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I am me
2009-09-16 04:13:00
I left a narcissistic personality disorder, and he made it his mission to destroy everything in my life because I did leave him for good, for ever, he took all my money, destroyed my business, tried to destroy my relationship with my twin sister and friends. I was prepared and unprepared, I was prepared in the sense that I knew that he wasn't going to stop until he totally felt that I was anihilated, and when I was left, broke, homeless, bankrupt,and emotionally scarred for life, he has dismissed me completely. I didn't win the battle with him, but I won the war with myself, I know he was awful and disgusting and not someone I could have a happy life with. Money, career, material possessions could ever make up for the feeling that you will be better off without him and his disgusting behaviours. It has been 8 weeks since I filed a police report against him, 8 weeks since he destroyed my old life, 8 weeks since I have had to listen to him. And I am still picking up the pieces of my...
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Worst Mistake
2009-08-20 17:54:00
I have been with my husband for almost 12 years now and we have 2 kids together. I cheated on him about a year ago and it was the worst mistake I have ever made and now he is cheating on me and doesn't want to be with me, he says that he loves me but he isn't in love with me and that he can't trust me.- Melanie
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Always Together
2009-08-20 17:50:00
Me and my boyfriend are always together and never apart. When we go out to partying we are always together too!! But now he is going out with his pals at the weekend and I am going to be left on my own cause all my friends are going away for the weekend with their boyfriends. I just need advice to keep my mind off him.- Hottie
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More Tips on Engagement Rings
2009-08-14 04:36:00
To find the right engagement rings she likes is more important than how much you spend on the ring. First, you need to choose the ring metal between gold or platinum. Platinum is pure, resistant and enduring, while gold is common and shining. Then, you need to choose a setting style. Solitaire settings position the center diamond to catch the most light. Settings with sidestones such as gemstones add addtional sparkle. If you would like a wedding band to wear on the same finger with the engagement ring, settings with matching bands are designed for you. There are even three-stone settings with three diamonds for the past, present and future. To choose a right ring for her without her knowing is not difficult if you truly know her tastes and lifestyle. Pay attention to the color of jewelry she usually wears. If she is very active or not used to wearing jewelry, a cathedral or contour setting designed to protect the diamond better will fit her well.
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Head Game
2009-08-11 18:17:00
I have dated this guy off and on for 6 years. The reason it has been off and on again so much is because we are both stubborn. I believe he is really passionate about his feelings for me but he can never talk to me about how he feels. He seems to always play head games and say one thing but mean something else. I really like this guy but we seem to be at different points in our lives. He also never wants to hang out with my friends and doesn't like to do some things I do. Satuday we had some people over and I invited some friends he didn't know. He ended up getting very upset and punching through a door. Needless to say, I asked him to move and he was out by Sunday night. We haven't talked since but I am not sure I am completely ready to call it quits. This is the first outburst he has had like this. Do I end it or try to work it out?- Kim
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Love Narcissist
2009-07-26 17:21:00
I need to leave my narcissistic man. He's done everything from taping us having sex to posting it. I was on the airwaves talking about my most private parts and made me the laughing stock of the land. I'm I guess emotionally unstable. I love this wicked man and can't leave him. I tried once I ended up at a mental institution.- Tanya
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Argue over little things
2009-07-23 00:00:00
My girlfriend won't swallow her pride when it comes to situations and we argue over little things all the time. She's in America at the moment for 3 months which Im finding really hard at the moment to deal with. We've been together for a bit over a year but I think she needs to compromise with me sometimes and make sacrifices as I have done. I've also put her threw alot over the last 8 months with me going to jail and now rehab only cause Im young and stupid but she still stuck by me threw it all. I just need some relationship advice about my situation please. Thanks.- Camo
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Hours Away
2009-07-17 03:47:00
So I've been out on 2 dates with a guy and there's definitely chemistry! Now, he wants me to travel to his town near the beach for an evening dinner. It's a few hours away and the conversation came up because I mentioned that I like the beach. How do I let him know that I'd like to wait a bit and get to know him a little better before taking a train to meet him in his town?- A
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Relationship Advice Archives
2009-06-30 21:28:00
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New Relationship Advice
2009-06-30 20:34:00
New CommentsWe all make mistakesYou just need to change your habitIf he is stubborn, you will need to be more expressive.Do you truly love your narcissistic man?You have to avoid arguing with her and put up with her pride.It was the worst mistake I made.You are great parents.He totally into u!!!!!!!My responses to several of the traits are based on a marriage to a Narcissist for 15 years.You guys went on another date which is good.You write such beautiful words.Can I give you the best advice about dating I will ever give?Maybe he's into u; maybe he's just not that into u; maybe he's gonna be into u later.If you are important to your boyfriend.In order to trust again, you have to forgive.
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Discipline a Boy
2009-06-30 01:23:00
Need relationship advice on the best way to discipline a 10 year old boy that is always getting into trouble at school, daycare and home! We have tried, restriction, taking away things that he likes to do, making him clean all kinds of things around the house, writing sentences, doing more homework, I cannot even remember all of the things that we have tried!- Samantha
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Idealist
2009-06-15 04:00:00
Ever since I can remember, I have always had a curiosity for this deep inner knowing of ?Self?. This all consuming and magnificent obsession has driven me to find new answers about human behavior. I recently ran across the relationship book ?Please Understand Me 2? and found that I was a Champion/Healer Idealist temperament.I am struggling at the moment with a similar feeling of loneliness and alienation. I live in one of the most conservative and traditional areas in the country and find myself constantly curious about others behavior.I ended up marrying a traditional Provider Guardian and have just really realized that I have tried to change her for the last 7 years of our marriage. I am deeply longing for connection and a ?soul mate?, an understanding and a genuine sense that I am known (as described in the Idealist mates profile).How do I deal with the fact that the person I am with doesn?t understand or maybe even isn?t possible of understanding what I am longing for in a conne...

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2009-06-13 13:17:00
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Relationship Rings
2009-06-09 16:40:00
When your man starts asking you about your plans for the future, whether you are happy in this relationship, or even the rings of your newly-wed friends, these are the subtle hints that he is planning on his coming proposal. A romantic proposal is usually surprising, but only in regard to when, where and how it will happen. As for the engagement ring, it's very important for you to give your man a precise idea of it. Since it will be valuable and you will be wearing it each and every day; you want to wear a ring that fits you well, he wants you to be satisfied, and he wants to be your hero who gets you a perfect one.The easiest way is to sit together with your man, and browse through a tacori jewelry website. Show him the images of the engagement rings you dream of, tell him which diamond shape fits your finger the best, and don?t forget to mention about your finger size.So your man will remember that you prefer Tacori designer engagement rings, and he may fall in love with Tacori?...
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Paranoid Partner
2009-06-04 16:59:00
In "Break up" we discussed about the Breakup Cost of Love and the Love Saving Account you need to accumulate to ensure you are rich enough to date and possibly lose love someday with less hurt. In "Love with no Result" we summarized 8 foremost preconditions to ensure a successful love journey with apparently more chances. In "Narcissist" we discussed about a personality disorder to help you spot it at the early stage of your dating and make an informed decision.Today we will move on to another personality disorder; it's called "Paranoia". The most explicit sign of a person with paranoia is that he is overly or constantly suspicious. A paranoid person grasps any single piece of evidence that supports his mistrust and ignores or misinterprets any other evidence to the contrary in order to confirm his doubts, and he continually does so. A person suffering from paranoia continues to question the loyalty of others.So how will a paranoid partner possibly hurt you if he is just on his gua...
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Break up
2009-06-02 17:21:00
OK, OK, I understand, it's the most difficult emotional time to get over. I understand that the advice in "Goodbye Lover" and "Heartbroken" on how to get it over are so rational and apparent that we all know them but they are hard to carry out in real situation of that moment. The reason is that the advice is too late.So, today, we switch an angle from being too late to being in time, if not early, when you are still rational. Yes, this piece of advice is for those who are not yet being in love or who just fell in love and still have vision.Today's topic is called "Love Cost", however, this cost of love is not the one that ultimately leads to a long lasting happy marriage, therefore, actually called "Break up Cost of Love". How much does a breakup cost? Of course, financially it cost you. The more serious your love relationship was, the more cost it may occur. However, are you aware of the hidden cost of a breakup? First of all is your emotional cost, that is your lowered self-este...
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Caribbean
2009-05-22 17:32:00
Have you heard the concept "all inclusive vacations" or all-inclusive resorts? At "all inclusive resorts", comfortable accommodations, meals, soft drinks, gratuities, recreational activities, entertainment and most alcoholic drinks are included in the daily rate. Many also offer a selection of sports and other activities included in the price as well. They are often located in warmer regions.Soft, white sand beaches, gardens bursting with bougainvillea and hibiscus, blue skies above, a light breeze ruffling the palm trees beside the gazebo, and the ocean behind you. Forget about the rest of the real world, enjoy your caribbean vacation and leave your wallet behind.Curaçao Resort with native Dutch character is the first All-Inclusive resort in the Southern Caribbean .

Being in love vs love
2009-05-21 17:16:00
What's the difference between being in love and love? Building a love relationship is like building a bridge over a river. Being in love is like crossing the river in winter. The river freezes over and we can walk across. It's effortless and exciting. Anyway, summer comes, the ice turns to liquid and we?ve lost our natural bridge. The ice bridge relies on the weather, and we realizes that we need a real bridge that endures through every season in order to cross the river and reach the other side or just to keep the excitement of crossing the river. Being in love is romantic, but life is realistic; crossing the river over the ice bridge is thrilling, but the weather changes, and there's nothing that the effortlessness can maintain. We can make use of the ice while we build a more durable bridge of wood, brick or steel. Likewise, while we?re being in love we can build a lasting love relationship based on respect, trust, and friendship. When we?re being in love we want to spend all ...
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Love with no result
2009-04-26 18:59:00
To avoid 8 kinds of love with no result, you will live a life with less hurt. Do not create self-hurt and do not let these love with no result overshadow your view of a much better and healthier life near at hand. 8 kinds of love with no result are as follows:1. When you care about him more than he cares about youLove is supposed to be mutual, and when he's just not that into u, to avoid self-hurt, you had better give him up as soon as possible before your love is getting deep. Your love is actually never satisfied and the harm is not less than drugs'. You lose yourself in this unbalanced relationship and you will feel you are fooled and painful.Vice versa, do not hurt someone you are not that into.2. When you only love his potentialYou don't really love him as is and you just love the one he might become in the future, then he is just someone you want to shape but not your love.If you always hope to change him to satisfy you, then it's rather gamble than love.Vice versa, if he ...
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Bridal Shoes
2009-04-11 04:04:00
The most neglected but the most important part of your wedding ensemble is actually your bridal shoes.Since you will wear your bridal shoes all day and all night on your wedding day, please buy two pairs of bridal shoes early and test them by walking around other than on the carpet for an hour or two at a time in order to break in the fabric, and then try to wear them till the end of the day. Comfort ensures your best mood on your big day.Bridal dress is worn only once, while bridal shoes aren't. High end brand bridal shoes are usually more comfortable. It's worth investing in designer bridal shoes with high quality fabric and delicate craftsmanship.Shoe pads are bridal shoes' good friends. Not only will they help prevent slipping and chafing, but also make your feet look better by preventing your toes from hanging over the edge of the shoe.
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Betray
2009-04-06 23:18:00
I had a friend who betrayed me by asking my boyfriend in private if he would leave me for her. He is still friend with her and I am supposed to act like she never did this. I don't want her around my bf. Should I leave my boyfriend because he refuses to stop being friends with her?- Amy Rice
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Being a mom
2009-03-25 18:02:00
One of the happiest things in your life is to be a mom, giving birth to a child, a human being, amazing enough. This little kid will be the extension of your life. Fashion doesn't forget pregnant women and it says that you deserve even much better. Being cute and trendy in maternity clothes is possible. For those mothers-to-be who are happily pregnant, I wish you and your angel all the best.

Boyfriend's Son
2009-03-24 03:48:00
I am currently dating a man who has a 13 year old son from a previous relationship. He is a good dad for the most part, and the 3 of us get along great! However, when it comes to disciplining his son, it just doesn't happen. His son is used to being spoiled, and getting away with everything. It's more like his son is the parent, and my boyfriend is the child. Know what I mean? Recently his son was caught stealing and my boyfriend put his son on restriction. However, he still allowed him to go to his moms house where he knew that she would let him do whatever he wanted. The only reason he went to his moms is so he could play with his friends anyway. My boyfriend tells me that he can't keep him from seeing his mom, however the only time his mom is in his life is when she wants something from my boyfriend. Like money or whatever. Anyway, my point is, that my boyfriend absolutely will not step up and discipline his son the way I think he should. Like restriction without the benefit o...
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His staring
2009-03-17 22:46:00
I'm 15 year old girl. And I go to 10th grade. In my science class there this guy and he's very smart. He's the best student in the class. But a week ago strange things was happening. He stares at me a lot! Two days ago, he stared at me like he was shocked or something. I was in my classroom doing my work and he stared at me again. One day agohe stared at me two times. Every day he stares at me! He always talks with the girls in the class and fool with them. But his staring bothers me. I don't like him or anything like that. I mean why he's staring at me? what should I do about it? Because it really annoys me.- Wantstoknow
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Evening dress
2009-03-17 19:28:00
After work, Friday and weekend nights, where are you often going to? Bars, pubs, parties, clubs or dates? You will surely think about what to wear and how to wear attractive. You will think of an idea wearing sexy clothes. You can try Halter dresses. Halterneck is a style with a single strap around the back of the neck. Halter top is a type of sleeveless shirt. The term "halter" comes from the German word for "holder", which literally means "busts-holder". Halterneck garments are generally considered more provocative because they leave the upper or upper and middle back free, exposing the shoulder blades. Or you can pair long gowns with some very sexy knee-high boots. An evening gown ranges in length from tea and ballerina to full-length. Gowns are often made of a luxury fabric such as chiffon, velvet, satin, or silk.Last but not least, in any relationship keeping the romance going is a very important part, and nothing helps this more than wearing sexy lingerie outfit.
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Out of Love
2008-06-04 15:22:00
Recently my girlfriend started working in a bar and I have barely seen her since. I prophesied at the time that she would fall out of love with me and fall in love with one of her barmen purely because of the amount of time she spent there. Exactly this has happened and she told me she has fallen out of love and 3 days later she is in bed with her barman saying she loves him. What should I do? Is this it? I love her.- Sam
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Boyfriend Changed
2008-06-04 14:45:00
I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things were great when we started going out for the first 3 months at least. We broke up for about 1 month but we were always together during it. When we started going back out things were great he treated me better than ever, but then things started to change. He never wants to be around me and we always fight. when he started to live with me, things just got worse. He threatens to break up with me all the time, or leave me. He calls me names and says Im a crazy bitch because I wanna talk to him instead of fighting. He never keeps his promises. Im starting to become really depressed. I dont know what to do.- gina
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Proposal
2008-05-09 15:00:00
My boyfriend and I have been dated for 2 yrs; we always talk abt getting married but he didn't propose even I told him I wish to settle down. He put all his priority to his career so he didn't propose even a few mths later; when I wanted to break up with him, he came n beg me and said he was already planning it but I find my own pride can not take it, as I wish he can be like other man who can give the girlfriend a surprise and fairy tale experience.Inside my heart I know he has every intention to propose and be with me and he is serious about this relationship. I know the reason he didn't pop the question as soon as I expect is because he is always busy with his job and he usually doesn't have time to plan the proposal. But, whenever I think that as a girl, I have to initiate the proposal I get really angry with myself and with him. I was even contemplating to leave him so that he can feel bad for not taking the lead in this issue. But I also know he is a great guy, a responsi...
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Natural Beauty
2008-05-08 15:41:00
HypnoxTM is a 25-minute hypnotherapeutic audio recording developed as a natural alternative to Botox. Where Botox uses injections to paralyze the facial muscles (making it nearly impossible to frown) Hypnox targets and re-trains those same muscles. The process stops frowning, and allows wrinkles to fade away, permanently. Click here to view more details
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Cher or Dion
2008-04-02 07:16:00
Three years ago I spent Christmas Eve in Las Vegas. It?s the second time I traveled to the States but it?s the first time I flew to further south down there, where showed me a quite different view than the North-East side of the States close to the boundary of Canada.I put aside the work and enjoyed the exotic luxury for a few days. At that time, Céline Dion was on the stage of Las Vegas. "My Heart Will Go On" was Dion's biggest hit and one of the best-selling singles in history. After a few years of self-imposed semi-retirement, Dion began a nearly five-year run in her own show at Caesar's Palace in Las Vegas.Unfortunately, Dion left her stage in Las Vegas at the end of last year. While Dion is now enjoying her stay in China, Cher is taking over the stage at the legendary Caesar?s Palace in Las Vegas. It?s certainly a good news for pop music fans. There are a handful of one-named superstars in the world and then there's Cher.Three years ago, Cher said her final farewell to fans ...