Exposing Online Predatorsand CyberpathsExposing Online Predatorsand CyberpathsOnline Players, Internet Predators, Cyberpaths, Dating Site Frauds... whatever you call them - they need to be EXPOSED! Did they take your money? your heart? your soul? your trust? Tell your story, Share ideas for dealing with them Articles
OUR PREDATOR OF JULY 2006: Richard (Rick) Kudlik
2007-09-10 02:28:00 Man arrested after Internet-Girlfriends out him as fake U.S. marshal NEW YORK (AP) - To some, Richard Kudlik possessed the macho allure of a deputy U.S. marshal on a manhunt.They say he had the badge, raid jacket, flashing lights on his Dodge pickup truck, even a gun. But the real U.S. marshals -- and a chorus of angry women -- say Kudlik was only acting.Kudlik, 43, was arrested at his Port Jefferson, N.Y., home Wednesday after several ex-girlfriends outed him earlier this month on a Web site featuring a wanted poster. The site calls him a "lying, cheating U.S. Marshal impersonator" and reveals his true identity as a long-married maintenance man.He pleaded not guilty to possessing a counterfeit U.S. Marshals Service badge and was released on $5,000 bail. His attorney did not return a phone call Wednesday.Pamela Brown said she began dating Kudlik last year until she received an anonymous e-mail warning: "The man you‘re dating is not who he says he is."... More About: Rick , July , Predator , Char
WHY PEOPLE ARE SUCH JERKS ONLINE
2007-09-08 02:40:00 The concept of the flame war online is certainly nothing new. It's been around since before most people were even aware the internet existed. However, more people are starting to look into the issue of why people tend to be such incredible jerks online when they might be perfectly nice in person. It seems that there are few different things contributing to the effect.First is that people somehow feel "disinhibited" when sitting behind a keyboard and monitor -- whether it's because of the supposed anonymity, the fact that you're effectively "invisible" or even the fact that there's a time lag between being a jerk and any response to it. The fact that you're somewhat separate from the response just makes it that much easier to be a jerk.Some feel that it has even more to do with the lack of direct human contact in terms of either seeing hurt feelings or hearing someone's voice. There's just less empathy involved in seeing black and white text then seeing a physical reaction to ... More About: People , Online , Jerks
COERCIVE TACTICS OF CYBERPATHS
2007-09-07 02:05:00 We have edited this to pertain to Cyberpaths. But the behavioral aspects are the same as for abusers and battered women. The male gender has been used but, your Cyberpath may be female - Fighter~ Bidermans Chart of Coercion ~(Edited for Cyberpathy)Abusers use tactics similar to what prison guards use on their prisoners, it is a type of brainwashing. They recognize that control is not easily accomplished, they need the cooperation of the victim. This can most effectively be gained through subversive manipulation of the mind and feelings of the victim, who then becomes a psychological, as well as a physical prisoner. These tactics form what we know as emotional abuse and online cyberpathy.The original Bidermans Chart of Coercion identifies these methods and tactics of power and control used by abusers and their anticipated result. This Chart was originally a publication called "Report of Torture" from Amnesty International, which depicted the brainwashing of prisoners during war. Dian... More About: Tactics , Path
RED FLAGS!
2007-09-06 02:58:00 1. Be wary of the guy who is busier than the President of the United States. Doesn't have the time to see you. Has too much work to do.- Volunteers for additional assignments.- Needs to wind down-with his buddies in a bar-rather than spend time with you. - Doesn't know if he can "control" himself with you.- Must spend more time with his children. Must do laundry. Must pay his bills.- And the best one of all, must have "time for himself."If he can't manage a few hours with you on a regular basis, his priorities are questionable. Chances are he is only paying lip service to how important you are in his life. 2. Be wary of the guy who can't be with you on important occasions: your birthday, Valentine's Day, when you need some emotional support, etc. (things even a GOOD FRIEND would do for you).- If he can't rearrange his schedule to put you on top of his list, at least occasionally, you will always take a back seat to the rest of his life. 3. Keep a record, however brief, of hi...
Why do YOU ALWAYS Have to Be Right, Martyr Man?
2007-09-05 03:39:00 (this wonderful article can be read in its entirety at THIS SITE. It could be a letter to any of our cyberpaths. We recommend you read the whole thing at the site linked above! - Fighter)Dear Martyr Man,You will always be the victim, in every situation where someone tries to get close to you. You cannot relate to women as equals. You look for a strong-willed woman, latch on to her, but envy her strength and ability to express herself openly, so you attack her in vicious little ways. Ways so subtle that you can easily and convincingly deny any wrongdoing and make HER look like the crazy one for even suspecting that you are a passive-aggressive game player.You played similar games with women before, and this was a chief motivator for their anger and "abuse" towards you. If they struck you physically, that was not right, but when you paint yourself as a martyr, you *always* fail to mention the emotional and psychological abuse you were inflicting on THEM.That's right, Martyr. You are... More About: Always
CONFLICT IN CYBERSPACE
2007-09-04 02:07:00 How to Resolve Conflict OnlineHave you ever noticed how conflict can get blown out of proportion online? What may begin as a small difference of opinion, or misunderstanding, becomes a major issue very quickly. Conflict can be difficult at the best of times, but what is it about online communication that seems to ignite “flaming” and make conflicts more difficult to resolve?There are a number of reasons to explain why conflict may be heightened online. One is the absence of visual and auditory cues. When we talk to someone in person, we see their facial expressions, their body language, and hear their tone of voice. Someone can say the exact same thing in a number of different ways, and that usually effects how we respond.For example, someone could shout and shake their finger at you, or they could speak gently and with kindness. They could stand up and tower over you, or they could sit down beside you. How you feel, interpret, and respond to someone’s message often depends on... More About: Cyberspace
MATTHEW COX - BUSTED CYBERPATH
2007-09-03 02:21:00 Yet another reason to AVOID online dating and meeting ANYONE online for romance! This wanna-be writer lives out his books exploitive fantasies... (comments in purple are ours) - FighterMatthew Cox wooed women and wrangled millions from his victims. When it comes to pulling off the ultimate con, he wrote the book — literallyBy Keith MorrisonIt’s the ultimate taboo to give away the ending to any book. But we’ll tell you this: Matthew Cox's book ends with a fugitive con man, on a Florida cruise ship, carrying a bag with millions in cash, sailing away with the girl of his dreams one step ahead of the angry throng giving chase.But is the book fiction or fact?There are truths in this tall tale as bizarre as any novel.Alison Arnold: He felt like the modern-day Robin Hood he would steal from the rich and give to the poor. That was his thing. And I believed in him.The story begins in Tampa, Florida in the late 90’s when a hard-charging 20-something named Matthew Cox began making a... More About: Busted , Path
EXPOSING THEM - CREATIVELY
2007-09-02 02:40:00 "I remember thinking - the internet got me into this mess with this [cyberpath] and now the internet is going to get me out." - anonymous victimThe parameters of what is and isn't o.k. to put on the web are still being worked out (no S.S.#s or private information that wouldn't be openly available anyway is out for sure) we found websites started by people wishing to out THEIR predator, cheater or cyberpath. We commend every one of these people for being brave enough to put their stories out there to make sure these predators don't do it to someone else. Some of the people listed have been covered by our site, some have not.Creativity can be a blessing when healing from a predator, user and/or abuser:click below to go to the sites made in their "honor":DIANA MEDINAJAMES HODGESMR. VIENNA SAUSAGEWILLIAM BARBERMIKE KENNEDYPHIL HABERMANMARK GRANIERIRICK KUDLIKJOSEPH A. CAFASSOSome sites that expose cyberpaths & abusers in order to educate the public about the M.O. and patterns of t...
PREDATOR OF THE MONTH: LISSA DALY
2007-09-01 02:48:00 A REVIEW OF OURDECEMBER 2006 PREDATOR OF THE MONTHAnother Female CyberpathLISSA DALY(written by Daly's target)I first came into contact with Lissa through a fansite/messageboard. I prefer to keep this particular personality & the fansite private, I highly respect this person and prefer not to associate this psychopath to them.In hindsight I would not have picked Lissa to be one of my friends and I highly suspect she had to create such personalities to keep a link. She was always the "know it all" bully. (sounds like a narcissist already)After she had established herself on this board she created a woman named "Sandy". As the Sandy personality she became close to a girl I know whom I'll call Jill."Sandy" soon lost her (invented) fight with cancer but left behind a (also invented) daughter, "Libby," who was a lost soul after losing her mother. Libby then grew close to Jill and even said she thought her mother had found her to look after Libby after she was gone. I also became close ... More About: Predator , Month , Mont
Some Thoughts About the PSYCHOPATHS Among Us
2007-08-31 02:37:00 [Dr. Robert Hare (foremost authority in psychopaths] calls them "subclinical" psychopaths. They're the charming predators who, unable to form real emotional bonds, find and use vulnerable women for sex and money (and inevitably abandon them). Psychopaths can be found in legislatures, hospitals, and used-car lots. They're your neighbour, your boss, and your blind date. Because they have no conscience, they're natural predators. If you didn't have a conscience, you'd be one too."The con man works one-on-one," says Babiak. "They'll go after a woman, marry her, take her money (trust/ love...), then move on and marry someone else. The puppet master would manipulate somebody to get at someone else. This type is more powerful because they're hidden." Babiak says psychopaths have three motivations: thrill-seeking, the pathological desire to win, and the inclination to hurt people. "They'll jump on any opportunity that allows them to do those things," he says. "If something better c... More About: Thoughts , Some , Path
The Red Flags Of An Online Relationship
2007-08-30 02:02:00 Know what to look for...by Jennifer GoodIn a medium where faith in a potential partner is being put at an all-time high, it is important to know if you're stepping blindly. If you're considering an online relationship, or are currently in one, there are a few things you should be prepared to look out for. While each situation is unique, and it is important to go by your instinct, the following list should help you spot any red flags you might encounter.RED FLAG #1: Won't show you current or full body photos.While looks may not be important to you, your partner's ability to tell the truth should be. If you doubt the sincerity of any photo your interest has sent you, send a disposable camera with a self-addressed, postage ready envelope with instructions to take pictures and send the camera back to you. This way you can develop the film yourself. Of course, you'd probably only want to go to this much trouble if you are seriously interested in this person.RED FLAG #2: They do not ... More About: Relationship , Online
CHEATING HEARTS CAUGHT ONLINE
2007-08-29 02:58:00 Cheating Hearts Caught Online By Walaika K. Haskins(excerpted)Internet dating sites have never been more popular. They have been a romantic oasis for people with busy lifestyles, allowing them to pursue a relationship at their own pace. Many women are comfortable with the sites because they can become well acquainted with a prospective partner before even going on a date.However, for every online testimonial that greets the lovelorn masses, there is a story of bitterness and spite. A growing number of Web sites now traffic in the business of warning women (and sometimes men) about prospective mates who have a very loose relationship with the truth.Welcome to the online antidote for a broken heart. Web sites such as Players & Psychos and TrueDater have taken up the call to expose liars and cheats before they have a chance to make a fool of you. Call it the online version of the popular reality show "Cheaters."Rewarding the FaithfulOn one site, jilted or cheated-on lovers, girlfriends,... More About: Cheating , Heating
SEXUAL PREDATORS TARGET SINGLE/ DIVORCED MOMS
2007-08-28 02:30:00 DIVORCED OR SINGLE MOM? AN ONLINE PREDATOR IS LOOKING FOR YOU!(As EOPC has said - PREDATORS HUNT THE WOUNDED! Are you divorced, alone, depressed, single, disabled, single parent and online? You're a Target !)More than 20 million Americans log on to their computers each month looking for love, according to Online Dating Magazine.While getting to know a potential mate from the privacy of their home may be comforting to some — especially single women getting back in the dating pool — it is not without danger. A growing number of sexual predators and pedophiles are taking advantage of online anonymity and using dating sites to prey on single mothers and their children. One single mother, who asked that her identity be withheld to protect her daughter, had such an experience.She met her future husband online and within in six months, the couple were living together. Two years into the relationship they married."At the time, it just seemed magical," she said. "It was the dream come ... More About: Predators , Moms , Sexual , Single
BEWARE THE RAGE OF A CYBERPATH WHEN CAUGHT
2007-08-27 02:29:00 BE CAREFUL!!ONCE YOU EXPOSE THEM YOU WILL MOST CERTAINLY BE SUBJECT TO THEIR NARCISSISTIC RAGE. THE CYBERPATH MAY/WILL DO THE FOLLOWING:- smear you to everyone they can- harrass you by phone or email or website postings (be sure to BLOCK their emails and instant messages or DO NOT REPLY - just save them. If they threaten you or your family, go immediately to the authorities.)- minimize, whitewash or twist the truth about what happened between you to their friends, family, spouse, partners, co-workers, anyone who will listen (and accuse you of doing it; not them!)- do everything they can to make YOU look like the sick, mentally ill or not credible person- use their friends/ spouses in denial, other predators to help them discredit and smear you or harm you physical and psychologically. They may post on boards you belong to or hack a website if you have one.- hire an attorney and give the attorney selective information to sue you for defamation and/or slander. (REMEMBER: the TRUTH is... More About: Rage , Caught , Beware , Path
A MARRIAGE DATABASE IS NEEDED!
2007-08-25 02:10:00 THE ABSOLUTE NEED FOR A MARRIAGE DATABASEFight Bigamy says:"Our archaic system is failing in our transitional, wireless-based society of today. Moreover, Internet dating sites have given many of these predators a whole new supply. Our fragile system is taken advantage of by serial bigamists sociopaths and con artists." (and Cyberpaths!)Click here to read this whole article~~~~~"So how do they do it? First of all, sociopaths are experts at sizing up a person’s vulnerabilities. Secondly, they are professional manipulators.Sociopaths are fluent liars. They sidestep questions and always have a plausible answer when discrepancies are noticed. They create authentic-looking documentation. They imply that other people vouch for them, and actually convince other people to cover for them. They keep people apart so it’s impossible to compare notes.As a result, it is extremely difficult to spot the deception of a sociopath.The point of a marriage database is to make the public records searc... More About: Marriage , Database , Base
DETECTING LIES
2007-08-24 02:48:00 Are you always the last to know the truth about what's REALLY going on? Does it drive you crazy that you can't seem to pick up clues that someone might be lying, when all your friends seem to be able to spot them a mile away? Here are some telltale signs that what you're hearing might be something less than the whole truth. (Excerpts applicable to internet communications):Credibility As well as looking for visual cues to indicate a person's level of honesty during a suspicious conversation, make sure you really listen to their words. If they're explaining why they couldn't make your party, for example, see if the excuse sounds plausible. Some people, in the panic of being forced to lie, can trot out the most absurd story that is just impossible to believe. Really bad liars look skeptical as they tell their tall tale - even THEY don't look like they believe it. Other people will fire off several excuses in a row, each one more outrageous than the last. Sometimes this list of e... More About: Lies
When The Cheater Finds You Have Been Spying
2007-08-23 02:35:00 Dr. Robert Huizenga My, how the cheating spouse/partner/ cyberpath cries foul when he/she discovers you are spying. (or found them out!)Outrage can be intense: "How dare you!! I never thought you would stoop to that! How could you!? How can there be trust in this relationship if you do that? This is none of your business; I dont spy and go behind your back! Now you know why I want to pull away from you. How could I love anyone that would do something like that to me?" On and on...Cheating husbands, cheating partners and cheating wives usually will not admit the duplicity of their clandestine behavior. But you are made out to be the villain if you use detective work to discover the truth. It doesnt make sense, but then again not much about infidelity borders close to sanity. Are you a morally corrupt duplicitous character hell bent on destroying the integrity of a relationship through spying? No, of course not. The integrity of the relationship has been destroyed through the extramar... More About: Eater , Been , Spying
THE ONLINE PREDATOR'S PROFILE
2007-08-22 02:48:00 -You know how people are forever telling you to go with your instinct? It's true; you should. If you think an online friend is lying to you, he (or she) most likely is.-If he seems too good to be true, then obviously and most likely that is the situation. He may present himself as the perfect match to what you are looking for, only someone you wish you could be with. He could share similiarites, make you seem like you're his priority, and seem "perfect" in countless ways. Another precaution to take when you find yourself in a relationship with someone online.-One who seems they could never betray you, seems trustworthy, and one who would never let you down, is one who is probably very likely to break your trust easily. In fact, the whole time, an online predator is continuously breaking your trust by ensuring you how "trustworthy" he may be, luring you into the fake comforts of the predator.-In reality, the online predator is insecure, although he may not seem to be in his relatio... More About: Online , Profile , The O , Profil
"CAUTIOUS" CHEATERS
2007-08-21 02:39:00 Every year we, like any good private investigator, encounter cases where our clients have either neglected to accept the idea that their spouse/partner is a "very cautious and aware cheat" or they have "completely underestimated their partner."Many of the techniques used by private investigators who specialize in this type of work are known to the cheater. They know to look for surveillance when traveling to meet their lover. They know the computer might be monitored. They know that phone numbers can be traced. This makes it imperative that you do not give them any reason to be more cautious or alert.To get some additional perspective, do a search for information about hiding an affair or look over the following list of tips that we found on the web which give advice to cheaters to aid them in keeping their infidelity hidden. Some of the points these sites make that you should be aware of are as follows:The smart cheaters will often do the following:Never get involved with someone y... More About: Eater , Heaters , Cheaters
THE BAD BOYS OF CYBERSPACE
2007-08-18 02:13:00 Getting Known Through AnonymityMuch has been said lately about how anonymity on the internet "disinhibits" people. Feeling relatively safe with their real-world identity hidden, they say and do things they otherwise wouldn't normally say or do in "real life." In some cases, that seems to be a good thing. People may be more honest, open, generous, and helpful. In other cases, however, the nasty side of a person gets unleased. I'd like to give a slightly different spin to this "disinhibition through anonymity" concept. My basic premise is this: NO ONE WANTS TO BE COMPLETELY ANONYMOUS. No one wants to be totally invisible, with no name or identity or presence or interpersonal impact at all. Everyone wants and needs to express some aspect of who they are, to have others acknowledge and react to some aspect of their identity. In some cases, it's a benign feature of who you are. In some cases, not. Anonymity on the internet allows people to set aside some aspects of their identity in o... More About: Boys , Cyberspace
When CyberLovers Committ Fraud, Rape or Murder
2007-08-17 02:57:00 Reports are continuously emerging of cyber lovers being cheated, hurt or involved in scandals. Not only have marriages been ruined in real life, but more serious and dangerous situations have also arisen.Sure, if you feel lonely, bored and you've got a computer at hand, cyber love may seem like a great means to kill time. According to a survey conducted by sina.com, which involved more than 17,000 Internet surfers, 69% of them had tried it. Another survey by sohu.com found that more than 50% of net surfers trust cyber love.The most convenient place to talk with an online lover is a chat room. According to a survey by the Chinese Internet Culture Association, 97% of Internet surfers have tried communicating with others in chat rooms. And there are plenty of choices, with around 2,500 large-scale chat rooms available to Chinese surfers.This month, netizens have been expressing their anger in a forum run by Netease, one of the most influential websites in China, about one of the forum... More About: Murder , Fraud , Rape , Mitt
Update on Mike Campbell
2007-08-16 01:36:00 Just a quick note, as per request - we removed the posts about Mike Campbell pending ongoing litigation. However, we want to make it clear that the person who gave us the information on her relationship with him was NOT the only person we heard from.We heard anonymously or got comments from no less than three (3) women who were preyed on by this man and all said there were many more. (No it wasn't the same person writing in every time as other people. And we don't know if these women even know each other)We hope Campbell drops this litigation gets the help he needs to heal his problems.If you have any further information on this man, contact us anonymously at cyberpaths@gmail.com More About: Update
CALL FOR INFORMATION: NATHAN ERNEST BURL THOMAS, JR. - ON THE RUN!
2007-08-15 02:45:00 POSSIBLE BIGAMIST/ CON MAN ON THE RUN!!A CALL FOR INFORMATION!Nathan Ernest Burl Thomas Jr.Male, African-AmericanAge : 53Occupation : Retired Military (he may tell you he's CIA or Special Ops) and now does sales for a company called EcoquestWhere he might be : Germany or Illinois or Texas USA or British Columbia or Quebec CanadaBusiness Website (WITH HIS PICTURE!) CLICK HERE Work # : ( 210 ) 380 - 1684Some of his online nicknames:Grizzlybear90604Suntzu7734BearD ZSOT_bear1952Some of his possible email addresses: He has been cleaning his online activities and has already closed some email addresses he used to communicate to one of his “wives” and other targets:Jandt4ever1960@aol.comgrizzlybear 90604@aol.comgrizzlybear90604@yahoo.comsu ntzu7734@aol.comt_bear1952@hotmail.comNat han Thomas, former Chief of Housing at the 6th ASG in Germany, is one of the biggest psychos and a criminal WHO MAY HAVE COMMITTED BIGAMYNathan Ernest Burl Thomas Jr, aka Nathan E B Thomas Jr., date of birth 03... More About: Information , Call
African Internet Bride Scam Victim Returns Home
2007-08-14 02:47:00 A South Australian farmer held hostage in Africa for 12 days in an internet bride scam has returned home, saying he's lucky to be alive.Des Gregor, a 56-year-old from Hoyleton in SA's mid-north, arrived at Adelaide Airport tonight after being freed from his African captors who were ultimately duped by police.Mr Gregor travelled to the landlocked west African nation of Mali last month to meet his supposed bride and collect a dowry of $100,000. (NZ $114,521) in gold.But on his July 27 arrival, he was kidnapped by an organised scam gang, beaten, stripped, had his cash and credit cards taken, and was held hostage at an apartment in Bamako, the capital of the third world country.The wheat and sheep farmer was told he would have his limbs hacked off with a machete unless he arranged a $100,000. ransom.Mr Gregor was freed last Thursday when Australian Federal Police (AFP) persuaded the kidnappers there was money to be collected by their captive from the Canadian embassy in Bamako.The con... More About: Internet , Home , Bride , Scam
Freed Australian Woman Won't Give Up Online Boyfriend
2007-08-14 01:41:00 A WOMAN jailed in the US over an internet romance with a 17-year-old boy says she will miss him dreadfully while she waits out a court order preventing the pair from contact.Tamara Broome, 31, spent one month in a US prison after authorities there accused her of attempting to entice a North Carolina teenager she met on the internet to travel to Australia to be with her.She was freed late last month after a plea deal and arrived back in Australia on July 29.Broome, a former Coles supermarket employee and Adelaide university student, developed an online relationship with the boy while playing the internet game, World of Warcraft."We're both into gaming ... we just had the same ideals," Broome said to the Nine Network.The boy was being pressured into joining the US Marines and sought escape through the relationship, Broome said."We forgot about the rest of the world when we were together, (a) big thing for both of us at the time."Broome said she sought legal advice before offering the... More About: Boyfriend , Online , Woman , Australian , Give
The Four Psychological Stages Of Those Abused by Cyberpaths
2007-08-13 02:59:00 ~ The Four Psychological Stages Of Those Abused by Cyberpaths ~ Stage One ~ DENIAL The victim refuses to admit even to herself, that she has been 'had' or that there is a problem in her online relationship/friendship. She may call each incident an accident. She offers excuses & rationalizations and each time she is played or insulted firmly believes it will never happen again. Stage Two ~ GUILT Victim now acknowledges there is a problem, but considers herself responsible for it. She deserves to be used and lied to, she feels because she has defects in her character and is not living up to her predators's expectations. Stage Three ~ ENLIGHTENMENT The woman no longer assumes responsibility for her cyberpaths's abusive treatment, recognizing that no one deserves to be treated badly, used, played or lied to. She is still committed to her online relationship though and stays with her cyberpath hoping they can work things out. During this period she often questions the predator and ... More About: Logical , Logi , Path
Online Fraud: Woman duped lonely friend out of $400,000
2007-08-10 02:13:00 Woman duped lonely friend out of $400,000By Kim Arlington STELLA Metsikas lived a lonely life, so she was thrilled to be emailed out of the blue by "Jaiden" keen on starting arelationship. As their love blossomed, Ms Metsikas deposited thousands of dollars into bank accounts for her cyber suitor, who was supposedly sick with cancer. But Jaiden didn't exist - he was dreamed up by Melissa Maree Quirk to swindle more than $400,000 from her vulnerable friend. Jaiden's emails began arriving in 2001, soon after Ms Metsikas confided her feelings of loneliness to Quirk, a fellow worker at a fruit supply business.While Ms Metsikas ended up bankrupt and homeless, sleeping on the streets, Quirk was spending her friend's savings on cars and holidays. The 25-year-old, from Sydney's west, has now been jailed for up to three years on 11 counts of obtaining money by deception. Another 36 fraud matters were considered by District Court Judge Allan Hughes, who on Friday sentenced Quirk to a mi... More About: Fraud , Friend , Online , Woman , Online Fraud
THE CYBERPATH
2007-08-09 02:58:00 Exploitation is easier to accomplish on-line. The level of exploitation is all over the place. Clearly the most dangerous are the Cyberpaths. These sociopaths, psychopaths -- unwholesome, psychologically scattered individuals -- can exploit you in truly damaging ways.Despite common belief, a cyberpath is not always very easily identified, especially since you cannot see the person "in person." The more clever, the more intelligent the cyberpath is, the more you will not become aware of what you are dealing with, until it is too late.What he (the psychopath) gets he spoils and wastes...A psychopath, in this instance, the cyberpath (a sociopath with internet access), is merely looking for a way to fill in his time with empty exploits. They are highly narcissistic, and the internet provides fodder for them. I have known various cyberpaths, and they move from victim to victim, seeking people to feed their endless need for narcissism. When you've found them out, or they tire of you, the... More About: Path
DOUG BECKSTEAD - A TEXTBOOK CASE OF CYBERPATHY
2007-04-18 02:46:00 At their core - most Cyber paths are Narcissistic types. Here's some input from other victims who posted to WikiAnswers on Narcissistic types - see how much fits our Predator of the Month: Doug Beck stead! (as always EOPC's comments are in purple)* They are the biggest liars you've ever seen. They will look you right in your eyes, swear on a stack of bibles and tell you the biggest lie you've ever heard. They will say they're not going to do something, while plotting to do just what they say they wouldn't do. They're very out of touch with their feelings. They talk just to hear themselves talk - while not believing anything they're trying to convince you of. * It will become obvious very soon: an over-inflated ego. Astonishing lies. * A narcissist is, at first glance, a friendly, real person. This is the narcissist's bait. The person lures people in, only to control them, in any shape or form. You will not recognize this, but as time progresses, you will feel guilty. The m... More About: Book , Text , Stead
The "Internet" Guide to Emotional Blackmailers
More articles from this author:2007-04-17 03:18:00 (It doesn't take a lot to apply this to the ONLINE EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILERS out there on the net - read carefully and TAKE HEED!! - Fighter)A Girl's Guide to Avoiding the Emotional Black mailerby Suzanne WattsThe Emotional Blackmailer is easy to recognize, but women seldom do until they are well and truly sucked into his web. It is best to avoid getting close to him because it is quite difficult to get away from him. Stalkers start out as emotional blackmailers. Just the word "blackmailer" should give you a clue of what depth of self-centered behaviour is lying in wait to be sprung on you the minute you are hooked. Here are the roots and the signs, the way he progresses to hook his victim, and how to get away from him.What Creates an Emotional Blackmailer?A combination of neglect, overprotectiveness, coldness, spoiling and lack of nurturing in infancy and childhood. This can be ascertained by comments he makes about his parents - both of them. He will hate them and resent them, while... More About: Internet , Mailer , Motion 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 |
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