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Random thoughts on daygame: Moving sets
2008-02-20 00:37:00
fuck logistics! good logistics don't exist! - a moving target is moving because she's going somewhere and most probably have no interest in meeting up someone at the moment. So how would you approach a moving set? well, seems impossible but just FUCKING TAKE THE RISK! BE LIKE FUCKING RAMBO!(err, maybe not but anyway) With that said, you can still fish for moving sets with good logistics. Try moving sets in classy places/malls, they're usually there to just hang out, relax and are usually open to meeting strangersStop the fucking target! - IMO The best way to get commitment from moving targets is to stop them from moving. This can be done by blocking their way aka "Falcon Swoop" then delivering your most confident/alpha direct openerInstant Dates? - Since they're already going somewhere, you can just invite yourself to walk with them so you can have more escalation opportunities
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FR: Church sarges
2007-09-04 11:18:00
-Sarg e 1-So yesterday(sunday) we(with mom, sis and uncle) went to church toattend the 12 o clock mass. We arrived a bit early around 11:45, therewas this baptismal ceremony before the mass. So after the baptismalceremony and shit I saw this HB walking out of the church with herfamily/relatives.There was a bit of hesitation on approaching her because I have thefollowing excuses: I'm with my mom and sis, she's with a guy who mightbe her boyfriend, she's with her family/relatives, and she looks tooyoung... after a few moments, I turned off the internal dialogue, gotup on my feet left my mom and sis on their seats, at this time they'realready walking outside the church. I walked outside the church andsaw my uncle who chatted me up for a bit..Uncle: bibili ka ba ng ice crumble?Me: hindi po. Approach ko sana ung girl na yun (points to HB)Uncle: (looks at HB) aba! may kasama ah...Me: oo nga ehUncle: pero try mo langMe: cge.. ok (moved towards HB)It was a 5-7 moving set so I have no oth...
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What's up?
2007-08-07 07:01:00
ei there! i haven't been sarging/ approaching girls lately. I've been very busy focusing on my work and some hobbies. and speaking of hobby my friend got me into this new sport called Parkour. I'm not sure about it being a sport but guys who practice this are fucking machines!! these guys are good at jumping, doing stunts and stuff. The guys let me do the basic conditioning and basic jumps/vault it was fucking hard! But the good thing about it is that u feel so light after the training and yes, after the training I ended up approaching girls. I can't help it. So yeah I'll be focusing on this sport for awhile. I'll be sarging girls along the way as well. Until then...peace out!

Everyday life AMOGs(not an FR, No girls hehe) I p...
2007-07-31 12:00:00
Everyday life AMOGs(not an FR, No girls hehe)I posted this in the lair on July 9:--------------------------------------M an, I feel so relieved right now. Now lemme get to my storySo from the office(Ortigas) i rode a bus going to Alabang, I amheading home. Then as the bus passed by Magallanes, a guy in a hip hopget up who looks like he's working in a call center suddenly satbeside me (the passenger seat was for 3 persons, I'm on the windowside). He was taking up a lot of space and was making this LOUDEXAGERRATED yawn... Then he put his left hand at the back of his headwith his elbow sticking out so I wouldn't be able to lean back.He continued making loud yawns which fucking irritated me but sincegetting mad is not good for me, I remained calm. I jumped into theconclusion that the guy is GAY and he was trying to score me whichmade me fucking scared. Later on, the guy pulled out his cellphone...he was typing something, tryin to make me read it but since i thoughthe was a gay guy I ...
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OR: Vibe improvement oh man.. I feel like I am im...
2007-06-01 01:49:00
OR: Vibe improvementoh man.. I feel like I am improving. To the next level na toh. So ikinda fixed some of my issues on meeting people especially women and Irealized that I'm becoming a person who is really interested in everyperson he meets.Anyway, after working on my inner issues(i still might need to work onit tho) with the help from the teachings of Troy and audio books fromEckhart Tolle, I noticed that every person who I make contact withseem to get a good vibe from me. and along the way I developed a newtechnique and I call it "The Charming Stare" hahaha! nah! It'sbasically staring at someone eye-to-eye with a good vibe which willmake the person on the other end smile at you, oh man i used to dothis a lot when i was in highschool.Discovering the "Charming stare":I went out yesterday to take my lunch break from the office feelingreally good, I went to a turo-turo stared at the cute tindera in theeye and I dont know whats with me but she kinda felt like staring atme as well wh...
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OR: My Sticking Point I was the first manila PUA ...
2007-06-01 01:47:00
OR: My Sticking Point I was the first manila PUA to hangout with Troy(the PUG) when he arrived, wewent out last wednesday to embassy. Btw, we didnt go in coz Chris waswearing slippers so he can't go in. So Troy told me to approach thelone wolf falling in line, I must admit I was kinda feeling nervous atthat time. So I went in, told her I want to meet her... Tried chattingher up then crash and burn! Approached another two set, almost C&B'd,Troy managed to recover the set together with Chris. I approachedanother 3-set, I #close but it wasnt solid IMO. Approached a big groupset then ejected. approached seated set inside this bar besideembassy, C&B again.Last saturday, Troy asked me to approach sets again... and theapproaches weren't good as well.To fix this, Troy told me to be the 'force of nature'. Walk up to agirl as if you are walking towards a pot of gold or like a milliondollars. I really didn't get it until today. At first, i thought thatI just have to be a high energy g...
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FR+: To AMOG or not to AMOG From Cantina we went ...
2007-06-01 01:45:00
FR+: To AMOG or not to AMOGFrom Cant ina we went straight to this UP sorrority event.1st set:Once we got in we started approaching sets, socializing and stuff likethat. I open this 5-set and made a semi couple bubble with HBRed thentheir AMOG-guy-chode-friend talked to me.."Bro, whatever you guys aredoing make it quick coz we're leaving in a bit" weird guy.... Well, hewas probably trying to make me feel uncomfortable coz he probablydoesnt want me taking his HBRed...as if it matters lol2nd set:I opened this 2-set, bring nash in, nash danced with the other girl.As i was dancing with my girl i saw this chode giving me a weird lookthen he came up to me and said "ano tinitingin tingin mo? / WTF are ulooking at?" and i responded with "Nothing.. hey, if i give off thatbad vibe I'm sorry i didnt mean to". then he walks away towards hisfriends... fraternity guys hehe. oh well, i didnt get beat up so itwas all good (To ross: thanks for helping me on this)Later on, we decided to bounce.. Nash...
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FR: Mall Day game instadate yesterday This is pr...
2007-05-02 03:23:00
FR: Mall Day game instadate yesterdayThis is probably my last instadate format FR as these reports of mine are becoming a bit redundant...i dunnoAnyways, so me, Byff and Byff's friend(i'm not sure if he has a handle here, I dont wanna publish his real name) went out to do daygame. We actually went to 3 malls in the south. 1st mall....boring....approached a lonewolf who turned out to be a non social savvy kid IMO who looked like she was in a hurry so I C&B'd but i guess i could've turned it around or maybe she really was in a hurry..??? hmmm... i dunno hehe. Then 2nd mall...no good sets... 3rd mall around 5 or 6pm, now this is where it became good and I believe it became good for Byff as well. So i saw this lady who was carrying loads of shopping bags from fashion stores then I went in I walked up to her as the silent air brushed on her face then whistled to my ear...Me: Excuse meHer:(stop state) Yes?Me: I wanna ask you somethingHer: what?Me: ummm... well actually i just wanna ge...
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She lost her phone and I'm an AFC I went to the m...
2007-04-24 14:50:00
She lost her phone and I'm an AFCI went to the mall yesterday to buy myself some shaving razors. I was really trying to refrain myself from sarging coz I need to get home early for my daily exercise. But then as I was heading to Watsons I saw this girl and after few seconds of debating with myself on whether I should just go straight to the store then go home early or talk to this girl first for a few minutes then run as fast as so i can catch up on my daily exercise routine.... but well, I decided to go for the latter lolz.So before opening there were some guys walking behind her and staring at her ass and face i think, I let them pass by then i went in and opened:WussyCharm: Excuse me...sorry for interrupting you like this but i think you look and I would like to get to know youHBcell: (inside her head) ohh... what?WussyCharm: I would like to get to know youHBcell: Oh... I'm sorry but i just lost my phoneWussyCharm: What?! How?HBcell: blah blah blah... u have a cell phone right...
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Grocery Sarging By request of Nash. Here's a sho...
2007-04-02 09:40:00
Grocery Sarg ingBy request of Nash. Here's a short report:So I was shopping with my mom. While helping my mom push our shopping cart to the cashier I spotted this HB wandering around. Anyway, i didnt pay enough attention bcoz i was helping my mom, when i finished pushing the cart towards the cashier I thought that i should approach her since my mom can handle the grocery goods. Anyhoo, I managed to follow her. I spotted her looking at the chocolate section. I went:me: Are you busy?her: I'm actually looking for something. Why?me: Well, I think you look cute so I just had to come over and talk to youher: (looks at me) blah blah (i cant remember dude)me: I'm Charm btw.. and.. you are...?her: HBhalfChime: Cool. are u korean?her: no i'm half chinese and half filipinome: blah blah (oh fuck i forgot)... saan ang school mo?her: **ck*eme: oh I have a friend who's studying thereher: where are u studying?me: fu*k***me: hey, are u going somewhere?her: i'm actually going to my momme: oh coo...
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A Good Example of 90-10 I went to the mall yester...
2007-03-29 06:09:00
A Good Example of 90-10I went to the mall yesterday to do day game. When I got there...oh fuck! i can't find any good sets! oh well, I guess I have no luck. So I continued strolling in the mall until I find this girl(rating 5-7) then I thought that I should just approach her for practice. Anyway, she was a moving target then I approached her from behind. It went like: me: hello there! sorry for interrupting you like this.. i just saw u walking and i figured out that i should approach you her: oh (hesitates) me: [plow!] well i know this is weird and i dont think anyone would do something like this but i dont think I will ever have the chance to get to know you so i might as well take the risk... her: (open BL, smiles) --we continued walking me: [continue plowing] i just came from work, ngayon lang ako nakalabas ng maaga so i thought that I should check this place out her: where do u work? me: ortigas. [plow plow plow!] i was actually looking for a shirt but i can't find anyth...
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Odd Street Approach This is an old report, I tho...
2007-03-22 01:03:00
Odd Street ApproachThis is an old report, I thought I'd post it here: While on my way to my friend's house somewhere along Crossing, Ispotted a lonewolf....so being the PUA that I am I decided to approachher. As i was walking towards her I sensed that she sensed that I wasgonna approach her and looked like she was gonna ignore me... When Igot close to her, something came over me and....: Me: Saan ba dito sakayang ng (awkward pause...thinking what to saynext).. Antipolo? / Where can I get a ride going to Antipolo?[roughtranslation hehe] Her: Hindi ko alam eh.. San ba dito sakayan papuntang Parañaque? / Idont know..Where can I get a ride going to Parañaque? Me: huh? ngayon ikaw na yung nagtatanong sakin haha / huh? now ur theone who's asking haha Her: hahaha. Di ko kasi alam papunta dun eh... Me: (gave her directions).. oh God.. this is weird Her: (laughs) Me: Let me get ur number.. (#close) we said our goodbyes.. then later on played a short text game....
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Pushing it past logistics This morning on my way ...
2007-03-21 00:42:00
Pushing it past logisticsThis morning on my way to work, I tried approaching this girl on her way to work. I C&B'd. But to give you some info, logistics are against me. First, she's on her way to work so she musnt waste anytime chatting up with someone or else she's gonna be late for work. Second, the damn street is packed coz a lot of people there are on their way to work. Here's how our convo went anyway:me: Sorry to interrupt you... I just had to come over and talk to youher: oh sorry I'm gonna be late for workme: I see.. can I just have ur number?her: No..[says it in a funny way] (laughs a bit)me: (laughs)[damn that was funny haha]Yeah it was fucked up. I think I could've plowed through but I was worried that I'm gonna be late for work so I just ejected. I'll be doing more approaches like this, keeping on pushing it.-ch
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Alrighty! havent been updating this blog for a l...
2007-03-20 03:58:00
Alrighty!havent been updating this blog for a long time. For guys who have been sarging with me, you probably have ideas on whats been going on.There have been a lot of improvements on my game since I last posted here. Anyhoo, I'm currently busy organizing the upcoming Troy D Bootcamp this coming May so for those who are interested just drop a comment.I'd be posting some of my adventures later on.
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Working on my night game Recently, I was trying t...
2006-12-23 04:15:00
Working on my night gameRecently , I was trying to improve my night game and I've pretty much learned a lot from my sarging session last night.I used to think that once u've encountered a set that isn't very receptive then there's no way to game them again thus destroying my state reducing my social proof and it kinda sounds silly hehe. But based on what I experienced, when u encounter a yellow light(unreceptive set) just do a fucking takeaway and open other sets... later on you can reengage them and plow.As a day gamer, I pretty much do rapport game to plow through. On night game, it doesnt work that way...you sort of need to play high octane attract game(C&F, neg, banter, role playing, etc.) fuck! rapport game on high energy environment... yuck! I have no calibration!! haha! thank goodness the practice for last night helped me work on it.Well, that's it for now. I can't wait to sarge on night clubs again.
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Convo skill development (day game) Inspired by ye...
2006-11-23 14:26:00
Convo skill development (day game)Inspire d by yesterday's TDradio session plus the discussion on not being too prepared on sarging I went out to do day game.Before going out from work JJ IMed me that we go sarging together at glorietta. My offs around 2pm and jj's around 3pm so I got there first. With the skills that I want to practice in mind I walk around to look for targets. After several days of not sarging I realized that I am kinda getting some sort of AA so I recalled that things I learned from the previous TDradio session which psyched me up! wooooooo!After walking I finally spotted this moving lone target. So as my usual approach I walked up to her from behind and opened her.Me: (pragmatic direct opener) Excuse me, sorry for interrupting you like this. I saw you and *compliment here. i cant remember* so I had to come over and talk to you---she wasnt very receptive. i continued to walk with herHer: *She was like "so bakit?"Me: you look *i forgot*. and I want to see what ur...
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Day game C&B's Last Thursday, ur charming guy onc...
2006-11-18 05:13:00
Day game C&B'sLast Thursday , ur charming guy once again went out. I met up with fellow PUA Rakinishu at G4. We basically chilled and strolled around the mall while waiting for Simoun. Moments later, we agreed to do some approaches for practice.I did the first approach, I approach this HB we passed by. I had to approach her from behind, stop state and run my opener. It was a C&B but not a hard C&B. She was like "I'm sorry, my bf won't be comfortable about it". So it wasnt really a C&B.......I think...It's Rakinishu's turn to do an approach. He spotted this stationary chinita lonewolf dessed in office attire. He opened with an indirect opener but it didnt go well coz accdg. to Rakinishu the target didnt hear his opener. So I gave him my feedback that i think he should've gone direct coz after all she's a lonewolf.We continued walking in the mall. Well, I wasnt planning to do another approach til' I spotted another HB. Approached her, went direct, C&B'd. This time it w...
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Korean instadate (saturday - day game) Last satur...
2006-10-16 01:40:00
Korean instadate (saturday - day game)Last saturday I went out with Simoun and J47 at PP mall then after a few moments met up with Cody. My jaw dropped as we walked around the place coz I saw a lot of A-crowd SHBs. phew! So we basically chilled and stroll around the mall. Cody and Simoun were hungry so we went to a resto and I just vibed with them. Few minutes later I saw this chinese-eyed chick walking by herself. Oh God! She's so beautiful! But social programming started kicking in, something like "Charm! She looks snubbish! Your interaction w/ her will suck!" and all kinds of bullshit self talk....I had to stop my mind! Fuck! 3....2....1....boom! approach! I walked up to her, opened her from behind with my most sincere direct opener. After I delivered my opener:HB: oh.. Sorry I'm not good in speaking in englishMe: (Oh God! She's so cute which made me more interested) That's okHB: just arrived here 3 days ago.Me: oh.. so were are you going now.HB: home[interaction here]Me: It...
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Opening moving targets - my pattern (Direct on day...
2006-10-12 01:36:00
Opening moving targets - my pattern (Direct on daygame) Just opened a moving target yesterday. I am starting to hate approaching moving sets. This is what always happen when I open moving targets using DM:1. Open2. Target says "No..i'm sorry..but thank you" or "oh OK (walks away)"3. Charm cries lolzAnyway, back to the topic. I think it could've been logistic problems w/c answers the question why most moving targets aren't very receptive. coz they might be in a hurry, they're looking for their friends, etc. Just as Troy D? said we should sarge in places where people are relaxed so I guess moving targets aren't that relaxed unless they're in "pasyal" mode.But hey! if I see a moving target that I like...what the heck! I'll approach her anyway.Btw, I did open a sitting lonewolf yesterday but turns out that her bf is just talking on the phone right near us hahaha!!! she could've been receptive though.
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Sticking points using direct approach on day game ...
2006-10-07 00:39:00
Sticking points using direct approach on day gameI've approached a lot of sets since my WBAFC days using opinion/indirect openers on day game. I've been using direct openers for quite a while and damn! I hate it! oh man, I've been C&B'ing a lot! Well, that's because i've been doin some things that are wrong. Aside from that I have to overcome my fucking AA!!! Anyways, here are things that i've been working on with my game:1. Approach anxiety2. Sincerity3. Creepy vibewell, yeah approach anxiety. what about sincerity? when i see a beautiful girl and i want to meet her it should come out as sincere right? but my prob is i'm so used to opening a set using scripted patterns, i just can't fucking make myself sincere. I got so conditioned to not becoming sincere!But it's ok, I think I figured the solution out. First, when I open....I compliment the girl in a generic way. Verbals are ok, coz they're not that important but nonverbally..I'm complimenting them like they're som...
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Before the manila lair The guys call me Charm. In...
2006-09-02 01:52:00
Before the manila lairThe guys call me Charm. In the past few years before I found about the community and the manila lair I've been spending my time trying hard to be unique so that I can impress people especially WOMEN. I consider myself to be naturally good in making social interactions but when I got into college I started believing in what other people are telling me and I got trapped into the rules of our manipulative society. I am good in school and even had a reputation but I suffered under the social programming until my last yr of college. During my last year of college a friend of mine introduced me to this Dating book and it blew my mind. Finally, a chance to improve on this aspect of my life. I started doing cold approaches and began sharing some materials to my friends, at this time I still haven't joined the community. I can still remember the first time that I got a girl's phone number from a cold approach, and it felt good. After days/months of approaching... I r...
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