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Out of Love
2008-06-04 15:22:00
Recently my girlfriend started working in a bar and I have barely seen her since. I prophesied at the time that she would fall out of love with me and fall in love with one of her barmen purely because of the amount of time she spent there. Exactly this has happened and she told me she has fallen out of love and 3 days later she is in bed with her barman saying she loves him. What should I do? Is this it? I love her.- Sam
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Boyfriend Changed
2008-06-04 14:45:00
I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things were great when we started going out for the first 3 months at least. We broke up for about 1 month but we were always together during it. When we started going back out things were great he treated me better than ever, but then things started to change. He never wants to be around me and we always fight. when he started to live with me, things just got worse. He threatens to break up with me all the time, or leave me. He calls me names and says Im a crazy bitch because I wanna talk to him instead of fighting. He never keeps his promises. Im starting to become really depressed. I dont know what to do.- gina
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Proposal
2008-05-09 15:00:00
My boyfriend and I have been dated for 2 yrs; we always talk abt getting married but he didn't propose even I told him I wish to settle down. He put all his priority to his career so he didn't propose even a few mths later; when I wanted to break up with him, he came n beg me and said he was already planning it but I find my own pride can not take it, as I wish he can be like other man who can give the girlfriend a surprise and fairy tale experience.Inside my heart I know he has every intention to propose and be with me and he is serious about this relationship. I know the reason he didn't pop the question as soon as I expect is because he is always busy with his job and he usually doesn't have time to plan the proposal. But, whenever I think that as a girl, I have to initiate the proposal I get really angry with myself and with him. I was even contemplating to leave him so that he can feel bad for not taking the lead in this issue. But I also know he is a great guy, a responsi...
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Natural Beauty
2008-05-08 15:41:00
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Cher or Dion
2008-04-02 07:16:00
Three years ago I spent Christmas Eve in Las Vegas. It?s the second time I traveled to the States but it?s the first time I flew to further south down there, where showed me a quite different view than the North-East side of the States close to the boundary of Canada.I put aside the work and enjoyed the exotic luxury for a few days. At that time, Céline Dion was on the stage of Las Vegas. "My Heart Will Go On" was Dion's biggest hit and one of the best-selling singles in history. After a few years of self-imposed semi-retirement, Dion began a nearly five-year run in her own show at Caesar's Palace in Las Vegas.Unfortunately, Dion left her stage in Las Vegas at the end of last year. While Dion is now enjoying her stay in China, Cher is taking over the stage at the legendary Caesar?s Palace in Las Vegas. It?s certainly a good news for pop music fans. There are a handful of one-named superstars in the world and then there's Cher.Three years ago, Cher said her final farewell to fans ...

Desperate Love
2008-03-28 11:26:00
I miss her desperately, i can see her in my mind, her smile, her beautiful brown eyes, her hair.. i love her energy she makes me feel higher than any drug could...When she talks i listen to her every word, her voice is soft and sweet, i love her pronunciation , her accent and the way she uses body language to punctuate her words , i love her.....It seems so long ago but at the same time only yesterday since i held her in my arm?s, made love to her, Kissed her lips, and fell asleep in her arms, i long for those nights again...When i saw her last it had been about a month since we didnt see eachother and then, the second she walked into the room i was breathless ... i mean really !! i thought "my god, how are you so perfect?" i would have got down on one Knee for her right then.....What hurts the most is knowing that she's with someone else, someone who doesnt deserve her, doesnt know what he's got, cant treat her the way she should be, cant give her the thing's that matter, not ma...
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Boyfriends Ex
2008-03-28 10:11:00
I have a Problem with my Boyfriend's ex, she is his highschool sweetheart. They were bestfriends and went out for 4 years. He added her to Facebook, now i think that he is going to cheat on me with her. We've already discussed this and he thinks im making a big deal out of nothing. I just cant get over it though i've thought about talking to his ex but i dont know what i'd say. I need help Getting over this. - Jenelle
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Sex Weakness
2008-03-28 07:44:00
About 5 months ago a friend of mine brought along a girl she knew from her neighborhood to come party with us. We talked a little, drank a lot, and she ended up in my bed with me that night. The next day she left and i didnt know her name and really wasn't all that concerned if id ever see her again. Later that day she sent me an e-mail and we started talking a lot and i learned that she was actually a really cool person and i became a lot more attracted to her. We learned that we had a lot in common and i started to think about her as more than just a one-night stand. I actually began to like her and care about her. she told me from the start that she'd just gotten out of a 5 month relationship but the more we got to talking, the more i noticed that her life with her ex was still very complicated and i realized it was not a good situation. Regardless, we continued dating for a month more or so until she finally freaked out and said we could only be friends because she didn't wan...

Trust
2008-03-28 07:20:00
Hi, I need some TRUTHFUL advice.My girlfriend and I met 18 months ago and since then we have been living together for about a year. She has been married six times and has gotten a divorce every time. I have never been married or been in a truly serious relationship until now. We told each other all the things that two people say when they are passionately in love. We discussed everything in our lives with each other and made plans and decisions for a permanent relationship. I even gave up my job so we could work around hers, since her job was more established and secure. There are many other things that were discussed that I could include in this message but it would be too long. Now, she wants to give up on this relationship without telling me all the TRUTHFUL reasons why. I expressed to her from the very beginning that her relationship track record was bad and that I was not looking for a serious relationship at the time that I met her, but the fact that we both agreed this relati...
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New Guy
2008-01-31 14:30:00
i need some help. im in a year long relationship with a guy who loves me so much and of course i love him back. 3 months ago we had a 2 month break because I thought I only liked him as a friend. Just before we broke it off i met another guy who was very sweet, shy and caring. Not being up myself, but he seemed to really like me. I'm still not sure if i broke up with my boyfriend because i saw this new guy as something different and, well, "new". Anyway, i became interested during the time i had broken up with my boyfriend. I don't fall for guys very easily and normally not that quick. I know he wasn't a rebound guy either, he was more than that. In the 2 months i was apart from my boyfriend the new guy and i became kind of a couple but without him actually asking me out. We didn't have a sexual relationship but we kissed when no one was looking. One day, he had suddenly made best friends with alot of my girl friends and became more interested in them than me. I was hurt and wan...
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Happy or Not
2007-11-08 03:33:00
Both my partner and me are divorced with two children each. We all get along really well and have the usual relationship up and downs but the other day he kept on asking me, are you sure your happy?I constantly tell him how happy I am and how much I love him. Why does he doubt my happiness?Please explain this to me.- TANJA
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Remarry
2007-09-19 15:54:00
Well I have been dating a 41 year old who has 2 kids for 2 years, as I am 30 I would like someday to remarry and possibly have another child but he is totally against it. I do love him very much but I told him I needed to go my own way because I have to stick to want I want. Now I met another man 31 with a daughter the same age as my daughter although I haven't developed any feelings for him yet, I think my heart is with the other man. Now the 41 year old says he can't not have me in his life and if marrying me is what it takes well he will have to give in to me. I am so confused now as to which way to turn because I think the 31 year old is my age and our daughters have the same interests, where as the other man's kids are 10 and 6. Please help....Agnes
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In Love
2007-09-19 04:54:00
My partner says he loves me, and I asked him if he was in love with me, and he said no. He has been married twice before, and he said he has never been in love with anyone. He has been hurt in the past, and I dont know if this is a barrier he is putting up. I have no doubt he loves me, and he always tells me why didnt we meet years ago. But I am very hurt that he says he is not in love with me.- Karen
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Privacy
2007-09-16 15:57:00
Last year, I bought a house about 1/2 mile from my sister. Over the past year I've lived there, she has popped in unannounced almost every day with the expectation that I would drop whatever it is I'm doing and entertain her and feed her. As a result, I am finally in my own home at 37 and I feel as if I have absolutely no privacy or security. She has the key, so it's not like I can hide until she gives up ringing the door bell. The problem is that whenever she is directly criticized or even gently confronted about her behavior, she fights very dirty and quite frankly, it is a toss up between suffering with no privacy and facing the dragon.- Jennifer
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Time
2007-07-05 05:15:00
Last time, we talked about the topic "Choice" and focused on the Choice between friend and lover. The result of the two specific cases we discussed is apparent that the lovers have to say goodbye. So before move on to next topic, we need to help with the popular "Love or Not" inquiry first. As we mentioned in "Friend vs. Lover", there are two major breakthroughs: relationship and personality.Different personalities react differently. This girl said, if he cheated on you, go kick him. Another one said, make sure that this guy your with treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Don't settle for less. People with such personalities are more likely to get over the pain in a short time. I sum up this topic in great detail as follows in the hope of helping some other people whose personalities don't allow them to easily get over the pain.When you have to say goodbye to someone you still love, the situation is always like this: your mind says let him go but your heart says hold on. P...
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Fab Life
2007-06-29 07:15:00
If you are a lady who closely follows the latest fashion trends and is always ahead of time, you will surely be fond of a site called "HerFabLife ". Is it saying, "Her Fabulous Life"? Pay a visit, you will love it at first sight!The most eye-catching content is the "Most Popular Item" on their home page and it's updating frequently. Once the home page is refreshed, the item may be changed! Remember its title and tag then you will be able to retrieve it by tag or search. There's a voting system attached to each item. It's so easy to vote; just click on one of the 5 stars representing the levels of your preference.By simply providing an email address you can register a free membership right away. As a member, you can add comment or bookmark the article.If you scroll down you will see "Most Active Users". They are all fashionable girls! If you want to make a friend like that, just check their profiles. You can also be listed there, if you actively participate on the Website by postin...

Diet
2007-06-27 05:52:00
Health plays an important role in building your self-confidence in a relationship. For those who are on your way to weight loss, MyFitnessPal.com gives you all the tools you need to lose weight the healthy way and it's free!Keeping track of the food you eat and the activity you do is beneficial. However, recording everything you eat can be tedious. At MyFitnessPal.com, you can log your meals as quickly and easily as possible. MyFitnessPal.com knows what you?ve eaten and done most frequently in the past, and makes it effortless for you to repeat adding those foods again to your log. Therefore, the more you track your foods, the more convenient it becomes! At MyFitnessPal.com you can have your own food diary with 6,000 foods in their searchable database and you can add your own foods and recipes at any time and access them from anywhere with an internet connection; you also have your own exercise log to track how many calories you're burning and a personalized diet profile customiz...
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Relationship Discussion
2007-06-24 02:37:00
Nowadays, the dating sites are going more and more comprehensive. eromance.com is such a dating site with an exciting community to discuss relationships and romance. Let's take a tour.When you visit their Website you will easily notice the "Community" link in the navigation menu and when you point your mouse at it, four sub-categories will show up. Let's click on and browse the "Discussion Forums".It tells you that it's an excellent place to discuss your thoughts on love, romance & relationship. And yes, who knows, maybe you will connect with someone else in the process!Let's click on and try the "Relationship s" forum. On the fourth page you will find a topic thread called "what's wrong in dating two at a time". It's pretty much similar to the topic "Two Women" of "Choice" we used to discuss about. Let's click on it and see what some more other fellows think. Well, I will sum up this topic in a later time as I do to "Friend vs. Lover".News about eromance.com: July is the last...

Wedding Website
2007-06-21 16:03:00
When you prepare for your wedding, you think about your announcement, wedding planner, ceremony site, Save-the-Date cards, bridesmaid, honeymoon, wedding invitations, jewelry, guestbook and thank-you notes ... You missed a very novel idea, that is, a wedding website!Your wedding website is the communication center of your wedding information and planning. Moreover, it is your stage, your space to share your joy, to celebrate your special day. You can show your beautiful photos and all your relatives and friends will know what bride or groom looks like; you can introduce you couple then your relatives and friends will know about your other half before wedding; you can tell of your fairy tale love story to share your joy with your family members and friends; you can provide with the information and resources of your city or country to those who will fly to attend the wedding from far away and share the spots information of your ceremoney and honeymoon location to make others prepared ...
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Confused
2007-06-21 15:58:00
Well first id have to say that im confused whether i still love mah bf or not.....i really dont understand mah feeling for him ne more...i get pissed of at him most of the time; we fight a lot; we call each other names; i tell him that i hate him all the time; i try and kick him out but he never leaves when i try to....and the worse thing is that when i talk to other guys and start for a while after i start to like them..even tho i have a bf i feel like i want to be with someone that will treat me better and understand me better...but then again i dont want to do that because i dont wanna cheat and lower myself to the same thing that he did for me...what i mean by that is that he cheated on me once and i havent gotten over that....so i guess i want comments and advice or whatever...or to see if there are ne ppl out there that feel the same or something well if i didnt make ne sense or u dont get it just write back or e-mail me...thanks for those who have read and took the time to re...

Sunshine Pearls
2007-06-19 05:24:00
If you choose to wear the socially and environmentally responsible jewelry pearl or would like to purchase it as a gift, now you have one more choice. Sunshine pearls.com is an online pearl store based in New Jersey where you can purchase high quality pearl from at competitive price. They purchase pearls direct from the farm of the source. They buy Akoya Pearl Necklaces and Earrings from Japan, Tahitian Pearl Necklaces and Earrings from French Polynesia, Freshwater Pearl Necklaces and Earrings from China and South Sea Pearls from Australia.What is more, they assemble their own necklaces, earrings, pendants or bracelets. They string their necklaces on the best grade of silk with double knots. All of their clasps and settings are Solid Gold.Every piece of pearl jewelry that they sell comes with a Certificate of Guarantee describing the piece, its quality, and its retail value. Each certificate is prepared by a professional GIA certified pearl grading expert and qualifies as an appraisa...
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Friend vs. Lover
2007-06-19 03:31:00
ChoiceFriend vs. Lover I would like to sum up the topics we discussed about one by one in great detail.Today's topic is: ChoiceThere are different kinds of choices: the choice between friend and lover, parents and lover, two women / men, friendship and love etc.Today we focus on the choice between friend and lover.To solve the relationship issues, there are two major breakthroughs: one is the way how to deal with the relationships with each party; the other one is the personality of each party.Love has three major steps:1. Fall in love;2. Test love;3. Love lasting or love ends.The two related cases we will refer to when we address this topic are under Bestfriend vs. Lover menu.If you love someone but you have never expressed your love even if you suppose that you both love each other, then it's not yet a love relationship; in this case, if a third party occurs, you will be quite passive. This is a typical Shy Guy issue we will address later. Therefore, the boy in Best friend vs. gi...
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Wedding
2007-06-14 05:01:00
One more gorgeous site for your gorgeous wedding! Wedding is one of the grandest moments in your life. Not only is it luxurious and unforgettable, but also, the bride is the most beautiful and the entire wedding should be perfect. To be perfect is not easy, however, such splendid moment should be free of worries. So here comes this Website called ?advantagebridal.com?. It?s a site for bride where you can find Custom Crystal Attire and all other what you will need on your wedding. Let?s take a tour. It has a Wedding Countdown page I urge you to visit first, although their Webmaster didn?t put a direct link from their homepage to this foremost page. Yes, you should plan your wedding one year in advance!To plan your wedding, they offer you the Easy Wedding Planner. But if you click on the link Wedding Planners on the left side, you will go to a page with more choices. Just follow this Wedding Countdown you will be fine.It?s not the end. advantagebridal.com also has a Wedding Ideas page...

Just Say Hi
2007-06-13 19:51:00
There's another Love & Relationships forum at a dating site called justsayhi.com that is easy to remember. It's a free US based online dating site other than the free online penpal site. So far they have thousands of singles in their database.If you click on the text link "Visit our community now" on the right on their Website, you will be directed to their message boards. There is a "Relationship Advice" discussion on how to start and keep a good relationship. There are thousands of topics there!Let's take a look. I picked one topic from the 2nd page; it's called "4 Great Reasons to Stay Single Forever". The discussion is hot. By the way, I think the title of the topic is important when readers will "swim" in thousands of topics. The imperfection I noticed is that some members' profile thumb photos aren't shown properly.>> More Dating or Penpal Sites
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Woman Savers
2007-06-10 06:08:00
We have been discussing about narcissists for a while. Now I would recommend you to visit a fascinating place called womAnsavers.com. You can search or post cheating or abusive men on the internet's largest database rating men! Would it be helpful if you could talk to a man's ex BEFORE you got involved? Well, for those women who crazily blindly fall in love with a man, this may not be so mighty; however, for those who are looking for advice and come across this message, this probably helps, in that, those women are relatively rational. Over 25,000 men's names were entered by women at womansavers.com! Curious? Then pay a visit. It has a message board where you can find free abuse recovery advice.Let's have a try. When I clicked on "Abuse Help" in the message board, I got a list of topics and I picked one called "How to heal from abuse?" then I read this real-life story and very sincere responses from real people. One of the replies is very to the point. It says, herself suffered ...
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About
2007-06-05 16:51:00
understandyourrelationship.com is a blog that gives you advice on relationships of all types. It helps build, fix and perfect your relationship from all aspects. understandyourrelationship.com believes that the personality plays a critical role in all Relationships, therefore, the blog focuses on the topic of personality as a whole and also discusses about personality in great detail.When the blog helps solve real-life Relationship problems, it also categorized those cases and put the similar ones together, since each story is unique, however, the "knot" of the problems could be so alike and once the "knot" is unknotted, the problem is fixed, hence, the blog covers the topics from the "choice" between two women, between boyfriend and parents, and between girlfriend / boyfriend and best friend, the topic about "shy guy", the tips on forming an agreeable Relationship, advice on how to deal with varied situations when a Relationship is gone bad.

Guy Friend
2007-06-03 06:06:00
My guy friend and i seem equally interested in each other, in becoming more than friends. i can tell he is interested in me by the things he does and says to me. we sometimes hug each other but the other night i kissed him on the cheek. he didn't really say or do anything. what could this mean?- claire
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Responsible
2007-05-26 03:14:00
As I mentioned in checklist that narcissists are probably the most responsible people, just like this dialogue in Happy Pie: - Who is the most responsible?- The business person, like me.Narcissist s are the most successful people, not only because they are smart, but also, they are responsible and hard-working. Except for Adolf Hitler and a few other narcissists who made huge mistakes (destructive ones), narcissists are still undeniable good candidates for leaders. Be sure to pick out a productive narcissist.In my humble opinion, behind or beside some elected non-narcissistic leaders, there is likely a narcissist who is the real "conductor".My point is, to be too close to a narcissist, especially a destructive narcissist, as a lover, spouse or follower, you need to be a perfect "masochist" and make sure he / she is a productive narcissist who deserves your sacrifice; otherwise, to stay away is wise and the wisest is to "keep him / her at an arm's length", and you will be benefited w...
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Checklist
2007-05-26 02:01:00
Of course narcissists also have other traits, but I see them as minor ones; they may help you spot a narcissist, however, they are not vital enough to convince you to stay far away from them. No one is perfect; we are not sages but humans, and the following mentioned, in my humble opnion, is OK to get along with. 1. a narcissist has fantasies of doing something great or being famous, and often expects to be treated as if these fantasies had already come true. (my note: that's probably why they do succeed finally)2. a narcissist has very little interest in what other people are thinking or feeling, unless he or she wants something from them. (my note: you also do want something from them, do you?)3. a narcissist is a name dropper. (my note: not only narcissists are namedroppers)4. To a narcissist it is very important to live in the right place and associate with the right people. (my note: everyone does)5. a narcissist takes advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals....
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Narcissist vs. Guardian
2007-05-25 15:54:00
Most people are in some way narcissistic or have the trait, but the "narcissists" we are discussing here are those whose narcissism has been enlarged to the extreme extent that it severely affects people around them. There's a theory out there that believes that most well-known successful people are narcissists, while I have a different view. In that theory, all those famous people who have different temperaments as defined in Dr. Keirsey's theory, are labeled as narcissists, including Bill Gates and the like, which I can't seem to agree. I may not have the right to say so, in that, I had no chance living in a life close to them to proof it. However, in that theory, it mentions four types of people: narcissist, sensualist, utilitarian and marketing, and they are exactly what Dr. Keirsey describes as guardian, idealist, rational and artisan, in this case, I would say, Bill Gates is not a narcissist, at most, he is a narcissistic rational.The theory also classifies narcissist as pr...
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