Musings of a Filipino LesbianMusings of a Filipino Lesbianon love, long distance relationship, soulmate, joy... a prelusion to my coming out... Articles
i'm a thief
2007-09-26 05:35:00 i stole this from DLanguageArchitect blogger's profile :d An English professor wrote the words: 'A woman without her man is nothing' on the chalkboard and asked his students to punctuate it correctly. All of the males in the class wrote: 'A woman, without her man, is nothing.' All the females in the class wrote: 'A woman: without her, man is nothing.' Indeed, punctuation is powerful! More About: Thief
how to make a beauty
2007-09-18 07:32:00 Do you feel inadequate when you look at perfect beautiful women in media and ads? Watch this. Is this your idea of beauty?"Beauty is self-acceptance. You should be happy of who you are." (Lauren Mayfair, Photographer) More About: Make
traysi
2007-09-17 15:08:00 This is our town's version of a yellow cab. The tricycle (traysi) is the major means of public transportation here. It is a motorcycle with a sidecar and has a canvas roof stretched over metal bars frame, welded to the sidecar. As if hindi pa kayo nakakita nito :d How many passengers do you think can fit into this vehicle? 2? 3? 4? Ideally, tricycles should only accomodate
chasing sunset
2007-09-13 02:34:00 Photo taken yesterday using my N70 at Palawig Beach in San Andres, Catanduanes Doesn't look like a sunset no? :D More About: Sunset
still here
2007-09-08 10:06:00 I'm back. Thanks for the kind words and encouragement. Work, life, love :) and everything have kept me from blogging. All is almost better now. For now, i want to share what i found at post secret. There's a text below this postcard that says: That's why i can't tell my parents that i'm a bisexual. I'm scared it will be the last thing i "do wrong" in their
November 2007 Midwife Board Exam Results
2007-08-09 07:59:00 The Professional Regulation Commission (PRC) announces that 1,723 out of 3,276 passed the Midwife Board /Licensure Exam ination given by the Board of Midwifery in Manila, Baguio, Cebu, Davao, Iloilo, Legazpi, Tacloban, Tuguegarao and Zamboanga this November 2007.The members of the Board of Midwifery who gave the licensure examination are Dr. Rogelio P. Mendiola, Chairman; Dr. Remy B. Dequiña, Dr More About: Results , November 2007
poll result: what do you think of same-sex marriage?
2007-07-27 09:50:00 To those who oppose same-sex marriage, why do you think that gays shouldn't marry? More About: Marriage , Poll , Same-Sex Marriage , Result
minimithi
2007-07-25 05:20:00 (DESIDERATA) Salin ni Pete Lacaba Lumakad nang mahinahon Sa gitna ng ingay at pagkukumahog, at alalahanin Ang kapayapaang maaaring makuha sa katahimikan. Walang isinusuko hanggat maaari, Pakitunguhan nang mabuti ang lahat ng tao. Sabihin ang iyong katotohanan nang tahimik at malinaw; At makinig sa iba, kahit sa nakayayamot at mangmang; Sila man ay may kasaysayan. Iwasan ang mga taong
3 is an odd number
2007-07-13 11:07:00 I was tagged by a fairy. What is with this number, Diwa? Three things that scare me 1. outlive my family 2. talk in front of large audience 3. this (corny no?) Three people who make me laugh 1. my joy 2. my friend, chel 3. my officemate, ger Three things I love 1. playing badminton or table tennis 2. sunsets 3. green mango shake and dark chocolates Three things I hate 1. homophobia 2. More About: Number
let?s get one thing straight, i?m not!
2007-06-29 11:09:00 I usually find Giles Andreae?s work equally clever and entertaining except for this one, which is rather ridiculous.This is an illustration of an archaic and narrow thought. I wouldn?t know what?s on his mind when he made this. Wasn?t he aware that Aristotle and Ptolemy have long provided physical arguments supporting the idea of spherical earth rather than flat and straight? I am tempted to say more, but then, why would I bother to counter his thoughts? Sure, straightness may suggest lot of different things. And maybe, I am just overreacting and tired of the plaguing homophobia in our society.Btw, pardon me Mr. Andreae for my hair is not even straight. More About: Thing , Straight , TRAI
note of gratitude and more
2007-06-26 02:43:00 Thanks to all my friends and fellow bloggers who voted for this blog as Filipino Blog of the Week hosted by Composed Gentleman (CG). As I?ve said before, this is not a Webby but it gives me much pleasure knowing that there are readers who appreciate what I?m doing (while at work, hehehe).I am soooooo happy. At last I won after an nth attempt. What made me win? Here are some tips:1. Copy the PollHost code from CG?s site and post it into your page so your readers can directly/easily vote for you without redirecting them back to CG?s. In this way, you are 90% sure that your reader will vote for you and spare you the probability that you?ll lose that target voter along the way. Net surfers/readers have very short attention span and is most likely to forget about voting once he/she steps into CG?s site, for there are more interesting items there that can distract them from voting. I?m sure CG won?t mind if only an insignificant flow of traffic is sidetracked from his site.2. Think of oth... More About: Note , Gratitude
public service announcement
2007-06-22 03:59:00 About weeks ago, I read an alarming piece of information originally posted by Sassy Lawyer and I want to apologize for sharing this just now.FORMALDEHYDE IN SUNSILK SHAMPOO Sassy Lawyer warned her readers about the formaldehyde ingredient found in Sunsilk shampoo, specifically the Sunsilk Summer Fresh variant. As we all know, formaldehyde or formalin is a chemical used in embalming.?Actually, I already called the Unilever Customer Care and confirm to them that ?Formaldehyde is actually the Formalin, and they said, ?Yes, its Formalin, but they just put to the shampoo, a little amount so that it is still safe to the people?. Pero di ba, kahit little amount lang yung nilalagay nila sa shampoo but if everyday tayo gumagamit, everyday din nadadagdagan ang amount na nilalagay natin sa ating ulo na Formalin.?The author also offered additional information about formaldehyde:A chemical used in manufacturing and chemical industries and as a preservative by anatomists, embalmers, and pathologi... More About: Public Service , Public , Service , Announcement , Public Service Announcement
love sonnet XI
2007-06-19 03:53:00 by Pablo NerudaI crave your mouth, your voice, your hair.Silent and starving, I prowl through the streets.Bread does not nourish me, dawn disrupts me, all dayI hunt for the liquid measure of your steps.I hunger for your sleek laugh,your hands the color of a savage harvest,hunger for the pale stones of your fingernails,I want to eat your skin like a whole almond.I want to eat the sunbeam flaring in your lovely body,the sovereign nose of your arrogant face,I want to eat the fleeting shade of your lashes,and I pace around hungry,sniffing the twilight,hunting for you, for your hot heart,like a puma in the barrens of Quitratue.Happy 17th, Babe. More About: Love , Sonne
an interview with the filipino lesbian
2007-06-15 11:04:00 The last time I was asked to talk about myself was during a job interview ages ago. I was never a beauty pageant candidate to be asked ?what is the essence of being a woman?? thing. You see, my life is as dull as the brown stapler on my table. No one would bother to ask a thing or two to know me better. Unless, there is a willing person whom I can compel to throw me 5 random questions. This ?interview me? meme is from Tita Belle. (1) You seem pretty smart, what is your, educational background?I got my BS degree from UP Diliman during the times when an ikot ride costs 1.25 and the tuition fee per unit is only P300. I returned thereafter for my post graduate diploma. (2) What do you consider the most important attribute of a person that turns you on big time?I love people who are witty. Wit is the great saving thing. It puts us into an intellectual perspective that some things are really important and others are not.(3) Here is a scenario: You have a cat that you lov... More About: Lesbian , Interview , Filipino
forecasting the supply given the constant demand
2007-06-08 03:01:00 By 2026, there will be 60,000 more males than females in the 30-39 age band, and an extra 38,000 men aged 40 to 49. At the moment, women outnumber men by 14,000 and 16,000 respectively. The change in demographics is due to a glut of boys being born over the previous 20 years. (Reader?s Digest, June 2007)It will be raining men in the future. I?m sure a lot of my blogging friends would shout, ?Halleluiah!?Good thing I?m living my life at the moment. More About: Const , Cons , Fore , Forecasting , Demand
exploring your sexual identity
2007-06-01 19:06:00 Klein Sexual Orientation GridI scored an average of 5.14. This means I am predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual 0123456HeterosexualBisexualHomosexualIf you want to explore your own sexual orientation, here is a simple research instrument that was used by Fritz Klein. Klein wanted to test his idea that sexual orientation was a "dynamic, multi-variable process," so he developed the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid. He thought that an individual's sexual orientation was composed of sexual and non-sexual variables which differed over time.It ranked behaviour and "psychologic reactions" on a scale from 0 to 6, with 0 being exclusively heterosexual, 6 being exclusively homosexual, and 3 being equally homosexual/heterosexual.The idea of this excercise is to understand exactly how dynamic a person's sexual orientation can be, as well as how fluid it can be over a person's lifespan. While a person's number of actual homo/heterosexual encounters may be easy to categorize, their... More About: Exploring , Identity
SHIT happens
2007-05-31 04:05:00 Exciting historical information you need to know about shipping manure:In the 16th and 17th centuries, everything had to be transported by ship.I t was also before commercial fertilizer's invention, so large shipments of manure were common. It was shipped dry, because in dry form it weighed a lot less than when wet, but once water (at sea) hit it, it not only became heavier, but the process of fermentation began again, of which a by-product is methane gas. As the stuff was stored below decks in bundles, you can see what could (and did) happen. Methane began to build up below decks and the first time someone came below at night with a lantern, BOOM! Several ships were destroyed in this manner before it was determined just what was happening. After that, the bundles of manure were always stamped with the term "Ship High In Transit" on them which meant for the sailors to stow it high enough off the lower decks so that any water that came into the hold would not touch this volatil... More About: Shit
sympathy vote
2007-05-25 17:16:00 Ang espasyong ito ay inaalay ko sa lahat ng mga kandidatong natalo noong nakaraang eleksyon. Kay Kuya Jun, Cely Wong, Pichay, Goma, Montano, Pacquiao, Singson at sa iba pang kandidato na naghangad na mailuklok sa pwesto. Gayunpaman, inaalay ko rin ito sa taong bayan na siyang itinuturing kong higit na talunan sa lahat. More About: Vote , Path
tutti fruity
2007-05-24 08:53:00 While digging into my e-files, I stumbled upon these pictures of an oddly shaped fruit. I wonder what fruit is this. Would you know? More About: Tutti , Fruity
of ice candy and vote buying
2007-05-13 19:52:00 The mood is festive. The whole neighborhood is still up at midnight which is atypical in this small town. All houses are well lit. Folks are animatedly chatting and children playing. Excitement is in the air. This is always the scenario of the eve of election day here in our town.I don?t know if this is also the case in some places. People don?t stay late at night just to compare notes nor debating over their chosen candidates. You don?t usually hear a sensible conversation. All you can hear is the excited chatter of who will be giving what or how much and when. Everyone is anticipating and counting how much they will get from the candidates like an excited child eager to know what he/she will be receiving from Santa Claus. I have asked one of our neighbors of whom she's going to vote. Without hesitation she replied, ?The one who will give the most?.This culture of vote buying which has long been ingrained in the people?s mind and imbedded in the electoral system is impossible to e... More About: Buying , Candy , Vote
DNA of a filipino lesbian
2007-05-02 08:06:00 Read my VisualDNA? Get your own VisualDNA?Profiling JoyJoyYou?re a bit of a romantic and have a taste for the exotic. You love feeling the sea breeze in your hair, sun on your skin? slip those shoes off?. When it comes to art, you?re definitely unconventional. You like to think differently, always from another perspective. You have a good sense of humor. As for music, it?s the soundtrack to your world. You?ve got to grips with downloading and your mp3 is at hand. It gives more focus and concentration ? you might find it hard to switch off. Your choice of treat reveals real exhaustion. You?re never happier than when you are rugged, and snuggled up, eyes shut. More About: Lesbian , Filipino
incoherence
2007-04-30 10:18:00 I have all the luxury of time. Despite having a hectic schedule of an aliping saguiguilid, I can gratefully say that I have time for everything. I can imagine my friend C nodding approvingly at me as I have already imbibed her mantra. What she didn?t know is that ?everything? is composed of only two things: net surfing and blogging. *evil laugh*Don?t roll your eyes yet. Net surfing and blogging are productive activities unless you don?t know your limit. Just recently, I stumbled upon Belle while reading Julia?s blog. I found out that she is a kababayan. It is always a pleasant surprise to meet fellow bloggers who came from the same little island in a larger blogosphere. Imagine heaven (or hell depending on your preference), a newly arrived soul swarmed by gazillion other souls would want to see familiar faces. You know it is possible but with small likelihood to happen sooner. When it happened sooner, two souls feel like they are in heaven even if they are someplace else.Why did I e... More About: Here
vision of a sunset
2007-04-24 08:51:00 I'm having a blogger's block so I thought of posting these pictures taken during one of those trips to the beach when I'm bummed. What do you think?Palawig Beach, San Andres, Catanduanes / 2006with my Kawasaki Nexus Aura and my Sony More About: Sunset , Sion , Visi , Vision , Visio
brokeback mountain
2007-04-20 09:16:00 A successful rancher died and left everything to his devoted wife. She was determined to keep the ranch, but knew very little about ranching, so she placed an ad in the newspaper for a ranch hand. Two cowboys applied for the job. One was gay and the other a drunk. She thought long and hard about it, and when no one else applied she decided to hire the gay guy, figuring it would be safer to have him around the house than the drunk.He proved to be a hard worker who put in long hours every day and knew a lot about ranching. For weeks, the two of them worked hard and the ranch was doing very well. Then one day, the rancher's widow said "You have done a really good job, and the ranch looks great. You should go into town and kick up your heels. The hired hand readily agreed and went into town on Saturday night.He returned around 2:30 am, and upon entering the room, he found the rancher's widow sitting by the fireplace with a glass of wine, waiting for him. She quietly called him over to... More About: Back , Brokeback Mountain , Mountain , Mount
a kiss that speaks volumes
2007-04-18 04:32:00 How did it happen that their lips came together? How does it happen that birds sing, that snow melts, that the rose unfolds, that the dawn whitens behind the stark shape of trees on the quivering summit of the hill? A kiss, and all was said. - Victor HugoAntoinette Taus and Bianca King caught in a snapshot. Another potential FLs? Or that, they are just whispering in each other's mouth?What do you think?Photo credit: Pinoyspy.net More About: Kiss , Speak , That , Volumes , Peak
correlating my left-handedness with my sexuality
2007-04-17 07:17:00 CSUF study says gays more likely than straights to be left-handedMen and lesbians are more likely to be left-handed than heterosexuals. The preference for left-handedness isn't huge. But it's distinct, and it might have a basis in human biology.So says Richard Lippa, a veteran Cal State Fullerton psychologist who has been poring over the sex, gender and behavioral data contained in a BBC Internet survey that involved more than 200,000 people. The "Beeb" used the data as part of its highly praised 2005 documentary "Secrets of the Sexes." And it comes amid growing efforts by scientists to examine everything from the length of a person's fingers to hair patterns for signs of sexual orientation. more More About: Left , Sexuality , Sexual , Ness , Hand
rainbow quotation
2007-04-16 01:55:00 My lesbianism is an act of Christian charity. All those women out there praying for a man, and I'm giving them my share. ~Rita Mae Brown More About: Rainbow , Rainbo
better vision
2007-04-13 05:33:00 My new pair of eyeglasses. GAP frame with Transitions® Lenses .Happy weekend to all! More About: Better , Sion , Visi , Vision , Bett
i am a sinner
More articles from this author:2007-04-04 08:34:00 I am weak as i cannot abstain from blogging,I am a sinner because i derive pleasure from it.Dear God, forgive me for posting this entry.Now, im afraid there are multitude of us, sinners. Repent before it is too late! 1, 2, 3 |



