I am me
2009-09-16 04:13:00 I left a narcissistic personality disorder, and he made it his mission to destroy everything in my life because I did leave him for good, for ever, he took all my money, destroyed my business, tried to destroy my relationship with my twin sister and friends. I was prepared and unprepared, I was prepared in the sense that I knew that he wasn't going to stop until he totally felt that I was anihilated, and when I was left, broke, homeless, bankrupt,and emotionally scarred for life, he has dismissed me completely. I didn't win the battle with him, but I won the war with myself, I know he was awful and disgusting and not someone I could have a happy life with. Money, career, material possessions could ever make up for the feeling that you will be better off without him and his disgusting behaviours. It has been 8 weeks since I filed a police report against him, 8 weeks since he destroyed my old life, 8 weeks since I have had to listen to him. And I am still picking up the pieces of my...
Love Narcissist
2009-07-26 17:21:00 I need to leave my narcissistic man. He's done everything from taping us having sex to posting it. I was on the airwaves talking about my most private parts and made me the laughing stock of the land. I'm I guess emotionally unstable. I love this wicked man and can't leave him. I tried once I ended up at a mental institution.- Tanya
Narcississm - Its all about Him
2009-05-21 16:05:00 Blog talk radio interview with Barbara from Sanctuary for the Abused, and she is interviewed about Narcissism. All About Him speaks about what is a narcissist, and how to identify a narcissistic behavior.This isn't a gender issue again, and its a good interview if you have questions about Narcissism.
It Takes Two To Tango!
2009-04-25 17:44:00 I have heard and read way to often the 'two to tango' phrase when people were confronted by hurtful cruel acts of a person acting abusive. Remember ABUSE IS A PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR! I will admit at times early before I knew what I was dealing with I tended to engage with abusive people when I should have just choose another form of communication. I don't know how many times I have heard people state to others that they don't have to fight. You make a choice NOT TO! What people didn't realize is that can backfire on you as well. It reminds me of the time in school in which a bully approached me in the lunch room, and I spoke to my mother about my fear. She told me I had a choice to turn and walk away. I told her this person would jump me at that point. Instead of acknowledging that point she told me not to be silly about this.I think I learned from childhood how to detach from a situation, and I have to say it has its place. I won't tell you its the best way to handle t...
Edward Mast wrote a new blog post: An Introduction to a Narcissist
2009-03-04 20:33:00 Edward Mast wrote a new blog post: An Introduction to a Narcissist Only a Narcissist would announce a discovery such as this to the entire world and feel a small sense of pride from doing so. Through the love and generosity of a dear friend, I now understand why my life and reality, while seemingly happy and fulfilling on the surface, is marred by a lifetime of control, ...
By: BackBeat
Does God Hate Divorce?
2008-08-15 15:42:00 Johanpdx Blog had an interesting article about this called, Does God Hate Divorce? The article spoke about how pastors can use scripture from Malachi in order to NOT deal with domestic violence within the church! The passage from Malachi is just as much about the community's unfaithfulness to God as about any individual covenant violation, but, too often the abusive husband (and his sometimes unwitting confederate, the usually male pastor) find it convenient to use Malachi's words exclusively to bind the victim. That's the part I never understood! Why intend to force them to stay, and NOT address the portion that making them - to put simplistically - happy, safe and in peace? In most cases victims wish the abuse to stop, but not always the marriage to end. When they realize the domestic abuse isn't going to end or even be addressed that is when idea of fleeing comes up. To me this type of approach is to manipulate someone to stay, and is that really want God would wish fro...
Perfect Example of Narcissism
2008-07-14 16:56:00 This man makes me sick to listen to his ME ME ME attitude of pure Narcissism! Gale Warnings posted this audio, and has more information about these messages on the blog. You change the situation around a bit, and it sounds like some preachers I have heard about! I found a list called the Narcissiam checklist for pastors, but I think it applies in other areas of our lifes as well! I thought it was a perfect example of Narcissism! What do you think?
Family Court Crisis; Our Children at Risk
2008-06-10 18:36:00 This video below is about 43 minutes, and it shows the breakdown of the legal system in the family court. Along with personnel it shows the stories of 2 ladies and 1 gentlemen, and how the system isn't working for the rights of the children. How they want to bring about chance, instead of lining the pockets of lawyers, mediators, therapists and the rest. 2008 Family Law Documentary www.CenterForJudicialExcellence-.orgAs part of our ongoing effort to educate and engage the community, the Center for Judicial Excellence recently produced a 42-minute documentary addressing the serious systemic breakdown of our family courts. Family Court Crisis: Our Children At Risk features personal testimony from individuals who have experienced the pitfalls of our family law system and expert evaluations of what has gone wrong. The video was screened on the East Coast as part of the fifth annual Battered Mothers Custody Conference on January 12, 2008. www.BatteredMothersCustodyConfe-rence.orgAdvocacyW...
Missiah Now Senator Narcissist
2008-06-06 03:01:00 Could Obama be any more narcissistic? The nation’s first African American candidate for president also shared his thoughts on his monumental feat. “I stand before you as the Democratic nominee for President of the United States of America. I’m very proud of that. I’m very proud of that, and I’m proud of America for giving me this opportunity because obviously we all know that it’s a sign of enormous growth in this country. But we’ve still got work to do. Just winning the nomination is not the endpoint. The end point isn’t even winning the general election. The endpoint is making your lives better. That’s the reason that we are in this, that’s why we’re in this auditorium here today,” he said. Humble, eh? When I first heard about that little blurb while taking a shower after some golf, my first thought was “gee, can the guy be any more in to himself?” He’s not happy, thrilled, excited, all those adjectives along that line. No, he’s prou...
By: Pirate's Cove
Divorce Court With Juanita Bynum
2008-05-22 15:39:00 I heard about this, and saw that it was on Youtube! Juanita Bynum on Divorce Court 1Juanita bynum on divorce court 2Juanita bynum on divorce Court 3Juanita Byum on Divorce Court 4Juanita Bynum on Divorce Court 5Juanita Bynum on Divorce Court 6Juanita Bynum on Divorce Court 7Juanita Bynum on Divorce Court 8 Juanita Bynum On Divorce Court 9
When Narcissist Attack - Part III - Sometimes I Feel Like An Aborted Fetus!
2008-04-29 04:50:00 NARCISSISTS AREN’T JUST DEM OR GOPOne of the great third party narcissists, Chuck Baldwin, pulled off something of a coup this weekend and is now the Constitution Party’s nominee for POTUS. This is excellent news for John McCain because it is the very worst thing that could happen to Bob Barr’s proposed Libertarian Ego Fest. This could be the best of all possible solutions to the whole "Third Party" threat of any of these yahoos. These twerps are going to cancel one another's votes. They are vying for the same voter - the chip-on-the-shoulder, sore-head, dis-functional, hate-everything-different voter. ...
What Makes Narcissists Tick: "Responsibility" Wrap: Narcissist Hurts You to
2008-04-09 20:14:00 What Makes Narcissists Tick: "Responsibility" Wrap: Narcissist Hurts You to Make YOU Guilty of the Sin of Feeling the PainBarbara of SANCTUARY FOR THE ABUSED gave me a link to this article referenced above. Is a very well written and to the point article! Thank you Barbara! She has an awesome blog, and a HUGE library of articles, references and links on all kinds of aspects of abuse. I recommend her blog very highly, and she is a true person herself as well! She actually inspired me to start my blog!Below is a part of the article, and I encourage you to go and read it on the author's blog to get the whole message! Christians are often told in abusive relationships that their FEELINGS get in the way to much. This article helps wipe that myth away, and tell us that there is nothing wrong with feelings. I think that is very important Don't you?But narcissists aren't the only people who refuse to grow up and quit clinging to the cherished myth that they can make un...
Darling Narcissist
2008-04-06 13:14:00 Amy always saidkill time beforetime kills you& I guessthat's whatshe was doingthe night they found herdead 19 year old bodycrumpled on a park benchlike a winosbrown paper bagseems she snortedWhite-Outfrom a Coca-Cola canthe blood vesselsin her brain explodedlike cut-rate fireworksAnd in this agewhen punk rock anthemssell wireless cell phoneson prime time TVI can imagine herdecked out inher 4th Avenuethrift store garbas she fires a Johnny Rottensneer into the camera& shouts:"White-Out erasesall mistakes away"RC Edrington
By: Bar Stool Vision
Is Your Priest A Narcissist?
2008-01-02 15:44:00 I thought this was an extremely good post from Fr. Eric Nicolai; it talks about self centeredness in ministry and priestly narcissism leading to liturgical abuses. Summarizes Fr. Eric, "This time Dr. Ditz examines all the post-conciliar deviations and abuses in the liturgy from the psychological point of view, not from the doctrinal point of view. He sets out to understand the psychological
By: LAMLand
Narcissist joke and humor
2007-12-03 13:57:00 Angelina: Whenever I see a mirror, I can never resist looking into it for at least a few minutes to admire my flawless complexion. Do you think that's vanity? Julia: No! More like imagination. Jokes and humor category: Narcissist jokes and humor * * * * * Visit http://j4jokes.blogspot.com for more fun.
By: J 4 JOKES
Narcissistic and Reckless Arrogance: Pelosi and the Armenian Genocide Resol
2007-10-18 04:23:00 There is nothing that so cries out for justice as the forgotten who are slaughtered and whose deaths are left in thunderous silence of receding history. The pain for families only barely eases with the passing of decades or even centuries. This last 150 years has seen mind-twisting inhumanity. The Holocaust weighs on us with ...
THE CYBER NARCISSIST
2007-09-28 02:11:00 The Cyber Narcissist(A Profile of the Mind of an Online Predator - Fighter)by: S. VakninTo the narcissist, the Internet is an alluring and irresistible combination of playground and hunting grounds, the gathering place of numerous potential sources of narcissistic supply, a world where false identities are the norm and mind games the bon ton. And it is beyond the reach of the law, the pale of social norms, the strictures of civilized conduct.The somatic finds cyber-sex and cyber-relationships aplenty. The cerebral claims false accomplishments, fake skills, erudition and talents. Both, if minimally communicative, end up at the instantly gratifying epicenter of a cult of fans, followers, stalkers, erotomaniacs, denigrators, and plain nuts. The constant attention and attendant quasi-celebrity feed and sustain their grandiose fantasies and inflated self-image.The Internet is an extension of the real-life Narcissistic Pathological Space but without its risks, injuries, and disappointment...
Are YOU Dating a Narcissist? Find Out Here?
2007-08-31 15:15:00 "I’m In Love - With Myself!" by Melody Brooke, MA, LPC, LMFT This past month one of my dearest friends fell into a familiar trap. She found herself head over heels in love with someone who was even more in love with himself. It took several weeks of bending her mind around the idea that what ...
Are YOU Dating a Narcissist? Find Out Here?
2007-08-31 15:15:00 "I’m In Love - With Myself!" by Melody Brooke, MA, LPC, LMFT This past month one of my dearest friends fell into a familiar trap. She found herself head over heels in love with someone who was even more in love with himself. It took several weeks of bending her mind around the idea that what ...
The Next Narcissist-in-Chief?
2007-08-13 05:03:00 It's All About ThemBy Paul KrugmanThe New York TimesAsk not what your country can do for you ? ask what you can do for your father?s political campaign.Last week, at one of Mitt Romney?s ?Ask Mitt? forums, a woman in the audience asked Mr. Romney whether any of his five sons are serving in the military and, if not, when they plan to enlist.The candidate replied with a rambling attempt to change the subject, but near the end he let his real feelings slip. ?It?s remarkable how we can show our support for our nation,? he said, ?and one of the ways my sons are showing support for our nation is helping to get me elected, because they think I?d be a great president.?Wow. The important point isn?t the fact that Mr. Romney?s sons aren?t in uniform ? although it is striking just how few of those who claim to believe that we?re engaged in a struggle for our very existence think that they themselves should be called on to make any sacrifices. The point is, instead, that Mr. Romney apparently ...
Narcissist as Slanderer
2007-06-30 13:58:00 Courtesy of Barbara at Santuary for the AbusedOn their way through life, narcissists leave a trail of trashed good names in their wake. This is a serious problem in the workplace, for narcissists often destroy the careers of their betters.The narcissist is a slanderer partly to get attention. (Notice that the finger-pointer in the picture above has his other hand raised to get attention.) But he is a slanderer mainly because he must be one to create his phony image. He makes himself look good by making others look bad.Yet narcissists are different: they are hypocrites = for looks only. They think a thing ain't wrong if they get away with it. In other words, they confuse appearances with reality. Consequently, they have no conscience ? just an unconscience. That is, they repress their conscience. Hence, what they do in the dark is shockingly different than what they do in the light of day. These are the people who put make-up on their image a little too thick in spots. Also, normal ...
By: Elder Abuse
Divorcing A Narcissist Or A Psychopath
2007-05-30 16:40:00 Contributed by Sam Vaknin, Ph.D, author of “Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited”. This article is meant to be a general guide to seeking and finding help. It does not contain addresses, contacts, and phone numbers. It is not specific to one state or country. Rather, it describes options and institutions which are common the world ...
Responsible
2007-05-26 03:14:00 As I mentioned in checklist that narcissists are probably the most responsible people, just like this dialogue in Happy Pie: - Who is the most responsible?- The business person, like me.Narcissists are the most successful people, not only because they are smart, but also, they are responsible and hard-working. Except for Adolf Hitler and a few other narcissists who made huge mistakes (destructive ones), narcissists are still undeniable good candidates for leaders. Be sure to pick out a productive narcissist.In my humble opinion, behind or beside some elected non-narcissistic leaders, there is likely a narcissist who is the real "conductor".My point is, to be too close to a narcissist, especially a destructive narcissist, as a lover, spouse or follower, you need to be a perfect "masochist" and make sure he / she is a productive narcissist who deserves your sacrifice; otherwise, to stay away is wise and the wisest is to "keep him / her at an arm's length", and you will be benefited w...
Checklist
2007-05-26 02:01:00 Of course narcissists also have other traits, but I see them as minor ones; they may help you spot a narcissist, however, they are not vital enough to convince you to stay far away from them. No one is perfect; we are not sages but humans, and the following mentioned, in my humble opnion, is OK to get along with. 1. a narcissist has fantasies of doing something great or being famous, and often expects to be treated as if these fantasies had already come true. (my note: that's probably why they do succeed finally)2. a narcissist has very little interest in what other people are thinking or feeling, unless he or she wants something from them. (my note: you also do want something from them, do you?)3. a narcissist is a name dropper. (my note: not only narcissists are namedroppers)4. To a narcissist it is very important to live in the right place and associate with the right people. (my note: everyone does)5. a narcissist takes advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals....
Narcissist vs. Guardian
2007-05-25 15:54:00 Most people are in some way narcissistic or have the trait, but the "narcissists" we are discussing here are those whose narcissism has been enlarged to the extreme extent that it severely affects people around them. There's a theory out there that believes that most well-known successful people are narcissists, while I have a different view. In that theory, all those famous people who have different temperaments as defined in Dr. Keirsey's theory, are labeled as narcissists, including Bill Gates and the like, which I can't seem to agree. I may not have the right to say so, in that, I had no chance living in a life close to them to proof it. However, in that theory, it mentions four types of people: narcissist, sensualist, utilitarian and marketing, and they are exactly what Dr. Keirsey describes as guardian, idealist, rational and artisan, in this case, I would say, Bill Gates is not a narcissist, at most, he is a narcissistic rational.The theory also classifies narcissist as pr...
Poor Loser
2007-05-23 22:53:00 We all make mistakes, do we? But with a narcissist (I will try to use more "a narcissist" instead of "narcissists", because obviously "one" is way enough), you should never make a mistake. It sounds good in some way, in that, with such a narcissist, you will be or at least towards the most perfect person, however, as a narcissist, he / she will never admit he / she makes mistakes. It's not that narcissists, they don't make mistakes, on the contrary, they make the same amount of mistakes, or even worse, when they insist on their correctness, they may end up with a wrong decision. As long as there's a mistake, the narcissist will blame you, but never blame himself / herself, even if the fault is extremely apparent at his / hers. How will you deal with this? I suggest you never to argue with a narcissist over who is wrong if you do want to be with a him / her, since you will never win and the arguing never helps solve problems. It really doesn't matter who admits who is wrong, beca...
Narcissist 3
2007-05-10 04:07:00 WifeSince narcissists pursue admiration rather than love, the future wife they are chasing is usually the standard virtuous and helpful wife and mom of children. The wife must be beautiful and gentle; she is the one who is taking care of everything for him silently. If it means that she must give up her own career, then she should. Behind every narcissist is a great self-sacrifice woman. She must be perfect and does everything perfectly. This is not the end of the story. Some day the narcissist will meet another narcissist and fall in love with each other. Because there is a gentle woman who is there silently taking care of everything for him, the narcissist can totally enjoy the good time with his new narcissistic lover. Please read a poem from the ex-wife of a typical narcissist, a.k.a., sadist.- to be continued
Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman And Robert Pressman - The Narcissistic Family:
2007-04-27 08:37:00 The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment by Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman and Robert M. Pressman In this compelling book, the authors present an innovative therapeutic model for understanding and treating adults from emotionally abusive or neglectful families? families the authors call narcissistic. Narcissistic families have a parental system that is, for whatever reason (job stress, alcoholism, drug ...
Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman And Robert Pressman - The Narcissistic Family:
2007-04-26 11:52:00 The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment by Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman and Robert M. Pressman In this compelling book, the authors present an innovative therapeutic model for understanding and treating adults from emotionally abusive or neglectful families? families the authors call narcissistic. Narcissistic families have a parental system that is, for whatever reason (job stress, alcoholism, drug ...
Forgot to Trash Matt Lauer the Narcissist
2007-04-18 22:24:00 I'll have to go to the TIVO to get the exact verbiage but Matt Lauer was on Dateline Tuesday night proclaiming his own import.Yes, the nightly news delivered through the prism of your celebrity.Yes, thank you so very much, it all has meaning now. You are so terribly important.
Sensitive Libra Man Has Rude Narcissistic Boyfriend: Why?
2007-03-28 12:00:00 Dear Elsa, I am a gay male Libra approaching my two and a half year mark with my Libra boyfriend. I understand that I am sensitive, empathetic person who despises vulgarity and cruelty. The only thing I don't understand is why my boyfriend does not stand for the same things as I do. He is the complete opposite of me: stubborn, rude, vain, shallow, and narcissistic. Sometimes I honestly believe that he is evil because he is an October Libra and I am a September Libra. I just don't understand why we clash so much when our sign says we are the ultimate couple. I feel invincible with him, but when it is bad his comments shatter my self worth. I love public affection but he doesn't seem too big on it. I like to relax with a movie or an article while he likes to party and get drunk with friends. I am a college graduate and he is a high school drop out. Honestly Elsa, what am I missing here? I can only put up with my significant other's failures for so long, then I may give up alt...
So, at bottom,
the nature of the narcissist is the n
2007-01-15 06:29:01 So, at bottom, the nature of the narcissist is the nature of a predator who preys on his own kind . The importance of that fact cannot be overstated. The brain of a predator just does not relate to the living soul of its prey. If you don't believe this, just watch PBS. Watch the behavior, and look into the eyes, of predatory animals while they're making a kill. There's nothing there. They are like machines at that moment. They must be, or they couldn't do it. In other words, Nature has equipped them with hard-wired circuitry in the brain that takes over the moment prey is sighted when they are hungry. It suppresses what we could observe in that animal only a minute earlier while it was playing with its siblings or a waving leaf on a twig, tenderly nuzzling its offspring or mate. Perhaps it was even grieving over the death of a member of the pack. But that's all gone the moment it sights prey while hungry. Then suddenly it's a killing machine. It likes killing. N...
The Narcissist as Slanderer
On their way through
2007-01-15 06:20:01 The Narcissist as Slanderer On their way through life, narcissists leave a trail of trashed good names in their wake. This is a serious problem in the workplace, for narcissists often destroy the careers of their betters. Narcissistic managers and administrators often are serial bullies , who destroy the career and credibility of anyone who doesn't participate in a lynching and therefore is a threat to blow the whistle. Here are two PERFECT EXAMPLES: Click HERE and Click HERE The narcissist is a slanderer partly to get attention. (Notice that the finger-pointer in the picture above has his other hand raised to get attention.) But he is a slanderer mainly because he must be one to create his phony image. He makes himself look good by making others look bad. Yet narcissists are not the only people who create a false image of themselves. If you want to call it close, virtually everybody does, even that paragon of honesty, Prince Hamlet. In a world that s...
Bush: narcissistic, paranoid, antisocial and delusionalIn On
2007-01-14 12:03:02 Bush: narcissistic, paranoid, antisocial and delusionalIn One Flew Over the White House? (http://www.smirkingchimp.com/t-hread/4706) on The Smirking Chimp, Stephen Pizzo...
The Narcissist
2006-12-02 15:19:07 1. Narcissist is an excessive love or admiration of oneself. more definitions..2. Hehe..narcissist tuh side topic jer..jangan ader yang terase plak..hahaha! [giler jap]..it's been 8 years now since the last time I blogged..hahaha! [gelak sorang2 depan PC]..3. So sorry tak dapat visit korang nyer blog sebab I was having a busy week..not really busy sebenarnye..in fact, lagi rilek dari keje yang dulu..tp kefetikan ku membuatkan ku in the whole wik tido at most kul 10.30pm..*duh*btw, fetik [dimelayukan] is fatigue, kepenatan yang melampau..;p4. Tak, ku bukan kejer kat tempat baru, ku sebenarnyer join 5-month trainee programme yang ku personally rase berbaloi utk bidang aku neh..ramai gak member cakap sumthing like "Laa, ko da terer apsal nak join program cenggini?"..bagi aku, program cenggini is a long term investment..5. Raya ari tuh ramai gak yang mintak duit raya..since ku blom bagi lagi, nah, khas untuk korang, ikhlas dari ku..:)1. Pakai Adobe Photoshop, hilangkan perkataan 'CONT...
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