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Using NLP On The First Date
2008-06-02 00:00:00
One critical mistake many men make on first dates is that women get easily bored of them and the attraction fizzles out leaving her to resort to the “let’s just be friends” speech. Using Neuro-Linguistic Programming techniques it is possible to get a deeper connection with her and ensure she’ll become so attracted to you she’ll be itching to see you again. Mirror And Match A fundamental NLP technique is mirroring and matching. Everyone has mannerisms they’re not aware of- the way they sit, gestures etc. People who are very close- best friends, relatives, couples etc. will share such mannerisms they aren’t even aware of. If you can match them on a first date, your girl will feel as if she is talking to someone she has known for a long time and will feel more comfortable around you. Here’s what to look for: • Body position: match her sitting position and consider whether she is leaning in, crossing her legs a...

How To Get Laid In The Next 30 To 60 Days
2008-06-02 00:00:00
So heres the basics... Have you ever seen the show "Bullshit" by Penn and Teller? If not, go check out Youtube or Google. It's fantastic. Highly recommended is the one on absintence. I've been watching a good bit of that show lately, because it's well-researched as well as entertaining, which is rare. On one of the shows, they talk about diet supplements and fancy exercise gadgets and the rest. And they make a clear point - It doesn't work. The only thing that works for getting healthy is good diet + exercise + generally mostly healthy lifestyle. You can find lots of these gut-check type programs on dieting. There may be 10,000 "magic cures", but there's at least 5,000 "ok, it's not easy, but here's what really works..." reminders from good people. And there really isn't that for the community - until now. Here's my post on how to get laid in the next month or two. This post does not maximize your chances of "getting really good at pickup" ...
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Guide To Creating Attraction
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Here is my guide to creating attraction. There is a bunch of other stuff that I do that I am trying to quantify and break down, this is a good start though. You’ll have to wait…. Creating attraction There are numerous ways in which you can create attraction. The following are some of the best, most powerful ways : Method one Conversational jujitsu. Using this method you pretend not to hear what she is saying and misinterpret it in a sexual way, as in the following example: PUA : Hey can you tell me where the nearest hairdressers is? Her : Oh yeah, it’s just up there, turn left at the bank. PUA : OK , just up there…PAUSE..Did you say you wanted to watch me wank? I’ve only just met you, my god you are forward… This is a rather extreme, however it’s useful because it illustrates the technique. Using this kind of sexual misinterpretation is great because: (i) You can use it at ANY point i...
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Three Seducive Characters
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Words themselves have little to do with seduction. It possible to come up with the most elaborate and impressive chat up lines and do little more than entertain a woman. More important is your ability to lead a woman through the process of wanting to talk to you, finding you interesting and then arousing feelings that make her want you physically. More often than not this is a process that takes time and patience- although in the odd case it can happen almost instantaneously. Most men will play the part of one character throughout the course of trying to seduce a woman according to their own personality types: for an outgoing, extrovert this will be the role of ‘fun, sociable’ guy, for example. But for most men they will wear the suit of ‘Mr Comfort’ - the ‘nice’ guy who may be interesting but isn’t especially fun or sexy. The third is the sexually aware man who will go into an approach with direct intent, exhibiting a stron...
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Power
2008-06-02 00:00:00
When seducing women, most men will make the key mistake of ‘giving away’ all of their power and status in the face of a beautiful woman. They will chase her, change their schedules to accommodate her, abandon friends and hobbies. In short, they focus all of their attention on the girl and the more attractive she is, the more they will tend to do this. Women are frustrated at being expected to lead proceedings and having men practically offer themselves to them. A challenge is well received as is a man who has more in his life than just making her the centre of his world. Feminine women crave masculine men but the prerequisites of the ‘modern, metro’ man don’t trigger the basic attraction switches women desire. Lead The Way “Can I have your number?”, “Are you free Friday? No? How about Saturday? Sunday?”, “What do you want to do?”, “Where do you want to eat?” All these questions fre...
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Pick Up More Than Dinner At The Supermarket
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Clubs can be noisy, smoky, hot, sweaty, expensive places filled with testosterone pumped AFCs all trying to hit on the same few hot girls in the venue. What these guys don’t know that we do is that we’re surrounded by HBs every day as we go about our normal lives. One great place to strike up a conversation with a random hottie is your local supermarket: Be Everybody’s Friend First and foremost to consider is your mental state. You can’t be in a seductive mode when out shopping unless all you want to do is weird out anyone you talk to. Your reason for starting conversations with hot girls is that you’re a naturally sociable guy who talks to everyone - the little Granny with her shopping basket, other men stocking up on crates of Coronas etc. so talking to her will come across as natural. This is the most effective mindset to have when gaming during the day. Walk Before You Run Don’t look at every woman you see and th...
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Make The Right Impression
2008-06-02 00:00:00
The process of seducing a woman will begin before you’ve even exchanged words. Women will size up members of the opposite sex in the vicinity by subtler means than men and so can make a judgement about you without you even knowing if they know you exist! So it’s vital to make a good first impression: 1. Look Like You’re Enjoying Yourself Most men do themselves no favours when at a bar or club looking to meet a woman (or women). They will stand at the bar, shoulder to shoulder with friends, blatantly checking out the womenfolk, occasionally making the odd comment to each other about the girl with the great rack that just walked on by. They rarely look as if they’re enjoying each others company- so how could any woman enjoy their company? When you see people having a good time you naturally want to be in on the fun - they appear friendlier, safer and generally nicer. Fake it ‘til you make it if you really must. Look happy to be the...
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How To Get A Girls Number
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Most men will find that getting a woman’s phone number is an arduous task. They will not know when to ask, for example, or be fearful of risking rejection. Even after having got a girl’s number it can be difficult converting this into a second meeting or date. Conversation Leading To A Number Close One key mistake most men make is making small talk with a woman and then just suddenly asking for her number. This is definitely the wrong approach. A connection may (though normally is not) be made exchanging small talk with a girl but it takes a lot longer to do so. Instead, you must constantly steer the direction of the conversation towards your goal. Such a conversation will need to be based around building a connection with a girl and common interests you share. Examples of questions aimed at establishing a connection with a girl or sharing common interest: • What does she like to do when not at the office? How does she spend her free ti...
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Conquering Approach Anxiety
2008-04-18 00:00:00
Richard La Ruina aka Gambler:  Frame it differently.  If you frame an approach as a do or die situation in which you are desperate for a close, this is high pressure. Frame it like this: You are being the fun sociable guy who will talk to people and have fun, and if you happen to be in an interaction with an HB (Hot Babe) that is going well, the close will be natural.  Take baby steps: If you are going in to close, you have a lot more to think about and you will have more AA.  Instead, in the early days, just aim to open as much as possible. Don’t over think, just say hi to strangers or cheers them, or wave, or ask a simple question then leave.  When you are comfortable opening, you can work on progressing things and actually start opening to close.  Reduce the pressure.  Going up to a girl and telling her “I want you, and nothing is going to stop me ge...
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Boyfriend Destroyer Strategy
2008-04-17 00:00:00
First I want to say that I am sorry for not posting anything in such a long time. I was long thinking about publishing this post because it is somehow evil. It gives you an overview over the tools to attract a person that is in a relationship and to somehow manipulate her to be turned her away from her boyfriend. I don’t know if you guys are religious, but I think that you should at least not mess with an instance that is way higher then you. Therefore I am writing this post because I want you to see what other people might try to destroy your relationship by getting your girl. This post is therefore designed to make you realise that especially a long relationship is not a guarantee for an everlasting relationship. I don’t want to encourage you to actually use this strategy as I said I it is evil in my eyes. I have done it and it worked over and over again but after a couple years I have realised that it is more important to know about this kind of strategy ...
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Becoming A PUA
2008-04-13 00:00:00
Let’s take a journey back a few years to the old me. Before I could get pretty much any woman I wanted, before I went to the top clubs and got VIP treatment without spending any money, before I had too many women and too many friends to make time for any more, before it became so easy that I never really needed to go out “Sarging” and still have the hottest women fancy me. Before Gambler, there was Richard La Ruina, the guy that sat in his house for up to a week at a time, had one friend who he saw about once every two weeks, lived with his mum, and had only kissed two girls. This guy wasn’t happy, he was depressed. I’ve written about my journey before. But, this time I want to focus on something that will probably apply to you…The accelerated journey – how to get to the place that took me a year to get to in just a few months. Let’s look at some common problems that guys have: -Scared to approach. -Do...

We Have To Talk...
2008-04-12 00:00:00
Hey man, I've been talking to a friend of mine who's literally the best guy I know for escalating from approaching to bed with a woman in a few hours. He's the guy who introduced "Natural Game" to the pickup community several years ago. He’s Vin DiCarlo, and you probably know about him from his mind blowing articles posted on our site: http://www.seductiontuition.com/vin-dicar lo/ You've probably seen guys who are successful with women using all Different kinds of methods.  There is a lot of material out there that deals with techniques, methods and inner game. Anyway, Vin has put all his best ideas into a new book called The Attraction Code and after reading the preview copy I can tell you its like NOTHING else out there.  Its is NOT Techniques, it is NOT a method and it is NOT Inner Game. He's only launching the book to a private list but because Vin's a friend of mine I was able to get access for you! ...
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Pick Up Lines
2008-04-12 00:00:00
Okay, we can divide this down right away into two categories: Pick up lines that just plain suck, and solid communication that comes across like a pickup line that sucks if not delivered properly. We’ll address them both. Pickup lines that just plain suck, period: These are listed as “Most Popular Pickup Lines ”. We’re taking them to task and trashing them, without permission, under the “Fair Use” doctrine. Lame-pickup-line-users worldwide may revolt. Let them. So here’s the collection of lameness: Is that the sun coming up... or is that just you lighting up my world? Let's make like a fabric softener and snuggle. Is your last name Gillete cause your the best a man can get. Do you want to make millions? millions of babies! Hi, have you got a boyfriend? (if no,) Are you taking applications? My love for you is like the universe...neverending!! Your senses must be messed...

We Have To Talk...
2008-04-09 00:00:00
Hey man, I've been talking to a friend of mine who's literally the best guy I know for escalating from approaching to bed with a woman in a few hours. He's the guy who introduced "Natural Game" to the pickup community several years ago. He’s Vin DiCarlo, and you probably know about him from his mind blowing articles posted on our site: http://www.seductiontuition.com/vin-dicar lo/ You've probably seen guys who are successful with women using all Different kinds of methods.  There is a lot of material out there that deals with techniques, methods and inner game. Anyway, Vin has put all his best ideas into a new book called The Attraction Code and after reading the preview copy I can tell you its like NOTHING else out there.  Its is NOT Techniques, it is NOT a method and it is NOT Inner Game. He's only launching the book to a private list but because Vin's a friend of mine I was able to get access for you! ...
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Where Did This Bad Information Come From
2008-04-06 00:00:00
I was thinking the other day about men's perceptions about women, and how we "figured out" what it is they're looking for. I wondered how men could have been so misled regarding this subject, and just where did it come from? Well, think about it. There are only a few places you could have gotten this information: LISTENING TO GUYS Well, as guys, we like advice. We LOVE to give it, even when we don't know what the HELL we're talking about. Really. I remember being a kid and trying to shoot the crap with my friends about women. All guys have an inherent need to be a know-it-all, and that gets in our way of actually learning. Every guy has a story and seems to "know it" when it comes to women, don't they? I was in a car with a friend at Lake Tahoe a couple weeks back, and when he found out what I do for men with the ebooks and audio information he was fascinated. It wasn't as if h...
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Double Standard
2008-04-06 00:00:00
I was sent an "article" (I use quotes because the value of this information is in doubt) about men who "step out" on their women. Step out. You gotta love these old terms that journalists keep using because they evoke emotional pictures in your mind. The woman's question to this - (COUGH) - "advisor" was "I don't know why, but I keep attracting jerks." Now this advisor is a "VP of Romance" (Yeah, right) of a very popular online dating site. (And since we all know that men don't know anything about "romance," this advisor is a woman.) She proceeds to describe bad boys and why women are attracted to them, because they are "philanderers and con artists." Wow, strong words. Well, I cover this in my e-books, along with the breakdown of the "bad boy" and how you can use the good parts of his personality. Her use of the term...
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Validation
2008-04-04 00:00:00
Part of our needs as humans is to get validation along the way to assure us and make us feel approved of. We sought this validation and approval from our parents and peers when we were children, and we never really let go of that need when we had to "grow up." Limit the amount of approval you need from other people. You can't worry too much about what other people think about you. It's easy to go through life seeking approval and never really accomplish anything because you're trying to please everyone. You can't, and it's a belief that you must leave behind. (Willie Loman in "Death of a Salesman" fails to achieve for this same reason. He thinks it's better to be liked that to achieve worthwhile goals.) What this means for you in dating is that you need to be able to communicate, through subtle and not-so-subtle methods, that you do not need her approval. A woman will not feel attracted to a man if she feels she ha...
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Raise The Bar
2008-04-03 00:00:00
Why are you settling for average returns? Most guys are treating their dating life like a piss-poor investment. They go out and ogle the high-price stocks (the beautiful women) but they refuse to get in the game and summon the investment capital (dating skills.) (Maybe you're sick of the investment analogy, but I'm a great believer that analogies help you look at things in a different light. It's easy to get complacent when you think of women in the same old terms, but not so easy when you realize that you'd NEVER settle to get this kind of lame return on any other kind of investment of your money, time, or energy.) Stop settling for sub-standard performance. And I mean this for you and for her. You shouldn't let yourself accept that what you're getting right now is the best you can get in terms of return, and you certainly should look at where you can raise the bar for your own performance. How can you improve? ...

How To Get More By Asking More
2008-04-03 00:00:00
I want to introduce you to a unique concept that may finally change how you view your game with women. First, let's talk about your inner monologue, dude. One of the most powerful personal development methods you can use to alter the course of your life (your DESTINY, really) is through the use of QUESTIONS. Questions cut through and clarify the current state of affairs, and they help you see what may not have been visible before. However, they can only do this if you have the guts to answer them TRUTHFULLY. The man who lies to himself can never see the world clearly, and will then subject every bit of his reality to illusion - like looking at the world through distorted glass. In the short-term, he'll make himself feel 'better' about things by lying to himself, but in the long-term he'll just ensure his own failure. Success is fleeting when it's based on faulty understanding. Ask yourself a few questions to clarify...

Energy
2008-04-01 00:00:00
Some of you may be familiar with some Eastern school of thought on how energies are used in the human body. Chinese philosophies refer to it as Chi, and the energy itself can have both female and male (Yin and Yang) "flavors" to it. The way we use our energy is indicative of our personalities and personal inclinations. Whatever you choose to call it, I think we all agree that this energy is very real, even if we're not sure how to channel it. Now, don't worry, I'm not going off on a mystical California carpet ride with you. I'm just trying to highlight a concept with you that relates to dating. I was having a talk with a fellow webmaster, and we were discussing how men and women channel their energies in their lives. Think about how you use your own creative energy, or your physical energy. We sometimes put it into our exercise, such as Triathlons and weightlifting. Or, you may be like me, a frustrated writer that needs to pour his ...
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Personality and the Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women
2008-03-31 00:00:00
Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. A person lacks personality because they are like a song without any hook or catchy riff. You gotta have personality if you're going to get a woman interested in you. A woman has to feel that static crackle around you, that you're not like the rest of the chumps with "LOOKING FOR SEX" tattooed on their foreheads. She wants to see some spark, some glimmer of magical presence that you carry. A woman walks through life fairly bored with her relationship possibilities. I have a theory that most men don't really challenge them at all. For you to make an impression, you just have to offer her something she doesn't usually get from the salad bar. Can you excite her? Can you demonstrate a man with q...
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Focussing Your Approach
2008-03-29 23:00:00
Different ladies like different things.  If you can learn the best ways to trigger attraction in each type of woman, you’re going to be a very busy man. Focusing In We’ve been going over a number of things that will work with ANY girl, but there’s no doubt, ladies come in many flavors. And for each of those flavors, there’s a particularly strong method of activating interest and attraction.  Below, I’m going to go over a number of different types of ladies (in a number of different places), and the methods that I’ve found work best in hooking their interest. Political Girl Pick-Up These ladies are all over the place – demonstrations, strategy meetings, listening to speakers at events or at rallies.  Their stripes are quite varied – environmentalist, feminist, peaceniks and granolas and members of the free love society.  They tend to be loud, opinionated, and liberal. They also tend t...

How Having Money Affects Attraction
2008-03-20 00:00:00
There is a belief among some men that you need money to "compete for women". There's no doubt to anyone that men who are very wealthy have an extra edge with women: Why is that? And how come some of them don't capitalize on it? And how big of a deal is having money, really, in being attracting and getting with the kind of women you want? Today's entry is geared towards men of all levels of wealth. We'll look at it from every perspective, so you can know what to do to get more success, regardless of if you're in Forbes 10 richest men or still living with your parents. Let's roll: Attraction can be broken down, precisely, into three elements: Value, Attainability, and Compliance. VAC for short. The question is: Does being more wealthy make men more attractive to women? The answer is: yes. So the question becomes: What part of VAC does wealth affect? Most people would point to value. There is some truth in that. Being more wealthy is good for value, but not ...
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Failure To Deploy Hurts More Than Rejection
2008-03-05 00:00:00
Okay, guys. Consider this scenario. You are going about your life minding your own business when all of the sudden…she appears. Before you is a woman who stuns you with her beauty, her grace, her femininity. She has the whole package working. The stars are aligned this day and you begin a conversation with her. She smiles and appears to be enjoying the interaction. After a couple of minutes, the window of opportunity draws to a close. You say…”Well, it was nice knowing you…I need to be going.” She looks at you with a nearly imperceptible quizzical expression. “Uh…okay…C’ya.& rdquo; She replies. And she’s GONE. FOREVER. Ladies, has this ever happened to you? Were you wondering why this guy would even strike up a conversation if he wasn’t even interested in you? Were you left completely flabbergasted as to what you could possibly have done to have messed it up? I mean, come o...
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Tantalize Her With Scents
2008-02-11 00:00:00
One area that guys don't take advantage of enough is the power of smell with a woman. Scents and smells are very important to them, and it's been scientifically proven that women are much more sensitive than men to odors. One of the most important reasons scents are good for engaging a woman's attraction for you is that your sense of smell is connected to the most basic part of your brain, the part that was formed long before your ability to reason and think. This was because our early ancestors had to be able to react quickly to scents on the wind that could indicate a threat, such as a predator. Smells have a way of bringing back memories. Have you ever had the experience of smelling something and having a complete flashback to something you remember from your childhood? It happens all the time, and it's even more potent when you've associated a smell with something, like the smell of burning leaves in autumn, or the smell of homemade pi...

How To Create Sexual Tension
2008-02-04 00:00:00
One thing that is critical for developing attraction with a woman that will lead to your eventual seduction success is learning how to build and nurture the sexual tension between you. Remember that when you first begin to interact with a woman, unless she already has a strong initial attraction for you - sometimes known as "chemistry", you are in a neutral zone with her. This is a place where she has yet to make up her mind as to whether you are interesting to her or not. Now, you can choose to sift through dozens and dozens of women looking for the few that you have that instant "chemistry" with, but I find it much more practical to stimulate the woman's attraction so that she has that chemistry right away, and then I can choose whether or not to act on my own attraction. It's like getting a pre-approved loan and knowing you COULD go out and buy that new Porsche, but it's YOUR choice. This, guys, is what seduction is all about. Having your own ch...
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Lying Game Ryobi's Version
2008-01-31 00:00:00
This is great for cocky and playful as well as bringing in sexual themes in a humorous way. It also allows you to bust on her. It goes something like this. "Who do you think lies more, men or women? Her .... (whatever) "Oh yeah, I am not so sure, but I know a way to find out. (Smile) OK - Which one of these things about me is true? Only ONE of them is true .... Number 1. I was left a large estate by a dead relative Number 2. I have a big jacuzzi at home Number 3. (whispering a little as if you are sharing a secret) I have a 12 inch penis Number 4. I am gay!" Let her decide what she thinks is the true statement then say "No! Actually, I lied, they are ALL TRUE. Just your luck to meet a rich guy with a jacuzzi and a 12 inch cock who turns out to be gay!" Then I do a fake semi-turn away and look at her over my shoulder and smile. Ryobi
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Gunwitch Method Two: Inference Vs Induction
2008-01-31 00:00:00
Essential guide of proper analysis and Internal dynamics Well here we are again all. I suppose the first and best place to start is always with what YOU want out of this manual. At its absolute core what you are about to read is about getting more sex. Well, more appropriate, being the man you need to be to bed the women you want. You don't want that? You want something else? You maybe wanna live a lifestyle of glamour and glitz, maybe a life full of adoring people and worship from women? Sure that would be nice, but these writings are for a guy to get laid with at leisure, maybe to find a relationship. They certainly are not a way to change your LIFE, but a way to change YOU, so you can walk out your door and start to change your life. Sex with a hot woman in your bed is to blah and bland for you? You already get enough of that? Then this probably isn't for you, stop reading. Right off I must say as well. This is gonna be rock bottom shit here. Don't ...
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Confidence
2008-01-30 00:00:00
The magic bullet to getting girls is supposedly having confidence. With it you can leap buildings, fuck supermodels, and demand a raise from your boss. But how important is it really? And how do you get it? Back in high school I had a puny body and was paranoid of getting jumped because of the ghetto neighborhood I lived in. Because I believed I could not put up much of a fight if I was attacked, I avoided conflict with the kids that were bigger than me. I started going to the gym in college and built up some muscle mass by the time I graduated. Even though I still couldn't fight, I was no longer scared of getting into one. While bigger muscles doesn't mean I'd fare any better in a fight, I believed that it would. Going to the gym took away fear of getting physically pummeled. That's all that confidence really does: it eliminates fear. When you are not scared, you suddenly have more ways to respond. And a higher chance to succeed. Instead of backing down fr...
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Lying Game braid_ged Version
2008-01-30 00:00:00
I have had a great reaction from this game even from HBs who didn't end up digging me. Braid_ged : Hey, are you a good lier ? HB : what ? Braid_ged : can you lie, like (turns to other HB), is she a good lier ? HB_Other : yes! she is a fantastic lier! / No, she can't lie. Braid_ged : Is that right? well lets see. Ok, you are going to tell me three things. One of them will be a lie. Ok ? HB : Ok. Braid_Ged : right.. you are going to tell me.... umm.. a place you have always wanted to visit. Ummm a shop you like going to... and.... the name of the first guy you slept with, or girl... (HB raises eyebrow) Braid_ged : ok guy. So that's three things, place to visit, shop you like and first guy you slept with. Ok ? (the whole table is now looking at her) HB : ok. Braid_ged : ok... hold on, take it slow, think about it you have to try and be as convincing as you can... she tells.. you try and pick the lie... you get ...
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