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Is he an unappreciative jerk?
2008-03-08 10:45:00 My brother lives out of town so I often mail him small gifts. But he never acknowledges them and I have to ask if they were even received. Is he an unappreciative jerk? answer: Let me guess: He’s the mollycoddled younger sibling and you’re the older sister who was left to look after him while the folks ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Jerk
What can I do to make him feel more included?
2008-03-08 10:43:00 There’s only one guy in our office of 10 women. He is lovely and a really big part of the team, but sometimes I feel bad that he seems left out of all the girlie goings-on. What can I do to make him feel more included? answer: You’ve got a whole set of assumptions going on that ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Make , Feel
Can he not understand that I?m freezing?
2008-03-08 10:41:00 My husband steals the covers at night. He’s completely unaware that he’s doing this and when I ask him not to, he says I’m making too big a deal out of nothing. Can he not understand that I’m freezing? How can I stay warm? answer: Forgive me for asking this, but are you serious? Out of all ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Understand
I?m not ready for our relationship to be physical
2008-03-07 11:01:00 My boyfriend and I are studying overseas and we stay in the same house. We have separate rooms, but sharing a house still means being near each other a lot. I feel quite uneasy with his touchiness sometimes. I’m not thoroughly ready for our relationship to be physical because of my past experiences with ... More About: Dating , Relationship , Tips , Physical , Ready
What should I do to get to know more people and find a boyfriend as well?
2008-03-07 10:59:00 I’ve always been shy so I’m not very good at socialising, especially with people I don’t know very well. I’m so quiet, I feel like nobody wants to get to know me. As a result, I don’t have many friends, whether girls or guys. I don’t have a boyfriend either and I am already in ... More About: People , Dating , Relationship , Boyfriend , Tips
How can I tell them that I am just not ready?
2008-03-07 10:57:00 Six months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We’d been together five years already so it was a real heartbreak to realise that we were no longer in love. We agreed that we’re better off as friends. Now all my girlfriends are encouraging me to move on and start dating. They’ve even lined up ... More About: Dating , Relationship , Tips , Ready
I take so long to decide on my purchases
2008-03-07 10:55:00 None of my girlfriends want to go shopping with me! Recently, they confronted me and told me that they’re sick of the way I take so long to decide on my purchases and how I’m always dragging down their spirits with my constant whining about my turkey thighs when they see no reason I should ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Long
Diabetes; What I should be ready for?
2008-03-06 11:01:00 My mum has just been diagnosed with diabetes. She’s 53 years old. My friends are worrying me because when I told them of her condition, they started telling me about all these things I should be prepared for, like blindness and paralysis. They say she’s basically doomed. Is that all true? One of my ... More About: Health , Relationship , Tips , Diabetes , Ready
I need to lift and firm up my breasts
2008-03-06 10:59:00 After I lost 15kg, my bra size went down from 85D to 75D. It also became soft and saggy. I now have wrinkled, loose skin on the upper part of my breasts up to the side of my armpits. Looking at my built, salesladies do not believe I need a 75D. I’ve a circumference of ... More About: Health , Tips , Breasts , Lift
What are the complications of chicken pox?
2008-03-06 10:56:00 My sister and I are currently trapped at home with chicken pox and we’d like to consult you about it. What are the complications of chicken pox? Can we still continue using toner and moisturiser on our face? Is there any food that we should avoid for the meantime? What other precautions should we take? answer: The ... More About: Health , Tips , Chicken
Is my pain caused by his bent penis?
2008-03-06 10:54:00 I’m a 25-year-old woman who’s engaged to a 30-year-old man. My fiance has a slightly bent penis. Is this normal? When we have sex, I always feel a pain during the initial insertion and during intercourse as well. But when we do it with me on top of him, I don’t feel pain. Am I ... More About: Health , Relationship , Tips , Pain , Penis
Weird swelling on her lobe after ears pierced
2008-03-06 10:52:00 After getting her ears pierced last year, my sister still continues to have this weird swelling on her lobe. Is that normal? She has two piercings on each ear. After last year’s piercing session, the guy told her it should heal completely in three months. But it still looks pretty bruised to me. Sometimes, some ... More About: Weird , Health , Tips , Ears
Signs of controlling friend
2008-03-04 19:41:00 You have to drop whatever you’re doing at a moment’s notice to accommodate her. Your opinions are constantly brushed aside. She expects you to subscribe to her point of view on everything. You’re expected to speak, act and think in line with a certain “code of conduct” as dictated by her. She attempts to take over your other friends ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Friend , Signs
I?m so scared I?ll get pregnant
2008-03-03 14:35:00 When my boyfriend and I first started having sex we used a condom but recently he’s stopped and I’m so scared I’ll get pregnant. I wish he would use it but he says he doesn’t enjoy it with the condom and tells me not to worry. What am I to do? answer: Firstly, not using a condom ... More About: Dating , Relationship , Pregnant , Tips , Scared
I?m afraid that I?ll hurt my partner
2008-03-03 14:33:00 I like having sex with me on top and I tend to be quite “enthusiastic”. I’m afraid that I’ll hurt my partner, although I haven’t done so. Is it possible to break a penis? answer: Yes it is possible but it’s highly unlikely that this will happen. Although the penis doesn’t have a bone and comprise spongy ... More About: Health , Relationship , Tips , Partner , Hurt
Is it hygienic not to have hair down there?
2008-03-03 14:32:00 My friend tells me that she gets a Brazilian wax because it’s more hygienic not to have hair down there. I don’t wax, is that unhygienic? answer: We’re all born with hair “down there” and the hair does serve the function of catching bacteria before it enters our bodies. It’s not unhygienic to have pubic hair. You ... More About: Health , Tips , Hair
Since the birth of my baby, I?m so fat
2008-03-03 14:29:00 I was slim before I got married a couple of years ago. Since the birth of my baby, I’m so fat! I’m not even 27 and I look like an “aunty”. I can’t bring myself to have sex with husband anymore and I know he’s frustrated. What am I to do? answer: Feeling unattractive because of excess ... More About: Baby , Health , Tips , Birth
Crabs in the genital area
2008-03-03 14:27:00 I saw a movie on TV the other day where a guy accused this girl of giving him “crabs“. He was scratching his genitals furiously just before that. My friend says “crabs” is lice. Is it? answer: It’s pubic lice to be precise. These tiny parasites are different from head lice and prefer the coarser hair in ... More About: Health , Tips , Area
Symptom of STD or AIDS
2008-03-02 02:55:00 I met this “playboy” type of guy, and we had sex a few times. Recently, my “down there” became terribly itchy. Is that a symptom of STD or AIDS? Can you tell me more about these infections? I’m terribly scared. answer: I am glad you are scared - you should be freaking out! You have been very ... More About: Health , Dating , Relationship , Tips , Aids
Can I get pregnant with condoms?
2008-03-02 02:54:00 Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, I get paranoid about getting pregnant although he uses a condom. Can I get pregnant with condoms? Also, what will unprotected oral sex lead to? answer: There is a very small risk that a condom may fail. To ensure that you minimise risk, it is advisable that you use condoms ... More About: Health , Dating , Relationship , Pregnant , Tips
Do all men prefer virgins?
2008-03-02 02:52:00 I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and we only did it once. However, I got paranoid and regret doing it. Is it true that the vagina will become tightened if I stop having sex for a long time? And do all men prefer virgins? answer: It is important for you to understand your ... More About: Dating , Relationship , Tips
I got married last year and untill now we haven?t have sex
2008-03-02 02:50:00 I got married with my boyfriend of five years last year and till now we haven’t had sex. I’ve confronted him on this as I’ve caught him masturbating while watching porn. His excuse was that he needed time to get adjusted to married life. Weeks later I tried seducing him in lingerie but to no ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Year , Haven , Married
I get satisfaction from foreplay
2008-03-02 02:48:00 My husband and I didn’t have sex before marriage and after we got married, we did it. But I’ve doubts: I felt him thrust in, but after that nothing, Are we doing it right? He enjoys it but I get satisfaction from foreplay. answer: Congratulations about being able to say no to temptation, Many believe there is ... More About: Health , Parenting , Relationship , Tips , Satisfaction
Pre-ejaculatory fluid
2008-03-01 09:35:00 I have a rather delicate sex question to ask. Before my boyfriend and I make love, I have noticed a small amount of fluid on the tip of his penis. Does this mean he has had some type of orgasm already? answer: Relax, the fireworks are still going to go off at the end of the parade. ... More About: Dating , Relationship , Tips
Paranoid about a girl photograph in my boyfriend?s phone
2008-03-01 09:32:00 The other day, I had to get a number off my boyfriend’s phone when I chanced upon a photograph of a smiling girl I didn’t know. Okay, I was looking through his images. We have a stable relationship but I’m beginning to get paranoid about who she is and why she is in his phone. ... More About: Phone , Dating , Relationship , Boyfriend , Tips
He is still close to his ex-parents in law
2008-03-01 09:31:00 My husband was married previously and although he doesn’t stay in contact with his ex-wife, he is still close to his ex-parents in law. In fact, he seems to have a better relationship with them than he does with my mother and father. Something about this set-up bothers me and although I have no right ... More About: Relationship , Tips , Close , Parents
My boyfriend like jump around in the back of the television camera like an
2008-03-01 09:28:00 Every time my boyfriend sees a television camera, he can’t help himself and begins to either jump around in the back of the shot like an idiot in the hope that he’ll make it onto television or worse sprint towards the camera. When I chastise him for this behaviour, he tells me that he has ... More About: Television , Dating , Camera , Relationship , Boyfriend
My husband is pretty good around the house
2008-03-01 09:25:00 Compared with other men I know, my husband is pretty good around the house. He helps clean, wash and all the other tasks associated with making a place live able. However, if I ask him to do something even a little differently to his preferred method, he gets irritated and leaves the job for me ... More About: House , Parenting , Relationship , Tips , Pretty
Love at the first sight
2008-02-25 14:53:00 Always fancied yourself the type who’d never pick a partner based on his looks alone? A new study indicates that with time constraints, you may just be proven wrong! University of Pennsylvania researchers found that men and women who were placed in a speed dating scenario made their decisions based on appearance, and most did ... More About: Love , Dating , Relationship , Tips , Sight
Choose to remain celibate till I marry
More articles from this author:2008-02-25 14:51:00 I’ve been divorced for years and choose to remain celibate till I next marry. The problem is I have strong sexual feelings but a hard time controlling them. I take cold baths every night. I fear I’ll end up having sex with just any guy! I controlled my urges in the past with fantasies. But ... More About: Health , Tips , Choose , Marry 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 |



