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"J"s Layers Upon Layers of Lies Start to Unravel........
2006-03-10 07:53:00
In January 2004 "J" wrote an article that Target #1 helped edit for him (his spelling and syntax is atrocious from what we have read on his personal website). As always, EOPC's editors comments in purple. It gets confusing - so feel free contact EOPC for clarification.Target #1 then introduced him to an online female friend (we'll call her Target #2) that she'd just started emailing with across the country who was involved with similar issues . Target #1 asked Target #2 to help place his article in a couple more places. (Target #2 independently told us that it was Target #1 who introduced them. EOPC conducted phone interviews with Target #2 - without Target #1 knowing - so we could be sure they were not concocting a story. Law enforcement has also beared out the facts.)Target #1 eventually learned that VERY shortly after introducing them, "J" initiated an online affair with her. (We are unable to get permission from Target #2 to publish her communications as she did not sav...
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LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!
2006-03-08 23:41:00
Listen To Your Gut(It's Trying To Tell You Something Important)(our comments are in purple - Fighter)A good friend of mine, who will soon be divorced, is dating again and it seems to be getting serious. Unfortunately, I think the guy is a creep, and I'm going to explain why.After a very short time seeing her, he asked if she is going to go back to her maiden name. When she asked him why he wanted to know, he replied, "It's your ex husband's name, why would you want it?"She responded, "It also happens to have been MY name for the last 22 years. If I get remarried again later I'll likely change it, so why go through all the red tape now?"To me this question/suggestion of his was a big RED FLAG. Why? Because shortly after MY divorce and release from an abusive relationship, I started dating a guy who asked EXACTLY the same question after only one month of dating. He turned out to be a MAJOR control freak but I had the good sense to bail after two months. I have learned a great dea...
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"J"s Classic Online Seduction Patterns Continued...
2006-03-08 07:56:00
Continuing with "J"s STUNNING example of using R. Greene's THE ART OF SEDUCTION techniques of control & manipulation:13- Disarm through Strategic Weakness and VulnerabilityToo much maneuvering on your part may raise suspicion. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated. To further win trust, exchange honesty for virtue: establish your "sincerity" by confessing some sin on your part-it doesn't have to be real. Sincerity is more important than goodness. Play the victim, then transform your target's sympathy into love."J" was BIG on #13. It got monotonous reading how many times he told Target "I can't control myself around you" or just "I can't control." He spent a lot of time talking about how badly other women had treated him, asking Target for advice about dealing with h...
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DO THEY EVER ADMIT THEY ARE LYING OR TWISTED THE FACTS?
2006-03-07 20:52:00
The most potent weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed." - Stephen BikoDO THEY EVER ADMIT THEY ARE LYING OR TWISTED THE FACTS?from this group(EOPC believes Cyberpathy is an expression of Narcissism - Fighter)We work to try to understand the essence of the narcissist. When I was trying to explain the N to a friend, she understood an N as someone not "able to face the pain of imagining they did something wrong". I wasn't sure about this so did a quick internet search on narcissists and admitting wrong and accepting fault, and got these quotes:- The narcissist often notices that something is wrong with him and with his life -- but he never admits it.- ... the narcissist is incapable of admitting that something is wrong with HIM- They will never admit fault, they will never say they are sorry. If something goes wrong, they will play the victim. They will blame others.- Remember they will never admit they are wrong, they will never debase themselves with an a...
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"J" - Our Predator of the Month: GOES BY 'The Book'
2006-03-07 07:43:00
EOPC spent a LOT of time going over the 2 years worth of chats "J" had with his Target #1 (and with other Targets, which we comes about later.) Suffice it say that reprinting the pertinent chats in full would be boring for our readers. Unlike our first predator - Ed Hicks (whose chats involved multiple women to whom he told the same thing) these chats focused on one person that has given us permission to use them. What struck us as we were going through these chats is how "J" followed the seduction techniques in Robert Greene's THE ART OF SEDUCTION - almost to the letter.The Target wrote to us about feeling "distracted, out of sorts" and "hypnotized" in retrospect. She spoke about "buzzing feelings in [her] head" and "wierd often synchronistic bodily sensations" during and after her chats with "J." (See post about Online Brainwashing) Was she responsible? She feels she was partly - but we know that these cyberpaths can skillfully manipulate the best of us.Therefore - using exc...
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THE RAGE OF A CYBERPATH WHEN CAUGHT
2006-03-07 00:01:00
BE CAREFUL!!ONCE YOU EXPOSE THEM YOU WILL MOST CERTAINLY BE SUBJECT TO NARCISSISTIC RAGE. THE CYBERPATH MAY/WILL DO THE FOLLOWING:- smear you to everyone they can- harrass you by phone or email (by sure to BLOCK their emails and instant messages or DO NOT REPLY - just save them. If they threaten you, go immediately to the authorities.)- minimize or twist the truth about what happened to their friends, family, spouse, partners, co-workers- do everything they can to make YOU look like the sick, mentally ill or not credible person- use their 'proxies' (friends/ spouses in denial, other predators) to help them discredit and smear you- hire an attorney and give them selective information to sue you for defamation and/or slander. (REMEMBER: the TRUTH is a 100% defense to this. Do not harrass but 'stay the course'!)- go to law enforcement, again with selective information, to have you charged with cyberstalking or cyber-harrassment or worse. (again, stay strong - don't go out of ...
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Moving Along to the Next Level with "J"
2006-03-06 08:33:00
"J"s Target tells the beginning of her story. We have added some lines from the numerous chats we received to emphasize what was going on. (remember we do NOT EDIT THE WORDS IN THE CHATS WE USE. We may delete for brevity or possibly sexually charged items. BUT WE DO NOT EDIT as it would be fraud to reproduce chats online that never occurred! Also, in this case - the police had verified everything)Please take another look at the post on ONLINE SEDUCING this week. This predator is a prime example of that pickupguide.com, NLP seduction in action. Again our comments are in purple. There are links embedded here for you so take a look:________________________________Targ et #1: I had known "J" for years. It never occured to me that someone would use my friendship to gain my trust and then BRAINWASH me. That's what my counselors told me over & over again - brainwash. I didn't believe it myself until after this was all over and therapists helped me dissect what had been done."J" was ti...
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SOME OF THE INNER WORKINGS OF A CYBERPATH
2006-03-05 12:55:00
SOME OF THE INNER WORKINGS OF A CYBERPATH(extrapolated from the work of Lundy Bancroft)The cyberpath is controlling; he insists on having the last word in arguments and decisionmaking,he may make rules for the victim about her movements and personal contacts, such as forbidding her to contact or to see certain friends online or offhe is manipulative; he misleads people inside and outside of the family about hisabusiveness, he twists arguments around to make other people feel at fault, he changes times & dates to cover himself, and he turns into a sweet, sensitive person for extended periods of time when he feels that it is in his best interest to do sohis public image usually contrasts sharply with the online realityhe is entitled; he considers himself to have special rights and privileges not applicable toother family membershe believes that his needs should be at the center of the target's agenda, and that everyone should focus on keeping him happyhe typically believes that it is...
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"J" - Our February/March 2006 Predator of the 'Month'
2006-03-04 08:56:00
Our Predator of the Month for February /Marc h is "J."The reason we are not giving any identifying information about this person (such as real name or online nicknames) is due to ongoing legal and police investigations concerning activities this person was involved in as per the police department involved's request to EOPC. And at the request of Target #1 to be compassionate towards to his wife & young children. The reasons for doing this will be clearer once this story unfolds.Chat transcripts were recieved, verified by law enforcement, from Target #1 - at our request. They cannot and have not been edited in any way.Almost all photos of "J" were received from Target #2 - who comes along later in this story.We obtained some IMs between "J" and Target #1. We will try to post some synopses of these chats rather than take up bandwith; and portions of IM conversations where appropriate. And excerpts from the comments we got from interviewing Target #1. These were accompanied by ve...