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Photo Hunters - Delicious
2008-01-06 02:35:00
Here is Dova's Princess cake and how the court received her with lit candles. Believe it or not, it was actually quite delicious as well!
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Happy Birthday to Me!
2008-01-04 15:17:00
Since I'm officially rolling down the hill at 41, there's no need to hide under a rock like last year, right? Here are the fantastic hand drawn cards I received from my kids, thanks to Doug's efforts while I was at work. It was a wonderful surprise and frugal to boot. What can be better? Cards that are 100x better than store-bought and free (*cough* cheapskate)!This one is from Adam. I love the Red Cross, I mean ribbons on the presents.This one is from Dova. She didn't like how it came out and wanted to throw it away. Thankfully Doug saved it, as it is a fantabulous drawing of a Christmas tree!Adam helped Dova with this card, drawing the outlines and letting her color it in. She is really starting to understand how to color inside the lines.Thanks guys, I love you!
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Thursday Thirteen #27 - No Resolutions!
2008-01-03 03:39:00
I've never committed to making New Year's resolutions and here's why.Better to have your long term and short term goals in the forefront of your mind everyday instead of once a year (I have been properly brainwashed by the Franklin system and Steven Covey).Reflection and re-examination of your goals should happen more than once a year, although once a year is a start. New Years Resolutions rarely work if they aren't already part of your mindset or lifestyle.If you really meant to do something, you wouldn't need a resolution to kick start you.Why wait until January 1st? Every day can be a new start.Change isn't something that magically happens, it requires real commitment, not an arbitrary change in date.Why set yourself up for disappointment when you fail to keep your resolutions?When people fail to keep a resolution they sometimes use it as an excuse not to try again. If it is a true goal in your life, failure rarely stops you (or at least me... tenacity is my middle name)....
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A Spoonful of Sugar Makes the Medicine Go Down - Sometimes
2008-01-03 02:55:00
(Dova and Adam after our gingerbread house collapsed while decorating it. Adam is doing his Home Alone impression.)My little angel Dova fell ill on her 4th birthday last Wednesday and I'm afraid she got the dreaded illness I had earlier in December (more like all of December). Since I kept refusing to take a chest x-ray because I wasn't coughing up any junk and the doctor said my lungs sounded clear, I never got a diagnosis other that "respiratory infection" for the thousands of forms for my work (FMLA, short-term disability, etc.). We had taken her to the doctor on Sunday, but they didn't want to prescribe antibiotics until they got her test results back (bloodwork and a chest x-ray). Since she would've had to go to the hospital for the tests, we opted to wait until Monday. She seemed better on Monday so we didn't go, but then she got worse again on Tuesday, where the office was closed for New Year's Day. Finally, she got her tests today. Diagnosis? Pneumonia.Adam ha...
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Wordless Wednesday - Jumping in the Snow
2008-01-02 13:56:00
We've had more snow in December than in all of last season, to the delight of the kids. Happy New Year!
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How to Use Your Blogger URL as an OpenID
2007-12-29 06:22:00
Blogger did away with the URL stamp in comments, but it did quickly implement OpenID on December 13th as I found out from CyberCelt. Here are the usual ways to get an OpenID: AOL openid.aol.com/screenname LiveDoor profile.livedoor.com/username LiveJournal username.livejournal.com Orange (France Telecom) http://openid.orange.fr/ SmugMug username.smugmug.com Technorati technorati.com/people/technorati/username Vox member.vox.com WordPress.com username.wordpress.comBut that doesn't do any good for folks on Blogger who'd like to use their blog URL. If you already have a LiveJournal, Vox, VeriSign or MyOpenID account, check out Simon Willison's directions. If not, here's a method that will work:Get a Yahoo account if you don't already have one.Sign up for an account on idproxy.net using your Yahoo account.Once you have logged in, the bottom of your idproxy.net dashboard should say:You can also use your own site as an OpenID.The directions will say to insert two lines code ...
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Photo Hunters - Messy
2007-12-29 04:44:00
With two young kids, today's theme of messy was quite easy.Here's Adam on his 2nd birthday deciding that markers are more fun on his hands than on paper.Of course, Dova felt the same way. This was taken when she was 2 1/2. Thankfully, they are both past this stage now. Happy New Year everyone!!
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Thursday Thirteen #26 - Things our family received for Christmas
2007-12-26 21:49:00
Thirteen things that our family received for Christmas :Visit from Grandma. The kids had fun snuggling with Grandma in the mornings instead of bothering their poor parents.Chinese Hot Pot dinner with meatballs, tofu meatballs, squid balls (actually quite tasty), fish, shrimp, pork, dumplings, soybeans, spinach, zucchini, potatoes, sweet potatoes, onions, and noodles. Everyone was well fed.White Christmas. With all the snow in the past few weeks, we had tons left for a white Christmas. Grandma had fun making snowmen with the kids.Super Mario Galaxy for the Wii. Adam played this for 5 hours straight on Christmas day and got up to level 3. It made me dizzy just looking at it.A makeup kit for Dova. This was the one thing that she asked from Santa and spent the day putting on lip glitter over lip gloss and 4 shades of eye shadow on. With mom's help of course.Nintendo DS Lite Gold with Legend of Zelda: Phantom Hourglass for me. Only so that I can play Mario Kart with Adam . Not ...
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Photo Hunters - Light
2007-12-22 06:07:00
The great thing about Flickr is that you can simply search for a term and see all your photos having titles, descriptions or tags with it. There were so many choices that came up for "light" that I'll offer a smörgåsbord (wow, thank you Firefox for adding all those accents) this week to make up for my lack of photo hunts in the last couple weeks.Impressive lighting array from the Richard Rodgers Theater in New York where we saw Tarzan.Beautiful lighted tulip vase from Tucker's Bistro in Newport, RI.Nothing says lights like Las Vegas. This was taken from my hotel room in Treasure Island.Recessed light taken by Dova. She takes pictures of the darnedest things!
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The Photo Card Curse
2007-12-21 16:33:00
Do you see this picture perfect photo card that was taken during Thanksgiving weekend and ordered in the beginning of December? It has not arrived yet and I had to have the order resent. It is December 21st already and I HATE TO BE LATE!!!! And this is not the first time this has happened to us...Two years ago, I ordered photo cards through Club Photo (now Winkflash) in the beginning of December. For whatever reason, they were totally backlogged for the holiday season and they didn't process the order for three weeks. Needless to say, I mailed the cards out after Christmas and swore never to use Club Photo again. Did I mention that I hate to be late?Last year, I ordered photo cards through Snapfish and they were promptly processed and mailed the next day. However, two days later, I got an email special from them for 20% off photo cards. I emailed them and they graciously credited my account for that amount. The cards arrived within five days and we were back to being on ti...
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Wordless Wednesday - Fun in the Snow
2007-12-19 01:40:00
Taken from the warmth of my home with my new 70-300 mm IS USM lens! Thanks Mom!
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Letting go of anger
2007-12-14 01:16:00
Note: This long diatribe has been sitting on my chest for years, so please skip it if you're only up for my usual chipper self...It has been two years since my father passed. Our relationship as adults was friendly and cordial, but not necessarily close. We saw each other about twice a year and he enjoyed seeing his grandchildren, calling them "golden boy" and "jade girl". He divorced my mother about 8 years prior to be with his girlfriend, eventually moving in with her in his last year. He was diagnosed with inoperable brain cancer which in the last few months left him confused, angry and frightened. It was certainly not the man I had known my whole life. When I first heard that his condition was worsening, I paid him a visit to make sure he had his affairs in order, including power of attorney, etc. I had already known that he had appointed his girlfriend's daughter as the executor of his will because as he said "It would be more convenient because she lives in New York....
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Thursday Thirteen #25 - Things I did while sick
2007-12-13 00:35:00
What another sick post? Well, last one hopefully. Today was the first time in 12 days that I have seen a normal temperature. Woo hoo!! Three doctor visits and some free samples of Levaquin and Advair later, I am finally on the mend. Here are some things I did to pass the time in the last couple weeks (besides sleeping and coughing).I discovered Jeff Buckley. I had not heard of him before and suddenly 10 years after his death I'm mourning him anew. He and Kurt Cobain were born within 2 months of me but I never related to Kurt's music. Jeff is more of a kindred spirit. This video of Hallelujah (written by Leonard Cohen) brought tears to my eyes and I listened to the song on repeat on my iPod for hours in my fevered state. Check out Grace as well.I uploaded pictures from the kids camera (notice last post). I had to delete about 95% of the pictures of fingers, knees, the ceiling, the cracks in the wall, me in my underwear, etc.I organized in Flickr like crazy. I created si...
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Wordless Wednesday - Sperm Mousepad
2007-12-12 00:55:00
In my illness, Dova (age 3) has stepped in as photographer this week as offers up our sperm mousepad (see them swimming in the upper left corner?).
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Happy 500 posts
2007-12-09 16:46:00
In my sickness, I totally blew by my 500th post with Thanks for the Well Wishes. Believe it or not, I'm still sick, not as severely, but still running a fever for the 9th day now. My head and neck are also hurting because I can only sleep without coughing on one side, so now my imagination and Googling are running wild with thoughts of meningitis. Anyway, I will lay low in blog land for a while so that I can concentrate on getting better. I don't even want to think about what I still need to buy for the holidays, let alone Dova's Birthday invitations which need to go out right away if we want to have a chance of having a party. Not good to be a sick mom for the holidays! Thankfully, Doug is doing a fantastic job holding down the fort and not killing the kids.
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Doctor Rant
2007-12-07 03:07:00
Image from Made in ENGLAND by GentlemenI love my primary care physician, she is an MIT graduate in Course 2 (Mechanical Engineering) which means she has perfect credentials (i.e. exactly the same as me). Wait, that doesn't qualify me to be a doctor... Oh yeah, she went medical school as well, details. Anyway, I had been running a high fever since Friday night with some minor coughing. On Monday, I couldn't schedule my usual doctor for urgent care so I ended seeing another doctor in the group and I was not impressed. Today, I had to go back again because I am STILL SICK and got another doctor and what a difference! So much so, I became infuriated thinking about my first experience. The first doctor was a young Indian woman (I have nothing against them in general, just this one). She looked me over extremely quickly, glancing in my ears and throat, listening to my lungs for a millisecond in each spot over my shirt, taking all of 15 seconds to do the entire exam. This is ho...
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Welcome back ClustrMaps
2007-12-07 01:59:00
I always respond to quick feedback (see comments on the last post), so ClustrMaps is here to stay. Welcome back!
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ClustrMaps banished from blogs everywhere
2007-12-06 17:42:00
I think ClustrMaps is one of the oldest widgets around and is the last widget to be removed from my blog (along with Flickr). As Skelliewag puts it in 50 Tips to Unclutter Your Blog:21. Remove widgets showing which countries your visitors are coming from. The internet is quite old now. It?s no longer amazing to us that people can visit a blog from overseas.Sniff! Sad but true. I'll visit you in this post. Thanks for all the overseas visits!
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Thursday Thirteen #24 - Good things about being sick
2007-12-05 22:52:00
As I sit here suffering from what I'll dub the "Canadian" flu, it's always good to look at the bright side of things. Today I hit a high temperature of 103.6°F! Woohoo! (Trust me, I was not saying that at the time...) So here's a list of good things about being sick.I get out of work. Yippee!I don't have to tend to the darn kids, hard to do while bedridden. Although that doesn't prevent them from having tantrums on the floor next to my bed.I don't have to cook.I can use a laptop in bed.I can still blog (deliriously) if my temp is under 102°F.I can eat in bed.I don't have to shovel snow.I don't have to do any household chores like cleaning and laundry.I'll hopefully lose some weight as my appetite is not very good.I actually get to read the woefully neglected books on my nightstand.I get to sleep as long as I want (granted, waking up every hour with fits of coughing or the sweats).I can sleep with a kitty at my feet (always on my side, hmph!).I will eventually get better!
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Wordless Wednesday - Michael loves to fly
2007-12-04 21:55:00
Here's Adam's cousin Michael jumping off our slide three years ago.And recently after completing a soccer head shot.
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Assimilated into the Disney Princess cult
2007-12-04 15:19:00
I blame myself for buying The Little Mermaid for Dova last year (yes, the original DVD is still MIA) and coupled with our trip to Disney World, she has gone completely Disney Princess mad. But me? Surely, I am impervious to such folly. However, not only did I ace Facebook's Name that Disney Princess quiz, I thoroughly enjoyed the new movie Enchanted. It was hilarious, sweet, and made all sorts of funny references to past princess movies. I kept catching myself with a huge grin on my face during the movie. Even Adam, the ultimate princess skeptic, said he enjoyed it. Apparently with an 8.1 rating on IMDB, we're not the only one who succumbed to this movie's charm. We actually went on opening night, where I went 1.5 hours before the family to secure tickets. Talk about dedication! Apparently resistance is futile.
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The Killing Fields
2007-12-03 22:00:00
I had the opportunity to watch The Killing Fields when it first came out in 1984 at MIT, with a Q&A session with Sydney Schanberg, but at the time was not up for a movie about genocide. I finally watched it on the plane last month. Unfortunately, I only had my new V-Moda Vibe Duo headphones and although they are "noise-isolating" they are not "noise-reducing" so I couldn't hear most of the dialog even with the laptop set at full volume (stupid Lenovo). I watched most of it without much dialog and could get the gist of the movie, but then I watched it again off the plane. Even without the dialog, it was extremely moving and the range of emotions was apparent, from fear to shock to hatred. Watching with the dialog definitely added another layer to the movie as there were many voiceovers that I had been unaware of. The interesting thing in the special features was a bio on the actor Dr. Haing S. Ngor. The DVD said:Born in Samrong Young, Cambodia, Ngor was a doctor (OB/GYN) engaged...

Thanks for the well wishes!
2007-12-03 21:39:00
Not much better today, although I managed to drive myself to the doctor only to have it dismissed as viral (left both kids with Doug because it is a snow day). The doctor offered a blood test and a chest x-ray but I declined on the x-ray because my cough is not pneumonia-like (not that I've ever had it, but I can tell). She felt that the 100-103°F temperature swings were fine. Let's just say I got less than top notch care from the "attending physician". Dova made a miraculous recovery today so maybe it is viral. Last night I couldn't write my post on The Killing Fields movie because Doug actually wanted to get some sleep, so instead I dreamt deliriously about it all night. Not exactly a restful convalescing topic. That and dreaming about laying out all the cables of my instrument at work and "breathing" through the wires to make sure they were correct. So without further ado, onto The Killing Fields!
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Sick again
2007-12-03 04:09:00
This is the second time that I've gotten this god awful illness where I run a high fever continually without it ever breaking below 101°F even with medication. If it is over 102, I'm completely incapacitated, and usually have the chills, where I bundle up under four blankets including an electric one, and have a fleece hat pulled down over my head to the tip of my nose and my shirt pulled up above my mouth to stay warm. If it is around 101.5, like it is now, I deliriously try to compose blog posts in my head. I can usually get out of bed, but I feel like I leave hot footprints everywhere I step and I risk getting the chills again. The worst part is the unshaven legs. At first, I didn't put on some sleep pants, so every single hair was sending needles of pain to the other leg. I finally had to fall asleep with one arm between my legs as it was less painful on my arms. The last time I had this illness, I failed to go to the doctor for a week and wrote many a delirious blog p...
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Gender Genie
2007-12-02 21:03:00
Anyone happening by this blog would have no problem identifying that the author is female, where the title and picture are dead giveaways. But according to the Gender Genie , more times than not, my writing is pegged at "male". According to their site:Inspired by an article and a test in The New York Times Magazine, the Gender Genie uses a simplified version of an algorithm developed by Moshe Koppel, Bar-Ilan University in Israel, and Shlomo Argamon, Illinois Institute of Technology, to predict the gender of an author. Read more at BookBlog, The New York Times, and The Guardian.Here is a typical result:Words: 702 (NOTE: The genie works best on texts of more than 500 words.) Female Score: 665 Male Score: 773 The Gender Genie thinks the author of this passage is: male!My guess is that my engineering style overpowers my writing!

Photo Hunters - Red
2007-12-01 05:20:00
OK, this is just an excuse to post our family holiday picture. We have a red candy cane arch (which the lights finally gave out this year, check out the shots from last year), and I'm wearing a red jacket. This may very well be the last year we don't photoshop our picture, since it took nearly 30 tries to get this decent shot. It would be so much easier just to take our best faces and put them all together, but then I would know in the back of my head that we don't have a picture perfect family, but a photoshopped one!
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I Survived NaBloPoMo 2007
2007-12-01 04:35:00
Image from Mrs. Fussypants.Here we are at the end of November band I survived NaBloPoMo. It was a blast meeting new friends and keeping up the posting frenzy. I, like many, had a dip is "quality posts", not only from the sheer number of posts (I have managed the feat before), but because I had to travel twice for business this month. I wish I could have spent more time writing and less time relying on meme's , but I did manage to post some long time drafts and bring my total number of posts to 496! The only thing I found a bit limiting is the one post per day rule. Sure I can crank out 30 posts in a month, but not necessarily one a day. When I have time, I can crank out 3 in one night and then actually spend time with my family for a few days. I found myself writing up a backlog posts and then publishing them one a day (especially on weekends). Still it was a great fun. See you all again next year!

Succumbing to the Slot Machine
2007-11-30 03:00:00
This post would only be of interest to someone who has never played a slot machine. If you have, these are not the droids you are looking for, move along...In a half hour break during my Better Software Conference in Las Vegas, I went to Casino Royale to get their free "Fun Book" including $50 in free slot play. I was sure that I had enough time to walk there and back and whiz through "$50" at 2 credits (dollars) to play. I sat down, fed my fake money and started pressing the button. Ding ding ding, 7 7 Bar. Oh, so close! Pressed again. And again. Suddenly, I felt like a lab rat, pressing the button for a prize. The prize of watching the wheels spin and the lights flash hypnotically before my eyes. Every once in a while, I got 3 bars and 10 or 20 extra credits (They only pay out for jackpots). I was so mesmerized, I couldn't even take a straight picture of the machine! I managed to finish my rat experiment in about 10 minutes, in time to get back to the next conference ...
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Adam the Checkers master
2007-11-29 05:25:00
One afternoon after I picked Adam up from a playdate, his friend's mom told me that Adam was an incredible Checker s player. I hadn't played with him in a year or so, and his playing was still a bit shaky then, where I had to show him opportunities and mistakes as we went along. She told me that he was beating her son who was just a beginner so she had to take over. She said that Adam completely analyzed and dominated the entire board and was quite impressive.I had to take her up on her assessment and try a few games with him myself. During our first game, I only half paid attention and he quickly beat me. The next game, I gave my full attention and found myself backed into corners and having to spend long minutes trying to find a winning strategy. I had to use my full concentration and took twice as long as he did for each move and he still won. No stalemates are allowed with him, he wipes you clean off the board. Now, I was impressed! So I upped my game (after all, you'd...
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Wordless Wednesday - Cute in Hats
2007-11-28 01:49:00
Here's Adam almost exactly 7 years ago at 3 weeks old on 11/25/00 (Shh! Don't tell me I look younger, I don't age right?).And here he is now, still cute as a button.
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