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Zombie Game How To Bring Them Back From Dead
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons Men are simple creatures, give us women, sports, alcohol and zombie films and I think most of us are more than happy. In the past it is clear that anytime we can merge a few of these things together it’s fair to assume that the following creation is almost always a success. Game night in the local bad with a group of hot chicks, movie theatre’s that show zombie flicks and allow you to drink alcohol at the same time, the movie Zombie Strippers featuring the porn star Jenna Jameson. Ok maybe not the last one so much, but still in general these are good combinations. So it won’t be surprising for you to learn that I had a massive celebration after I discovered one of my favourite tactics to help in the battle to understand the opposite sex, namely the art of Zombie Game or for want of a better description how to bring them back from the dead! First of all lets take a look at the average woman and the way she handles a guy who gets her phone numb...
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Conformity Method - Alternative View To Game
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons When I first started the game I had the pleasure of being able to devote all of my time to developing new ideas and theories based on my own experience in field and research which helped alter the way thousands of people around the world approached the game. Unfortunately I’ve been so busy teaching recently that I’m just not getting the time I wanted to write up all my new theories and findings. However there was a little something I’ve been researching recently which gives a slightly new perspective to an old game we’ve been playing. Those who’ve studied with me will be aware of my method of starting from comfort and exploiting social proof for all it’s worth. Well it turns out that actually a lot of my methods are not only backed up in the psychological studies I’ve mentioned in my own works but also by numerous other studies that where to demonstrate something other than attraction, that of conformity. This is an a...
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What Is Attraction?
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons What is attraction? What makes it work? Remember the days in school we used to watch the cute girls, the girls we spent lonely nights dreaming of, being with the bully’s and jerks of the school. Wondering why, why, why, they’d hang with them. Why they’d want to be with them after been treated badly, get teased and treated like nothing, these guys were so disinterested in them. I remember sitting in class and constantly thinking if I was that guy or if she was with me, I’d appreciate her, I’ve got so much to offer her. But we just felt it was not in us. Not a part of your make up to treat women like that. You’d watch in awe and accept that some have it and some don’t. We did not realise we could actually do something about it, we had this mindset because; we just saw the external parts of the interaction between this type of guy and gorgeous girls, not the internal aspects, seeing the cogs move, not understanding the p...
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The Metagame
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons For those of you who have been in the game for a while now, you will probably have developed your own style of play. Whether you are following one of the more mainstream methods, or have developed your own sense of game the fact is typically we have a sense of sameness to our approach. E.g. some PUA’s favour a more direct style, others prefere to use some form of dance game, whereas others may still use Routines, or Cocky funny spur of the momment lines. Whatever your style, there is one thing that does apply to many PUA’s esspecially those in areas populated with a strong community, sometimes you can’t avoid sarging in the same venue as other PUA’s. You may have a different style to the other PUA’s in the area, but the fact is you are competeing with other PUA’s. Now I understand that some people are fortunate enough to be in areas where there are few PUA’s and so this wouldn’t really apply to them. However,...

How To Flirt With Women
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Swinggcat In the movie A Beautiful Mind the mathematical genius John Nash walks up to a woman, plops his tush on a barstool next to hers and says, "I don't exactly know what I am required to say in order for you to have intercourse with me. But could we just assume I said all that? I mean, essentially what we are talking about here is fluid exchange, right? We could just skip straight to the sex.” Her eyes open wide, each one bulging almost out of its socket and simmering with anger. From behind her red painted lips she gushes a wry, “Oh, that was sweet.” He smiles ear-to-ear and nods his head in a way that could only mean “that went well.” Then she wallops him across the face with the palm of her hand and fires a harsh, “Have a nice night, asshole.” If you want to try Nash’s “charming” pick up line on a woman, go ahead. Be my guest. But invest in some headgear to take the brunt of the fist she...
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Step By Step Guide To Make Women Qualify
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Swinggcat Important: What you're about to learn is extremely powerful. So once you finish reading this post, put some time aside to digest it and implement it in your life. You'll be glad you did - trust me. Since I was a kid, I've worked in sales. My bosses always told me, "When talking to a prospect, spell out as many benefits as your mind can muster up about the product or service you're selling." Back then, if I sold Sham Wows, I would have told my prospects: A regular towel doesn't work wet. But the Sham Wow works wet or dry. You can use it on your house, your boat, your car, and your RV. It can hold twelve times its weight in liquid. It washes, it dries, and it polishes. It won't scratch surfaces. It lasts ten years... and so on. But then... something happened that changed my whole perspective on selling... Right out of college, I got a job selling private placements. My boss told me I sounded like one of those infomercial circus ...
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Top Ten Pick Up Artists 2010
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By NightVision Another year has passed and its time for us to find out who made it into the Top 10 Pick Up Artists of 2010. 1. Adam Lyons In 2007 no-one had heard of him now in 2011 every Pick Up Artist knows his name. Over the years he's developed Metagame, Entourage Game, A Unique formula for attraction and is one of only a handful of pick up artists who has proven his abilities live on television. Regarded as the worlds best pick up artist for a second year running by many of the other top PUA's. The reason he deserves his position on this list this year is due to the incredible successes seen on his bootcamps in the last year. Boasting an incredible almost 100% close rate on day 1 for his students on his courses has caused many up and coming pus's to come running to train with him. A well known saying within the game is that the only way to win the game is to leave it, AFC Adam is the only top Pick Up Artist to not only successfully get into a relationship with...

A Step By Step Guide Of Attracting A Woman
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Swinggcat Success Story: What's up man? I bought your book. I read it twice and have an excellent success story to tell you about... My friend brought me to a bar in Scottsdale, AZ last weekend to meet up with this girl he's dating and her friend. Neither of us knew what to expect with "the friend" but when we got there, I had met her before. In fact, she was the girlfriend of a business partner of mine a few years back. She's 5'9", 120 pounds, brunette with the greenest eyes you could ever imagine. In short, a total hottie. I wanted her then, and you better believe I wanted her now. I made a cool attempt at reminding her of who I was and she managed to pretend like she couldn't remember. Nice - a challenge! So we proceeded to sit down at a table and I ignored her completely at first. I paid particular attention to my friend and his girlfriend and angled my body language 45 degrees away from the other girl. After about 15 minutes ...
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Getting Lucky
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons Ok We are all aware of the phrase. “Getting lucky”… well; Luck = Preparation Meeting Opportunity. Well last night I made a decision that made me realise just how much that statement shouldn’t apply to us. The phrase getting lucky implies that we have no control over the results… or little control at least. So the essence of game should remove this, right? A good friend of mine described luck as preparation meeting opportunity. You can’t capitalise on a “break” if you aren’t ready for it. e.g. HB comes over to sit with you (giving you proximity) yet your fear of approach stops you from talking to her. If you were prepared and had practiced you would be able to start the conversation after recognising the IOI and get the girl… However this runs deeper. How many of you have been in the game for a while, yet still go home empty handed… are you missing something… Something othe...
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Premature Eject-ulation
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons The question to ask yourself is… Are you a victim of Premature Ejectulation? What I am reffering to is leaving a set prematurely because you “feel” you have been blown out. I have witnessed a wide range of students now some of them pretty well known amongst the community who will quite happily open a set, get them hooked, and run a decent number of routines generating a great deal of IOI’s and then eject, actually saying goodbye. A key point here is that this should not be confused with capture – recapture. Wherebye you leave the set on a high note at the begining of the night, with a time bridge stating you will probably see them around later on, and maybe they owe you a dance/drink whatever. Just so they don’t feel trapped by you early on in the night. I am talking about having a set hooked late into the evening, and leaving the set for a number of reasons which may seem valid in your head at the time, however upo...

How To F Close
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons What makes me write this is that I think the community needs to get over it love of opening. Too, too often I get emails from guy saying things like ‘I beat my all time record and opened 1000 sets in a month’ and that’ll be the end of his story. So I’d ask him ‘oh yeah, and how did they go? How many closes did you get?’ and he’d be like ‘blah blah blah, not very many’. That’s exactly what I mean: the community is just obsessed with opening and delivering when it should be focused on closing. Another example that just springs to mine: I remember talking to this guy the morning after a night on a boot camp and asked him what his favourite moment was. He said it was this opener he thought up on the spot ‘who lies more, geese or chickens?’ which is a funny opener and what should have followed it with is a story about how he was screwing the girl in the bathroom 5 minutes later. Look, forget o...
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The WMD Method
2011-11-25 00:37:00
After many years of studying what works and what doesn’t work with women, I have been able to put together an 8 phase process that will guide you on exactly how you could go from meeting a woman to sleeping with her in just a few short hours, or even minutes. I realized that each interaction with a woman had 8 or less crucial parts. And to be successful at meeting, dating, and sleeping with women, you had to become a master of all 8 parts. So what are the 8 phases? 1) The Approach – Being able to walk up to a woman, or approach a woman in a confident, charming way that will immediately set you apart from 99% of all the other men in the world. 2) The Chitchat – To be able to immediately and smoothly transition from approaching the woman to opening a conversation that will subconsciously and consciously build her comfort level and attraction level towards you in just a few seconds or minutes. 3) Closing the Sale – Mastering the art of buildi...

Valenines Day Opener
2011-11-25 00:37:00
I just created a Valentine’s Day themed opener which you can use for the next few weeks! Seasonal openers are pretty thin on the ground. There are especially few for Valentine’s Day. With some slight tweaking you can make it work all year round:” Let me ask you something…My friend had a difficult situation on Valentines Day. He basically planned to take his girlfriend for an amazing dinner, but a few days before she said she had to work. That was fine, they had a great day the day before. But, on Valentines day, he remembered he needed to cancel the table, but while his girl was at work, he had a thought. He had a friend who was single, and she was his good friend, he thought it would be a really kind thing to do to take her since she had just split up with her boyfriend and was feeling down. He tried to call his girl but she was at work and didn’t answer. He went ahead and went to dinner with this girl, when his girlfriend came home from work, s...

Teasing Women
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Ben Ezra When I was a kid, I remember how teasing the girls at school was a very common thing to do. Almost all the boys would tease the girls, and the girls seemed to enjoy it. Overtime though, as I grew older I began to stop teasing girls cause I though it was a childish thing to do. Instead I tried to act more serious so I would look ?cool?. BIG MISTAKE! Some years later I realized that all the guys that were always successful with women, and continued to be successful with women had one interesting thing in common? They never stopped teasing the girls. It was the same kind of playful teasing that I remembered from when I was young, and the same girls still seemed to enjoy it 20 years later. It is a certain kind of teasing that builds comfort and attraction. So how should you tease women? I though you?d never ask? How to Tease Women Well guy?s, it ain?t rocket science that?s for sure! Simply watch kids in action and you will be able to pick up more than a few gr...

How Play Hard To Get With Women
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Swinggcat Note: Inside you'll learn attraction secrets I've kept under wraps until now. In my honest opinion, these skills are what separate a Jedi master at attracting women from average guys. So read this article very carefully. We've all seen it before, my friend A silver-tongued Casanova firing sound bite after sound bite at a shining example of female perfection. Each sound bite carefully crafted to induce cough-up-a-lung laughs. Between the sound bites, he intersperses games and magic tricks tailor-made to suck her into his world by the eyeballs. To the untrained eye, his game is on steroids: her generously sized melons jiggle with laughter, her heart-shaped lips form into a fuck-me pout, and her Lolita-esque eyes hold onto every word he utters. But a few minutes later things start to stray off course Giggles turn to silence and intrigue turns to boredom. In her eyeballs, two try-hard dancing monkeys reflected off him. His I'm-compensating-for-...
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Going Out Alot and Not Getting Laid
2011-11-25 00:37:00
Ever got so caught up in the ‘training’ mentality that you lose sight of the goal? This could be you.. read on! How many guys on here have been doing approaches for awhile but aren’t getting laid like they should be? It reminds me of when back in the day I could go out and run 10 tight sets in a club – go home feeling all happy but then realise I didn’t actually pull. Often this actually comes down to not wanting to risk the positive social feedback your getting and wanting to make a move. The problem with this is that in every social interaction a girl will want to know if you are for real or not. It could be a shit test – she says something to you that makes you uncomfortable and she realises that her saying something ridiculous to you meant way too much to you so she doesn’t feel attracted to you anymore. It could be she pauses for a second and looks into your eyes dead on – just to see if you really are for real. Lots of ...

What Is Frame Control
2011-11-25 00:37:00
By Adam Lyons In the community you always here guys talking about their successes and their best moments, so much so that some PUAs are known as ‘that guy’ who did this one particularly spectacular pickup. What you don’t here people talking about are their failures although failures are what you really learn by. One particular failure was instrumental in my game and in my understanding of this topic in particular. I was just starting teaching and the student I was with pushed me into a 15-set of 10s. At this stage I didn’t even game 9s but he put me up to the challenge and so I did it. I think I tried some lame ‘who lies more’ line and got totally blown out. I went back to my student and refused to admit I had failed so I went over and tried again. Yet again it was some stupid Mystery method line and I failed. I turned to look for my student and saw he was in-set with the very same 10s! He had just said ‘hi’ whilst I was trying m...
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Using NLP On The First Date
2008-06-02 00:00:00
One critical mistake many men make on first dates is that women get easily bored of them and the attraction fizzles out leaving her to resort to the “let’s just be friends” speech. Using Neuro-Linguistic Programming techniques it is possible to get a deeper connection with her and ensure she’ll become so attracted to you she’ll be itching to see you again. Mirror And Match A fundamental NLP technique is mirroring and matching. Everyone has mannerisms they’re not aware of- the way they sit, gestures etc. People who are very close- best friends, relatives, couples etc. will share such mannerisms they aren’t even aware of. If you can match them on a first date, your girl will feel as if she is talking to someone she has known for a long time and will feel more comfortable around you. Here’s what to look for: • Body position: match her sitting position and consider whether she is leaning in, crossing her legs a...

How To Get Laid In The Next 30 To 60 Days
2008-06-02 00:00:00
So heres the basics... Have you ever seen the show "Bullshit" by Penn and Teller? If not, go check out Youtube or Google. It's fantastic. Highly recommended is the one on absintence. I've been watching a good bit of that show lately, because it's well-researched as well as entertaining, which is rare. On one of the shows, they talk about diet supplements and fancy exercise gadgets and the rest. And they make a clear point - It doesn't work. The only thing that works for getting healthy is good diet + exercise + generally mostly healthy lifestyle. You can find lots of these gut-check type programs on dieting. There may be 10,000 "magic cures", but there's at least 5,000 "ok, it's not easy, but here's what really works..." reminders from good people. And there really isn't that for the community - until now. Here's my post on how to get laid in the next month or two. This post does not maximize your chances of "getting really good at pickup" ...
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How To Get A Girls Number
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Most men will find that getting a woman’s phone number is an arduous task. They will not know when to ask, for example, or be fearful of risking rejection. Even after having got a girl’s number it can be difficult converting this into a second meeting or date. Conversation Leading To A Number Close One key mistake most men make is making small talk with a woman and then just suddenly asking for her number. This is definitely the wrong approach. A connection may (though normally is not) be made exchanging small talk with a girl but it takes a lot longer to do so. Instead, you must constantly steer the direction of the conversation towards your goal. Such a conversation will need to be based around building a connection with a girl and common interests you share. Examples of questions aimed at establishing a connection with a girl or sharing common interest: • What does she like to do when not at the office? How does she spend her free ti...
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Make The Right Impression
2008-06-02 00:00:00
The process of seducing a woman will begin before you’ve even exchanged words. Women will size up members of the opposite sex in the vicinity by subtler means than men and so can make a judgement about you without you even knowing if they know you exist! So it’s vital to make a good first impression: 1. Look Like You’re Enjoying Yourself Most men do themselves no favours when at a bar or club looking to meet a woman (or women). They will stand at the bar, shoulder to shoulder with friends, blatantly checking out the womenfolk, occasionally making the odd comment to each other about the girl with the great rack that just walked on by. They rarely look as if they’re enjoying each others company- so how could any woman enjoy their company? When you see people having a good time you naturally want to be in on the fun - they appear friendlier, safer and generally nicer. Fake it ‘til you make it if you really must. Look happy to be the...
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Pick Up More Than Dinner At The Supermarket
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Clubs can be noisy, smoky, hot, sweaty, expensive places filled with testosterone pumped AFCs all trying to hit on the same few hot girls in the venue. What these guys don’t know that we do is that we’re surrounded by HBs every day as we go about our normal lives. One great place to strike up a conversation with a random hottie is your local supermarket: Be Everybody’s Friend First and foremost to consider is your mental state. You can’t be in a seductive mode when out shopping unless all you want to do is weird out anyone you talk to. Your reason for starting conversations with hot girls is that you’re a naturally sociable guy who talks to everyone - the little Granny with her shopping basket, other men stocking up on crates of Coronas etc. so talking to her will come across as natural. This is the most effective mindset to have when gaming during the day. Walk Before You Run Don’t look at every woman you see and th...
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Power
2008-06-02 00:00:00
When seducing women, most men will make the key mistake of ‘giving away’ all of their power and status in the face of a beautiful woman. They will chase her, change their schedules to accommodate her, abandon friends and hobbies. In short, they focus all of their attention on the girl and the more attractive she is, the more they will tend to do this. Women are frustrated at being expected to lead proceedings and having men practically offer themselves to them. A challenge is well received as is a man who has more in his life than just making her the centre of his world. Feminine women crave masculine men but the prerequisites of the ‘modern, metro’ man don’t trigger the basic attraction switches women desire. Lead The Way “Can I have your number?”, “Are you free Friday? No? How about Saturday? Sunday?”, “What do you want to do?”, “Where do you want to eat?” All these questions fre...
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Three Seducive Characters
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Words themselves have little to do with seduction. It possible to come up with the most elaborate and impressive chat up lines and do little more than entertain a woman. More important is your ability to lead a woman through the process of wanting to talk to you, finding you interesting and then arousing feelings that make her want you physically. More often than not this is a process that takes time and patience- although in the odd case it can happen almost instantaneously. Most men will play the part of one character throughout the course of trying to seduce a woman according to their own personality types: for an outgoing, extrovert this will be the role of ‘fun, sociable’ guy, for example. But for most men they will wear the suit of ‘Mr Comfort’ - the ‘nice’ guy who may be interesting but isn’t especially fun or sexy. The third is the sexually aware man who will go into an approach with direct intent, exhibiting a stron...
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Guide To Creating Attraction
2008-06-02 00:00:00
Here is my guide to creating attraction. There is a bunch of other stuff that I do that I am trying to quantify and break down, this is a good start though. You’ll have to wait…. Creating attraction There are numerous ways in which you can create attraction. The following are some of the best, most powerful ways : Method one Conversational jujitsu. Using this method you pretend not to hear what she is saying and misinterpret it in a sexual way, as in the following example: PUA : Hey can you tell me where the nearest hairdressers is? Her : Oh yeah, it’s just up there, turn left at the bank. PUA : OK , just up there…PAUSE..Did you say you wanted to watch me wank? I’ve only just met you, my god you are forward… This is a rather extreme, however it’s useful because it illustrates the technique. Using this kind of sexual misinterpretation is great because: (i) You can use it at ANY point i...
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Conquering Approach Anxiety
2008-04-18 00:00:00
Richard La Ruina aka Gambler:  Frame it differently.  If you frame an approach as a do or die situation in which you are desperate for a close, this is high pressure. Frame it like this: You are being the fun sociable guy who will talk to people and have fun, and if you happen to be in an interaction with an HB (Hot Babe) that is going well, the close will be natural.  Take baby steps: If you are going in to close, you have a lot more to think about and you will have more AA.  Instead, in the early days, just aim to open as much as possible. Don’t over think, just say hi to strangers or cheers them, or wave, or ask a simple question then leave.  When you are comfortable opening, you can work on progressing things and actually start opening to close.  Reduce the pressure.  Going up to a girl and telling her “I want you, and nothing is going to stop me ge...
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Boyfriend Destroyer Strategy
2008-04-17 00:00:00
First I want to say that I am sorry for not posting anything in such a long time. I was long thinking about publishing this post because it is somehow evil. It gives you an overview over the tools to attract a person that is in a relationship and to somehow manipulate her to be turned her away from her boyfriend. I don’t know if you guys are religious, but I think that you should at least not mess with an instance that is way higher then you. Therefore I am writing this post because I want you to see what other people might try to destroy your relationship by getting your girl. This post is therefore designed to make you realise that especially a long relationship is not a guarantee for an everlasting relationship. I don’t want to encourage you to actually use this strategy as I said I it is evil in my eyes. I have done it and it worked over and over again but after a couple years I have realised that it is more important to know about this kind of strategy ...
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Becoming A PUA
2008-04-13 00:00:00
Let’s take a journey back a few years to the old me. Before I could get pretty much any woman I wanted, before I went to the top clubs and got VIP treatment without spending any money, before I had too many women and too many friends to make time for any more, before it became so easy that I never really needed to go out “Sarging” and still have the hottest women fancy me. Before Gambler, there was Richard La Ruina, the guy that sat in his house for up to a week at a time, had one friend who he saw about once every two weeks, lived with his mum, and had only kissed two girls. This guy wasn’t happy, he was depressed. I’ve written about my journey before. But, this time I want to focus on something that will probably apply to you…The accelerated journey – how to get to the place that took me a year to get to in just a few months. Let’s look at some common problems that guys have: -Scared to approach. -Do...

We Have To Talk...
2008-04-12 00:00:00
Hey man, I've been talking to a friend of mine who's literally the best guy I know for escalating from approaching to bed with a woman in a few hours. He's the guy who introduced "Natural Game" to the pickup community several years ago. He’s Vin DiCarlo, and you probably know about him from his mind blowing articles posted on our site: http://www.seductiontuition.com/vin-dicar lo/ You've probably seen guys who are successful with women using all Different kinds of methods.  There is a lot of material out there that deals with techniques, methods and inner game. Anyway, Vin has put all his best ideas into a new book called The Attraction Code and after reading the preview copy I can tell you its like NOTHING else out there.  Its is NOT Techniques, it is NOT a method and it is NOT Inner Game. He's only launching the book to a private list but because Vin's a friend of mine I was able to get access for you! ...
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Pick Up Lines
2008-04-12 00:00:00
Okay, we can divide this down right away into two categories: Pick up lines that just plain suck, and solid communication that comes across like a pickup line that sucks if not delivered properly. We’ll address them both. Pickup lines that just plain suck, period: These are listed as “Most Popular Pickup Lines ”. We’re taking them to task and trashing them, without permission, under the “Fair Use” doctrine. Lame-pickup-line-users worldwide may revolt. Let them. So here’s the collection of lameness: Is that the sun coming up... or is that just you lighting up my world? Let's make like a fabric softener and snuggle. Is your last name Gillete cause your the best a man can get. Do you want to make millions? millions of babies! Hi, have you got a boyfriend? (if no,) Are you taking applications? My love for you is like the universe...neverending!! Your senses must be messed...