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How to avoid approach anxiety and reframe the self to get unstopable game
2008-04-23 16:28:00
How to avoid approach anxiety and reframe the self to get unstopable game result.We all get it. Even the best PUAs get it. I get it, even today (although I've learnt to love it). That feeling of nervousness when you set yourself up for an approach. The anticipation of being blown out. It can't be avoided - it's primal. But it can be managed.1. Frame It DifferentlyDon't see the approach as the most important thing in the world. It isn't. If you frame the approach in that fashion you are going to load yourself with pressure and, chances are, the pressure will get to you and affect your performance. You should frame it like this: you are a fun and social guy, the kind of guy who has no problem going to people to talk to them and have a good time. If you happen to end up in a conversation with a hot babe that's great. And if you have a conversation with that girl the close will happen naturally.2. Take Baby StepsYou need to start small and build up. If you make an approach in the...
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Dealing with break up. How to Get your Ex-Girlfriend back. Dating tips for
2008-04-22 16:44:00
How to Get your Ex-Girlfriend back!by GypsyI couldn't make her understand. Tears were in her eyes and awall in her mind blocked my logic. She didn't want me herepleading in her living room anymore. She loved me, but shewanted me gone. The more I stayed the more I hurt. Yet thepain was all that I had left of our relationship. And if I washere then I wasn't alone yet. It delayed me facing theemptiness, along with the sleepless nights, the lack ofappetite, the piles of laundry, the stale air of my housefrom being shut in for days and then weeks.We had broken up before, several times to be honest. But,this time carried with it a taste of finality, like acid inthe back of our throats. I hated the thought of now becomingjust me, and no longer a guy with a girlfriend. How would Ido it? How would she...well, she had that other guy, so Iguess that made things easier for her. I wouldn't be solucky. I would become single. I would have to call thebuddies that I neglected all too often to sp...
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Dating Tip: Social Conditioning, your own barrier that you have to over com
2008-04-21 16:20:00
Dating Tip: Social Conditioning , your own barrier that you have to over come to get a GREAT sex life. Inner Game.by GunnwitchI just got you realizing how these things you might be conditioned with are negatively impacting your sex life.Right here I'm going to go in to a short quick list of common possible similar ones that might be impairing you.Going to straighten out your "internals" here. You see Many many "dating for morons" type of books list off 500 pages of "do this" "don't do that's", many of them in conflict of course because the authors compiled the entire material from some magazine articles written by the very same "conditioners" you don't want to be listening to in the first place.What REALLY works is having your internal conditioning set right. Every action you take, every mental state you enter and show, every way you interact and every dynamic you introduce between you and a woman is going to be determined by your inner beliefs and being. Faking it just wont fly...
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How to call a woman and ask her out on a date. Dating and Flirting tips for
2008-04-19 11:18:00
How to call a woman and ask her out on a date. Dating and Flirting tips for men.How to Call a Woman by David DeAngeloWhen you get a woman's number and you're picking up the phone to call and "ask her out", does it bother you?How To Call A Woman To Ask Her OutI have a question for you...When you get a woman's number and you're picking up the phone to call and "ask her out", does it bother you?Do you get freaked out?Do you start thinking about exactly what you're going to say, how you're going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you... etc.?Do you ever get NERVOUS when you're dialing the phone?You know that feeling when you just start getting anxious for no logical reason, and you just CAN'T control it?Have you ever had to actually HANG UP because you were so damn freaked out... and you just couldn't follow through with it?OK, now another set of interesting questions...Have you ever called a woman, and started talking to her, only to realize that she was in a COMPLETELY ...
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How to talk to a woman on the phone? How to make her call you! Attraction
2008-04-18 17:03:00
Attraction Dating Seduction tips: How to talk to a woman on the phone? What to do if she doesn't call you back?Phone Game:by Tyler DurdenNow when it comes to the idea that "if a girl disrespects me I'll NEXT her", that isn't my frame at all. To me, you can't NEXT a girl who you haven't slept with.I get a phone call from an ex-girlfriend that I'm still close with. We still hook-up, but I value her more as someone who I can talk to now. I think that may change when I stop travelling and I'm around more. For some reason, she's an anomaly who is very self aware of her tendencies. That is, as opposed to most girls I meet, who only offer useless socially conditioned rhetoric, whenever you ask them about male/female interaction.Over the course of the conversation, the topic of dating comes up. I ask, "What does it mean when you meet up with a guy, have a great time, maybe even kiss, but then when he calls you don't go out with him? Like you make up excuses and don't return his c...
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Body language Attraction and Dating , How to tell if she wants to talk to y
2008-04-17 16:35:00
Attraction and Dating Body language, sign, How to tell if she wants to talk to you.When the girl wants you to OPEN.by Giuseppe NotteWalking down the street, you usually feast your eyes on the hot ladies going by and say to yourself: "I'd do her!" Has it ever come to your mind that men are not alone with this? Yes, my friend, women do the same!During your everyday life, whether you are on the underground, walking in the local shopping center or dancing in your favorite club, girls will notice and measure you the same way. They might not say, "I'd do him", but they can be open to meeting you and going further.Most guys live their everyday life and never notice when a woman is eyeing them. But what if you approached her? Just think how many of these opportunities to meet a wonderful girl have you lost in the past! Countless to say at least.Here are a few examples. A girl coming in front of you who looks deep into your eyes and smiles is giving you a sign of interest. When you are on ...
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Dating Advice and Tips: Fitting in the scene. Social Vibing: For Intellige
2008-04-16 17:22:00
Dating Advice and Tips : Fitting in the scene. Social Vibing: For Intelligent Guys who are not Socially Savvy. You know who you are. by Tyler DurdenMust read for socially retarded.To me, this is a very important post.Social Intelligence. Having struggled so hard to learn it, I have so much to say on this topic. In this post I'd like to specifically discuss social vibing and insecurity (a very focused, but important peice of the puzzle).There are many subcommunications that are being telegraphed at all times in any interaction. Both verbal and non-verbal.Social interactions have features and customs that I suppose are designed to make them pleasant.As social animals, we have the attribute of actually enjoying socializing just for the sake of socializing.We socially VIBE.People who break the vibe are considered socially unintelligent, and despite being perhaps very good/worthwhile people, they will come across poorly.Most people, once you get to know them, are really worthwhile. I'v...
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How to get a Date and Laid successfully in the next month or two. Proven m
2008-04-15 15:59:00
How to get a Date and Laid successfully in the next month or two. Proven method Part IIIThe idea behind incidental kino is that it's just that - INCIDENTAL. You're not TRYING to make it happen, it just "does". Couples have this all the time. When they sit next to each other, they're very close to each other. They're touching by virtue of their proximity. But neither of them is consciously trying to do it.Some examples of incidental kino:*Knees locked together as you sit on bar stools*Brushing up against each other as you walk down the street*Sharing an umbrulla*Lining up your head next to hers and your shoulder touching hers as you point out something in the distanceSitting closely next to each other on a couchThe fact is, if a girl isn't comfortable enough to be very close to you, she's not comfortable enough to kiss you 95% of the time. So don't "lunge in" to kiss her. It'll freak her out, and rightfully so. (note: While drunk as hell in London, a mixed race young hot Kor...
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How to get a Date and Laid successfully in the next month or two. Proven m
2008-04-14 16:25:00
How to get a Date and Laid successfully in the next month or two. Proven method Part II"I saw you leaning up against the bar and...Fill in the second blank about what you like about her....I have to say you have the prettiest hair I've ever seen."...I have to say you have a really cool funky style that I dig."...I have to say you look fantastic."...I have to say you have the most dangerous walk I've ever seen on a girl."Whatever you think. You can even find one compliment that you really like and always fill in the second blank with that."I saw you (doing what you're doing) and I have to say you look really beautiful."If you want to get laid in the next 30-60 days, this opener will work. The fact is, it's harder to screw up than complicated, game-intense openers. If you've got the testosterone flowing from your workouts, tight cool clothing, you're smiling, and you've got interesting stuff going on in your life, this will work no problem.The first part of what you're doing,...
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How to get a Date and Laid successfully in the next month or two. Proven m
2008-04-13 16:45:00
How to get a Date and Laid successfully in the next month or two. Proven method.Here's my post on how to get laid in the next month or two. This post does not maximize your chances of "getting really good at pickup" - in fact, it does the opposite. I'm going to try to cut out as much "practice time" from you as possible, so you're going to miss valuable opportunities to work on facets of your game. I'm going to try to just give you basic advice to get girls respecting you quickly, liking you, getting invested in you, hanging out with you, and then - you having sex. On the way, I'm going to glaze over intracicies that would let you get many more girls with practice, and take a lot of the theory out of this.This will be grunt work.Fun grunt work, but grunt work. If you do this, you'll be getting laid soon. All of this will be simple, but most of this will be hard. Like diet and exercise, many if not most people will not be able to succeed at this. But if YOU want to have sex wi...
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Pua Openers: "G-String" opener. How to pick up tips and dating advice #011
2008-04-11 21:13:00
Openers for Puas: "G-String " opener. How to pick up tips and dating advice #011Opening using "G-String" Opener.What is "Opener"?It's a form of pick up line, but not as cheesy and most of them are proven to be effective or field proved. It is basically a conversation starter, an excuse to talk to a person, and the beginning of the getting to know each other process.The “G-String?” Opener by BadboyG-STRING (Badboy) "Hey guys, you won't believe what's going on with a friend of mine and his girlfriend. They've been dating each other for six months now, and my friend really loves her. But they had this big fight a few weeks ago, and she went to visit her mother to cool down.While she was gone, my friend was so depressed, that he ended up hooking up with some random girl he met in a club.Anyway, a few days later, his girlfriend comes back, and she finds this girl's thong panties in the bathroom, and she KNOWS this thong isn't hers.So she confronts my friend on this, and he lies...
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Attraction tips: Convey power if you have, or fake it if you have not. But
2008-04-10 19:35:00
Attraction tips: Convey power if you have, or fake it if you have not. But do not brag.By BadboyPower is the biggest aphrodisiac of all time. This was true in the earliest days of the caveman period, true in Egypt, Greece and Rome, and it's still true today.Women in particular are hugely attracted to power. In different historical times, the display of power took different forms; if you go back to caveman days the most muscular hunter had the power, in Rome the senator with the most connections, and nowadays social status, the car you drive, and the amount of money you have signify your power. But the strange thing is that there are guys in today's society who have money, and drive wonderful sports cars but don't get laid. They are afraid of even approaching hot girls.If you could see me approach a hot girl in a club you would see power. The girl I approach is going to know she is not dealing with an excuser. Especially in a night-time venue, the way you communicate when you sta...
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I think she is the ONE, what should I do? Dating Tips
2008-04-09 16:06:00
I think she is the ONE, what should I do? Dating Tips .Really? You probably don't even know her or live with her...or yet have sex with her when you want."Take my words for it, you will see a hundred more, if not thousands, who are up to the par and possibly better. At the moment you are just blind-sided." Voodoo.No, this is exactly the wrong attitude. If she is your only prospect, the one you're thinking about day and night, you keep playing different scenarios of approaching her and making her like you in your mind over and over again - that's called desperation. And it'll show. She's gonna see it (consciously or subconsciously) and nothing repels girls more than a desperate guy. That's why you have to be chasing multiple girls at any given time, so if one of them gives you trouble, the heck with her, you have other girls wanting to be down with youBut the really good part is this - the ones giving you trouble can sense instantly that you're not phased by it, you're displ...

Approach Anxiety and how to cure it for good. Face your demon heads on!
2008-04-08 16:51:00
Approach Anxiety and how to cure it for good. Face your demon heads on!Deal with Approach Anxiety...Anxiety is a defense mechanism. It exists to protect you from abnormal behaviour. Consider a high steel worker. These guys stand on two foot wide beams...Had an awesome time in Vegas. Got into an Approach Anxiety with a fellow lounge member. Thought the rest of you might like to hear it. And for the record, we all get Approach Anxiety. There's no silver bullet. The more you get over it, the easier it gets. But it's still there.Quote: Originally Posted by power it was sunday morning 4am, i guess. Cedar was fighting with tipsiness at the circle bar. when i told him that i'm still working on approach anxiety, suddenly he gave me a massive and comprehensive seminar about this and also game, like a revelation from somewhere above. it was awesome. after about 15 to 20 min of nonstop information storming, he went back to tipsy mode. thanks man.In my defense, that was the strongest Margar...
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Overcome Rejection and eliminate the root of approach anxiety.
2008-04-07 16:12:00
How to Overcome Rejection and eliminate the root of approach anxiety.Curing Rejection...In evolutionary terms people needed to function as a group to survive. Rejection is a tool of conformation and a psychological force of control of action. It is likely that...Here follows an essay that describes how to overcome rejection. It's my personal journey, though I think that it has some new ideas to offer people in terms of the stages of the process. I hope that you will all gain from it.The following may help some of those struggling kick off their game. Feedback much appreciatedWell to any of you RAFCs out there you've heard us say it before:'There is no such thing as rejection'But did you get it? Do you understand how that phrase can be real to you? Or are you still, as I believe many of those just waiting to crack the psychological barrier are, trying to accept what we say while harbouring a secret belief that you're trying to believe a lie.Well what we are saying is true and I ...
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What to do if she has a boyfriend, Dating and Seduction tips:
2008-04-06 17:29:00
What to do if she has a boyfriend, Dating and Seduction tips:If HB says she has a BF ...If however she blurts it out without prompting, it still doesn't mean anything. Maybe she really thought she wanted to scare you away ...Don't ever, never, ever ask if she has a boyfriend! Maybe she does, maybe not - so what, who cares?Maybe she does, but wants to have a little fun - your prompting about a possible borefriend will put her off the mood, she'll move on to another guy and get what she came looking for anyway. Or maybe she does, but is also pretty curious about you and wouldn't want the existence of a boyfriend scare you away. She might even be considering dumping him in favour of you. Once you've extracted that information from her however, she might just write you off in her mind.If however she blurts it out without prompting, it still doesn't mean anything. Maybe she really thought she wanted to scare you away, but she really didn't know what she was doing Take it humorousl...
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ApproachingTips: What and how to do to date and seduce beautiful women.
2008-04-05 23:30:00
Approaching Tips: What and how to do to date and seduce beautiful women.MISSION for NEWBIES...by MysteryNow is the time to stop Babe-watching. Get into a fun mood (which I know is hard for the very first girl but you can fake it) and walkI understand that internal challenge many newbies feel. I must deal with many emotions before during and after I go out to meet girls. Before is loneliness. Sometimes I just want to stay in and mope. So I must FORCE myself to SOLVE the emotion and not just lie there. During, I am in that AWARE state where the girls make me feel so weird and I have to deal with that to act normal and in control. And then afterwards, if I go home with nothing, I must have the strength to know that I am working with probabilities and know that by looking only at this day I am blinding myself to the big picture.Now is the time to stop Babe-watching. Get into a fun mood (which I know is hard for the very first girl but you can fake it) and walk up to many girls (ugly or ...
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PUA tips: 10 rules to pick up women and seduce her.
2008-04-05 01:34:00
PUA tips: 10 rules to pick up women and seduce her.The Ten Rules of Natural PU. Idea. It is not sufficient to be a man. You must become an "idea". Women are attracted to ideas, not men. ...1. Connect. Genuine connection with another person should serve as the basis of your game. It doesn't matter how good your techniques are if you can't achieve a genuine connection.2. Positive. Always work to increase the positivity of interactions, and strive to improve the emotions of the people around you. Trying to hurt people only destroys your own value.3. Now. The immediate moment, the "now" is always more important than any previous moment. Never allow yourself to get stuck in previous moments during the pickup, regardless of what happened.4. Idea. It is not sufficient to be a man. You must become an "idea". Women are attracted to ideas, not men. Once you determine what YOU stand for, your "idea", make EVERY SINGLE element of your game congruent to that. Everything you do, say, how you dr...
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Dating Tips: How to carry yourself, Attitude, Confidence and Energy.
2008-04-02 16:26:00
Dating Tips : How to carry yourself, Attitude, Confidence and Energy .Call it "Energy," call it "Attitude," call it anything you want, but it's undenyably important when picking-up women.I got a buddy of mine who's a cancer survivor. He's completely bald. And to top things off, he's got a crippled left hand (you know, the gnarled kind with 3 fingers) . But he is one of the most high-energy people I've ever met, and he get's laid like mad, despite being short, bald, with gnarled hand.I was out at a club last night with a friend trying to shake some of the rust off my game, and realized that I was too in my head. My energy was off, there was no real spark in my interactions and 9 times out of 10, I ended up losing the set because of it. Even my buddy, who's really good at this, was justspouting routine after routine and losing sets because his heart wasn't into it.I thought about my friend with the nasty hand and how he works. His approaches are really bad. He'll tell girls the...
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PUA tips: Kissing and making out with girls in club. What not to do.
2008-04-01 15:50:00
PUA tips: Kissing and making out with girls in club. What not to do.By Tyler DurdenDO NOT kiss-close in clubs, unless you have MAD rapport first. REFUSE all kiss-closes. Holding out and building massive rapport, or using time-distortion, is key to showing her that "this is not just a club fling". If she's all over you: "Hands off the merchandise!" If you find yourself kissing her, it's important that YOU be the one to end it first, pulling back and saying something like "Ohhhhh man this is going too fast, we need to control ourselves, etc." The reason for this is that women LOVE foreplay. While guys go out hoping to get sex, a woman can just go out week after week and kiss and grope guys in clubs, and still be satisfied. If you want to see her beyond the club, including taking her home that same night, you have to demonstrate massive value and rapport, and show that you're not just some "One-Night-Foreplay-Stand". Show her that you can control yourself, and you're hard-to-get.S...
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Dating tips: NICE guys DO NOT attract women! Be Assertive, Be honest to yo
2008-04-01 15:48:00
Dating tips: Nice guys DO NOT attract women! Be Assertive, Be honest to yourself and Be Alpha. What is Alpha Man quality really? Does it attract women?Here are a few things an Alpha Man IS:by Carlos Xumas- Clever/smart/cunning - He's got a real keen mind...- Ambitious - He wants more in life than just the "average..."- Excited - He wants to live life for fun and adventure...- Honorable - He's got values and principles and morals...- Dominant - He's not aggressive, but has superior social skills...- Stable - He's not into extreme or life-threatening behaviors...- Fit - He's got a health lifestyle...- Curious - He wants to know more and grow more...- Balanced - He understands that life is about harmony...- Natural - He's not trying to be someone he's not...- Positive - He tries to see things from the good side as much as possible...Now those are just some of the things that make up a good Alpha Lifestyle.Not every guy has them. In fact, every guy needs to work on these.Even me....
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Dating Tips: How to deal with test from women.
2008-03-30 21:02:00
Dating Tips : How to deal with test from women.Also, if an attractive woman is out on a datewith a man, or having a phone conversation, etc.(or anything else that could be perceived astaking things to the next level) she must find outquickly whether this particular guy is:1. Long-term relationship material2. Short-term "affair" material3. Friend material4. Wuss material5. The Gimp from Pulp FictionKeep in mind, a beautiful woman has LOTS ofoptions. She's being approached probably 100+times a month with date offers, etc. and couldnever hope to spend even a small fraction of hertime with all the men who are interested in her.She must use TESTS to quickly cut to the chaseand find out what a particular guy is REALLY allabout.Tests can take many forms.Here are a few common ones:1. Canceling plans with little notice, or flakingout entirely without notice2. Asking for gifts or favors outright3. Acting snotty, demanding, dramatic, ormanipulative to see if you'll put up with it4. Asking or ...
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Dating Advice and Tips: How to plan a great date with simple steps.
2008-03-29 17:24:00
Dating Advice and Tips : How to plan a great date with simple steps. And possibly leads to intimacy.Dinner Date is for Newbie who knows nothing about seduction. Cooking at your place is money. Do what you please afterward.It’s not enough to know that a dinner date is usually “bad.” It’s important that you know why things work or don’t work, so you can make the material your own. So here are some of the basic, emotional, reasons why we advise new guys generally to avoid dinner dates: * She’s been to dozens of these already in her life. It’s not fresh and exciting and it’s harder for you to stand out. * You show from the beginning that you are not especially creative or challenging to her.* The first-date dinner date is a traditional part of the “courtship” ritual. Courtship is bad. You are chasing her; she is screening you. She is evaluating whether you’d be a good boyfriend. I call this kind of approach “dating and waiting.” * She has lo...
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Attraction, Why and How to get women to attracted to you.
2008-03-27 15:55:00
Attraction, Why and How to get women to attracted to you. What's behind women's mind. How to make her attracted to YOU. The Science Behind Attractionby Hype=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= -=-=-=-=Much has been discovered that allows us to better understand thekeys to attraction and human courtship. We have reviewed history,taking note of the techniques used by Casanova and otherlegendary lovers of the past. We have studied science, unravelingthe mysteries of pheromones and exploring Darwin's theories onpre-selection. With this information, the Stylelife Academy hasformulated a number of easy-to-apply lessons to help its studentsdevelop a greater understand of the human attraction. Mission bymission, you will unlock that next small step, and spark thatnext "aha" moment that will bring ease to all your futureinteractions with women.Take a minute to reflect on your own vocal tonality, bodylanguage, smell, and social status. All of these things assist awoman in her search of th...
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HOW TO AVOID REJECTION AND INCREASE YOUR SUCCESS WITH ANY WOMAN
2008-03-26 15:48:00
HOW TO AVOID REJECTION AND INCREASE YOUR SUCCESS WITH ANY WOMANHuman beings tend to want to "save face" whenit comes to relationships.We don't like the idea that another person hasoutright "rejected" us, and we ALSO tend to notwant to "hurt other people's feelings" byrejecting them. This is one of the reasons why women will oftenlie and say "I have a boyfriend" when they don't.You must become aware of these "subconscious"processes and motivations, work with them, andeventually become the master of them.Learn to recognize when a woman is "politelysaying no thanks", and move on.If a woman isn't interested in you, forgetabout it. It doesn't matter.Go to the next one. There are plenty.LEARN HOW AND WHY WOMAN FEEL ATTRACTION FOR MENMost men believe that if they could onlyovercome their own fear of rejection, and learnhow to start talking to women, all their problemswould be solved.Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own FEAR of rejection:1) Go out to a bar, and watch men appr...
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How to pick up girls tips and advice: Opener for beginner PUA.
2008-03-09 18:50:00
Openers for Beginner Puas: Girlfriend opener. How to pick up tips and dating advice #009Opening using Girlfriend opener."This one take a bit of story telling skillGirlfriend ( credit: TylerDurden) "Hey guys, I need an opinion. My friend met this girl in Seattle, and they really hit it off. They wound up hooking up on the first night, and he even hung out with her in L.A. over the next week. So he's up visiting her in Seattle last week, and they're out on a walk. He takes a few pictures of them together. Like really cute ones with them together. Some of them they're just hanging out, and a few of them they're like kissing or whatever while they're out walking.Anyway, the next morning he wakes up, and checks his camera. He looks at the pictures, and he sees that she's woken up before him and gone into it and deleted the pictures where they're kissing, and left the ones where they're just hanging out. He goes to her and says 'Are you psycho? Why are you going into my camera?'...
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Nervous around women or before approaching, 4 rules to defeat your nervousn
2008-03-08 20:55:00
Nervous around women or before approaching, 4 rules to defeat your nervousness.Dating Tips and Advice for men:Here is a good little article by John Alexander on overcoming nervousness.I think if most men could just tame this one area of their life, there pick upsuccess would improve greatly. Overcoming Nervousness with Women Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the mostgorgeous face you’ve ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skinlooks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of theworld if you could pick her this girl up. You feel the fear deep in your gut. You know that even if you got your balls in gear and went for it, youwouldn’t know what to say. You feel so nervous and fumbly that youwould reject yourself if you were her. So you shy away from evenapproaching her in the first place. Does this situation sound familiar? If so, keep reading. The first thing for you to realize is that all guys get anxiety aboutapproaching women. I kno...
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Openers for Puas: Confident opener. How to pick up tips and dating advice #
2008-03-07 16:52:00
Openers for Beginner Puas: Confident opener. How to pick up tips and dating advice #008Opening using Confident opener."What is "Opener"?It's a form of pick up line, but not as cheesy and most of them are proven to be effective or field proved. It is basically a conversation starter, an excuse to talk to a person, and the beginning of the getting to know each other process.The “Confidence” Opener by Joseph Mathews You can use this Opener with anygirl who seems very assertive oropinionated. Also, if it looks likethe girl knows where she’s going orwhat she’s doing, this is a good oneto throw at her. “Wow, you are SO confident! Areyou like the CEO of a company orsomething? Because you act socompletely sure of yourself, it’samazing. Do you find that peopleare often too intimidated to talk toyou?” Women like to be told that theyseem strong and confident. And thething about people beingintimidated to talk to them willoften strike a chord with womenbecause, especially if th...
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Shyness, shy guy advice to overcome approach anxiety and get the girl.
2008-03-07 04:37:00
Shyness, shy guy, dating advice to overcome approach anxiety and get the girl. Dating Advice and Tips for men:I found this Neil Strauss article on some dating site and thought it was really good. Neil talks about a subject that hits home for me. Over coming shyness. Get rid of shyness Several years ago, a friend and I devised a plan to meet women. Since we were too intimidated to start conversations with the array of beautiful, interesting prospects constantly passing by on the street and in the subway, we thought we’d start somewhere less advanced. So we met in the lobby of a youth hostel one Saturday afternoon. We figured the guests there would be more than excited to meet two nice guys who could show them around the city. We sat there for almost two hours and talked to no one. As all manner of students, backpackers, and leggy Scandinavians went by, we knew everything we wanted to say to start a conversation in our minds. Yet our mouths wouldn’t move. We left with our heads ...
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Dating Tips to avoid Friend Zone, how to escalate and be intimate on a date
2008-03-06 07:37:00
Tips to avoid Friend Zone , how to escalate and be intimate on a date simple ways. Dating Tips and Advice for men.Lots of guys sadly can open, date, but have no idea how to break away from the FRIEND ZONE. In other words, thy simply doesn't know how to get physically intimate or sexual escalate. You have to remember that as men have intimacy need, so does women and you have to know how to get there. It's great to be men.I always like to pass along the best of what I find. Big Send turned me onto Ideagasms a couple months back. They put an interesting twist on seduction, as their founder, Stephane is into some new age ideas… He incorporates a lot of the principles of yoga and meditation and incorporates them into his personal style. His stuff won’t be for everyone, but I thought I would give you a taste of his writing. This is an article he wrote in response to a question he was asked about “how to create a sexual vibe?” How to Escalate Physically with Women by Stephane Don...
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