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Women Are Different From Men
2007-07-16 11:36:00
Falling in love is easy. Making it last is not. We tend to believe that once we fall in love, that magical feeling is eternal and will last forever. Unfortunately, it?s not that simple. John Gray, in his book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, says that ?each year millions of couples join together in love and then painfully separate because they have lost that loving feeling. From those who are able to sustain love long enough to get married, only 50% stay married. Out of those who stay together, possibly another 50% are not fulfilled. They stay together out of loyalty and obligation or from the fear of starting all over.?According to Gray, very few people are able to grow in love. And the reason is simple. As the initial magical feeling reduces, daily life (work, salaries, bills, kids) takes over. And even as these changes start happening, MEN CONTINUE TO EXPECT WOMEN TO THINK AND REACT LIKE MEN. They are unaware of the difference between a man and a woman. And when you are ...
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The Right Time To Ask Her Out
2007-07-15 09:08:00
Here?s something that men should know about women: when a woman meets a new man, she sizes him up in an instant. She will have noticed the way he walks, talks, moves and interacts with her and everyone in the vicinity. In fact, by the time he asks for her number, she will have already decided whether or not she will say yes or no!In other words, if this new chap appears to be at least somewhat compatible with her, she will be a wee bit attracted to him at least. Besides the compatibility factor, the fact that he is a ?fresh catch? also makes him quite appealing in her eyes.Unfortunately, once he senses the vibes from her he will ponder for days, weeks and months about whether he should ask her out. He fears rejection, commitment or some other relationship phobia. But once he finally moves in for the kill, she will have gotten the idea that he is just not interested and will have moved on.Sad ending, right? Well it doesn?t have to be that way. The moral of this story is that you cann...
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How to Turn a Friend into a Lover?
2007-07-12 09:15:00
When two people are in a relationship, they need to share a certain level of compatibility that extends beyond the bedroom. Besides getting along as lovers, they need to be friends, in order to share each other's joy and sorrow and be on the same wavelength, mentally and emotionally. Friend s, who are close to each other, tend to have that kind of emotional and mental connection, which is why the friendship is shared in the first place. Imagine if you could find that kind of compatibility in a lover as well! Read on...Remind them of what they likeIf you have a male friend, who have hinted in the past about what he likes in you - certain physical or emotional characterstics that you possess - learn to highlight those features. Just don't go overboard.Remember, that when you were friends, how you looked or felt didn't matter because he would love you nonetheless. But, when it comes to love, you need to present yourself in a way that will make him notice.Change the talkWhen people ar...
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How To Get His Attention?
2007-07-11 14:17:00
Did you know that men actually love it when you flirt with them? You would have to keep it a wee bit subtle no doubt, but I definitely would recommend giving them clues when you find them attractive. Here are some tips on how to behave in the company of men especially in a group?? If a guy doesn?t respond to your cue the first time, remember that men are slow to notice a woman?s interest. You may need to give them at least 3 cues before they get the hint. Firstly, it will take him a few second to realize that you are flirting with him and not his friends. The second time, when he knows it's him, he will flush a bit and feel extremely pleased with the attention. The third time you can express interest he will actually open up and reciprocate your cues provided he?s interested of course. Remember; if he snubs you do not feel disheartened. He obviously isn?t worth the attention.? Whisper, it always gets his interest. It also makes you look slightly vulnerable and this quality is very ...
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Going On A Blind Date
2007-07-09 11:06:00
The Internet has emerged as a hot new dating joint for the smart, eligible lot. Increasingly, people of almost all ages are swarming into cyberspace looking for love and romance. Meeting up with such virtual strangers has given a new meaning to blind dating. Although, you have nothing to lose from this, adequate care must be taken in order to be safe. So, it?s time to charge your grey cells and become alert and aware before you decide to meet that "seemingly charming" guy.Screening Your Date:1. Watch out for a guy who seems too good to be true. The reality could be quite the opposite.2. Don't rush into anything. Take time to find out who the guy really is. If anything feels strange as you get to know him, then it is time to back away.3. If you decide to meet for a date, arrange the meeting on your terms.4. Get as much information as you can about him.5. Always ask for his full name, address and telephone number before agreeing to go out.6. Find out where the guy works, and whether ...
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Single And Alone - Take It Easy !!
2007-07-07 10:38:00
If you are a young girl staying and working on your own in a city, it?s likely for you to feel lonely sometimes. Your heart might reach out to seek company but keep a check on where its going because as a single girl staying independently you are the most desirable catch for any guy looking for some quick fun.Be alert and be smart-Guys looking for some instant fun deliberately concentrate on single girls staying independently because such girls usually have no restrictions and are often emotionally vulnerable. Here are some Play Safe- Date Safe- Stay Safe tips to help you lead a smooth life.Safe Playing:If you are open to flings, one night stands, no strings attached relationships or casual sex, then being frivolous might work for you, but even then, ensuring that you don?t attract trouble is important.1. Be aware of the repercussions the choice of such a lifestyle can bring. It can wreck havoc on your reputation and can even make you the attraction point of just about anyone lookin...
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Is Love Enough?
2007-07-01 15:13:00
Sometimes, even if two people love each other, they may not be right for each other. Sounds like a contradiction? Not really. Our society assumes that if two people are in love, they should get married. But then what happens after marriage? In many cases, it becomes difficult to spot that love.Sure, love is definitely needed for a lasting relationship. But what we?re saying is that love is no guarantee that a person is right for us. The problems start when we try to make each other right. Either we change ourselves too much (to meet our partner?s needs) or our partners change themselves too much. And eventually we stop liking who we have become.So, instead of becoming more loving, we just stop growing -- and instead of the relationship bringing out the best in us it brings out the worst. So, along with love remember that you also have to ensure that for marriage you need to find a person who is "right" for you.
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Chemistry Behind Love
2007-06-28 15:03:00
Love is as much a hormonal issue as is an emotional one. Ever wondered why you blush and go weak-kneed while meeting your special other? Why does the person appear sexy and attractive after a few interactions? As much as it is a mind game, the body and hormones too play a major role in deciding our love lives. Here is how?? The weak-kneed reaction is triggered by an overdose of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA). Popularly known as the love molecule this one is found in the brain and has high levels of nitrogen. Chocolates are also known to trigger off PEA secretion?? The weak-kneed reaction is usually followed by lust which is triggered by testosterone, the male hormone. Body?s secretion of hormone shoots up when the mind is in love.? Sweaty palms are a result of increased blood pressure or adrenaline rush. This leads to fastened heart rate, heavy breathing and blushing. An excess intake of oxygen is the reason behind the giddy, light headed feeling.? Adrenaline and serotonin...
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Men Love The Mysterious Woman
2007-06-26 12:47:00
A woman is known for her mysterious side. A secret which every man dreams to uncover. It is said that you ?never understand a woman? and this is the only thing which pulls a man towards her. Her secrets, her unpredictable nature, her sobs which often bursts into a series of laughter is always a puzzle for the man who aspires to solve it one day. Let us see how you can use this mysterious side of yours into a treasure hunt for your man, laying a trail which can definitely unlock the secrets of your heart. It?s your key to getting your partner more interested in you.Creating an impressionWhat could be a better colour for our "secret lady" than a dress in black. Apply a dash of mascara with a silver lining or smoky grey eye shadow leaving behind a dusky effect for your eyes to narrate a tale which was never told to him.Wear a dress which is not so revealing yet it conceals the contours of your body in a perfect manner that sets off a trail of imagination.Talking secretsSpeak to him abo...
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Romance In The Internet Era
2007-06-23 11:44:00
It?s the era of internet romance and virtual kisses. If you?ve already jumped onto that wagon check out these simple do's and don'ts that could make online dating a fulfilling and exciting experience.Since you do not have the benefits of observing body language, facial expressions and mannerisms through this medium, you need to keep certain things in mind when communicating in cyberspace. We have listed some dos and don?ts that go a long way.? Be crystal clear when expressing your intentions, thoughts and expectations. Honesty is the name of the game.? Remember, the other person has feelings too and respect them.? Sarcasm and wit should be expressed with care so as not to violate anyone?s sensibilities. Sometimes though, these two elements can serve To spice up your net interaction!? Use acronyms sparingly as they can sometime be putting off, if used too often.? Try clicking the emoticons to express emotions like love, humour, anger etc. It could brighten anyone?s day!
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Concept Behind Online Dating
2007-06-19 09:50:00
You could be smart or sloppy. You could ooze sensuality and wit; you could be poetic and sensitive. You could be the proverbial introvert. You could be intelligent. You could be anything and everything under the sun.You could be severely eligible. And yet you maybe single.Maybe you haven?t met someone who mentally, intellectually, physically and emotionally (is that to much to ask for?) stimulates you in ages. Maybe you live in a metro. Maybe time is a constraint and the opportunities to socialize and ?meet? potential romantic interests are on the wane. And you might be smothered with lots of doubts like ??Is there something wrong with me? Am I boring? What can I do to improve my romantic prospects? Arranged marriage?yikes!?Well, banish those thoughts. You share a common predicament with millions across the globe. So what can you do to find a touch of chemistry in this crazy world of today? If conventional methods aren?t helping, then maybe you could resort to more innovative ones; ...
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How To Meet Online Love?
2007-06-18 13:41:00
There?s nothing to be scared of because online romances often culminate into lifelong partnerships these days. However, when taking the plunge these tips can be taken in mind.Meet when YOU are ready and if you feel inclined enough! You are never obliged to meet anyone no matter how comfortable you get over the net. However, don?t unnecessarily lead somebody on. Why bother with the effort if you just want to tease?Location-wise: Be wise when it comes to the choice of venue. Don?t allow your date to pick you up at home. What if he turns out to be a stalker? Any public space like a restaurant or a café is a sound option. Don?t forget to inform a close friend about your rendezvous plans and leave your date's name and telephone number with that person.While traveling a longer distance: If the object of your affection is overseas or from another state and you are flying in or driving from another area, arrange for your own car and a hotel room. Always make sure a friend or family member ...
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The Rules For One Night Stands
2007-06-14 12:36:00
Loneliness can lead people into strange bonds and unknown alleys of life. It makes them so desperate that they knowingly walk into frivolous affairs for a night, called ?one-night stands?, to feel loved for a single night. If you?re an adult and choose to opt for a ?no strings attached? relationship, it is perfectly fine. But do remember that this comes with some responsibilities you must shoulder.Here are 5 essential precautions that you must observe for your very own safety.1. Take appropriate protectionYou don?t want to be punished forever for one fun-filled night, so be alert and take precautions. Make this a rule to never ever jump into the act without taking proper protection. Pills don?t work always so insist on the guy wearing a condom. If the guy refuses on wearing a condom, get out of there fast. It?s not worth the fun at all.2. Be sure of what you want and inform your partnerBefore you get into something, ensure that you have the capability to get in and out of such bonds...
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What does a woman look for in a man?
2007-06-02 12:51:00
Ways to score points with a woman:It?s amazing how many men do the wrong things -- they of course think they?re doing the right stuff -- in their bid to attract women. Here are some surefire ways to score points with a woman. Check them out.? When she starts talking to you, put down the magazine or shut off the TV (in other words, stop doing whatever you were at that time) and give her your full attention -- for at least 20 minutes.? Offer to help her if she?s tired.? Compliment her on how she looks.? Plan a date several days in advance rather than just a few hours before.? Notice how she is feeling and comment on it. It could be: ?You look happy today,? or ?You look tired.?? Let her know that you missed her when she was away.Learn to listen: A woman?s pet crib is that the man she?s with just doesn?t listen to her. She isn?t wrong. If a woman has a problem, the man will gallantly step forward with a solution -- even though he hasn?t finished hearing out the woman. He wants to provid...
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A Stranger In Paradise
2007-05-30 12:30:00
I'm a stranger in lovely Paradis e ,With out the love of your embrace;Listening to birds sing love songs,Leaves me feeling so out of place.I wish you could be here with me,Come to me darling, take my hand;I need you here forever by my side,Let us unite in this Paradise land.I want your arms to hold me tight,Feeling your heart beat against mine;Whisper love words to me tonight,Kiss my lips with desire so divine.I am a lost stranger here in Paradise,End my loneliness, my darling true;In a land meant for lovers to share,Come to Paradise where I wait for you.affairlovelove poemparadiseromancestranger
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LOVE & HATE
2007-05-24 15:01:00
The Futility Of Hate :Hate is a negative emotion. It consumes the world and everyone who is a part of it. It is the evil that destroys the person from whom it emanates before reaching the person who it is meant for. Hate can never counter hate, it will only add to it. Hateful thoughts are harmful to the body and mind. They destroy our equilibrium and make us lose focus. After your death your words of love and kindness shall act like beacons to those you leave behind. Would you rather not leave behind lasting memories of happiness and love than those of hate and despairLOVE: The Great UnifierLove is a great healer.? It can set past wrongs right and pave the path to unbridled happiness.? Loving comes naturally to all humans, after all we are a product of compassion and kindness that emanates from the Guiding Light that breathed life into us.? To be able to love without bounds, without expectations and want is to have truly loved.? But remember loving is giving away a part of you ? unse...

Make Love Not War
2007-05-17 11:55:00
In most relationships, when you just start dating, things seem to be heavenly. But after a while (especially after you just get married) you might find that you are fighting all the time. Yet, you can't let go. The problem is that you love him a lot, it's just that you hate the fights. Don't worry. If you don?t and proudly proclaim so then maybe you need to rethink a bit. Couples who fight a lot have a ball of time making up. Yes, there?s a lot of emotion involved but at the end there?s deep love which surfaces.Firstly, you need to know that it?s perfectly ok to have a fight. When you just fall in love, you are blinded to the negative sides of your lover. But as the love settles down, these qualities--habits, attitudes, behaviour, etc.--become apparent. This is because when you just fall in love both of you tend to agree on everything, because you do not want to lose one another.But when the love becomes secure, both of you are now ready to voice your opinions. That?s how you are...
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Breaking Up A Relation
2007-05-14 12:49:00
It Is Okay To Brea k UpIf you are getting restless or bored in a relationship give it a little break before completely breaking up. This is just to make sure that you really want to get out of the relationship and also helps to break the news to him, as he might start wondering about these phases of staying apart. If even after the little break you aren?t really dying to see him again play it straight. Explain that you are not interested any more. The sooner you do this the better. The bottom line is: All's fair in love and war. If you see nothing in a relationship, there's no point in staying in it. You're doing both of yourselves a favor.Be Kind When Dumping ...Many of us make the mistake of getting into a relationship that, after a few months, doesn?t appear to have a future. If you?re sure that this isn?t the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, the quicker you get rid of him, the better. You may find him irritating or obnoxious, but don?t forget that even irritat...
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Together You and I
2007-05-13 14:57:00
Together you and Ican reach stars in the sky,Together you and Ican touch rainbows if we try.Together you and Ican make the moon smile,together you and Imake heaven seem like a mile.Together you and Ican make the rain fall,Because our love is specialand together we have it all.affairromancelovelove poem
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5 brilliant steps to a Successful Relationship
2007-05-12 12:36:00
There are always going to be rocky patches in any relationship. Here's some help to get you through the tough times.1. Talk. Lots. And often. It might seem like a cliche, but communication is key.2. Choose your battles. Think carefully about the things that really do upset you before you rush headfirst into an argument, rather than picking on every teeny tiny irritating thing.3. Learn how to say sorry. It's an important part of moving on after an argument, and making up can be a real bonus in more ways than one!4. Play together, stay together. Plan activities that you both enjoy. Take time together, without distraction, as often as you are able.5. Maintain a physical relationship. You might not be shagging like bunnies but be sure to share lots of kisses and cuddles. Sex is a very strong glue and many say it is the key to a healthy, sustainable relationship.affairkisslifeloverelationsh ipromancesex
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Choosing A Life Partner?
2007-05-11 11:15:00
People talk about love at first sight. More often than not it is lust that people mistake for love. True love doesn?t come all that easily. One has to constantly work towards building a relationship. One has to get to know the person, accept him for what he is and then if you still feel the same towards that one special person, then you can assure yourself that you have indeed found love, true love! CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER?There is no get it right formula for choosing a life partner. But here are some of the issues you should look at:? Do you vibe well? It is not necessary that both partners should have the same likes and dislikes, but they should be able to get along very well.? Are you able to understand each other and empathise with each others problems.? Weigh expectations from each other, and make sure that neither has strong delusions.? Mutual honesty is a must (not that one has to confess everything that happened in the past, but there should be a fair degree of openness of t...
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Successful Dating
2007-05-10 12:56:00
Dating affects us all. Being single isn't easy, whatever anyone says, and its always nice to read about other people's views on the dating game.The truth is, there are no magic formulas, no perfect tricks of the trade, no cunning ways of trapping Mr. or Miss Right and no top dating tips that wave a magic wand. But there are some essential facts that you should always bear in mind along the way. Dating tips are just that - tips, they are not promises written in stone and different things will always work differently for different people. However, I have noticed that there are some threads of advice that prove to very helpful...1. Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, decide who you are looking for, do your research and be ready to commit to dating. Half heartedness won't work.2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. The idea is to feel a million times more confid...
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The Tender First Kiss
2007-05-09 10:38:00
Congratulations..!!!On getting your First Kiss .Kissing is a truly refreshing and wonderful experience. That is if you don?t have sweaty palms, nervous twitches or bad breadth. The first two can be easily overcome, but the third? You need not be hyper about kissing him/her for the first time. Just relax. It is a heady experience and you are right on top of the world. To make you feel a bit more confident and help you get it right here are a few do?s and don?ts.? Be confident. You are going to kiss a person you like... so make it enjoyable. Remember you need not be tensed about it.? Just RELAX. Let go of your worries and nervousness. If you want to feel that moment you need to be relaxed.? Do not compete for stamina and keep your lips glued. Kiss till you get a response from him. Then ease off gently. This will make him pine for more and you?ve started to rock. But take care not to pull out abruptly. It can be a major turn off.? Look at him/her when you kiss. It proves your sincerity....
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Love Is Not Enough
2007-05-05 10:29:00
In day to day life we come to see that inspite of mutual love a couple got divorced or they are having severe problems in saving their relationship. This happens just because even if two people love each other, they may not be right for each other. Sounds like a contradiction? Not really. Our society assumes that if two people are in love, they should get married. But then what happens after marriage? In many cases, it becomes difficult to spot that love.Sure, love is definitely needed for a lasting relationship. But what we?re saying is that love is no guarantee that a person is right for us. The problems start when we try to make each other right. Either we change ourselves too much (to meet our partner?s needs) or our partners change themselves too much. And eventually we stop liking who we have become.So, instead of becoming more loving, we just stop growing --- and instead of the relationship bringing out the best in us it brings out the worst. So, along with love we must remem...
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The Biology Of The Love Chemistry
2007-05-04 11:54:00
Just an emotional issue !!No, its not true.Love is as much a hormonal issue as is an emotional one. Ever wondered why you blush and go weak-kneed while meeting your special one? Why does the person appear "sexy" and attractive after a few interactions? As much as it is a mind game, the body and hormones too play a major role in deciding our love lives. Here is how?? The weak-kneed reaction is triggered by an overdose of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA). Popularly known as the "love molecule"- this one is found in the brain and has high levels of nitrogen. Chocolates are also known to trigger off PEA secretion?? The weak-kneed reaction is usually followed by lust which is triggered by "testosterone", the male hormone. Body?s secretion of hormone shoots up when the mind is "in love".? Sweaty palms are a result of increased blood pressure or adrenaline rush. This leads to fastened heart rate, heavy breathing and blushing. An excess intake of oxygen is the reason behind the "lig...
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Attracting Others With Body Language
2007-05-03 10:58:00
Sometimes our body do the talking. It attracts and dazzles all kinds of new people with its movements and that is body language.Positive body language is all about how you make others feel. The most "attractive" people in the surroundings know how to make everyone else feel attractive and interesting.Their secret? They use plenty of reinforcement behaviors that say "I hear you, I like you, I know what you mean." Translated into body language, it means a liberal use of nods, gestures, eye contact and, most important of all, a good warm smile.The field of kinesics (the scientific study of body movements) tells us that no single movement has a precise meaning. If your new acquaintance crosses his or her arms, it doesn't necessarily mean they dislike you -- it may just mean the room is cold!Instead, body language centers around clusters of gestures and expressions. These patterns of movement can be most revealing, and show our true inner feelings."Positive Body Language " is a sign of e...
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Love At First Sight
2007-05-01 11:37:00
Has this happened to you?You met a girl somewhere like a party and found that you had an immediate liking for her. What?s more, you were pretty certain that she reciprocated your feelings. You might have spent most of that evening together and had a great ball. Yet, when the next day you sent her a big bunch of roses accompanied with a long romantic letter, she did not respond well. In fact she avoided you completely ever after.What went wrong? Here?s what: you went overboard. Before both of you could have had a chance to know each other beyond an exhilarating first meeting you scared her away with overbearing affection. Remember that flamboyant demonstration or display of affection can really make a female happy, provided it is after you are in a relationship.So if a girl is emotionally ready to explore the possibility of finding lifetime romance with you, go slow. Allow the affection to build. Otherwise she might just think you are desperate. In fact, she might even mistake your d...
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Understand Today?s Woman
2007-04-30 11:04:00
Most often, men just tend to be infatuated by women and this activity irritates the fair sex. So, while on a date, men must understand the way of thinking of a woman. Here are few ideas which can be helpful for men to understand the way women think and react during a courtship:? Don?t go around saying ?you know, I really, really like you? when you barely know her or on your first date. It sounds immature. Relax; you?re still getting to know her.? If you?ve just started dating, the information you choose to reveal should be relevant and appropriate to the dating stage. Revealing personal information within the first two dates will definitely overwhelm her and shoo her away. It is too early to consider your date as a serious marriage candidate. This signals to your date that you are just like the other men who fall for her too fast and are blinded by infatuation.? Though admiration is fine, don?t just merely swoon over her looks. Men should be interested in lasting aspects like optimi...
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Marriage & Relationship Humours
2007-04-29 11:55:00
Grooms! Once you get married remember that when you have a discussion with your future wife, always remember to get the last two words in: "Yes dear."~~~~~My husband bought me a mood ring the other day. When I'm in a good mood it turns green. When I'm in a bad mood, it leaves a red mark on his forehead.~~~~~An unmarried girl who worked in a busy office arrived one morning and began passing out big cigars and candy, both tied with blue ribbons. When asked what the occasion was, she proudly displayed a new diamond solitaire ring on her third finger, left hand, and announced, "It's a boy, six feet tall and 190 pounds!"~~~~~A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?"And the father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."~~~~~"If you'll make the toast and pour the juice, sweetheart," said the newlywed bride, "breakfast will be ready.""Good, what are we having for breakfast," said the new husband."Toast and juice," she replied.~~~~~Marriage is...
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Silent Tears
2007-04-28 11:14:00
Last night before I went to bedThoughts of you filled my head,I have not cried this way in many of yearsOnto my pillow fell six silent tears.The first was for your smile that I missAnd your tender lips I long to kiss,The second was for your gentle faceAnd thoughts of your loving embrace.The third came as no supriseAs I thought of your beautiful eyes,The fourth came rolling down my faceInstead of my pillow it should be you in it's place.The fifth came for one reason aloneI felt my love for you wasn't fully shown,I really love and miss you my dearAnd there just fell... the sixth silent tear.affairlovelove poemsromancesilent tearstears
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