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Do You Understand Today's Woman
2007-09-24 14:36:00
Here are a few tips to help men understand the way women think and react during a courtship:? Don?t go around saying ?you know, I really, really like you? when you barely know her or on your first date. It sounds immature. Relax; you?re still getting to know her.? If you?ve just started dating, the information you choose to reveal should be relevant and appropriate to the dating stage. Revealing personal information within the first two dates will definitely overwhelm her and shoo her away. It is too early to consider your date as a serious marriage candidate. This signals to your date that you are just like the other men who fall for her too fast and are blinded by infatuation.? Though admiration is fine, don?t just merely swoon over her looks. Men should be interested in lasting aspects like optimism, kindness, compatibility, responsible nature etc. rather than fleeting qualities like provocative attire or external façade.? Attractive women ? whether they are naturally attractive ...
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8 Types Of Men Ladies Love
2007-09-19 15:05:00
Its shocking isn't it?The Strong ManI hold you in my arms and I make you feel safe.The Yes ManI genuinely agree with you. What you think really matters to me.The Ideal ManI am a man you can look up to.The Me-Too ManWe like the same things! We love doing stuff together!The Only-You ManI see the uniqueness in you: no one else is like you are.The Change-me ManThe things you do deeply affect me: you can change me.The Self-Starter ManLet?s talk! Let?s go out! Let?s meet friends!The Love rI accept and value your feelings for me and the specific ways in which you express them. I love you.Scared you are never going to be fully satisfied by one man alone? Don't be. You are perfectly normal. Fortunately, the 8 relational needs I have justlisted can also be fulfilled by family, friends, counselors, colleagues, and teachers of both sexes, so you don't need to start dating 8 men!
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How To Ask Your Woman Out Without Fear?
2007-09-13 14:35:00
Do you stammer and stutter, when speaking to someone you are attracted too? Do you harbour any fear or phobia while approaching or proposing to a girl? Well, you will only end up losing the girl and your confidence as well. One of the qualities that women value most in a man is confidence. If you're not confident with women, then you must put yourself on a confidence-building program. How is that done? Here's the secret (It's actually a lot easier than you might think):? Don?t underestimate yourself:It is of the outmost importance to be confident about one?s own self. No matter how attractive or intellectual the opposite party is, don?t let that give you a complex. Deep inside you are a wonderful person who deserves the joys and treasures of life and love and in return have much to offer. Stay away from comparison game for you are a distinct person all together with lots of love and warmth to offer.? Get comfortable with the fair sex:If you spend most of your life hardly ever app...
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Can A Beautiful Woman Be Trusted?
2007-09-02 10:51:00
There is no rule that says beautiful women don?t possess a heart and can?t be faithful so why treat beauty as a parameter for trust?Insecurity is the most dangerous thing that can tear any relationship apart. Most men start assuming that a beautiful woman cannot be trusted. You need to get a grip on your own insecurities. Learn to trust.The mantra is to invest in your bond. The mantra is to believe in her but not blindly!Here are a few tips to help you regain mental peace and faith.? Believe in her ability to love you and give her credit for being the wonderful person that you fell for.? Her beauty should make you proud and not doubtful or jealous. If her hot looks attract you towards her then there must be something about you that attracted her towards you. Talk about it and try to connect at a higher plane than just physical.? Do not read too much between the lines if she is friendly with other guys or socializes freely with them. Harmless flirting is healthy. The very fact that s...
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How Important Is Sex?
2007-08-30 15:51:00
Unfortunately for a man, if he isn't getting sex, he begins to feel that he is the only guy in the whole wide world who is not getting it. And his life after that becomes a one-point programme: to find women who will hop into bed with him. And this attitude results in him spoiling a good relationship. For instance, if you really care for a woman (and she for you), but she's not willing to have sex with you (not yet, perhaps), it's not the end of the world. You can still go out with her, and share a good time. Both of you can give and receive affection. By keeping sex on the backburner, you are actually getting a chance to experience the real reason for coming together: the need to love.Don't take it wrong. I'm not saying that sex is not important in a relationship. What I am merely saying is that a relationship can flourish without sex being the primary priority.
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What to do if He/She Proposes Sex?
2007-08-12 13:46:00
While some may discount sex as licentious (especially the pre-marital variety) it acts like a barometer that could lend valuable insight to the health of a relation. Unlike women, who depend on feelings and emotions to convey love, men are strongly dependant on the 'touch and tell' mode.Hence sex naturally translates as the most evolved and complete way of spelling "I love you".Small gestures like holding hands, hugging and other instances of physical contact spell love much more strongly for the man than they could for the lady.It is almost imperative for men to melt down the physical distance if he were to be emotionally attached and involved. Being intimate makes the man feel like he has loved and been loved in every sense of the word. Physical intimacy abridges distances of the mind and makes him feel secure and wanted.So the next time he proposes adventure, remember that he is not just after "sex". His love for you is not necessarily restricted to physical attraction, and cou...
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Understanding A Man's Psyche
2007-08-10 12:14:00
Understanding men is not as difficult as it might appear to be. In fact knowing what the opposite sex wants, reading their mind and finally fitting into that niche takes a little bit of practice, patience and of course will. Understanding requirements and reading the mind can go a long way into buttressing relationships, making them strong and sturdy. What men want from women has been a topic of hot debates, which have thrown up a multitude of alternatives.? What men basically and most earnestly look out for in a relationship is sex and companionship (not necessarily in that order) and any woman who satisfies these needs is most certainly the ideal one.? Most will be surprised to read this, but men are not necessarily turned on by looks or a great figure, these are misnomers that have been substituting truth for quite a while now.? What men look out for in a life mate is confidence with a capital C. Any woman who knows her mind is sure to enthrall her man. Confidence is an attitude ...
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Corelation among Love, Sex and Babies
2007-08-09 12:22:00
Can you separate sex and babies? Can you separate sex and love? Can you separate sex and marriage? These are good questions. The answer is "Yes." But consider the following:? When you separate sex from love, babies and marriage, you get prostitution. Sex without love is meaningless.? When you separate sex and babies from love and marriage, you get unwed, teenage mothers. This creates problems for the mother, the child and the people who end up supporting the mother because she cannot support herself.? When you separate sex and love from babies and marriage, you get premarital sex, recreational sex and people living together. None of this seems bad on the surface, and many teenagers you ask will say, "Go for it!" Find a person, fall in love and have sex.But it is only when you put love, marriage, sex and babies together that you have something complete and whole and beautiful. It is pretty deep, I know. Think about it for awhile.
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Connection between Love, Sex and a Baby
2007-08-08 09:43:00
Sex is another very important fact of life. Sex feels good. You may be aware of this fact already. Part of the wiring between the sex organs and the sexual parts of the brain is a direct connection to the brain?s "pleasure center". This connection is no doubt designed to further encourage the reproductive urge by providing direct positive stimulation for reproductive behavior. Many people (both teenagers and adults) seem to miss three important facts about the pleasure of sex:? Much of the pleasure of sex is psychological.? It is possible for sex to feel bad.? The fact that sex is pleasurable doesn?t mean that it is always appropriate.All three of these facts are important. Inside a loving relationship between a husband and wife who care deeply about one another, for example, the pleasure of sex is highly magnified. By the same token, having sex with a prostitute is degrading and can actually feel bad. Ask anyone who has tried it. "Cheap sex" and "one-night stands" and "sex on the f...
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The Purpose of Sex is to Create a Baby
2007-08-07 09:14:00
You cannot separate sex from babies. The reason our bodies are equipped with sexual apparatus is to have babies and reproduce. If you try to separate sex from babies you are ignoring the obvious, because they cannot be separated. A lot of the "problems in today?s society" are caused by the fact that people forget this linkage.It is the baby part of sex that leads to love and marriage. Babies link sex, love and marriage together.Love is a mechanism in our brains that encourages coupling. We "fall in love" to form a strong couple. "Falling in love" is a thing that is wired into our brains. It is a mechanism that ensures the survival of the species.One of the more frustrating things about love is that it is a fairly messy emotion that has a number of rather strong psychological side effects. In order to form a strong coupling, the love mechanism seems to disconnect a variety of normal mental functions. "Falling in love" often means a loss of perspective and a focusing of attention that...
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Sex Is Not Like Anything Else
2007-08-06 11:39:00
When you find yourself asking things like, "Why do I think about Christina all the time?" this is the reason why. Sex simply is not like anything else. It is absolutely fundamental to human existence.A lot of people simply do not understand that sex is different from everything else. They will say things like, "Eating is completely natural and you do it every day without thinking about it. Sex is the same way! It?s just like every thing else! Do it and have fun and don?t worry about it!" That is an approach to life, but it is not true. Sex is not like everything else. Eating, for example, cannot create a new human life. Sex can. When someone tries to equate sex and eating, it is impossible to take them seriously.Having said all of that, there is a fifth fact of life that people often completely ignore. It is funny that people ignore it, because it is so simple and obvious. It is this: "The purpose of sex is to create a baby."
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The Four important Facts about Sex
2007-08-05 09:30:00
There are four important facts about sex that are: 1. Both men and women have entire sections of their anatomy devoted to sex and reproduction. This should come as no surprise to you. You have feet. Feet are a part of your anatomy devoted to walking. You have ears. Ears are a part of your anatomy devoted to hearing. You have a part of your anatomy devoted to sex and reproduction as well. Just to get it out in the open here so there is no confusion: In males it is the penis and testicles, and in females it is the vagina and female reproductive system, including the uterus, fallopian tubes, etc. In men the sexual organs produce sperm and provide a delivery mechanism, and in women the sexual organs accept sperm, produce eggs and provide an environment in which a baby can develop. When sperm and egg meet in a woman, a child is formed. Simple as that. Miraculous and totally mystifying, but simple.2. The sex organs produce sex hormones, which flow through the blood stream and affect certa...
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The Facts of Life concerning Love
2007-08-04 15:39:00
The first and most fundamental fact of life about love is: love is something that is fundamentally wired into the human brain. There is nothing that you can do about it. You cannot turn it on and off. It is there, it is active and that?s the end of it. In fact, it is nearly impossible to separate love from human existence. Especially as a teenager, they are one and the same.The second fact of life is that there are different kinds of love, and we need to agree on what we are talking about when we say the word "love." Here are some of the different kinds of love that we all are familiar with:? Parental love?Parents love their children, and this sort of love, devotion and caring is different from all other types of love. When done well, parental love could be called perfect.? Christian love?Jesus said, "Love your neighbor as yourself," and many people are able to do that. They love and care about those around them because they are fellow human beings.? Friendship love?A deep friendshi...
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Love is The Fact of Life
2007-08-04 08:46:00
Love is a fact of life. For all human beings, and especially for teenagers, it could be said that love is THE fact of life. It is one thing that is central to all human existence. You might have come to this realization already. Simply by looking into your own mind and noticing how much of your time it spends thinking about people of the opposite sex, fantasizing about people of the opposite sex, dreaming about people of the opposite sex, wondering about people of the opposite sex, feeling depressed about people of the opposite sex and so on, you get a good idea of how important this topic is in the human realm.Because it is so important and so central to human existence, love is something that can be extremely confusing and frustrating.I know that as a teenager love was extremely confusing and frustrating to me. I had a huge number of questions about the whole space, including (If you are a girl, please replace "girl" with "boy" in the following questions):? Why do girls hate me?? ...
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Sexual Ethics
2007-08-03 11:06:00
The Four Principles of the New Approach to Sexual Ethics 1. Psychology has made clear the intimate link between sexuality, personality and human development as well as the need for human integration. Sexuality is an essential part of human nature and each person has to come to wholeness by being able to accept and balance the different aspects of their nature. Sexuality and spirituality may be seen to be connected. The ability to love and to accept love, to form relationships and to enter into mature, adult sexual bonds depends to a larger extent on the experiences one has as a young child. Early experiences can destroy the development process and can cause adults to be psychologically immature. The impact of parents and a warm, stable loving home environment is important to psychological well-being. If this is absent, distortions are likely to result which may not be resolvable without help later in life. The negative view of human sexual nature deriving from the Christian tradition...

Love Doesn't Come Easily
2007-08-02 10:26:00
People talk about love at first sight. More often than not it is lust that people mistake for love. True love doesn?t come all that easily. One has to constantly work towards building a relationship. One has to get to know the person, accept him for what he is and then if you still feel the same towards that one special person, then you can assure yourself that you have indeed found love, true love!CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER?There is no get it right formula for choosing a life partner. But here are some of the issues you should look at:? Do you vibe well? It is not necessary that both partners should have the same likes and dislikes, but they should be able to get along very well? Are you able to understand each other and empathise with each others problems? Weigh expectations from each other, and make sure that neither has strong delusions? Mutual honesty is a must (not that one has to confess everything that happened in the past, but there should be a fair degree of openness of the p...
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Love Is A Drug
2007-08-01 14:43:00
Being in love is physically similar to the buzz of taking drugs and also has withdrawal symptoms, an expert on addiction has said. Dr John Marsden says, dopamine - the drug released by the brain when it is aroused - has similar effects on the body and mind as cocaine or speed. "Attraction and lust really is like a drug. It leaves you wanting more," the National Addiction Centre head has said.Pounding heart"Being attracted to someone sparks the same incredible feelings no matter who you are. Love really does know no boundaries," he said.According to Dr Marsden - a chartered psychologist - the brain which processes emotions becomes "fired up" when talking to someone it finds attractive. The heart pounds three times faster than normal and causes blood to be diverted to the cheeks and sexual organs, which causes the feeling of butterflies in the stomach, he says.Sex trapThe research also suggests sex is booby-trapped to make partners bond."Your body has evolved over millions of years wi...
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Identifying your Ideal Match
2007-07-30 10:38:00
Are love knots really tied in paradise and celebrated on earth? Is there someone like a soul mate who is actually made for you, waiting to be with you? Here are few ways which can be helpful to identify your "ideal" mate:? Write down your expectations from a relationship. The qualities you most strongly desire (in a relationship) giving reason for why you so cherish them.? While enlisting qualities make a mention of why you think these are so close to you. Writing helps since one is easily able to assail and weigh values and preferences that are closely cherished.? Make a list of people you feel strongly connected to. Compare the qualities they have with your list and identify the ones that come closest to your dream qualities.? In case you find it difficult to find someone to fit your bill in your immediate periphery, start circulating in a larger crowd. Networking is very important to identify the right person.? At the most crucial moment we often find our strength and resolve des...
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When You Feel Insecured In Your Relation
2007-07-29 10:10:00
Insecurity is the most dangerous thing that can tear any relationship apart. Most men start assuming that a beautiful woman cannot be trusted. You need to get a grip on your own insecurities. Learn to trust.Analyse the situation:If your babe uses her hot looks to climb the ladder of success and treats you like a slave because she is hot and you are not?If she has the habit of straying and then coming back you to because she knows that she is too desirable for you to reject or resist?If she has started taking you and your feeling for her for granted?If she likes mentioning casually that she can get any guy she wants and makes you feel that she is doing you a favour by being in the relationship?Then dude, you are in deep waters. Really deep trouble!However, if she has been faithful to you and does not display any signs of promiscuousness, if she cares for you and the two of you vibe well, then there should not be any reason for you not to trust her.The mantra is to invest in your bond...
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Chemistry Behind Love & Sex
2007-07-28 08:44:00
Love is as much a hormonal issue as is an emotional one. Ever wondered why you blush and go weak-kneed while meeting your special other? Why does the person appear "sexy" and attractive after a few interactions? As much as it is a mind game, the body and hormones too play a major role in deciding our love lives. Here is how??The weak-kneed reaction is triggered by an overdose of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA). Popularly known as the "love molecule" this one is found in the brain and has high levels of nitrogen. Chocolates are also known to trigger off PEA secretion?? The weak-kneed reaction is usually followed by lust which is triggered by "testosterone", the male hormone. Body?s secretion of hormone shoots up when the mind is "in love".? Sweaty palms are a result of increased blood pressure or adrenaline rush. This leads to fastened heart rate, heavy breathing and blushing. An excess intake of oxygen is the reason behind the "giddy", "light headed" feeling.? Adrenaline an...
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Is Your Relation Heading For The Rocks?
2007-07-27 11:11:00
There are some pointers which act like the proverbial beacon of light in stormy weather and warn you well in advance if your (love) boat is heading for the rocks:Avoid that roving eye: Yes we all need 'visual appeals' once in a while, but keep a check on the once-in-a-while indulgence from burgeoning into a full-fledged voyeurism. Do not allow the eyes to wander too often and too far, you never know when the wanderings may be accompanied with feelings too!Add in the extra bit: A relation is not about calculated give and take. True, it is an emotional investment but does not generally translate as if you take two steps, I will take the other two. Sometimes one may have to go the extra mile to keep the relation going. There is no replacing compromise when it comes to love after all you reap what you sow, so be generous while giving and you won't have to shy away while asking.Get romantic: What is life without a healthy dose of romance? What most of us miss in the hustle-bustle of o...
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What to do Next when a Live-in doesn't work?
2007-07-26 13:03:00
Making a significant commitment to someone you love by moving in together is one of the most exciting and important periods in a relationship. Sharing your joys and sorrows and living a life together can be magical. But when your precious relationship with your live-in partner starts crumbling, all hell breaks loose. Handling your emotions and looking for a den to set up your life from the beginning yet again can simply break you.Remember those days when he just couldn't get enough of you, and kept trying to meet you everyday, sometimes even twice a day?Yes, all that attention was fun. But six months into the relationship, those days appear a distant memory. These days, he prefers spending more time with his friends (a few of them female), and it seems like he almost forces himself to meet you. Is this the end?Maybe, maybe not. Perhaps he doesn't have the guts to tell you it's over, so it's best that you confront him and find out whether he's lost interest. That's the only way...
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How to Fall in Love Again?
2007-07-25 12:07:00
?Love makes the world go round? never has this adage needed more stress than in this age of cyber relationships. Your mate is the most special and most important person in your life. He/She contribute largely to your mental as well as physical well being. And having that special someone to share moments with is really something to long for.? It doesn?t matter if you are 10 years into your marriage or 3 years dating steadily. You need to rekindle and spark your relationship with your partner. Before you contemplate on doing so allow us to guide you with a few pointers?? Remember to look good. The chances of romancing and wooing are significantly better if you didn?t look like a cabbage or pouted a beer belly.Court again. Do what you did to woo your mate and this time add the flavour of togetherness.? Remember your first days of togetherness? There is no better way of sparking off the flame than remembering you first fun times together. Now try to do something that you enjoyed doing d...
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What to do if you are being cheated?
2007-07-24 10:24:00
1. Ponder over why it may be happening and if it?s about you and not about her, then you could consider making changes in your behaviour towards her. The changes will come very willingly if you really love her and will help save the sanctity of the relationship for sure.2. Confront your steady if you are sure of her straying. Stay calm yet confident, non-aggressive yet firm, while you do the talking.3. Do not cheat back in an effort to make her jealous or to evoke a confrontation from her end.4. If your relationship has deteriorated to the point that you fear her straying then figure if you want to keep this relationship at all.Remember that love is all about trusting and caring. When doubts start taking over, it might just be hinting the start of a long winding travel to a dead end relationship. So be careful about where your bond leads you. Put in your best into it and the best should come back to you. If it doesn?t, be perceptive and smart enough to move on in time. Life is too s...
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Is "She" Cheating On You?
2007-07-23 11:49:00
A woman may cheat when something inside her creates a desire to go outside her existing relationship, and this could happen for several reasons ranging from the nature of her relationship to her genes, your behaviour towards her, circumstances and her personality. But what you need to know is that is it about you or is it about her, that makes her cheat or could lead her towards straying.Yes, the person whom you treated as an extension of your being could also betray you. So figure what is going on. Know she is straying if?? Her whereabouts are unaccounted for and/or she has several unexpected meetings with people you don't know.? Sudden nondescript "emergencies" are putting you and your needs on the back burner.? She is always finding excuses to be away from you.? She is rarely in a mood for sex and hardly ever wants to try something new with you.? Even if sex happens, it is different and not as intense as before.? Her brief kisses and even briefer phone conversations have become ...
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Unravelling "Women-Speak"
2007-07-22 09:07:00
Ever wondered what silent but strong femme talk is all about? Let us share some of "classified" knowledge:? If the lady listens to you but refuses to reveal her true desires and intention, probably you could try a go-between. How about asking a common friend to play cupid?? She meets you once, and the next time you propose, she not only agrees wholeheartedly, but is better dressed and groomed than before. Come on, you don't need us to tell you what that means?! Of course, she is more than interested in you!? The lady seems to have taken a keen interest in you, but will not consent to her love interest?know what that means? She wants to be wooed with diamonds and roses! Take the cue, this one is more demanding than you thought!? When the lady refuses to pay attention to you, probably because of her respect for you, or for herself, you still stand a fair chance of winning her over. Persuasion, once again is the handy tool!? The lady reproaches you strongly for harbouring love interes...
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Can Beautiful Women Be Trusted?
2007-07-21 13:24:00
Insecurity is the most dangerous thing that can tear any relationship apart. Most men start assuming that a beautiful woman cannot be trusted. You need to get a grip on your own insecurities. Learn to trust.“Beautiful women know that they have many takers and if their current guy does not mend his ways as per theirs, they just move on to the next best option. The knowledge that they are in demand invariably puts them in the driving seat in a relationship. They don’t believe in building a relationship based on trust but instead treat men as merely sources of convenience who fulfill their needs. And if you are with such a drop dead beauty then it is anyway more out of lust than love; how faithful she will prove to be is absolutely questionable.�Review the situation...If your babe uses her hot looks to climb the ladder of success and treats you like a slave because she is hot and you are not…If she has the habit of straying and then coming back you to because she knows that she...
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The Joy Of Intimacy
2007-07-20 15:03:00
Everywhere around us, we see the one-night stand culture – relationships with no strings attached. ‘It's convenient that way' is what many say. What they don't know is that emotional intimacy is one of the most wonderful experiences we ever have. Nothing else really comes close to the experience of sharing our deepest thoughts and feelings with another, of being deeply seen and known, of sharing love, passion, laughter, joy, and/or creativity. The experience of intimacy fills our souls and takes away our loneliness.A wounded or shattered sense of self may interfere with your capacity for intimacy. When we fear abandonment we may try to stay glued onto another. We may seek to preserve the illusion of intimacy but, in truth, maintain a distance that prevents us from the vulnerability of intimacy.Many people have two major fears that may cause them to avoid intimacy: the fear of rejection - of losing the other person, and the fear of engulfment - of being invaded, of being contr...
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The Magic Of Touch
2007-07-19 14:36:00
There is no such thing as too much intimacy. Any relationship blooms to its maximum potential when quiet, simple yet delightful pleasures are experienced. This also brings with it a sense of excitement.One such pleasure is that of touch. When you touch your partner it sends out positive signals like I love you and I care for you. It is a medium of expressing warm, true and intense affection and caring. It provides a great deal of comfort.Touch ing enlivens our lives. It nurtures our relationships. The gift of touch contains within it the miracle of healing and bonding. Touch is a means of connecting emotionally, physically and spiritually.
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Are You Passionate Enough?
2007-07-17 15:26:00
Did passionate affairs exist only in The Titanic? Do men really search for deep-rooted love or is it a fleeting emotion? Passi on and men!!! That comes to play only when cars go in a dizzy play at the Grand Prix or Brazil takes on Argentina in the Soccer finals or Tendulkar smashes a century. The emotion seems to have set sail for good from the love coast! So where has all the passion gone? Definitely out of the relation!Why is love taking a beating when it comes to passion (no we are not taking into account jilted lovers and the sad scenes they create)? Why aren't men as lovelorn (they were portrayed as that at least) as they once were? Where are the passionate -I love you's?Probably it is the hectic pace of city life and demanding times that keep us from professing love in all earnestness, probably it is the pressures of working life that now dominate an area that was earlier reserved for romantic talk, or probably we have just become very unromantic.The causes are many and diver...
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