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No Sympathy for the Sex Addict: New York Times Article
2008-09-08 22:22:00 WHAT SELLS A scene from “Choke,” about a sex addict.By ALLEN SALKINPublished: September 6, 2008 THE distributors of “Choke,” a forthcoming film about a sex addict’s struggle to overcome his demons, have been handing out a strange promotional gift at preview screenings. Attached to a bookmark, the gift is a set of beads typically used as a sexual toy.“Not for small children,” the bookmark warns.In “Blades of Glory,” last year’s ice-skating comedy, Will Ferrell’s character attends a Sex Addicts meeting where the 12-step serenity prayer has been rewritten: “God, grant me the serenity to not have sex with my friend’s girlfriend, the courage to go home tonight without having sex with my friend’s girlfriend, and the wisdom to walk away from my friend’s smokin’ hot girlfriend.” Many of the meeting participants, unhealed, wind up coupling in the bushes outside.Move over, tubby; take a break, old maid, there’s a new straw man available for theatrical ridic... More About: New York , Article , York , New York Times , Times
Ideas for Teleseminars
2008-09-06 06:32:00 I am planning a series of online teleseminars which will be podcasts and able to be downloaded in mp3 formats.I need suggestions from those of you who read this blog in terms of what you would like me to address. Please list things you would find helpful for me to include and I will try to do so in a podcast.You can put your ideas under the comments section of this blog or email to me directly.I look forward to your ideas and thoughts.Warmly, Joe Kort, LMSW More About: Ideas
Sex with the City: An introduction teleclass about Sexual Addiction
2008-09-05 22:17:00 September 88-9PM ESTSex with the City : An introduction teleclass about Sexual Addiction for men.{This is also an opportunity for wives and female partners as well as therapists to understand sexual addiction in men.}Sexual addiction and compulsivity is on the rise for men—and for women, particularly with the expanding Internet bringing ease to sexual hookups and online porn. Because of sexual shame, people often are afraid to talk about their sexual acting out behaviors and clinicians are not sure what to do once the sexual behavior is reported.This telelcass will help those struggling with whether or not they have a sexual addiction or not and accurately assess and get help.Participants will be learn what makes sexual behaviors an addiction and what to do to stop the behaviors. It will give direction to help men recover from out of control sexual behavior. Treatment planning often involves assessing the clients erotic mapping and ritualized sexual behavior.The secret logic of the... More About: Introduction
Lesbians who are aroused and enjoy watching gay male pornography
2008-09-02 05:20:00 Many people who read this blog have a hard time understanding how a straight male could enjoy gay male porn.I have uploaded an article entitled:Hot Man on Man Action (And the Lesbians Who Love Watching It) by Elizabeth F. Stewart from In the Family Magazine, Summer 2000.By clicking on the link and scrolling down you will find the article.I believe this article clarifies how and why sexual orientation does not always line up with sexual preferences. Most people would say that lesbians would be turned off by gay male pornography if they are truly lesbians. However, the author of this article makes some important points about the lesbians who do enjoy gay male porn:The "players in the gay male porn are all very hot and the focus is on the sex"Lesbians who enjoy anal sexMen "cannot fake arousal"What "the viewer sees is real"Gay male sex is seen as "nastier," more "down and dirty," and "forbidden".My own judgment about why anyone who is not gay or bisexual would be attracted to gay male ... More About: Enjoy , Pornography , Male
Straight Guise: Treating Heterosexual Men Who Have Sex With Men
2008-08-28 20:19:00 Upcoming Talks on Straight Guise by Joe Kort, LMSWAASECT Sponsored Talk for Mental Health Clinicians DATE: November 1, 2008COST: $40 (which includes 2 AASECT CE’s and 2 Michigan Social Work CE’s plus a continentalbreakfast)WHERE: Center for Sexual Health at University of Michigan Health Systems Ann arbor, MIEast Ann Arbor Health Center4260 Plymouth Road AnnArbor, MI 48109 just off the highway (us 23)Contact: Sallie Foley salliefoley@gmail.comStraight Guise: Treating Heterosexual Men Who Have Sex With Men Joe Kort, LMSW1. Description of TrainingWhen a male client reveals he fantasizes about having sex with men, is caught looking at online gay porn and in gay chat rooms, and possibly is having sex with men, the tendency is to label the client as gay or bisexual. However, for many of these men this is not about either. A variety of reasons exist as to why men seek other men for sex which are not about a gay identity.Therapists, being politically correct, often believe the man is in...
Boyhood Shadows: A Documentary of Sexually Abused Men
2008-08-28 18:06:00 A documentary titled Boyhood Shadows is soon to be released about males who have been sexually abused as children.If you are a regular reader of this blog you know that many of the straight men I treat men who have sex with men were sexually abused as children and are homosexually imprinted in terms of behavior--not orientation--as adults.Monterey County Rape Crisis Center has created a full length, groundbreaking documentary on Male Sexual Victimization. A website for the film is up ( http://www.boyhoodshadows.org/ ), the film has been submitted to Sundance and other big film festivals. Watch the trailer it will make you cry. It had that effect on me! This is a very important and silenced topic that the producers are bringing forward!I received word of this film by an AASECT member Stephen L. Braveman who was part of the creation of this much needed film. His contact information is below.Stephen L. Braveman, M.A., L.M.F.T., D.S.T.Licensed Marriage & Family TherapistCertified D... More About: Documentary , Abused
Inside the secret world of the straight guise
2008-07-30 18:23:00 My blog was featured in a story in the Village Voice by Tristan Taormino about straight men who have sex with men.I really appreciated the journalist featuring my beliefs about why straight men have sex with other men and thought she did a fine job. She also pointed out the very thing that I have tried to ask myself--why is this okay for females but not for males? Read what she has to say.Straight Men Who Have Sex With MenInside the secret world of the straight guiseBy Tristan TaorminoTuesday, July 29th 2008Once again, a female singer has a hit song called "I Kissed A Girl"; I saw Katy Perry perform it on network television the other night. As she danced around in her cute yellow dress, I thought: "Wow, singing about lesbian smooching was pretty racy when Jill Sobule did it—same title and subject, different and better song—in 1995 on MTV." Now it's ready for prime time? Well, it's been almost 15 years. Plus, the whole idea isn't that threatening anymore.If a straight woman co... More About: World , The Secret , Secret
Bisexual Sex Addicts: A Typical Story
2008-07-21 22:13:00 Here is a good clinical example by another therapist of how non-gay men who have sex with men can be the result of sexual addiction and be driven by father hunger.The author is Jerry Goodman. I know him through SASH (Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health) which is an organization for sexual addiction and compulsivity.Jerry has been an LCSW (Licensed Certified Social Worker) psychotherapist for approximately 30 years, the last 18 of which he has specialized in treating male sex addicts. In the early 90’s, with his wife, Margaret, he developed the Counseling Affiliates Sexual Addiction Treatment Program in Houston. In 1991 Jerry took one of Patrick Carnes' early sexual addition training intensives for therapists and continued to follow Carnes’ literature, lectures, workshops and personal counsel. Finally when professional certification became available, he obtained the Certified Sex Addiction Therapist certification (CSAT) in 2001. The following year he received the Superv... More About: Story , Bisexual
High Sex Drive is Associated with Increased Sexual Attraction to Both Women
2008-07-21 21:28:00 In my private practice and coaching I have noticed that straight men with a higher sex drive tend to be more willing to be sexual with other men which this study by Richard Lippa talks about. I have also noticed that gay men with high sex drives are more willing to have sex with women and can be satisfied with them.This study is important as it is not about sexual orientation as much as it is about sexual drive and behavior.________________________________ ____________________________Information about the sex drive and same- and other-sex attraction studyin the April 2007 issue of the Archives of Sexual BehaviorThe complete reference for the article is:Lippa, R. A. (2007). The relation between sex drive and sexual attraction to men and women: A cross-national study of heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual men and women, Archives of Sexual Behavior, 36, 209-222.Abstract:Recent research suggests that, for most women, high sex drive is associated with increased sexual attraction to bot... More About: Women , Drive , Attraction , High
Anal HPV common in Heterosexual men
2008-07-21 19:44:00 This article is an important one for the men I talk about on this blog.These men are most likely getting Anal HPV because they are on the down low and having sex with other men.This Reuters Health, July 2008 is proof that these men exist.___________________________________ _____________________________Anal HPV common in hetero menLast updated: Monday, July 21, 2008Roughly one in four heterosexual men have anal human papillomavirus (HPV) infection and, in many cases, a cancer-causing type of the sexually transmitted wart virus is present, a study shows.Certain strains of HPV, which can be transmitted from male to female partners, are responsible for most cases of cervical cancer. Although much is known about HPV infection in women, this is not the case in men.Only two studies have reported anal HPV prevalence in heterosexual men," Alan Nyitray, from the Arizona Cancer Center in Tucson, who led the current study, told Reuters Health. "The first study from Amsterdam recruited men in an ... More About: Common
More MSM Finding Partners On Internet In Chicago, Contributing To Increase
2008-07-21 05:46:00 Every once in a while I think it is important to remind those reading this blog about the risk of HIV exposure and other STD's.The following article talks about a report from Chicago in which men who have sex with men who meet from the Internet are experiencing a higher rater of STD's.___________________________________ ________________________In the MedicalNewsToday.com, a story appeared about an increasing number of men who have sex with men in Chicago are finding sex partners on the Internet, helping to fuel a rise is syphilis cases among the group, according to a report recently released by the Chicago Department of Health, the Chicago Tribune reports.The number of syphilis cases in Chicago remained around 300 cases annually for about 10 years, and until 2001, most cases were recorded among heterosexuals. In 2007, 331 syphilis cases were reported in the city, 71% of them among MSM, the Tribune reports. According to the Tribune, one concern related to the increasing number of pe... More About: Partners
SO YOU SAY YOU’RE STRAIGHT: The one in five hidden homosexual heterosexua
2008-07-05 21:04:00 A book proposal by the late Dr. Neil McConaghy was given to me by the author's daughter, Dr. Finola McConaghy, and placed on Straight Guise.com with permission. She was unable to publish this book and found Straightguise.com and asked if I would be willing to add it to the literature on the website which I accepted.While at times dense and difficult to read as many academic books are, Dr. Neil McConaghy does a thorough job in researching SMSM's and presenting it in a scientific fashion.SO YOU SAY YOU’RE STRAIGHT:The one in five hidden homosexual heterosexualsIntroductionChapter 1. Who is homosexual? The falsehomosexual/heterosexual dichotomyChapter 2. Sissiness, tomboyishness, effeminacy, butchness andthe homosexual heterosexualsChapter 3. Theories of causes of sexual orientation and thehomosexual heterosexualsChapter 4. Why homosexual heterosexuals conceal theirhomosexual feelings: homophobia, biphobia andsissyphobia.Chapter 5. Psychological health and homosexuality. Is there a ... More About: Hidden
iPhones and Sexual Addiction
2008-06-08 23:02:00 Since Straight Guise looks at sexual issues I receive many emails from men who suffer from a sexual addiction and cannot refrain from sexually acting out. They use various computer programs to block them from going to porn sites on the Internet with their home laptops and desktops.However they are finding ways to use the iPhone to sexually act out and go to these site with which they cannot connect on their home computers. So far there are no Internet filters (after clicking Internet filters scroll down to where it says Internet filters on the page it takes you to) for the iPhone.I did find a site which has parental controls for the iPhone called Sentry. Here is what is on Sentry's site:We’ve put the iKnow in the iPhone!Your iPhone can now be a window into your child’s online activitiesanyplace, anywhere, anytime. Sentry Parental Controls is adapting itsaward winning parental control software to use with an interface designedspecifically for the iPhone browser. Sentry At Home, ... More About: Addiction , Sexual
Does Everyone Think You're Gay?
2008-06-02 04:54:00 A nice article appears this month in Details magazine on the concept that For some guys, no amount of evidence to the contrary can kill a certain rumor.The article was written by by Mike Albo.Albo starts the story about a friend of his named Gary who is often mistaken for gay when he is 100% straight. He talks about celebrities such as John Travolta and Tom Cruise who have never been able to shake off the rumors even when their lives clearly point to a heterosexual orientation.This is a good conversation as I have known many clients and men (and women) in my personal life who have this same issue.The author writes:Gary's what I like to call a "stray," a straight guy who sends out gaysignals like he's shaking a tambourine even as he proclaims himself—and in factis—100 percent heterosexual. The characteristics that define a stray as suchvary widely. Maybe it's a melodious laugh. Or a fastidious shirt-and-tie combo.Or an effusive signature salutation ("Oh my god! I'm totally ps...
bi-curious?
2008-05-27 00:12:00 bi-curious?There is an interesting thread going on at afterellen.com regarding what constitutes bi-curious and bisexuality. It is worth reading. The following is an excerpt:I think a person can identify as bisexual without ever having sex. If you'reattracted to men and women; I'd paint you bisexual. So where does the bi-curious part come in? Is it a legitimate orientation? I know some people would call bisexuality a phase, I do NOT agree with thatnotion. But I do think bi-curious is a phase. It seems like the 'stillquestioning' period before a person actually comes out. It seems like it's thefantasizing, flirting, contemplating that a person does before they come toterms with their true sexuality. It seems to be a term reserved for straight people who always wondered whatit would be like to be with someone of the same sex. But can it be used for gaypeople who wonder about being with someone of the opposite sex? Is it fair to use the term for people who are honestly questioning ... More About: Curious
GUYS ON FILM | Straight up gay porn for some actors
2008-05-26 06:37:00 Regardless of whether or not people believe that straight men can be sexual with other men and still be straight, it seems that venues such as gay porn films and websites such as:(WARNING BEFORE CLICKING THESE SITES ARE GRAPHIC)"Straight Guys for Gay Eyes""Straight College Men"The point is that there is a lot of ignorance that straight men can have sex with other men and still be straight. The same way gay men can have sex with women and still be gay.Here is an article that talks about some of this.Media Credit: Alexis JohnsonGAY FOR PAY Jeffrey Escoffier shows a clip of a gay porn film to attendees."Some directors think that it is better to have straight men in gay porn," saidJeffrey Escoffier, who writes about gay culture, politics and history. "Theyhave less trouble getting erections."Last night at 19 University Place,Escoffier discussed gender and sexuality in porn while specifically focusing onhis work studying the "gay for pay" phenomenon in which straight men perform ingay po... More About: Film , Actors
Are you in a bromance?
2008-05-26 06:14:00 The following article talks about the usage of the new word "Bromance" when two straight men have loving and even romantic feelings toward one another. The importance of this word and this concept of "mancrushes" is to dispel the myth that for a male to love and care about another male does not have to make them gay or bisexual. If it does that is fine but if their sexual and romantic identities are heterosexual then the new word for the millineum is "Bromance"Read on and then tell me what you think can two straight men love each other and not be gay or bisexual? What if they have sex once or on occassion does that make them gay or bisexual?Here's to 'bromance'Katherine BindleyColumbia News ServiceMar. 24, 2008 12:05 PMIn a 2007 episode of NBC’s hospital-based comedy Scrubs, the show’s twomain characters, J.D. and Turk, break into a musical duet proclaiming theirmutual affection. "Guy love. That’s all it is,” the song goes. "Guy love, he’smine, I’m his. There’s noth...
here! Announces Second Season of 'The DL Chronicles'
2008-05-26 05:48:00 By 5/12/2008 here!, America's premium gay television network, is pleased to announce that it will bring back the critically-acclaimed anthology series The DL Chronicles for a second season. It will premiere on the network in late 2008 and feature 5 new episodes. The DL Chronicles was recently nominated for a GLAAD Media Award in the category of "Outstanding Television Movie or Mini-Series." The anthology series is the first television show to center on the "DL" phenomenon in the gay community. The DL (short for "down-low") refers to straight men of color who live their everyday lives as heterosexuals, often married to women, but engage in discreet gay sex and gay relationships on the periphery. The down-low however, is not specific only to men of color.The show, created by Quincy Lenear and Deondray Gossett (2 Cents Productions), is not only sexy and provocative, but also offers a socially-conscious insight into the lines between sexuality and perceived socially acceptable behavi... More About: Season
Girls Love Gay Male Porn
2008-05-26 05:41:00 My continued fascination with women who enjoy watching two men have sex. I wonder why there is not much talk about this. We see lots of discussion of straight men enjoying girl on girl sex calling it "lesbian porn". But what about women in general. Do they love gay male porn?There was an article in The Village Voice:Girls Love Gay Male PornBrokeback Mountain was just the beginning . . .by Tristan TaorminoMay 13th, 2008 12:00 AMI just got back from a weekend at the University of California at Santa Barbara, where I attended "Console-ing Passions: An International Conference on Television, Audio, Video, New Media, and Feminism. It was three days of geeking out with academics about TV, the Internet, and various kinds of media studies—who knew that people are getting their Ph.D.'s in Battlestar Galactica and The Hills these days? Naturally, the first panel I went to was all about porn, with four scholars presenting papers on lesbian identity politics and pornography, the 1980s cult h...
“Why Girls Love Gay Porn”
2008-05-26 05:28:00 The following article from Playgirl Magazine is important for this blog on Straight Guise to understand that many women are attracted and aroused by two men engaging in sex with one another. I talked about it in an earlier posting about women who love to watch gay male porn.“Why Girls Love Gay Porn”By Clark HardingPlaygirl MagazineNovember 15th, 2006Here’s an excellent article I found in the online and hard copy December Issue of Playgirl:I’LL NEVER FORGET THE FIRST TIME I RENTED gay porn. Pacing outside the campus video store, I was too scared to go in. I eventually built up my courage, made a dash for it, and quickly grabbed the first porno I saw. I thought I was in the clear when I reached the front of the checkout line until I heard “Oh hey, Clark!” from down the aisle. Fuck, I’d been caught red-handed— by two sorority girls, no less. “What ya watchin’?” they asked, cheerfully inspecting my pick of Lukas In Love. Suddenly their faces brightened.“Oh my God...
When your spouse announces he is gay
2008-05-26 04:54:00 It has always been my stance that mixed orientation marriages do not have to seperate. This article supports that.When your spouse announces he is gayBy Robert DiGiacomo (LifeWire) -- When her husband of more than a decade revealed he was gay, Anna Marie Will was surprised -- but not shocked.Jim and Anna Marie Will decided to stay together after he announced he was gay.Her husband, Jim, had never fit her stereotypical idea of the sports-loving, macho, straight guy, and the two had even gone to gay bars with a friend who was gay. But that didn't mean she was prepared for the news. "Neither one of us had a clue -- he didn't know what being gay meant for him. ... He needed to figure that out," recalls Anna Marie Will, of Sacramento, California. "I needed to figure out what his being gay meant for me, and whether I could incorporate that into my life and my marriage."What they did know was that they believed in their marriage and wanted to make it work. Jim Will's revelation in 2001 ... More About: Spouse
It's a "Guy Thing", not a "Gay Thing"!
2008-05-26 04:44:00 Public Sex Confidential Overnight, senator Larry Craig became the poster boy for public sex. But as Benoit Denizet-Lewis reminds us, the phenomenon is anything but new -- and it's not just a closeted republican thing. So what is it that still drives some in the gay community out of the bedroom and into the Bathroom? By Benoit Denizet-LewisFrom The Advocate January 15, 2008 Benoit Denizet-Lewis interviewed me on gay men and public sex. Here are excerpts from the article in the Advocate:“Public sex is alive and well,” says Joseph Couture, author of Peek Inside the Private World of Public Sex.. “Authorities are becoming more creative andeffective at policing it, but horny men are very resourceful. You can have allthe gay marriage you want, but public sex isn’t going anywhere.” Some assumed that the Internet would do away with the need for sex in the bushes.After all, why leave the house when you can have your man delivered? Othershoped that as American society became more ac... More About: Thing
Born in the USSA! (Unwanted Same Sex Attractions)
2008-05-26 04:43:00 No this is not a Bruce Springsteen song!USSA stands for Unwanted Same Sex Attractions .Sadly, the organizations which support them are mostly anti-gay and teach that there is nothing positive or okay about anyone being lesbian or gay.This is where I part ways with these types of reparative therapies and exgay organizations. I believe that there are those with same sex attractions (SSA) and with the right therapy can rid themselves of them. However for those who are successful there were not gay from the start in my judgment. Perhaps they were bisexual or sexual abuse survivors or many other reasons men and women have sexual interest in the same gender.A disturbing website exists titled, "SameSexAttraction.org" which states the following:What is Same-sex Attraction?Same-sex attraction is an intense interest in others of the same gender. Thisinterest may include desires for their attention, friendship, intimacy, and/or afascination with their bodies and other gender traits. It may also...
Straight Men Who Have Sex with Men (SMSM)
2008-05-01 19:31:00 I submitted an article which was accepted at www.GLBTQ.com on straight men who have sex with men.Men Who Have Sex with Men (MSM) is a term derived from the growing body ofliterature showing that not all men who have sex with men are gay. Adopted bysex researchers and AIDS organizations to classify men who have sexual relationswith other men but whose sexual identity is neither gay nor bisexual, theacronym recognizes a reality that complicates our tendency to divide the worldinto heterosexuals and homosexuals, with a small number of bisexuals, who aresometimes thought of as simply gay men or lesbians who have not come to termswith their homosexuality. That is, the reality of sexual activity is morecomplicated than the traditional binary (or even trinary) system of nomenclaturecan accommodate.This article focuses on straight men who have sexualrelations with men (SMSM). They are not gay nor are they bisexual, though theirbehavior might be seen as bisexual or homosexual. To read on cl... More About: Straight
Sexual Addiction explained by Sock Puppet Porn Addicts: HUMOR
2008-04-13 15:09:00 A humorous video about sexual addiction. More About: Humor , Addiction , Sexual , Puppet
Flex Sex
2008-03-24 03:17:00 Psychologist Robert Epstein uses the term, "Flex Sex" where men and women can have sexual contact with the same gender and not be gay or bisexual.He was on the Morning Show with Mike and Juliet and talked about what I refer to as Straight Guise. I liked the way he verbalized men who have sex with men who are not gay.He also has a sexual orientation survey on his website.
Mending a Shattered Heart: Women involved with sex addicts
2008-02-12 18:57:00 I am excited to announce the upcoming release of another book which I contributed to edited by Dr. Stephanie Carnes called, Mending a Shattered Heart . ISBN: 0-9774-4006-9$16.95http://www.gentlepath. com/About the Book:Where do I go from here?You are not alone. Thousands ofunsuspecting people wake up every day to discover their loved one, the oneperson that they are supposed to trust completely, has been living a life oflies and deceit because they suffer from a disease - a disease called sexaddiction. Stefanie Carnes brings together several authors to guide thereader through an assortment of topics like “How Do I Handle This?” and “What DoI Tell the Kids?”The chapter I wrote is:Straight Guise: Is My Partner Gay?This chapter will help the partners of these men, first by separating the two types of men: men who are gay and bisexual; and men who are heterosexual who seek sex with other men. The difference is one of sexual orientation versus sexual preference. It will also help w... More About: Women
Men Against Sexual Violence: Sexually Abused Males
2008-01-26 20:01:00 I found an excellent site about raped and sexually abused males that every therapist and male who has raped or been raped should have as a resource. The site at which I found the following is Men Against Sexual Violence MYTHS AND FACTS ABOUT MALE VICTIMS OF RAPERape happens because of an uncontrollable desire for sex with an irresistible victim.Rape is an act of violence in which sex becomes the weapon used to control and or harm a victim the rapist perceives as vulnerable.Men and boys cannot be raped.One in six men report having been sexually abused by the time they were 18 (Finkelhor et al., 1990). Anyone from infants to the elderly, regardless of gender, race, religion, socio-economic status, education, physical appearance, marital status, or culture can be raped. Rapists choose their victims carefully, looking for anything that will make the victim vulnerable and give them the advantage. They isolate their victims from bystanders who could help them, and rely upon shock, surprise... More About: Abused
Sexual Fludity
2008-01-02 05:41:00 Even though the following article and interview with Lisa Diamond is primarily about women, I believe that men are not far off from sexual fluidity.Q&A with Lisa DiamondBy Pagan Kennedy December 30, 2007IN 1995, LISA DIAMOND traversed New York State in a beat-up car,visiting softball games, picnics, and gay-pride parades. She was hunting foryoung women who had experienced same-sex attraction (even if it was fleeting).Diamond wanted to find out how such women understand - and label - their owndesires.more stories like thisIn this country, we tell a certain storyabout homosexuality: We believe that people who come out as gay almost alwaysstick with that gay identity for the rest of their lives. Diamond's researchreveals that - at least for some females - that story might be wrong.Shefollowed dozens of women for 10 years, as they graduated from college, workedtheir first jobs, fell in love, changed their minds, and tumbled into the armsof new partners. Most women's behavior had l... More About: Sexual
Is Public Sex Okay?
More articles from this author:2007-12-23 21:42:00 After taking the poll if you want to elaborate on why you think it is okay or not please feel free to do so here on this blog. I would love to hear people's thoughts and reactions.Also, there are reports that men who have sex with men are arrested moreso than if women having sexual relations with men are when discovered by police. Gay groups state that straight folks get a finger shaking warning and are told to go home whereas men who have sex with men get arrested.Do you believe this? Why do you think this is? Gay groups site homophobia. Is there more to it than this? More About: Public 1, 2, 3, 4 |
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