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BITCHOLOGY
2007-08-26 06:07:00 When I stand up formyself and my beliefs,they call me abitch.When I stand up forthose I love,they call me abitch.When I speak my mind, think my own thoughtsor do things my own way, they call me abitch.Being a bitchmeans I won'tcompromise what'sin my heart.It means I live my lifeMY way.It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.When I refuse totolerate injustice andspeak against it, I amdefined as abitch.The same thing happens when I take time formyself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a littleselfish.It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to bewho Itruly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.I am outspoken,opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there isnothingwrong with that!So try to stomp on me,try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beautyI hold within me. You won't succeed.And if that makes me a bitch ,so be it.I embrace the title andam proud to bear it. B - BabeI - InT - Tot... More About: Ology , Holo
Looking For A Long Lost Friend
2007-08-25 13:02:00 Dear Readers,We hope that you can spare some of your time reading this article. It would mean a lot to one of our good friends in the blogosphere, if you can help her in this.Our good friend named Sandy is currently searching for a person whom she had always regarded as her best friend. They were very close to each other, until a conflict between them arose. Ever since then, both of them lost touch of each other.It has been nine long years since they last communicated with each other, and Sandy is deeply affected by her best friend?s absence. Her greatest wish right now is to reunite with her best friend and be close to her like before.Her best friend?s name is Judy Sanford and is staying with her husband named Mike. According to Sandy, she was last found to be staying in California. Whether she is still staying in California or not is still a question mark. But you could be the person to answer the question!If you happened to know Judy and her whereabouts, kindly inform us or infor... More About: Lost , Friend , Long
Relationship Comparison Syndrome
2007-07-30 15:23:00 Why trying to compete with other couples is bad news for your love life?If you could choose to be part of any celebrity duo, which one would be top of your list? Heath and Michelle? Nicole and Keith? Cameron and Justin? Be honest - you've thought about what it would be like - we all have and that's cool because we know there's no way we will ever be running with the Paris or Angelina crowd. But it's an altogether different story if you're comparing yourself to the couples on your social radar. By constantly noting how boyfriend's behaviour compares with other's boyfriend's, whether or not you hold hands as often as other couples or get a good enough bithday present compared with your bestie, you're setting youself up for plenty of relationship dissatisfaction and bedroom fights."Trying to jugde how good, strong, loving or committed your own relationship is by weighing it up against couples around you is a big mistake," says relationship counselor, Taylor Ferguson. "It puts ... More About: Relationship , Syndrome , Comparison , Ship , Relation
Relationship Comparison Syndrome
2007-07-29 09:10:00 Why trying to compete with other couples is bad news for your love life?If you could choose to be part of any celebrity duo, which one would be top of your list? Heath and Michelle? Nicole and Keith? Cameron and Justin? Be honest - you've thought about what it would be like - we all have and that's cool because we know there's no way we will ever be running with the Paris or Angelina crowd. But it's an altogether different story if you're comparing yourself to the couples on your social radar. By constantly noting how boyfriend's behaviour compares with other's boyfriend's, whether or not you hold hands as often as other couples or get a good enough bithday present compared with your bestie, you're setting youself up for plenty of relationship dissatisfaction and bedroom fights."Trying to jugde how good, strong, loving or committed your own relationship is by weighing it up against couples around you is a big mistake," says relationship counselor, Taylor Ferguson. "It puts ... More About: Relationship , Syndrome , Comparison , Ship , Relation
Dumped? The Real Reasons He Did It
2007-06-26 08:09:00 Remark: Repost do to some of error.. Want to know why he broke it off with you? Stop ripping yourself to shreds and turn the spotlight on HIS commitment issues.He says ?We need to talk? so you suspect something is up and you?re prepared to work through the problem. Instead he just blurts out ?it?s over? and you?re so shocked. You can barely breathe. After breaking your heart he trots out all the usual lines: ?It?s not you, it?s me?, ?This isn?t working?, ?I?m not good enough for you?. ?I never meant to hurt you?, I don?t want to ruin our friendship? and he even says ?I?ll call you sometimes? before you sprint from the rules, barely holding back the floods of tears. But once you get back to your flat/car/girlfriend?s place you suddenly realize he hasn?t really been straight with you at all.After all the time, energy and tenderness you gave to the relationship it has just imploded and you have no real idea why. Before you beat yourself up for being a total failure in love ? go through... More About: Real , Reasons
Don't CRY Get Even!
2007-06-22 19:24:00 He left you for his colleague. Don't quietly seethe yourself into an ulcer. It's time for revenge.It happens when you lift the last tissue fro your sixth box of Kleenex. The sobbing stops and the "My life's going to be hell without him" turns to "I'm going to make his life hell".You stop crying every time you pass that restaurant and start plotting instead. The thought of his boss telling him off makes you smile. Horrid, vivid fantasies involving buses and trains haunt you. Not that you wish him ill of course, an uncomfortable injury will do. You wouldn't want him back if he begged you on bended knee - but you'd give anything to be able to say "Stick it, sweetheart". To have revenge at last.There's something about being told "I don't love you anymore" that make us forget we wore pink when we were little because girls are nice, understanding, forgiving, and sympathetic. Bugger nice. It didn't get us anywhere, did it? Besides it's much more useful to feel angry than sad.Ange...
Memory Callengers..
2007-06-18 16:45:00 Many lifestyle factors can have a significant "memory zapping" effect on your brain:Alcohol: Interferes with short-term memory and damages little branches in the brain called dendrites, which pass on messages between brain cells.Insomnia: Lack of sleep reduces our ability to retrieve memories while sleep deprivation can leave you feeling forgetful the next day.Smoking: Limits the amount of oxygen and bloodflow to the brainStress: The "fight or flight" response that we have when stressed, uses up energy leaving less circulating blood sugar to fuel your brain resulting in a loss of clarity and focus.Some medications: Pills such as tranquillizers, muscle relaxants, sleeping pills, high blood pressure medication and antidepressants, can contribute to fuzzy thinking or cause some loss of memory capacity in some people. More About: Memory , Memo , Allen
Network Like a PRO!
2007-06-16 09:23:00 Who you meet today may just help boost your career tomorrow. So as you expand your address book, file these networking tips in:DON'T BE SHY, BE CURIOUS. Beat shyness by being genuinely interested in someone. The conversation will flow better and naturally. Do ask others open ended questions which encourage conversation - most people love talking about themselves.BE SINCERE. Network ing isn't for short-term gain so ditch the impatient "what's in it for me" attitude. No one likes insincerity, plus it's easy to spot.CASUAL CONTACT. Approach others casually with light topics before touching on more serious business-like topics. Never hit a social scene with your entire sales kit hoping to kill two birds with one stones.KEEP IN TOUCH. Show appreciation with newfound and existing contacts by sending cheery greeting and messages during festivals and holidays. A simple thank you e-mail works well to keep in touch if your contacts have helped you in any small way.GET OUT OF FAMILIAR CLIQU... More About: Like
HEALTH HAZARD You can Stop Stressing about..
2007-05-24 08:40:00 Newspapers print so many scary headlines these days, we're not even sure we can drink water without contracting cancer. But should we believe them all? Read on and find out. FACT: Salt can cause stokesLet's face it, dousing our food with salt is almost as Malaysian bad traffic. But with a majority of the population consuming double the recommended daily amount of salt - that's 6g per day - does our sprinkling addiction mean we're risking our health? The answer's YES, according to reports that claim too much salt can cause strokes. So should we eat our fries au naturel?"Well, salt is one of the risk factors that contribute to high blood pressure, which can increase your risk of developing heart disease or having a stroke," says Claire Williams, a nutrition scientist. "The real problem is that salt's hidden in almost all processed foods - from biscuits to ready meals to tomato sauce." So always check the salt content on food labels, and avoid adding more when you're cooking. Bu... More About: Health , Stop , Azar , Hazard , Tres
HURT Alert!
2007-05-23 12:30:00 Don't set yourself up to be hurt in your next relationship. Minimise the chances of a romance ending badly by: Trusting your intuition: If the guy you're seeing is a serial flirt or has a tendency to talk only about himself, don't ignore it - take a walk now before you get into deep.Taking your time: Don't rush into having sex or revealing your entire life history to a guy you've just met - wait until you know each other much better - then you can be sure he deserves to have this level of intimacy with you.Being honest: Once you've been together for a few months, make it clear that you're not in the market for a fling - and ask him how he feels about that. If he runs a mile you'll immediately know there was no future in the relationship anyway.Giving him space: Resist the temptation to smother him in an effort to make the relationship work. Be cool about giving him his space - and he won't get scared off due to a fear that you're trying to take over his life.Keeping quiet ... More About: Hurt , Alert
Exercising and intimacy..
2007-05-14 17:06:00 If good health isn't a good enough reason to exercise, what about improving your sex life? Recent studies have found a direct correlation between physical inactivity and a lack of potency. Here's what you'll need to get the most out of your sex life.For exciting and and enthusiastic sex,you'll need cardio endurance since it won't be any fun if you bonk out halfway through. Do three or four days of cardio activity like running, walking, swimming or whatever floats your boat and your partner will thank you for it.Sex also requires a little muscular stamina.You may find yourself holding unusual positions for short periods of time, so conditioning your body can be a plus for loger-lasting sex. For endurance, you'll need to lift lighter weights for more repetitions.Flexibility can enhance anyone's sex lifeby making it a bit easier to get into your favorite position with a minimum of fuss. Why not try a little yoga to get you in the mood.Exercise, along with a healthy diet,and adeq... More About: Sing , Macy , Inti , Intimacy , Exercising
Online JOB Scam alert!
2007-05-14 11:57:00 Looking for a job online? Beware of scam artists who are now posting phoney recruitment ads on reputable job search sites to get your MONEY or your IDENTITY. Heed these red flags:Requires money upfront. Unless you're starting your own business, you should not have to invest any money on a job. Also don't give out any personal financial details over the phone or via email. Scam mers will sometimes try to get your info as soon as you respond to their ads. One tactic is requiring direct deposit into upfront. An employers need your time and skills, not your money.Makes outrageous claims. Don't bother with ads that offer high income for little or no experience. For example, $2000 per week to fill envelopes is a sure scam. A legit employer aims to narrow responses by detailing requisite skills and experience.Contact is a public email. Avoid job ads that list contact under free account like Yahoo! or Hotmail. These services can be used anonymously which is what scam artistes prefer. If y... More About: Online , Alert , Line
6 signs he's bored with you in bed..
2007-05-13 04:05:00 >>A certain day of the week means it's time to do IT. >> The positions never vary.>> Ditto locations.>> He closes his eyes more than he used to as he's no longer getting off on the visuals. Instead, he's using his imagination and you probably ain't in it.>> He now waits until the end of TV shows t make his move.>> He no longer looks that upset when you're not in the mood. More About: Bored , Signs , Sign , With You
CAREER COACH: Business Babble
2007-05-12 17:35:00 pay per click advertising Understanding corporate-speak can feel a little like learning a foreign language. Here are some common phrase you should know:Core competency: The thing or the organization are good at.Disconnect: A misunderstanding or breakdown in communication.Drill down: Get more information and elaborate on the details.Smell test: Looking into an idea or product to see it really does have good potential.I'm crashing and burning: I'm busyWe need more headcount: More people are needed to get the job done.Brain dump: Getting down information that's in your head - whether to handover a job to someone or brainstorm for new ideas.Value-add: The idea or product or person is a good thing for the company.Up-selling: Selling something to a client or customer that they don't really need.Take it off-line: Talk amongst yourself about it later.Low-hanging fruits: Easy openings or opportunities for new business.Cubicled: To get demotedCircle back: Get back to me.Drink from the fi... More About: Business , Career , Coach , Ness , Babble
IT'S OFFICIALLY: Money Makes People Selfish!
2007-05-05 07:38:00 Researchers at the Carlson School Of Management at the University of Minnesota found that when money is around, people are more motivated towards achieving theirs goals and become less cooperative. The concept of money, they suggest, makes a person feel more self-sufficient and thus more apt to stand alone.In one experiment, subjects exposed to concept of money via a word puzzle task were later less helpful to a person in need. "The mere present of money changes people," comments Kathleen Vohs, the leader of the study. Exposure to the money, or concept of the money, elevates a sense of self-sufficiency. People don't want to be a burden on others."According to the results of the study, pictures of money, a tip lying on the table, thinking about your holiday bonus - all of these make people behave self-sufficiently. The results also indicate that these people also work longer before asking for help, are less helpful to the others, and prefer to play and work alone.In addition, people... More About: Money , Make , Official , Ally
Cash$Career: Super Saver!
2007-05-05 07:36:00 If your check-out sum at the grocery takes too big a bite out of your pocket, try these cost-effective shopping list.NEVER SHOP WHEN STARVE! A hungry shopper is greedy shopper, dashing through supermarket food isles grabbing anything in sight that looks good enough to pacify their hunger at the moment. More often then not, you end up buying things you end up not eating. So shop when your tum not growling.MAKE A LIST. The tried-and-true practice of coming up with a shopping list is never overrated. Here's how to go about it: Decide on a realistic budget and make a list, a long one if you will. Go through it again, then slash out whatever you can do without.LEARNS TO COOK QUICK AND EASY MEALS. Cooking at home is definitely cheaper, but most of us don't have the time to do it. If your definition of a home-cooked meal is instant noodles or sachet soup, it's time you learned to whip up easy-to-prepare proper meals. Just browse the shelves of a bookstore and you'll find plenty of coo... More About: Super , Career , Cash , Save
Why Money and Friendships DO NOT MiX?
2007-04-30 05:31:00 You have your money and you friend,You loan your money to your friend,You ask your money from your friend,You lose your money and your friend-Unknown-Need a quick way to end a friendship? Just ask her for a loan! Many a long friendship has ended because of money, but how can you avoid it?When it comes to money, everyone's got problems. There is just too little of the nasty stuff to go around - no matter how much we have, we always seem to be able to find new, creative ways of spending it all and needing more. Make no mistake about it: money can corrupt and ruin everything it touches.. including friendships.Money does not care whether you are a borrower or lender, a buyer or a seller, a giver or a taker - as long as you need it (and who does not?), you are corruptible.This doesn't make you a mean person, just human. As a lender, you hate having to ask for your money back; as a borrower, you feel ashamed for being unable to repay it. Either way, bad blood has come into the friendsh... More About: Ships , Friendships , Ends , Ship
Dangers Of SINGLEHOOD!
2007-04-18 07:02:00 Watch out these pitfalls of single life before they ruin you!Alcohol-induced datingIf you find the only way you can feel good about being on a date with someone new is by having two - or five - glasses of wine, beware: You may get his body for a few nights, but you'll never capture his heart. You'll dive to the bottom of your next chardonnay in search of an answer to your loneliness, and before you know it, you'll find you don't want a man after all - a bottle of red wine is what you'll need.Gift splurgesIf your credit card statement says you're spending too much on fancy ties, cufflinks and gadgets, it's probably right.. especially if they are all for someone else. There is wisdom in The Beatles' advice: "Money Can't Buy Me Love."DrugsIf he's on drugs and wants you to "share the fun", that's an invitation to madness. Drugs are one-way road to misery, no matter how euphoric that first communal companionship is.Free SEXSharing your bed with an unreasonable number of men ru... More About: Hood , Anger , Danger , Sing , Single
Desperately SINGLE!
2007-04-10 19:20:00 It may be fun being single. But when loneliness lurks beneath the surface, that fun could easily be misery in disguise. Can singlehood destroy you?When Jane decided to hook up with Kenneth, it was not love that was on her mind. It wasn't money, either. Nor fame, nor sympathy, nor babies.No. Jane's motive was a lot more primal: Fear. What made up her mind was the numbing terror spending another night alone, even if it was in someone's else bed with his sweet, tuneless snoring for a lullaby. She has come to dread loneliness so much that she has agreed to move in with Kenneth in spite of his alcoholic tendencies.. and because he'd said "yes" when she proposed the idea a couple nights ago."What Kenneth and I have is special, but I don't think it's love," elaborates Jane, who is celebrating her third week as Kenneth's girlfriend in the usual way: Binge drinking. I'd say it's an understanding." She winks confidentially at me, then turns to do Macarena with her new boyfriend. Lat... More About: Sing , Single , Rate , Desperate
5 Ways To Save On Campus
2007-04-09 08:04:00 1. Create a budget. To be fiscally fit track your expenses and income. Set aside something for emergencies and if you know you need some money for entertainment, be it a CD or the occasional movie, factor in it to avoid nasty surprise.2. Buy in bulk. If you're sharing a place with friends, try buying household items such as detergent, dish-washing liquid or rice in bulk from low-price hypermarkets.3. Buy used book. If you can get used books from seniors who've completed the course so much the better! Alternatively, check out book prices online, it could be lower than what the bookstores offer. If you divvy up the freight charges with a group of friends, it could be worth your while.4. Don't drive. A car is no doubt convenient but maintaining a vehicle is expensive. Besides petrol and parking, you need to set aside funds for insurance, road tax, regular service appointments as well as repairs should it become necessary.5. Smart spending equals savings. Stock your wardrobe with bas... More About: Campus , Camp , Save
4 THINGS Never To Tease A Guy About
2007-04-08 06:03:00 This brave male explains which subjects are most scared to men.Let's set one thing straight: You can tease me about the way I dress or hold my stomach in whatever you walk by. Fine. That said, I'll admit there are some things you should never ever tease me - or any other guy - about. Our HAIR, STATURE, SALARY, and PENIS size. Poke fun at one of those and you might as well rip out our hearts and use them as coasters for your herbal tea. Why are these such sore spots for men? First, they can be compared against other's men. Second, we have absolutely no POWER to change them.Men believe their financial worth reflects their innerworth. So teasing us about our salaries is really another way of making fun of our manhood. Recently, my date Danielle made fun of me when she said, "Your TV is the tiniest of any guy I know." That comment burned a hole in my ego because it pitted me against the rest of the guys she knows - men with bigger , wider, um, screens. Big TV means big wallets. An... More About: About , Ever , Things , Never , Thing
DO YOU SPY On The Man In Your Life?
2007-03-23 08:10:00 You know he's faithful to you, because you know he's been what he's been doing and who he's been with every minute of the day. Lindsay Nicholson believes nothing keeps you together like a little healthy mistrust.Dan think his girlfriend is a witch. If the merest thought of infidelity enters his mind, Meg seem to know about it. He thinks she has EPS. She says it's female intuition. What she doesn't tell him is that every night while he brushing his teeth she searches his pockets. A phone number on a book of matches or a parking ticket for an unfamiliar part of town - there could be innocent explanations for all of them, but Meg prepares her pre-emptive strike anyway.It isn't that Dan is unfaithful. He's just a good looking guy who occasionally gives one of the girls from work a lift home or chats with a fellow (female) customer while he waits for his friends in a pub. It never goes further than that. Dan knows that after five years of monogamy he's still attractive to the o... More About: Life , Your , The Man
Girlfriend or GOOD-TIME girl?
2007-03-22 18:24:00 You think you?re his girlfriend, but does he?Ben mcKelvey shines a torch into guys? thoughts for us. If you?re planning to live with us- the other sex ? it?s probably a good idea to come to term with the concept of ?plausible deniability?. Coined in the late 50s, when the CIA was up to their shadiest dealings, the political figures of the time wanted to cover their rears. So instead of ordering people like the CIA to stop doing thinks like putting LSD in Fidel Castro?s drinks, they just stopped taking briefings from people like the CIA. Suddenly it was plausible for politicos to deny knowing about dodgy dealings. Voila! I present to you plausible the deniability. For us guys, plausible deniability basically means willfully not knowing the status of a relationship with a female. We get the girl and keep the single status. Sex when you want it, but also impunity to hook up elsewhere. For you, it probably means confusion and anguish. But, hey, all?s fair in love and cold war, ri... More About: Girlfriend , Time , Friend , Girl , Good
He probably has plans to dump you if he..
2007-03-18 03:00:00 # hasn?t called you back for days # Gives you the silent treatment most of the time # Asked for his key back he says he needs to get another spare cut (the excuse sounds very suspect). # Would rather watch tellie than have sex. # Suggested you have a few weeks break from each other # Has gone away on holiday and hasn?t called. # Is spending more time with his mates than you. # Suddenly has to ?work late? most nights. # Keep making comments like ?don?t get too attached to me?or ?I?m a bachelor at heart? # Never spends the night any more after you?ve made love. QUICK COMEBACKS..! He?s dumped you but that doesn?t mean you have to feel like a FOOL. Hit him with the right comeback and walk away with your head held high. HE SAYS: ?It?s not you, it?s me.? YOU SAY: ?Yes I can see that ? you have so many emotional problems I would have needed to be a counselor to make this work.? HE SAYS: ?I?m just not ready to get serious yet.? YOU SAY: ?That?s such a relief ? although ... More About: Plans , Plan , Probably
Confession of a Hollywood publicist.
2007-03-16 12:28:00 Think your boss is hell to work with? Working as a Tinseltown publicist gives new meaning to the word ?slave?. By Georgia Cassimatis Getting into business About six years ago I was working as a television publicist for a major network when one of the television hosts I worked for asked me to be her personal publicist. I was looking forward to dealing with just one person?s demands rather than the huge egos of television actors who are always screaming, yelling and crying as to why other cast members get more press than they were, or better treatment. Soon after, the television star I worked for started getting work in the US, which is how I ended up working in Holly wood . It?s not what you know Being a publicist in Tinseltown means you?re always out on the partycircuit and hanging out with A-listers. Because I started cultivating a huge social circle of top celebs, companies and magazines from around the world contacted me to try and get access to the stars. That?s when I ... More About: Public , Wood , Confession
10 Things He Doesn?t Need To Know
2007-03-16 12:25:00 Honesty is not always the best policy, says Sam Delaney. There are some secrets you really should ?forget? to tell him. You?ve met a man you really like. It?s more than just his devilish good looks, beguiling charm and tireless voluntary work nursing sick animals that you find attractive. He?s a soul mate. You can trust him. You could tell him your deepest, darkest secrets and he wouldn?t judge you, would he? To be honest, it depends on the secret. Tell him you took five attempts to pass your driving test or you once ran over a rat, and he?s unlikely to be shocked. Those are easy-to-swallow secrets he?ll appreciate your sharing. But don?t think he?ll react to all your confession with such good humour. Remember: A woman?s allure is partly down to her mystery. We blokes like to think of you as precious creatures who rarely perspire, break wind or sprout hair in unusual places. We?re kind of deluded like that. And it?s best you leave us that way. After all, the most important thin... More About: Know , Things , Need , Thing
Does Your Pay Pocket Turn Him On?
2007-03-16 12:21:00 So you just got promoted. Will your pulling power soar ? or won?t you see the men in your life for dust? Here?s the scary truth on how the 9-to-5 can affect your love life.By Jane Alexander. Gold-digging maleMost of us have spent our whole lives being told that we?re caught in a biological trap: Women are programmed to desire stockbrokers with bulging bank accounts, while men crave chicks with childbearing hips and childlike faces. While most women have had their doubts about this for some time, even the ?expert? now admits that the stereotypes are collapsing and that we?re living through an unprecedented time of transition in our relationships. Things, they predict, may never be the same again. The reason is that women are working hard. Although we often earn pitiful small wages, many women are taking high-powered jobs with the income and status that such positions entail. And while most of us revel in the potential freedom and income work provides, few have really consi... More About: Your , Pocket , Turn
After Get Dumped - Surviving The 1st 24 Hours
2007-03-15 03:20:00 You're a mess - your nerves are shot, you're eyes are puffy and you just can't stop thinking about the fact that he's dumped you. Here's how to make it through the first day.PAMPER YOURSELF: Have a long, lanquid candlelit bath, buy your favourite takeaway or go shopping for a great new lipstick to boost your spirits a little.DRESS UP: In something that makes you feel good - track pants and tears are not good combo.STAY WITH A GIRLFRIEND: Or if you and your flamate get on well ask if she wouldn't mind staying in so that have some company. Do something like watch a funny DVD or play board games - try not to spend all night talking about him.WRITE HIM A LETTER: If you think he's led you on or know he's been unfaithful, don't call him or he might hang up in your ear. Instead, pour your feelings out in a letter - you'll feel much lighter for getting all the things you wanted to say to him off your chest without being interrupted or sidelined.MAKE A LIST: Of everything he did th... More About: After , Hour , Ving , Hours , Vivi
Dumped? The Real Reasons He Did It
2007-03-15 03:09:00 Want to know why he broke it off with you? Stop ripping yourself to shreds and turn the spotlight on HIS commitment issues. He says ?We need to talk? so you suspect something is up and you?re prepared to work through the problem. Instead he just blurts out ?it?s over? and you?re so shocked. You can barely breathe. After breaking your heart he trots out all the usual lines: ?It?s not you, it?s me?, ?This isn?t working?, ?I?m not good enough for you?. ?I never meant to hurt you?, I don?t want to ruin our friendship? and he even says ?I?ll call you sometimes? before you sprint from the rules, barely holding back the floods of tears. But once you get back to your flat/car/girlfriend?s place you suddenly realize he hasn?t really been straight with you at all. After all the time, energy and tenderness you gave to the relationship it has just imploded and you have no real idea why. Before you beat yourself up for being a total failure in love ? go through his behaviour with a fin... More About: Reason , Real , Reasons , Sons
Mr. WRONG again...?
More articles from this author:2007-03-14 09:55:00 Courtesy of CLEO Mag.Another man? Another disappointment? You could be sabotaging your relationships. Here's how to halt another heartache. By Nita Tucker Finally, you've met the perfect person. You have the relationship you've always wanted and everything is picture-perfect. But soon, the first cracks begin to appear. He makes too much noise when he eats. He has irritating laugh. He's stingy. He's bossy. You start to fret. You get resentful. You start looking for the EXIT signs.Don't panic. The relationship may not be falling apart and you may not have hooked up with the wrong person. It may be just your collection of bad attitudes that you've been carrying with you from relationship, and that collection may have started as you observed your parents' relationship. Many people find that their partnerships are replicas of less-than-perfect relationships they observed as children. These childhood impression can be so deeply routed that it doesn't occur to peopl... More About: Again , Wrong 1, 2, 3 |
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