine I was able to get access for you! ...
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Where Did This Bad Information Come From
2008-04-06 00:00:00
I was thinking the other day about men's perceptions about women, and how we "figured out" what it is they're looking for. I wondered how men could have been so misled regarding this subject, and just where did it come from? Well, think about it. There are only a few places you could have gotten this information: LISTENING TO GUYS Well, as guys, we like advice. We LOVE to give it, even when we don't know what the HELL we're talking about. Really. I remember being a kid and trying to shoot the crap with my friends about women. All guys have an inherent need to be a know-it-all, and that gets in our way of actually learning. Every guy has a story and seems to "know it" when it comes to women, don't they? I was in a car with a friend at Lake Tahoe a couple weeks back, and when he found out what I do for men with the ebooks and audio information he was fascinated. It wasn't as if h...
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Double Standard
2008-04-06 00:00:00
I was sent an "article" (I use quotes because the value of this information is in doubt) about men who "step out" on their women. Step out. You gotta love these old terms that journalists keep using because they evoke emotional pictures in your mind. The woman's question to this - (COUGH) - "advisor" was "I don't know why, but I keep attracting jerks." Now this advisor is a "VP of Romance" (Yeah, right) of a very popular online dating site. (And since we all know that men don't know anything about "romance," this advisor is a woman.) She proceeds to describe bad boys and why women are attracted to them, because they are "philanderers and con artists." Wow, strong words. Well, I cover this in my e-books, along with the breakdown of the "bad boy" and how you can use the good parts of his personality. Her use of the term...
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Validation
2008-04-04 00:00:00
Part of our needs as humans is to get validation along the way to assure us and make us feel approved of. We sought this validation and approval from our parents and peers when we were children, and we never really let go of that need when we had to "grow up." Limit the amount of approval you need from other people. You can't worry too much about what other people think about you. It's easy to go through life seeking approval and never really accomplish anything because you're trying to please everyone. You can't, and it's a belief that you must leave behind. (Willie Loman in "Death of a Salesman" fails to achieve for this same reason. He thinks it's better to be liked that to achieve worthwhile goals.) What this means for you in dating is that you need to be able to communicate, through subtle and not-so-subtle methods, that you do not need her approval. A woman will not feel attracted to a man if she feels she ha...
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Raise The Bar
2008-04-03 00:00:00
Why are you settling for average returns? Most guys are treating their dating life like a piss-poor investment. They go out and ogle the high-price stocks (the beautiful women) but they refuse to get in the game and summon the investment capital (dating skills.) (Maybe you're sick of the investment analogy, but I'm a great believer that analogies help you look at things in a different light. It's easy to get complacent when you think of women in the same old terms, but not so easy when you realize that you'd NEVER settle to get this kind of lame return on any other kind of investment of your money, time, or energy.) Stop settling for sub-standard performance. And I mean this for you and for her. You shouldn't let yourself accept that what you're getting right now is the best you can get in terms of return, and you certainly should look at where you can raise the bar for your own performance. How can you improve? ...

How To Get More By Asking More
2008-04-03 00:00:00
I want to introduce you to a unique concept that may finally change how you view your game with women. First, let's talk about your inner monologue, dude. One of the most powerful personal development methods you can use to alter the course of your life (your DESTINY, really) is through the use of QUESTIONS. Questions cut through and clarify the current state of affairs, and they help you see what may not have been visible before. However, they can only do this if you have the guts to answer them TRUTHFULLY. The man who lies to himself can never see the world clearly, and will then subject every bit of his reality to illusion - like looking at the world through distorted glass. In the short-term, he'll make himself feel 'better' about things by lying to himself, but in the long-term he'll just ensure his own failure. Success is fleeting when it's based on faulty understanding. Ask yourself a few questions to clarify...

Energy
2008-04-01 00:00:00
Some of you may be familiar with some Eastern school of thought on how energies are used in the human body. Chinese philosophies refer to it as Chi, and the energy itself can have both female and male (Yin and Yang) "flavors" to it. The way we use our energy is indicative of our personalities and personal inclinations. Whatever you choose to call it, I think we all agree that this energy is very real, even if we're not sure how to channel it. Now, don't worry, I'm not going off on a mystical California carpet ride with you. I'm just trying to highlight a concept with you that relates to dating. I was having a talk with a fellow webmaster, and we were discussing how men and women channel their energies in their lives. Think about how you use your own creative energy, or your physical energy. We sometimes put it into our exercise, such as Triathlons and weightlifting. Or, you may be like me, a frustrated writer that needs to pour his ...
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Personality and the Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women
2008-03-31 00:00:00
Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. A person lacks personality because they are like a song without any hook or catchy riff. You gotta have personality if you're going to get a woman interested in you. A woman has to feel that static crackle around you, that you're not like the rest of the chumps with "LOOKING FOR SEX" tattooed on their foreheads. She wants to see some spark, some glimmer of magical presence that you carry. A woman walks through life fairly bored with her relationship possibilities. I have a theory that most men don't really challenge them at all. For you to make an impression, you just have to offer her something she doesn't usually get from the salad bar. Can you excite her? Can you demonstrate a man with q...
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Focussing Your Approach
2008-03-29 23:00:00
Different ladies like different things.  If you can learn the best ways to trigger attraction in each type of woman, you’re going to be a very busy man. Focusing In We’ve been going over a number of things that will work with ANY girl, but there’s no doubt, ladies come in many flavors. And for each of those flavors, there’s a particularly strong method of activating interest and attraction.  Below, I’m going to go over a number of different types of ladies (in a number of different places), and the methods that I’ve found work best in hooking their interest. Political Girl Pick-Up These ladies are all over the place – demonstrations, strategy meetings, listening to speakers at events or at rallies.  Their stripes are quite varied – environmentalist, feminist, peaceniks and granolas and members of the free love society.  They tend to be loud, opinionated, and liberal. They also tend t...

How Having Money Affects Attraction
2008-03-20 00:00:00
There is a belief among some men that you need money to "compete for women". There's no doubt to anyone that men who are very wealthy have an extra edge with women: Why is that? And how come some of them don't capitalize on it? And how big of a deal is having money, really, in being attracting and getting with the kind of women you want? Today's entry is geared towards men of all levels of wealth. We'll look at it from every perspective, so you can know what to do to get more success, regardless of if you're in Forbes 10 richest men or still living with your parents. Let's roll: Attraction can be broken down, precisely, into three elements: Value, Attainability, and Compliance. VAC for short. The question is: Does being more wealthy make men more attractive to women? The answer is: yes. So the question becomes: What part of VAC does wealth affect? Most people would point to value. There is some truth in that. Being more wealthy is good for value, but not ...
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Failure To Deploy Hurts More Than Rejection
2008-03-05 00:00:00
Okay, guys. Consider this scenario. You are going about your life minding your own business when all of the sudden…she appears. Before you is a woman who stuns you with her beauty, her grace, her femininity. She has the whole package working. The stars are aligned this day and you begin a conversation with her. She smiles and appears to be enjoying the interaction. After a couple of minutes, the window of opportunity draws to a close. You say…”Well, it was nice knowing you…I need to be going.” She looks at you with a nearly imperceptible quizzical expression. “Uh…okay…C’ya.& rdquo; She replies. And she’s GONE. FOREVER. Ladies, has this ever happened to you? Were you wondering why this guy would even strike up a conversation if he wasn’t even interested in you? Were you left completely flabbergasted as to what you could possibly have done to have messed it up? I mean, come o...
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Tantalize Her With Scents
2008-02-11 00:00:00
One area that guys don't take advantage of enough is the power of smell with a woman. Scents and smells are very important to them, and it's been scientifically proven that women are much more sensitive than men to odors. One of the most important reasons scents are good for engaging a woman's attraction for you is that your sense of smell is connected to the most basic part of your brain, the part that was formed long before your ability to reason and think. This was because our early ancestors had to be able to react quickly to scents on the wind that could indicate a threat, such as a predator. Smells have a way of bringing back memories. Have you ever had the experience of smelling something and having a complete flashback to something you remember from your childhood? It happens all the time, and it's even more potent when you've associated a smell with something, like the smell of burning leaves in autumn, or the smell of homemade pi...

How To Create Sexual Tension
2008-02-04 00:00:00
One thing that is critical for developing attraction with a woman that will lead to your eventual seduction success is learning how to build and nurture the sexual tension between you. Remember that when you first begin to interact with a woman, unless she already has a strong initial attraction for you - sometimes known as "chemistry", you are in a neutral zone with her. This is a place where she has yet to make up her mind as to whether you are interesting to her or not. Now, you can choose to sift through dozens and dozens of women looking for the few that you have that instant "chemistry" with, but I find it much more practical to stimulate the woman's attraction so that she has that chemistry right away, and then I can choose whether or not to act on my own attraction. It's like getting a pre-approved loan and knowing you COULD go out and buy that new Porsche, but it's YOUR choice. This, guys, is what seduction is all about. Having your own ch...
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Gunwitch Method Two: Inference Vs Induction
2008-01-31 00:00:00
Essential guide of proper analysis and Internal dynamics Well here we are again all. I suppose the first and best place to start is always with what YOU want out of this manual. At its absolute core what you are about to read is about getting more sex. Well, more appropriate, being the man you need to be to bed the women you want. You don't want that? You want something else? You maybe wanna live a lifestyle of glamour and glitz, maybe a life full of adoring people and worship from women? Sure that would be nice, but these writings are for a guy to get laid with at leisure, maybe to find a relationship. They certainly are not a way to change your LIFE, but a way to change YOU, so you can walk out your door and start to change your life. Sex with a hot woman in your bed is to blah and bland for you? You already get enough of that? Then this probably isn't for you, stop reading. Right off I must say as well. This is gonna be rock bottom shit here. Don't ...
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Lying Game Ryobi's Version
2008-01-31 00:00:00
This is great for cocky and playful as well as bringing in sexual themes in a humorous way. It also allows you to bust on her. It goes something like this. "Who do you think lies more, men or women? Her .... (whatever) "Oh yeah, I am not so sure, but I know a way to find out. (Smile) OK - Which one of these things about me is true? Only ONE of them is true .... Number 1. I was left a large estate by a dead relative Number 2. I have a big jacuzzi at home Number 3. (whispering a little as if you are sharing a secret) I have a 12 inch penis Number 4. I am gay!" Let her decide what she thinks is the true statement then say "No! Actually, I lied, they are ALL TRUE. Just your luck to meet a rich guy with a jacuzzi and a 12 inch cock who turns out to be gay!" Then I do a fake semi-turn away and look at her over my shoulder and smile. Ryobi
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Confidence
2008-01-30 00:00:00
The magic bullet to getting girls is supposedly having confidence. With it you can leap buildings, fuck supermodels, and demand a raise from your boss. But how important is it really? And how do you get it? Back in high school I had a puny body and was paranoid of getting jumped because of the ghetto neighborhood I lived in. Because I believed I could not put up much of a fight if I was attacked, I avoided conflict with the kids that were bigger than me. I started going to the gym in college and built up some muscle mass by the time I graduated. Even though I still couldn't fight, I was no longer scared of getting into one. While bigger muscles doesn't mean I'd fare any better in a fight, I believed that it would. Going to the gym took away fear of getting physically pummeled. That's all that confidence really does: it eliminates fear. When you are not scared, you suddenly have more ways to respond. And a higher chance to succeed. Instead of backing down fr...
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Lying Game braid_ged Version
2008-01-30 00:00:00
I have had a great reaction from this game even from HBs who didn't end up digging me. Braid_ged : Hey, are you a good lier ? HB : what ? Braid_ged : can you lie, like (turns to other HB), is she a good lier ? HB_Other : yes! she is a fantastic lier! / No, she can't lie. Braid_ged : Is that right? well lets see. Ok, you are going to tell me three things. One of them will be a lie. Ok ? HB : Ok. Braid_Ged : right.. you are going to tell me.... umm.. a place you have always wanted to visit. Ummm a shop you like going to... and.... the name of the first guy you slept with, or girl... (HB raises eyebrow) Braid_ged : ok guy. So that's three things, place to visit, shop you like and first guy you slept with. Ok ? (the whole table is now looking at her) HB : ok. Braid_ged : ok... hold on, take it slow, think about it you have to try and be as convincing as you can... she tells.. you try and pick the lie... you get ...
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Verbal Method
2008-01-30 00:00:00
I think this is the last bastion of things i dont understand about how i get the high ratio of approach to fuck closes that spawned the entire gunwitch method. The factor i realized i wasnt providing is how rapport works for me. Understand rapport is essential but is not a seduction tool. Sounds confusing if you take the ideals of this board and seduction as a reality i know. But thats another big key to "get", is that what you say has little to no effect on getting in a womans pants unless its negative, SO if you say negative things you ruin it, if you say the right things, sure youve gotten laid, but youve wasted time saying them as she was already to fuck you anyhow as long as you persist passed her ideals, hence heads you win tales you lose when it comes to what you say. If you cant grasp that or dont want to believe that truth, i have to speculate that youll most likely always have some amount of trouble with women, as until there is a thing a deform...
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Trick To Sarging Solo
2008-01-29 00:00:00
The trick to sarging solo as far as I am concerned is not to look like you are there alone. Here is how: Know the staff and regulars. These people are always there and get you chatting. Sometimes it can be hard just to jump out of your skin and START talking. Especially if you have not spoken to anyone before you walk in. I would also suggest, if it has been a while since you last spoke, getting on your cell phone just before entering and warming up your mouth a bit with a friend, then hit your bar staff and regulars, then girls. Hi-fives and high energy all the way as you do your enterance. Next thing: Never stand alone. Or if you are alone, realise that you have to get into a conversation immediately. Like FUCKING NOW! It does not matter with whom, if you stand alone you will stale out, feel unproofed, and chicken out of getting it restarted. When alone between sets you want to look like you are doing something. Walk around as if you are looking for someo...
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Threesomes and Prostitutes
2008-01-29 00:00:00
Treat the fact that shes bisexual the same way youd treat the fact that she knows how to cook. If youre comfortable with it and you can speak about it like its not a big deal and its natural, then it is.Rick said that hes at a stage where he wont even ask the girls if theyre bisexual. Hell just ask them What kind of girls do you like? Again, if its not a big deal to you, it wont be to them.He said the biggest mistake most men make is that theyll rush into a threesome. He said that the primary partner has to feel comfortable shes not gonna get dumped when she brings a girl home for you. Make sure she understands shes the primary in the relationship, and that you cant pay more attention to the second girl.Basically, Ricks process is:1. Ask the question Are you bisexual?2. Get her to point out girls she thinks are cute3. Set the frame youre someone who enjoys the fantasy with her.4. Talk about her past experiences with women5. Make this a fantasy for HER6. Establish a relationship with...
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David D's Thoughts On Valentines Day
2008-01-28 00:00:00
OK, 'twas the night before Valentin e's Day and all through the house, not a creature was stirring... well, except for David D., who's up late writing another newsletter for you....And since I basically defiled a cherished Christmas poem to begin with, it's probably worth mentioning that technically it's the night BEFORE the night before Valentine's Day for me...Whatever.So, I have been thinking a lot about Valentine's Day lately... and I've been talking about it with friends as well.As I was reading some of my AO-Hell email, I noticed that there were not one... not two... but THREE different ads inside of EVERY email viewer window selling FLOWERS for Valentine's Day. You gotta love AO-Hell's way of sneaking those ads into every one of your emails, huh?ANYWAY, as I was realizing what BIG BUSINESS Valentine's Day must be, I started wondering...Where the heck did Valentine's Day come from?So, I decided to do a little research.Well, as it turns out, there are several differe...
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Gunwitch Method
2007-12-12 00:00:00
NightVision - Gunwitch's big thing is Sexual State and his methods as well as his eCourse "Dynamic Sex Life"offer a different perspective to the mainstream seduction community. As such his method complements it very well. His motto is "Get Laid, Not Liked"...===Okay, so you wanna get laid more right? DUH else you wouldn't be here. Maybe you are a fan of other works on seduction and discovered me through their sites, or maybe this is your first venture into the methods of seduction. Maybe you found me through the ASF (alt.seduction.fast) newsgroup, and you were one of the guys who requested and demanded an outline, or more of a specific manual of my style. Well anyway, you've now found my methods.I'll tell you a little about myself, my name is Allen Reyes (known as 'gunwitch' on ASF). In case you wonder my name is derived from the fact that I am an avid hand gunner as well as a 10-year practitioner and student of seduction and PU (pick ups), "real" witchcraft, magick, state man...
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7 Point Model of Seduction
2007-12-05 00:00:00
This is a model I follow to successfully, approach, attract and seduce women and it is modelled after some of the most successful models of PUA in the world. Most of the phases you will recognize but I have included two new phases as I think they are crucial.Two new phases are 1. Pre open value calibration phase2. The hook phase.So let's begin.NOTE: If you follow this model you will get laid like rockstars. Just had a RAFC friend of mine, follow this model had a hot 8 on saturday chase him and offer her number to him. Just one week ago he would stall after the opener. 7 Point Model of Seduction 1. Pre attract Phase (Clothes, social proof, body language, etc) This is my step that I have added. Remember you must calibrate your social value to the set before you even open your mouth. Alot of guys shoot themselves in the foot before they even open their mouths and get blown out, simply on non verbals. If you are going to open a 10, you must raise your "PRE-OPENER" Value before the set w...

How To Talk To ANY Woman In Any Situation
2007-11-28 00:00:00
This week I would like to turn the tables around and try something a little bit different.Something that just might make you take a new perspective and think about things in a way you've never thought about before... something that just might stir you up enough to get you to take some ACTION...First, I'd like you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman... youwanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking about a REALLY hot woman.Take your time if you need it. I'm not going anywhere.Good.Now, let me ask you something:Did you ever stop a day or two after one of these situations happened to think about where that particular woman might be, and what she might be doing?Did you ever stop to think about what the rest of her day was like after she walked by you?About the ten or twenty other men that saw her that day who didn't have the nerve to talk to her... and the two or three that did...?About the, most likely, ...
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10 Steps To Great Kiss
2007-11-24 00:00:00
This is an important article.  My goal here is to tell you EXACTLY what to do before, during, and afterthe FIRST KISS.If youre kissing her the second time, congratulations she liked it enough the first time to have a second.In How To Get A Girlfriend, I cover this topic A LOT (along with everything else under the dating sun).  But, here, I want to cover this publicly.  Consider this a public service for the women out there, about to be POORLY kissed for the nth timeIts true that most guys have massive questions in their minds around this issue of when/how to kiss her the first time.  Some guys overdo it, which leaves a bad er taste in the mouth.  And some guys dont go far enough: planting a nice gentle peck on the cheek when shes DYING for you to really kiss her!  So, how can you be both sensitive and bold?  How can you avoid these terrible labels: tongue-slammer, meek, weak, and/or sloppy?  (As an aside have you guys seen Blades of Glory?...
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Fan Club Opener
2007-08-26 00:00:00
 Thundercat - This is one where you paint your target as your ultimate fan who borderlines on stalking you. This works best for women who are by themselves, or when youve isolated a woman into talking to you by herself.
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3 Major Mistakes To Avoid On Dates
2007-08-26 00:00:00
 David DeAngelo - In a one paragraph email, you managed to tell me about a MINIMUM of three major mistakes that you made with this particular girl. If I really thought about it, I could probably find another few in there as well...
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How To Tell Stories
2007-08-26 00:00:00
 Dimitri - When I was younger and perhaps a tad more arrogant, I had a saying: "Modesty is for those of modest capabilities." I knew I was elite, and I didn't fail to let anyone know.
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Kiss Grade Close
2007-08-26 00:00:00
 Swinggcat - Are you adventurous? Are you spontaneous? If you were in kissing school, what grade would your kissing teacher give you?
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Approaching Women: A Great Technique
2007-08-22 00:00:00
 David DeAngelo - Let's talk about the psychology of why women give out their phone numbers, and why I personally like to get email addresses.
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