Da KInky Kid SpeaksDa KInky Kid SpeaksThis blog is to give insight, answer questions, and voice my opinion sexually. Articles
60 THINGS MEN WANT WOMEN TOO KNOW
2008-06-03 12:02:00 1. We aren?t MIND READERS! 2. It?s not all about sex... Just 99 percent of the time 3. There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm 4. Don't argue with us when we call you beautiful. 5. Don't go into detail about your period. It scares us. 6. If you have cramps and we ask you what's wrong, just tell us it's that time of the month and nothing more. 7. Please don't drive when you're not driving. 8. When we tell you that you're not fat, believe us. 9. If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get. 10. We know you look good, that's one of the reason's we're going out with you. 11. The word bitch is a sign of affection 12. Your period should be known as blow job week 13. Masturbation doesn't mean we don't love you 14. No matter what YOU say, your ex IS an asshole. 15. &nb... More About: Women , Relationships , Things
06-03-08
2008-06-03 10:02:00 I?m so glad being kinky doesn?t mean laughter and silliness must be banished from the room. QUOTE OF THE DAY More About: Quote Of The Day
WHEN IT HURTS SO GOOD
2008-06-03 09:57:00 How many of you know that the exposure to a painful stimulus, exposure to drugs, or abuse all stimulate the neural circuitry associated with gratification? Have you ever fucked your woman and you know it is hurting her but she does not want you to stop? Because it HURTS SO GOOD?.. Pleasure and pain are usually thought of as contrasting pairs. They are opposites of each other because one is considered to be good and the other bad. They are a pair because they represent two extremes on the same scale. pleasure is defined as "a passive state wherein the mind passes to a greater perfection," and pain is "a passive state wherein the mind passes to a lesser perfection." I believe that there should be no such differences in the classification of pleasure and pain. They need to be placed in the exact same area on the map of the mind. I myself over the years have learned to control pain to a certain degree to make it pleasurable for me. It does take som... More About: Good
06-02-08
2008-06-02 10:16:00 I am glad that I am an optimist. The pessimist is half-licked before he starts Quote of the day More About: Quote Of The Day
SWAGGER
2008-05-29 10:00:00   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; T.I. LYRICS "My Swag" (feat. Wyclef Jean) [Intro: T.I.] You gotta get your swagger together nigga (ay) Get your suit fitted (ay) Starts on the inside, ya dig? I don't need mine, I got cribs where we goin (okay) If you don't love yourself you can't love nobody Keep up nigga (okay) I love myself You gon' need to travel ladies, you go and got that mack diesel right Okay Men, When a woman says I like your swagger! What is she implying? swagger - How one presents him or her self to the world. Swagger is shown from how the person handles a situation. It can also be shown in the person's walk.   ; &nbs p; &nb... More About: Dating
Havana Ginger
2008-05-28 13:38:00 Havanna Ginger Aliases: Havanna Ginger, Mika Brown, Mica, Lea Ethnicity: Latina Birthday: February 27, 1984 Measurements: 34DD-26-36 Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown More About: Havana
SEXUALITY CLASS
2008-05-28 12:57:00 I have a way of running into trouble it seems especially during the Summer months. I needed cash one summer and so signed up for a survey that involved sexuality and that led to an actual in depth character study, filming me and everything since they were interested in my survey.I had become very liberated and was doing anything sexually that I felt that I wanted to do. I do mean anything as some of my other posts have indicated. Well, the survey came at the time that I was seeing a counselor for some problems. I have a very high and veried sex drive, in short, any sex is good sex and if it lasts a long time it is better sex. The survey said that I was (and still am) a nymphomaniac. I could have told them that without the survey but they did not ask.The survey led to my counselor, Ms. Jenkins, who asked to explore my sexuality. I had felt very guily about my desires and she, after several sessions, made me feel good that whatever I felt good doing was fine and natural. She told me s... More About: Sexuality , Class
Sex Secrets
2008-05-27 14:16:00 So much about our sexual lives we keep secret. We are taught that we are not supposed to talk about it. I was sexually abused as a child some will not discuss it because the wounds of the sexual abuse make them feel angry, confused, ashamed, even guilty. I know for years I held it in (memory block), then once it was out I felt like it was my fault. I wonder sometimes if some of the choices I have made with my life and my relationships have been because I was introduced at a young age. I believe that we all have sex secrets?. Whether it is incest, molestation, rape, fetishes, bdsm, lesbian, bi sexual, down low brothers, the list goes on and on?. Some people are not secure in themselves sexually? They are not sure if they really know how to please their partner? Some have very passionate love life outside of their marriage, relationship. We sometimes need to be touched but have no one in our lives who understa... More About: Secrets
Bugging Out
2008-05-27 08:15:00 A Swedish man has been given a suspended sentence for converting a cell phone to a bugging device to confirm his suspicions about his ex-girlfriend. A court in Hasselholm in southern Sweden also imposed a fine, The Local reported. The man hid the phone behind the headboard of his girlfriend's bed, hooking up the charger to a bedside lamp. He set the phone up so, when he called it, the phone allowed him to hear what was being said in her room -- and he learned his ex- had indeed met someone else. The court found the man's violation of his former girlfriend's privacy was so serious that a fine alone was not enough.
TV DINNER
2008-05-27 08:14:00   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp;   ; Great for Oral pleasure for you and fast sex How does it work? Sit on a chair or your sofa and scoot forward so you're sitting fairly close to the edge. Now get your man to kneel in front of you between your legs and slowly slide into you. Now he can grab your thighs and you can pull him onto you by his waist or his ass. Things can get very fast and furious very quickly. Good things You should like it, because he can use his mouth on you first, before you reach a fast, powerful orgasm together. Bad things You may need to wriggle around a bit to make sure you're both in the right position More About: Dinner
05-27-08
2008-05-27 08:13:00 Often Happiness calls but we are too busy too answer Quote of the Day More About: Quote Of The Day
People Pleasers
2008-05-25 19:45:00   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp;   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; Sometimes I wonder are there more People Pleasers or people who are not pleased with anything. People Pleasers are generally full of self-doubt, self-blame, shame, and humiliation. They go to great lengths to get love and approval from others, but no matter how much they get, they never feel loved or good about themselves. I am not a people pleaser, but sometimes I do feel as though people take my kindness for a weakness. I am not weak? Yet I am misunderstood. Some people take pride in the title, but think about it why should you bend over backwards for others and you always get the short end of the ... More About: Dating
05-25-08
2008-05-25 18:23:00 People need loving the most when they deserve it the least Quote of the day More About: Quote Of The Day
Gina Ryder
2008-05-23 15:08:00 Gina Ryder Bio Nationality: American Birthday: January 23, 1977 Measurements: 34D-23-33 Hair Color: Brown Eye Color: Brown
Doing it on the stairs
2008-05-23 15:02:00   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; You sit on the stairs and rest your back up against the wall. Get your fella to stand in front of you, but with his feet a few steps further down than you. You should now lift your outer leg up and rest it against his body, as he slides into you. Now you can push away from the wall into him and he can use the stairs and your leg to push on and into you. Good thing If you're doing it on the stairs, you should already be pretty turned on, so this is a great position to reach a fast, simultaneous orgasm. Bad thing No matter how well carpeted your stairs are, this can become uncomfortable, so don't hang about.
Pussy Eating Tips
2008-05-23 14:49:00 It?s all about technique. I am going to explain a few techniques to help you know that your face is engulfed in some PUSSY?? The Lick Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed (this is important to avoid cramping), try licking her from vaginal entrance (that?s the hole, the slit, the crease) up to her clit (that?s the clit) and following the outer edges of her vagina (that?s the lips or labia, not her hips or the edge of the bed) along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener. You might try ?Hello? as an opener too, if she isn?t already spread eagle on the bed. Labial Hold While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time. Don?t hold it too long - labia need to breathe. You can punch a few holes in them and attach an air freshener if it?s beginning to smell, err, fishy. Tongue Intercourse The majority of a woman?s n... More About: Tips , Eating , Pussy
DIRTY TALK
2008-05-22 13:01:00 Phone rings Person: ?hello? Me: I feel like cumming on your face tonight Person: Oh really! How about for lunch Me: I?ll be naked and waiting?.. Dirty talk usually (but not always) involves a bit of raunchiness. Some of us do it some of us don?t. Some of us may like it and some of us won?t. Don?t use your every day voice try to get your sexy voice on? And don?t be shy this is your man/woman and they might actually like it? Like the next time you all are doing it try some of these: ?I can?t wait for you to cum inside of me? ?I love the way you taste? ?fuck you harder ? ?you like this pussy? ?is it good? ?you wanna cum in me? ?I Like it when you dick me down? ?Fuck me ? ?Oh that feels so good? ?You make me so wet? ?Give me that dick daddy? ?you know you like? ?your dick is so hard? I know my guy and I would be out somewhere and I would just say to him not too loud I WANNA SUCK YOUR DIC... More About: Talk
Valentina Vaughn
2008-05-21 23:02:00 Valentina Vaughn Bio Ethnicity: Japanese/Swedish Birthday: March 15, 1983 Measurements: 34B-24-36 Hair Color: Brown Eye Color: Brown Piercings: Navel   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp;   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp;   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp; More About: Valentina , Valentina Vaughn
Does size matter to women
2008-05-21 22:18:00 A question that still remains after all these years? Does penis size matter to women? Now no matter how this question is answered men will always be self conscious about the size of their penis. I guess in a way that women are self conscious about their weight. Although most women agree that size matters, that doesn't exactly mean that they expect you whip out Dirk Diggler. Studies show that women believe that they are more sexually satisfied by men with longer penises than short dick men. Every woman has her own preferences, Some women like a man long and thin? Some women like men short with a lot of girth .. Some women like em BIG as hell The biggest I have been with measured at 13 ½ inches on hard?. His penis was larger soft than most men with an erection. WOW! I have written articles about how to increase your penis size ?. I know it is a money making industry with a lot of products available? So men even tho... More About: Women , Matter , Size
Ass Me
2008-05-20 21:39:00 When it comes to having sex the ass is usually the last place we tend to explore? Now in my years of study and research I have found that anal play can be exciting for both the man and the woman. I in my years usually have to sneak and play with my mans ass but I have dated a man who was very open about him liking his ass played with and this man was far from gay?. Real talk Anyway I know that men have a G spot in their booty the same we women have one in our vaginas? I have been able to make a man cum without even touching his penis (pats myself on the back) Even though we tend to stay away from the ass.. I promise you it can bring you so much pleasure.. Kinky likes to keep it real? I don?t do anal?. I am saving that for my husband?. (who ever he is) I am only speaking from the insurmountable amounts of pleasure I have given to those blessed by me. If you are not sure about it you can start on your own by either using anal beads or a butt plug? For a man, if you ...
SUPPORT ME
2008-05-18 23:59:00 Hey, I am having a fund raiser to raise money for a Non for Profit organization that I am getting off the ground. It is called the JWMC House. The JWMC House, will offer minority women and men who choose life the necessary resources to raise their children. The JWMC House will offer a safe environment for young mothers and fathers, age 17 - 21 and their babies. We will provide the necessary clothing, furniture, and resources (whether legal or medical). We will assist the parents for two years; these young parents can continue their education and learn living skills, so that they are prepared to support themselves and their children. I have had two donations so far? I would like to send a special thanks out to: BIG DADDY DAVE Da Kinky Kid appreciates your support and wants to personally thank you for supporting a dream of MINE?.. Keep it cumming DADDY?. Oops I meant coming?.LOL PLEASE DO NOT FORGET YOU CAN MAKE DONATIONS TOP LEFT HAND SIDE ON THE SIDE BAR?. ... More About: Support
05-17-08
2008-05-18 00:10:00 ?In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give completes the circle and comes back to us.?   ; &nbs p; &nb sp; &n bsp; & nbsp;   ; &nbs p; Quote of the Day More About: Quote Of The Day
10 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE SLEEPING WITH HIM
2008-05-15 22:05:00 1. His Name This seems like a no-brainer but often when you are introduced to someone for the first time, the name slips through your short-term memory. Or you may just know him by his street name. If you still call him Dee-Dee or Man- Man? Find out his birth name. When I meet a guy I hate for him to introduce himself tome by a street name. Find out who he is before you fuck him? 2.His Age Men aren't the only ones that suffer from ?well?she LOOKED 18? syndrome. There are plenty of baby-face older guys Do you really want to wake up in the morning with someone's who goes to school with your teen-ager? 3. His Health Status You now know the guys name and age. ?Is this guy HIV positive?? ?Does he have any STD's?? ?Has he ever had an STD?? should be some of your very next questions. He could lie but it does not hurt to at least ask? Even if he looks good still protect yourself 4. Who They Are? Who is he... More About: Sleeping , Dating , Things
Hit it and go
2008-05-15 21:05:00 Why is It that men like to hit it and quit it? I think it is because they fear commitment. A man does not like to feel like he has to check in or has to let someone know where he is going where a woman finds that basic rules of any relationship. And if you are not cheating what does it matter. I am grown and I always let someone know where I am. It?s like a man will stay around he will play the wait game with you? Then once you hit the bedroom he is gone? Maybe not instantly but he does start to distant himself from you. Things that he once enjoyed irritate him now. Now he is smothered when at first he could not stand to be without you. I believe it?s just because men view love differently from how we view it. Men like Challenge? They like the chase Once you let a man know you have fallen for him The hunt and the chase are over and in a lot of situations so is the relationship. He will soon then find the need to chase someone else? I think that?s what happened... More About: Dating
I know what I want
2008-05-14 13:27:00 Maybe I am a dreamer &nbs p; &nb sp; But I know that I am not the only one?.. I know that out there somewhere is a MAN who will love me for everything that I am and everything that I can be. I know that I am not perfect and I do not try to be. All I ask in return is that you be a man. Now what is so hard about that? You will be surprised how many men pretend to be the man that they are not. I want to be courted?. Feel me? I do not want to talk to you on the phone 4x and then you text me and ask me if you can watch me make my self cum? Damn you don?t even have the balls to call and ask me that bullshit?. I do not want you to only know my nickname and tell me how bad you wish I was in the bed with you? Hello! Get to know me? Take me out to dinner We can go for a walk on the lake front We can go to the show We can go have drink?. What part of me has made you believe that I am the type of woman that w... More About: Dating
MANSCAPING
2008-05-14 09:38:00 Ladies have you ever dated a guy who has gotten a boyzilian? A boyzilian is equivalent to that of a Brazilian bikini wax for women.. It's where they go and get their pubic hair waxed?. Now if that is too much for you ? You can request that they do a little Manscaping?. MANSCAPING is a term used to define male grooming below the belt. A male can use both an electric razor and a regular razor. A Mach 3 is preferable with the ladies on the testicular area No female likes to deal with hairy balls, so men must education themselves on proper manscaping and maintenance techniques. Most men will think of it as gay,,, but it's not?.. Now if your man trust you enough maybe you can be in charge of his manscaping? I have shaved my mans' balls and pubic hair before (when I had one) I think it is very sexual and very sensual And ladies if you shave your self as well the feeling you get when the 2 shave embodiments rub against one another during the course of some pa... More About: Dating
Interacial Dating
2008-05-13 11:35:00 I LIKE EM? BUT THEY ARE WHITE??. INTERACIAL DATING IS MORE ACCEPTED NOW A DAYS BUT PEOPLE STILL ARE UNEASY ABOUT IT WHY? I have dated a white guy before but I have never been in a relationship with a white man before. I told myself recently I was going to start dating white guys because black guys are not doing it for me anymore. I know that if I see a fine brother walk down the street with a white girl do I get mad?. NO.. Ok well if she looks like trailer trash yes I do get mad but if she is pretty then I am happy for him. Hell I don?t know why I do I just do. The reason I get mad is because they hold such high standards of how the want their African American woman to look like?. But what they choose in another race is so beneath what they expect from us. Now that may be stereotypical and not true for all black men ? But a majority of them (that I know) It?s the truth. The reality is that we fear what we don?t know. But one thing Kinky does know... More About: Dating
05-12-08
2008-05-12 15:40:00 All mothers are working mothers. ~Author Unknown QUOTE OF THE DAY More About: Quote Of The Day
A TRIBUTE TO ME
2008-05-12 15:38:00 This is a tribute to me???. Being a Single Mother and any other mother who may understand Do I deserve recognition for my task at hand I believe that I do so let me make you understand I laid down and created something magnificent And even though you choose not to help THEY are still heaven sent When I look into the eyes of my seeds How could you not want to be a part of the air that they breathe? Every time they speak my name I know that without them my life would not be the same I have beat Cancer for them I have survived abuse for them I am educated for them I am strong because of them For the ones who did not make it Even though I never looked in your eyes You are a part of my soul I cry at the thought of losing you But my struggle is so hard with just the two I apologize for some of the choices I have made I to sometimes feel betrayed They are missing some of the greatest moments of your life I may have conceived you not being his wife But God cho... More About: Tribute
THAT'S JUST MY BABY DADDY
More articles from this author:2008-05-12 15:35:00 That?s just my BABY DADDY! Hey it is what it is? I don?t know about you but how do you refer to a man that has fathered your child(ren) that you are no longer involved with. Nor were you married to this man. Hell you might not even like him as a person any more. Well for me?. BABY DADDY It has been told that the slang term Baby Daddy and Baby Mama originated in Jamaica and entered into our society through the music. Linval Thompson a Jamaican musician wrote a song titled ? Baby Mother? and another titled ?Baby Father? In the song ?Baby Father? The opening line is: "Baby father, don't run. Don't hide." Some other artists that speak about it are: Queen Pen OutKast Trick Daddy Bass Patrol I love it. Studies show that the term refers to a child who was made on the outside. Meaning the parents were not married or even common law. The child is a bastard? So instead of saying Oh that?s my bastards daddy I just say THAT?S JUST MY BABY DADDY.. I have very little assistan... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 |



