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splash
2009-07-21 22:48:00
And just like that, I was back. Six months later.I was sitting outside in the sun just now, trying to give myself the pep talk I need right now. The house is quiet, with the kids away at camp during the day, and I was gearing up to paint my son's room. I wanted to paint today, but the pain in both my feet and hands is back and I'm finding it hard to ignore.Hence the sitting in the sun, talking myself.I forgot the comfort that comes from laying it out here, speaking the truth that doesn't come up in polite conversations. I know what comes next as I feel my coping skills waning. It is the panic, and the fears behind the panic - that the pain will take root and grow, making my life difficult to manage - that leave me paralyzed.So I am waiting to paint another day, trying to decide if rest is called for or if being distracted would help.But saying it here, helps.
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Hips don't lie
2008-11-14 17:17:00
Oh, so you thought I'd write this post last Friday? Me too.But Friday ended up being my freak out day of doing mindless activities - namely searching for miniature bundt pans - after finding a lump in my left breast.I saw the doctor last Tuesday and scheduled my first mammogram and I felt relatively calm about it.Then it sank in, and all I could think about was how I took Imuran for a year. So sitting down and writing because crazy-making behavior. I swore off google searching the hours away reading about breast cancer, and filled my weekend with so much activity, I never had time to seriously worry.Good thing too, because it was nothing. I came away with a base mammogram/ultrasound but not a worry in the world.Except for my hips.The weather has changed and I have become a Granny action doll, complete with bum hip. (Sore shoulders sold separately.)I've given Jazzercise a rest and have gone back to some gentle yoga in the mornings.This new pain - that wakes me up at night - give...

Guest Post: Rosalind Joffe (privacy and disclosure and living with chronic
2008-11-06 15:00:00
I wanted to know: How do you handle disclosing chronic illness, in the workplace and I guess, in your personal life as well. How much is too much and what is the responsible information an employer deserves to know?I’ve lived with chronic illness for almost 30 years and I still find that disclosure isn’t simple. Let’s be clear. Disclosure means talking about something for the first time – in this case living with chronic illness. The on-going conversations about chronic illness aren’t necessarily easy. But I’ve found that the first conversation is often the hardest.That’s why I suggest you consider the following when disclosing to a new friend or your supervisor: Be as public as you need to be and as private as you want to be.This means that you don’t HAVE to talk about this with anyone unless it’s hurting you not to do so (“as you need”. And, you can say as MUCH or as LITTLE about it as you feel comfortable sharing (that’s where your sense of privacy s...
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Keep Working, Girlfriend blog tour
2008-11-05 15:44:00
I am fasting this morning for a big blood work up so of course, my tummy is rumbling ala Pooh Bear in protest.Join me tomorrow as I welcome Rosalind Joffe of cicoach.com, and author of Keep Working, Girlfriend . You won't be disappointed.(You can find the blog tour dates and locations by clicking the book above.)
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back to normal
2008-09-23 03:29:00
My back finally started feeling better - am I so glad - and the aches and pains seemed to disappear as suddenly as they came on.Story of my life.I'm still working out, going to Jazzercise and taking several walks a week, and on most days, I can tell a difference in my energy levels.I think squeezing in those workouts helps me deal with pain better, sleep sounder and generally feel happier. And hopefully, I'll be able to squeeze into some cuter (read: not MOM) jeans.Fall is here and it's my favorite time of year...(I posted a fairly healthy soup recipe over at Mama Milton, if you are so inclined now that the days are getting shorter.)
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such a liar and woe to me
2008-09-05 21:08:00
Posting regularly again? Boy, I missed the boat there.But school's back in session and I will see if I can manage two blogs again. I guess I won't make any promises.My husband and I took a trip to Bermuda in August and we had a great time: No mid-flights cluster headaches, only some mild soreness and swollen ankles.I was poised to hit the gym - Jazzercise, specifically - when I was struck down by the flu. Yes, no kidding, 104 degree temp, red eye, aching influenza. I guess it's flu season somewhere, and I brought it back with me.What followed: Sinus infection, of course, and this ridiculous backache.It's been nearly a month, and I can't shake it.I've tried:heatbathsicetopical creamstennis ballswhiningsleeping on backwalkstearful pleas for back rubs when my hubby's homeaerobicsmuscle relaxerscomplainingmagnesiumprayerfish oilepsom salt bathsOTC NSAIDSprescription NSAIDS*sigh*Nothing seems to do it. Funny thing is: I'm pretty sure it originated from laying around so much....
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not perfect
2008-07-29 18:49:00
I caught a summer cold, compliments of my kids.They are thoughtful like that.I managed to hit Jazzercise Saturday morning, but my throat was miserable. Sunday, I was dragging and my perfect staging abilities - our house is on the market - was hampered. I let the house relax a bit while I sunk into the couch.Of course, my slacker tendencies meant I left for a movie with the house less than perfect AND someone wanted to see it.Doh. I hate that.But like always, I am doing the best I can on any given day. And sometimes that's not saying a whole lot.
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pretty pathetic
2008-07-23 03:22:00
Does that last post say MAY 26TH. I knew it was bad, but not that bad. Yikes.Well, I didn't fall off the planet, thankfully, but I had been swarmed with first the end of school crazy in June followed by the manic activity of staging our house that we recently put on the market while the kids are out of school.Bad news: Complete and utter blog neglect. (Even mamamilton.com felt unloved.)Good news: I was able to do a lot of the painting - count them, 5 rooms on one weekend - and although I was of course sore, it was very manageable with a little extra Neurontin.So, I am back to keeping this site current again, as best I can, while summer roars around me.
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rains
2008-05-27 03:40:00
When it rains, it pours.Or so they say.(I've never understood that saying. We take our rain in spits and drizzles here.)I've had a resurgence of symptoms lately, running the gamut: increased painful neuralgia in my hands and especially, my feet; muscle aches and weakness in my quads; exhaustion; dysphagia.I'm finding myself more discouraged than I have been in the past. I don't think the pain is worse; I think I am overwhelmed.Summer is coming and with it, the kids and I will be trying to get the place ready to sell so we can move while Greg continues to work out of town a couple of days a week. It makes me yawn, just thinking about it.But I'll place a call to my doctor's assistant and see what kind of cocktail we can fix up for me.(And I'm wondering: Am I frustrated or depressed a bit? It's hard to tell.)

little inspiration
2008-05-05 04:17:00
“I want others with a chronic illness to go find their own mountains.”Wendy BookerI caught another cold. Again. Nasty stuff and right after I started working out again, with a vengeance. Thankfully, I am starting to feel better and should be back in the studio - dancing and lifting weights - again by Wednesday.(I would go tomorrow, but I've got an appointment with my interim rheumatologist. Nothing says Monday morning like a blood workup.)I caught a segment about Wendy Booker on CBS Sunday Morning, just today. Wendy was diagnosed with MS in 1998, after long term numbness in her legs. Though she found the news devastating, and against her doctor's wishes, she began training for and completing marathons. Now she is climbing mountains - literally - and challenging the notion that life is over when chronic illness takes center stage.{CBS doesn't have her interview up on their website yet; it's worth checking out, once it's up.}Watching her train was a shot in the arm. A...
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have drugs, will travel
2008-04-17 20:09:00
We came packing.I carried an arsenal of meds to Disneyland last week, prepared for just about anything. Would I get a cluster headache flying? Would I be in pain, after racing through the park with my family? Well, if push came to shove, I was ready, drugs at hand.The best part: I hardly needed a thing.Yes, I've been gone for a month, under siege it seems. I had the dreaded flu - and before you whisper 'shot', remember that I'm allergic to eggs so it's a no go. The kids had head lice. We had two birthdays, one Easter, spring break and a trip to California. Man oh man I've been tired.But as we flew home last week, I was grateful I was able to keep up with my family. In the weeks following the flu, I had the start of what seemed like another episode polymyositis. I kept an optimistic outlook, but packed plenty of Prednisone because it had me worried.Besides being tired - which I imagine everyone experiences at Disneyland - and a neuropathy flare-up in my legs, I kept up, rode ev...
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walk in the park
2008-03-05 07:01:00
Winter has been tough on my joints; my knees ache nearly every time I go outside. I can see a cycle building: aching and stiffness leading to less activity and less flexibility, strength.This is not uncommon, I realize, just disheartening.Not long ago, I was mighty strong, bendy even. So, tonight I was at the park with Zack and two of his buddies and it was just cold enough for me to forgo reading a book on a bench. I decided I'd walk around the playground when the arch climber caught my eye...{You know, the thing that looks like a big ol' rainbow?} I started climbing until I was on top, looking down at the baffled boys, racing to join me.I piled over and under it; I tried the monkey bars, swung around.I felt like the self I left behind when I started seeing the rheumatologist. It was exhilarating.*****When our friends went home, Zack turned to Lexi, with the broadest, proudest grin. You won't believe what Mom was doing tonight... It brings me hope that I don't have to settle...
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thinking up hip hop nicknames: how about Puff Milton
2008-02-20 06:03:00
I should be rejoicing, celebrating the pain relief brought to me by Celebrex, now without stomach upset.And I would be if it wasn't for the edema, the scary kind.The rapid-weight gain, overnight I have not a pair of pants that fit kind of edema. Not even fat jeans, which left me in a skirt and tears before an impromptu barbeque with friends.I like to think of myself like the Queen, confident and assured, despite being heavier from steroids and general chubbiness.I like to think of myself being above weeping over pant sizes, but there I was: boo-hooing and frustrated to boot. The Celebrex worked wonders for my arthritis. I guess it just wasn't meant to be.So, I drank lots of water, and lo and behold, I was able to pry on some clothes the very next day.Onward I go, discouraged but moving.*****Oh, Much to My Sjogren received a little love today. She blushed and dug her toe in the sand...
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it still smelled like bergamot, part one
2008-02-05 05:17:00
The receptionist didn't recognize me. My hair is considerably longer now; my time away longer still. My naturopath met me in the hallway, and I yielded to a hug, steps away from the marks on the wall, tracking my kids' growth.I came in for Bowen Therapy, to hasten my recovery from my neck injury and hopefully, to get some relief from arthritis. I had forgotten how inviting her office is; the tiny painting she had picked up at Goodwill. Her kindness.She covered me in warm blankets and worked on my back, around my collar. She told me tidbits about her daughter, and then she would leave the room - typical in Bowen - like a Zen master, metering out parables.I looked out the window, through the shades at the stark winter trees, already feeling some pain relief.Why had I waited so long to try this path again?
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lessons from a 2 year-old
2008-01-31 00:46:00
I'm a slow learner, always adjusting. I injured my neck a couple of weeks ago, and whined about it on my other blog. I was discouraged when the urgent care doctor acted like I was out of line, lifting weights with an underlying condition.It bummed me out.So, I've been babying my neck, getting better. I did only 10 minutes of yoga today, but that's 10 more than I've been able to do all year. (Yes, it is January. Sounds more dramatic that way.)I've been thinking about a 2 year-old I know of, with JRA, going through IV steroids this week to reduce the inflammation in her eyes. Poor thing gained 2 pounds this month, from the meds and her cheeks are puffy. She hates being at the hospital. She has mood swings.And I sound just like her at times, unable to cope. Whiny and miserable.I figure if she can manage it, well, by golly, so can I. She's my hero.
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clusters ceased
2008-01-10 03:16:00
The headaches have passed. I can't capture how much easier my life is in their absence. I would sing you a ditty, if I could sing.Life always looks sweeter on this side.My hands continue to be cold, every time I sit down with my computer. Maybe I need one of those walking work stations...
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update: stupid cluster headaches and blue fingers
2007-12-26 16:44:00
First, let's focus on the positive, shall we? The EE is doing much better: I am continuing the steroid treatment and eating carefully, but I did have prime rib on Christmas without any trouble. It's been months since I could eat something like that.I am so thankful. My life is much easier now.But now for the bummer news: I'm in the middle of a cluster headache cycle. I had a migraine on Friday, followed by two 2-3 hour clusters, one of Sunday and one on Christmas morning. I usually get several a day, so it could be worse. I'm taking prednisone, upped my neurtontin and prescription migraine meds. I took my last verapamil I had on hand and I am waiting for my neurologist to call me back.I got a little weepy yesterday, worried I was ruining Christmas, curled up on the couch. Greg was quick to point out that the kids were distracted and fine. I was a bit loopy all day.Right before the headaches began my fingers are turning blue, from Raynaud's syndrome. I wonder if there...
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don't explain
2007-12-05 18:17:00
Well, hello my neglected site. Yes, I thought of you last month, really I did, but I was busy posting on my favorite child so you sat alone and probably cried. So sorry.I spent part of my time away pouting over this eosinophilic esophagitis gig until I got sick of myself and started reading cookbooks, making my own soups. I'll admit it here: IT'S NOT FAIR. It's a useless sentiment, but this last diagnosis made me grumpy.I think part of my disgruntled attitude stems from the social ramifications. Let's face it: food is often the center of our gatherings, and eating can be a landmine. It has been for me. I can't remember a meal I've shared with my extended family where my Grandma wasn't making comments, pushing food, questioning what I eat.I grow weary.So, between you and me, I'm eating what works. It's different everyday. I still feel like I need to justify my choices, but I am working on it.

THAT girl
2007-11-14 18:49:00
I've been stewing all week, frustrated by this new diagnosis. I am the google queen, I want answers, I want a plan. There just isn't much out there.The standard treatment for adults is swallowing a steroid from an asthma inhaler. I guess I can look forward to eating soft foods, more biopsies, more dilations. Children with eosinophilic esophagitis are often tube-fed, and allergy tested because eosinophils are part of the allergic response. (They are commonly found in systemic yeast infections and parasitic infections too - and if you are wondering, I was tested for both and have neither. Now, that's good news!)So, I asked my doctor if this could be related to food allergies, considering I do have a IgE mediated allergy to eggs. Could I have more hidden allergies? Not enough to kill me, per se, but enough to wreck my esophagus? And the answer my friend, is it could be. It's hard to say.I've been researching diets all week: macrobiotics, limiting the most common allergen...
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good golly gullet
2007-11-07 03:20:00
So I went in to see my rheumatologist this morning for my monthly check-up. He's a cool cat, in great shape and we get along just fine. I worry he will be retiring too soon for my liking - instead he is headed to Spain for 8 months, to study ultrasound methods, in Spanish no less. He's a go-getter. I like that about him.We go over the basics: no pregnancy on my meds, flu/cold season, and the fact that we basically have maxed out the options up to the more drastic, in-clinic IV med stuff. I know this and nod. We cover the GI doctor's newest diagnosis (yes, the biopsy was positive): eosinophilic esophagitis and the treatment. (I am have an inhaler that I don't *puff* but rather swallow, delivering the steroid to the esophagus. I am sticking closely to a soft food diet.)I ask tons of questions. I want to know what I can do to improve my case, stay healthy. And he basically says this new condition probably is from my autoimmune disease and there's not much I can do about ...
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anxiety is setting in
2007-10-31 00:29:00
Over a week has passed and the biopsy is starting to weigh on me - will I or won't I have yet another pain in the butt diagnosis. Do I have more food allergies? And then what?Tick tock. I hate waiting.
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cupcakes for a cause
2007-10-25 04:22:00
Create a virtual cupcake and with every one you send, $1 is donated to Cupcakes for a Cause, an organization that helps children with cancer. Cute and calorie-free for a good cause - count me in.

Update: upper gi endoscopy
2007-10-24 01:15:00
Here's the brief rundown: I had a schatzi ring that was dilated and broken up. This sounds very icky and I have pictures, so if you are looking for scary Halloween fodder, it's all yours. (So kidding.) Doc GI also took a biopsy for possible eosinophilic esophagitis. I guess I will get the results in a few weeks. My preliminary research, laying here in my bed, tells me this might be related to food allergies, or an allergic response. The doctor said this would need to be treated with a liquid steroid I would swallow to reduce inflammation.Other than feeling hungover today and having a sore throat, everything seems to be a little better today. It wasn't near as scary as the meds worked their magic and I could hardly remember a thing.I count this as a good thing. I'll keep you posted on the biopsy results.
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verdict: upper endoscopy
2007-10-18 02:31:00
GI doc came in yesterday and asked me about my rectal bleeding, because that's what he read in my chart. Oh really? Now I imagine that bleeding like that is unpleasant, and I don't want to make jokes about it, but it did make me laugh just a little because rest assured, this was not the reason I was there. Once we got past the mix-up, I found him to be nice enough - it's hard establishing repertoire with a new doctor. You need them, to be sure, and you have to communicate well, or you may not get what you need.So, he explained several things that could be leading to the dysphagia:stricture - scarring that narrows the esophagus, making it increasingly difficult to swallowshatzki ring - benign ring of tissue in the esophagusmotility disorder - basically the muscles don't work rightI am going Monday morning for the endoscopy. It doesn't sound pleasant, but I will be sedated and offered narcotics, which relieves my mind. He may do a biopsy or dilate the esophagus while I out of it ...
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nightmares and being able to adapt
2007-10-10 23:22:00
I had a nightmare over the weekend. I kept choking and choking - I couldn't swallow some lettuce and I went to the ER where they proceeded to stretch my esophagus out with a medieval, torturing device. I told the dream doctor that I thought it might hurt as he began and he said, "Yeah, most patients cry for 2 hours." Then I woke up because even my sleeping brain knew that was a bunch of crap.It can't be that bad, but I am obviously a little nervous about my appointment.I've been spending a lot of time thinking about my Grandma, visiting with her on the phone since she had her stroke and is inside more often. (She is typically outside, working with the dogs at her kennel.) Though she is never weepy, she speaks about being sad - how hard it will be for her to give up her business and home soon. There isn't any way around it; I know that. But it seems to surprise her. I find that interesting.None of want to grow old and lose our independence. No one wants to get sick. But it's com...
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but I just bought food
2007-10-03 22:55:00
I went grocery shopping yesterday for two ravenous hyenas, the Invisible Traveling Man and me - the woman who needs toddler foods. (I feel like a 1 year old. "Chew, chew, chew.") Well, I'm not about to start buying Gerber foods again so there has got to be a way for me get my veggies because let's face it: a grown woman shouldn't subsist on chocolate pudding.Today I combined stir fry vegetables with broth, making a tasty (egg-free) soup in its own right. Then I added the instant miso soup I picked up at Trader Joe's. It was heavenly - low fat and satisfying. Good food is good for the soul.
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elixir
2007-10-02 06:33:00
Last week, I could feel a cold coming on. (Gee, thanks kids.)I drank lots of water and took about 4 ounces of my newly harvested? brewed? kombucha tea with a little bit of unsweetened apple juice. I turned in early.Maybe it was wishful thinking, or the water. But I forgot until mid-morning that I had even caught the bug.Or maybe kombucha has been around for thousands of years for a reason.

He's baaccckkkk
2007-09-26 01:40:00
My favorite doctor is back tonight, insulting friends and consulting janitors. Good times, good times.

goes down easy
2007-09-21 22:12:00
After some phone wrangling, I have an appointment with Dr. Gastro - ah, my team grows. The receptionist was charming and kind (ew, you poor thing) but the earliest she could get me in is October 16th. Such is life with specialists.With this 'moist' diet, one would think the weight would just be falling off. I thought it might be the silver lining. But alas, sucking down smoothies and puddings does not a smaller body make. Those calories just slide on down and leave me hungry.I'm cutting coffee, alcohol and spicy, real food and all I get is bigger. I am waiting for my sense of humor to kick in. Right. About. Now.So, I am scanning the globe, searching for lowfat, egg-free, not-too-spicy recipes that my family will like too. And when I am done, I will find a solution to the missing sock dilemma, plaguing families across the country.I'm on a mission.*****Technorati Tags:gastroenterology, dysphagia, swallowing problems, sjogrens, soft food dietAdd to: Technorati Digg del.icio.us...
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this is what denial looks like
2007-09-20 07:12:00
Last week was nasty. I 'choked' all the time, food stuck in my esophagus. I ran a fever. And Greg was gone a lot.I don't like to write about it. I don't know why. It used to feel cathartic. Now it feels indulgent.But I am back. The fever is gone, and I am feeling a little better. I have stocked up on soups, smoothies and other moist foods.{I told a friend that today. It makes me think of cat food.}I'm still waiting to hear from the gastroenterologist. I think it's time I get forceful.
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