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Self-Confidence
2008-02-07 08:16:00 The way you feel about yourself will ultimately determine the quality of your relationships. Self-confidence is your projection of yourself and your security. When you have selfconfidence, you are projecting that: - You’re happy with yourself. - You’re not afraid of life or what is coming in the future. - You have a positive attitude. - You know where you’re going. - You’re independent, not dependent and needy. It all begins and ends here. Self-esteem is a large part of the self-confidence you project, and it’s how proud you are to be you. It’s beyond the scope of this book to attempt to tell you how to repair severely damaged self-esteem, however, you should know that everyone, and I do mean everyone but insane egomaniacs, has areas of low self-esteem. This knowledge should reassure you and empower you. After all, most of the women you meet are just as shaky and insecure as you feel on the first coffee date. As you improv... More About: Confidence
Comparing Yourself To Others
2008-02-06 21:00:00 This is not about entering the Miss USA or Mr. World contest. This is about comparing yourself to Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie or anybody you see on a billboard or a magazine. Those photos have been retouched to a fare-theewell (trust me, I’ve met and interviewed bunches of these people). They’ve been powdered, primped, airbrushed, oiled, and lit so their own moms wouldn’t recognize ’em. Besides, if you read any of the fan magazines, you know that beautiful people don’t have all that easy a time dating either. So cut it out. While you’re at it, don’t compare yourself to the homecoming court either, male or female, or to your next-door neighbor or your older or younger sibs or your parents’ wedding picture. You are who you are, and if you want to do a little fine-tuning there, fine. (That’s not to say, of course, that you can’t change and grow, and I’m not even against plastic surgery, but not before your first date, pl...
Charm Practice
2008-02-06 20:24:00 Charm is simply the practice of making someone know that you feel good about them without embarrassing them or asking anything of them in return, and it’s really, really seductive. It’s being a fancy maitre d’ at a French restaurant without the tip — making someone feel that they are the most important person in the world to you at that moment. Charm has to be sincere. Charm is its most potent when you believe what you’re saying. Charm must include eye contact. If you’re good at eye contact and vocal warmth, it’s almost impossible to lay it on too thick. Charm may include compliments. What to say is relatively easy: Figure out what would feel the best to you if someone were making you feel good. This technique doesn’t work 100 percent of the time, but it works more often than not, and because you’re tuned in to the other person (a large part of the charm experience), you’ll be able to adjust accordingly. Charm is done ligh... More About: Practice , Charm
Ad-Aware 2007 Pro 7.0.2.3
2008-02-06 20:07:00 What's New in Ad-Aware 2007 Pro? * Redesigned Engine ¨C Benefit from superior program flexibility and more accurate scanning methods with all-new program architecture. * Improved Code Sequence Identification (CSI) Technology ¨C Boost your privacy protection with precise detection of embedded malware, including known and emerging threats. * The Scheduler ¨C Set automatic scans and updates to fit your personalized needs. * Incremental Definition File Updates ¨C Save precious time and resources with smaller update files resulting in faster download times. * Ad-Watch RegShield ¨C Improved protection against attempted registry changes, a favorite target for many forms of malware. * Ad-Watch Connect ¨C Open a new channel to identify keyloggers and identity theft attempts with this convenient snapshot of programs actively connected to other networks. * TrackSweep - Control privacy by erasing tracks left behind while surfing the ...
Spyware Doctor v5.1.0.273
2008-02-06 16:52:00 Spyware Doctor is an advanced adware and spyware removal utility that detects and cleans thousands of potential spyware, ad ware, trojans, keyloggers, spy ware cookies, trackware, spybots and other malware from your PC. This tool allows you to remove, ignore or quarantine identified Spyware. It also has an OnGuard system to immunize and protect your system against hundreds of privacy threats as you work. By performing a fast detection at Windows start-up you will be alerted with a list of the potential threats identified. New platform for innovation: Spyware Doctor™ V5.0 is a major release for PC Tools™. The product has undergone a total "under the hood" overhaul & tune-up; providing users with a new smaller, faster and supercharged Spyware Doctor™. Since its conception, Spyware Doctor has evolved significantly in order to keep up-to-date with ever-changing and growing malware threats, As a result; PC Tools™ turbo-charges its latest version of Spyware Doctor V5.... More About: Spyware
Spybot - Search & Destroy 1.5
2008-02-05 20:04:00 Spybot - Search & Destroy detects and removes spyware, a relatively new kind of threat not yet covered by common anti-virus applications. Spyware silently tracks your surfing behaviour to create a marketing profile for you that is transmitted without your knowledge to the compilers and sold to advertising companies. If you see new toolbars in your Internet Explorer that you haven't intentionally installed, if your browser crashes inexplicably, or if your home page has been "hijacked" (or changed without your knowledge), your computer is most probably infected with spyware. Even if you don't see the symptoms, your computer may be infected, because more and more spyware is emerging. Spybot-S&D is free, so there's no harm giving it a try to see if something has invaded your computer. To see a list of threats Spybot-S&D can remove, in the navigation bar at the left click on Support --> Threats. For an introduction to Spybot-S&D, please read the tutorial. If you f... More About: Spybot
VLC Media Player v.0.8.6c
2008-02-05 19:35:00 VLC media player is a highly portable multimedia player for various audio and video formats (MPEG-1, MPEG-2, MPEG-4, DivX, mp3, ogg, ...) as well as DVDs, VCDs, and various streaming protocols. It can also be used as a server to stream in unicast or multicast in IPv4 or IPv6 on a high-bandwidth network. DOWNLOAD:http://rapidshare.com/files/8905 5829/VLC_p-0.8.6c_-_DG.rar More About: Media Player , Media , Player
iTunes 7.6
2008-02-05 19:28:00 iTunes is a store, a player, and a way to get music and more on your iPod, iPhone, and Apple TV. Rent movies and transfer them to your iPod¹ or iPhone. Create custom ringtones for your iPhone using songs from the iTunes Store. iTunes is free for Mac + PC. DOWNLOAD: http://rapidshare.com/files/88300652/iTun esSetup.exe More About: Itunes
First Contact : Tagging Your Prey
2008-02-05 16:51:00 All right, let's start talking moves. We've talked about what you do whenever you enter a room. You take control—instantly. Your absolute, steely confidence in exactly who and what you are allows you to walk into any situation, a wedding, a party, a bar, a meeting at your office, whatever, like the king of the jungle. Not Godzilla, no chip on your shoulder, just confident and in charge. Okay, you're finally inside. Great. Now, what comes next? Next, of course, you do whatever it is you're supposed to do wherever it is you are (obvious, I know, but some guys need every little detail spelled out), until finally, you spot... her. And, there she is, across the room. Everything you've always wanted. The dream girl you've fantasized about ever since the day you got your first stiffy. It's her, just as you've always imagined her. The right hair and eyes, the lips you've imagined against yours, those perfect breasts, endless legs, that waist that will just fit so snugly in betwee... More About: Contact , Tagging , Prey
The Approach : Walking The Walk / Talking The Talk
2008-02-04 17:09:00 Okay, so what is it that starts things out for all men with all women. Think about this one. I mean, you don't want to say "looks," do you, because after all, you know there are a lot of guys out there who aren't all that good looking. In fact, you know as well as I do that there are guys out there who are deadspot ugly. And yet, you've seen these bad-haircut, slantheaded, big-eared bananas walking around with the cutest girls in town.How can this be, you ask. Then you think, "money," that's how they judge all of us. And once again, you'd be wrong. Sure, women are shallow; there's no denying that one. And the ones thinking marriage, you can bet they want to make certain there's a hefty bank account in their future. But still, cash is not the measuring stick females use to size up males, and again we know in our hearts that one's true because there are guys without two dollars to rub against each other who still get dates. Nope, it's not your wa... More About: Walking , Talk , Talking , Walk
Confidence On The Outside
2008-02-03 12:52:00 To begin on the outside, you can develop a sense of personal style — knowing what looks good on you, your own personal statement, the attention to detail that sets you apart. Regardless of your age or economic circumstances or bone structure, you can make a statement that makes you feel good about yourself, and that is the best accessory you can have whether you’re looking for a job or a loan or a date. A fun and easy way to develop a sense of personal style is to liven up your wardrobe with clothing and accessories that accentuate the traits you like best. If you’re not sure what becomes you, take a trusted friend to a dressing room or have someone whose style you admire go with you (of course, don’t try to copy someone else’s style, but if your friend has an eye for what looks good, he or she can probably help you). Public dressing rooms are also great places to ask strangers whether they think a style looks good on you. Strangers are of... More About: Confidence
Confidence On The Inside
2008-02-03 10:27:00 When you begin building confidence on the inside, you inventory all the things you do well, from tying your shoelace to helping your mom cross the street to making a great cherry pie to sneezing really well. Everybody does something well, and the place to begin building confidence is on that sturdy foundation of being able to do something — anything — with a degree of proficiency. If you can’t think of one thing you do well, then you’re probably having a pity party, which is toxic for confidence. You’re also not looking at yourself objectively, so have a friend help you recognize your talents. If a friend’s not available, ask your mother, who probably loves everything you do. More About: Confidence , Inside
Whining
2008-01-28 21:32:00 You know about whining — the obnoxious, nasal complaining that serves no purpose other than to say, “Pay attention to me because I’m helpless and weak and irritating, and I can’t get your attention based on strength or knowledge or reason so I’ll drive you crazy by pitching my voice and my grievance in such a way that you’ll do anything to have me stop, but you’ll hate both yourself and me in the morning.” The word actually comes from the Anglo-Saxon word for “whizzing” — which must have meant something different to them than to us — so obviously the concept of whining has been around for a very long time. If you’ve got a legitimate complaint, say it clearly and cogently and respectfully and see what you can do to solve the problem. Leave whining to 3-year-olds who don’t want to take a bath.
The Confidence Game
2008-01-28 21:14:00 So let’s talk about this confidence thing. Are some people — the gorgeous, smooth, and successful among us — born with it? Nope! These people got to be successful and smooth by appearing to be confident. And what about those who were smart enough to choose the right parents or get dipped in the gorgeous-gene pool? Well, I know some of the most stunning people on this earth, and most of them are surprisingly insecure and frightened — of losing their looks, of appearing stupid and superficial, of growing old, of putting on weight, of having no one love them for any reason other than their cheekbones, of having no one love them at all. I’m not suggesting that you petition to be hit upside the head with the ugly stick, just that you get on with your life, whatever you look like. Introduce yourself to the fascinating woman you’d really like to know better. Or at least say “hi” to the person you see daily at the bus stop. Smart people do the best they can with what they... More About: Game , Confidence
Handling Fear
2008-01-28 19:54:00 The T-shirt that says "No Fear " is probably the only profound T-shirt in the history of the world. Fear can paralyze you; it can stop you from looking for a job, looking for love, looking in the mirror. It can keep you from asking for what you want, saying what’s on your mind, saying “ouch” or “hurrah.” Fear eats away at your time, your energy, your very self, and it has no place in your life. Caution? Perhaps. Knowledge about why something isn’t good for you? Certainly. But fear is a waste of time; most often, it is the boogeyman of your imagination, the monster that says, “Boo!”. Fear is an awesome and formidable power that scary things don’t deserve, so turn on the lights and look at what you fear. Figure out what you can do to be strong and bypass or tame what frightens you. Don’t let fear have the power to control you. Take control of your fear. What you already know is fine and comfortable and p...
How to Evoke Specific Emotions in Someone - Part II
2008-01-28 19:01:00 Let’s suppose you wanted to make your listener “excited”. You might say something like this: “I had a good time playing football Saturday. It was pretty exciting.” Now this is what you should be saying: “I had a good time playing football yesterday. It was pretty exciting. I was so focused, the experience was so intense, that everything outside the game seemed to blur. You know, like the only thing that mattered was the game. And everything inside the game got hyper-sharp, all the colors and lines, all the faces, were just incredibly clear and focused, and the clearer everything looked, the more I felt pure excitement just ramp up inside me. It was as if every time I moved in to tackle someone, I just saw that person as if through a microscope—I could see the sweat glittering on the guy’s face, the blood under his skin, all the fear and rage and intensity inside him, you know? Everything seemed amplified, as if we we... More About: Emotions , Part , Specific
How to Evoke Specific Emotions in Someone - Part I
2008-01-28 16:18:00 You can make your listener feel an emotion simply by talking about that emotion. How and why does this work? Remember what I refer to as The Pink Elephant Principle: Anything you describe to someone, that person imagines, simply to understand what you are talking about. The better you describe that experience, the more fully your listener understands and experiences it. How do you describe something well? Specify the experience in terms of the senses. That is, describe what can be seen, heard, felt tactilely, smelled, and tasted as part of the experience. Also, describe what can be experienced internally and subjectively—make an effort to convey every subtlety and nuance of your experience, no matter how strange those nuances might seem from a logical, objective perspective—describe what you imagine, say to yourself, and feel in your body as you process the experience. If, when you find yourself falling in love, it kinda-sorta seems as if there’s a glow aro... More About: Emotions , Part , Specific
FlashGet 1.9.6.1073 with Optimizer
2008-01-27 17:27:00 FlashGet (formerly JetCar) is specifically designed to address two of the biggest problems when downloading files: Speed and management of downloaded files. If you've ever waited forever for your files to download from a slow connection, or been cut off mid-way through a download - or just can't keep track of your ever-growing downloads - FlashGet is for you. FlashGet can split downloaded files into sections, downloading each section simultaneously, for an increase in downloading speed from 100% to 500%. This, coupled with FlashGet's powerful and easy-to-use management features, helps you take control of your downloads like never before. FlashGet displays download progress in ranks of glittering dots, but its acceleration is not as pronounced as most. Its inability to start a download without confirmation makes for slow starts. We ran into difficulty locating configuration settings, a problem aggravated by a help system that apparently belongs to an earlier version. Nonetheless, ... More About: Optimizer
The Phone : The Time Trick - Part II
2008-01-27 11:55:00 Now, what if she says she'll call you at a certain time? What do you do? Easy. You say "sure." You make certain you're home at the right time just in case she calls on time. Whatever time she calls, you take the call, then tell her you can't talk and that you'll have to call her back in twenty minutes. Forty minutes later you call her back. If she called you late, your excuse is ready made, you were ready at the right time—where was she? If she called at the right time, however, then you just go back to giving her one of the excuses you have ready for when you call back late anyway. Remember, if you've got it all planned out you're not going to be at a loss for words. Women are used to men answering things off the top of their heads. Men with planned responses confuse them terribly because usually they've never met such a creature. Of course, you're not going to be able to plan for everything they could possibly ask you. However, you had better sound as if you always... More About: Phone , Time , Trick , Part , The Time
The Phone : The Time Trick - Part I
2008-01-26 20:16:00 Okay, here's one that goes against all the instincts of the young dater. This is a trick that women have been using for years on men and believe me, not only does it work, but it is devastatingly effective. Fine. Glad to hear it, because what works for them will work for you. Now, I'll warn you right up front, this one is hard to go along with, especially when the blood in your veins is drumming in your head and making you sweat and all you can think about is getting some, but you've got to have some will power. It takes a strong hand to hold the leash in a relationship, but if you're not the one holding it, you're going to be the one at the other end.Here's the scenario: you finally got that special girl's phone number. You've told your intended that you will call her that night, and you've even given her a time. Let's say 9:00. The actual time or date or whatever that you said you would call doesn't matter. What matters is not calling when you said you would. Let me rep... More About: Phone , Time , Trick , Part , The Time
Who's Making The Decisions? - Part II
2008-01-25 19:44:00 Now, how do you do this? You start from the beginning and you never let up. For instance, when you first ask your intended cutie out, you don't say:"Would you like to go out tonight?"And why not? After all, it's polite, isn't it? It's considerate. Isn't that good? No! Being polite, being considerate, being anything but in charge is fucking stupid, and you'd better learn that fast! Look at that sentence again. You just gave her the opportunity to say "no." You've made it easy for her. Too easy. Instead, you say:"Let's go out tonight," or "We should go out tonight,"to give the illusion of trust that she might have a brain, you ask something like, "Where would you like to go tonight, dinner or a movie?" If she doesn't want dinner or a movie, you don't question her ("Hey, you have to eat, don't you"), you simply move on, give her another choice or two until you find something she'll go for.Now, if she suggests a place that you hate, don't go along with it just to please her... More About: Part , Decisions
Who's Making The Decisions? - Part I
2008-01-24 10:30:00 All right, what's the very first thing you have to do in this game? Right—you've got to pick out something female. Let's say you've done that. You know who you want. You've got the girl all lined up that you want and you're ready to start talking to her. Great. Do it. Start talking. The subject doesn't matter. No matter what you use to catch her attention, there is something of vital importance you must do to make certain you keep her attention. And that thing is, you must not let her make any decisions.And now, let me refine that thought. You must not let her make any decisions for you. Yes, she can decide which hand she's going to hold her fork in, but she's not going to tell you how to eat. Period. Never. Not once. I know I'm repeating myself, but let's make sure we've cleared up the greatest feminist fallacy once and for all. No matter what you've seen in the media or heard on "Oprah," women don't want to think about things. They do not want to be in charge; they... More About: Part , Decisions
Hi Guys
2008-01-20 19:37:00 Hi Guys ,Although i will be updating this blog with my articles.Please feel free to post any kind of comments or suggestions of your own.If you need any sort of help in your dating problems, please feel free to talk about it over here.I will be more then happy to advice you on your problem.Hope to hear from you guys soon.Cheers- Tutsi
The Art Of Seduction : Welcome To The Game - Part II
2008-01-20 14:56:00 Seduction and domination are games. More than games, they're sports, and fast-paced ones at that. In fact, if one needed a sports metaphor for these games, it would be boxing. First off, these are not team sports. They're one-on-one battles. And, these are battles. Trust me on this. But one has to remember that when a man makes his opening jab, there's going to be a punch coming right back that has to be blocked and counter-punched or at least ducked. Second, like boxing, every opponent is going to be different. Some women are going to want to dance around the ring, some are going to go toe-to-toe with you. Third, when you break for the bell (and those moments will be there), you're both going to have people in your corners throwing advice in your ears. Even if there's no one else around, all those words of wisdom you've been gathering from friends and relatives, well, don't think she hasn't been doing the same thing. She's got girl friends who have told her what to ... More About: Game , The Game , Part , Seduction
The Art Of Seduction : Welcome To The Game - Part I
2008-01-20 06:16:00 Well now, the art of seduction. Just what would that be? Do any of you know? Do you have a clue? Probably not, elsewise, you'd be out doing it, instead of reading this. Now, this statement is not meant as an insult. No one is born with this knowledge. The urge to dominate women is natural, knowing how to do so is not. One has to learn it. I did. So do you. We all learn these lessons in two ways. We learn from the sage counsel of our elders and our pals, and we learn from our mistakes. When I first started to date I watched my pals when they went on the make; I watched their approach and studied both their victories and their defeats. I had my own victories and defeats (trust me, every guy has both, and I mean every guy) as well.That one you see every day at work, that goddess who sits next to you in class, the gorgeous waitress you see every day at the place you've been having lunch the last two weeks. It's not that good a place, a pit, really, but this waitress, she's so hot, y... More About: Game , The Game , Part , Seduction
Introduction To The Game
More articles from this author:2008-01-12 14:52:00 Hi Guys,I want to introduce you the game that you've already seen and admired before. You've always liked it and felt amazed when you saw your friends play it so well. You've always wondered and wished if you too could play it like them. You've even asked them the secret to their success and u've already experienced that most of the guys aren't willing to let out the secret. In reality, hey too don't know the secret to their success. I know it might be sounding a bit odd, but its true.So what is this "Game " i am talking about ?Imagine. You'r sitting in a coffee shop, hanging out with friends, chit -chatting your time away. One of them is talking about how he dated a girl who lives in his neighbourhood, while the other one is going on and on about his problems with his girlfriend. Amongst the midst of all this, you see a girl sitting two tables across yours'. She is the most beautiful girl you've ever seen....ok....maybe the most beautiful girl you've see... More About: Introduction , The Game 1, 2 |
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