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Life Expectancy.
2007-08-15 07:46:00
The United State's life expectancy is up. Our deaths are down. Our # 1 killer is down. Yet we are in the middle of an obesity epidemicThe US life expectancy is falling behind other countries. Who should we blame? Lack of insurance, and of course, OBESITY! "The U.S. has the resources that allow people to get fat and lazy,"said Paul Terry, an assistant professor of epidemiology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. "We have the luxury of choosing a bad lifestyle as opposed to having one imposed on us by hard times." That's about the stupidest bullshit I've ever heard. Millions of people around the world have the ability to make the same choices. I hardly see that as a reason to blame ourselves for being fat. Adults in the United States have one of the highest obesity rates in the world. Nearly a third of U.S. adults 20 years and older are obese, while about two-thirds are overweight, according to the National Center for Health Statistics. But lets back up for a second. Th...
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Another kid has complication from obesity related surgery
2007-08-15 02:29:00
A couple in South Texas is suing a doctor after their daughters obesity surgery. I can't believe a parent would put their kid through that kind of torture. I can't believe that a parent would want so much for their child to be thin, they will subject them to surgery to "fix" them. I feel so sad for this child, in so many ways. I wonder if he or she was made to feel less of a person, that they were bad or not worthy of being happy. I can't imagine projecting such fat hate onto a child, especially when as a parent you should be setting an example of love, compassion, and acceptance. How do you force your child into that kind of world? How can you teach a child that there is something wrong with them just because they are fat? I hope this kid figures it out one day.
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Shoes.com
2007-08-11 19:40:00
I have been wearing these shoes all summer. Ive worn them to work at the office, Ive worn them to the beach, Ive worn them several times a week. They are so comfortable, and I was able to snagg them for $20 earlier this year. I also give Shoes .com two thumbs up.

Old Navy Goes to the Office
2007-08-11 09:29:00
I was browsing OldNavy .com and I was surprised to find that they have some tasteful business separates. This is something I would wear....Women's Plus Belted Pencil Skirt $32.50Women's Plus Tailored Shirt $29.50Women's Quilted Tote $19.50 Women's Pointy-Toe Sling back Flats $16.50 Women's Faux Pearl Choker $9.50 Total $107.50I am currently in love with pencil skirts. They work on such a wide variety of body shapes. It can be dressy enough for the office, or casual if you please.Igigi also has a great resource on what a pencil skirt looks like, and what kind of shape it works on. Just click on the section that says "shapes" for more info.I love button down tops, I own many different colors, styles, and shapes. It can be dress with a nice skirt or pant, or many can be casual with jeans or khaki's. A lot of times I wear a cami or some type of tank top underneath The bag is functional for work. You can throw your papers in there, a lap top or even your lunch. There is...
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Bitten by Sarah Jessica Parker (sold at Steve and Barry's.
2007-08-09 08:05:00
Bitten....by disappointment. As you may of heard, Sarah Jessica Parker released a line of clothing called "Bitten". Its being sold at a store called Steve and Barry's. You can read more about her line at the BittenSJP website. My take? Total disappointment, for me. The jeans go up to a size 22 and I could not even zip them up. Im typically a 22-24. I tried on the xxl tops and they didnt fit either. The regular Steve and Barry's size 22 and XXL don't fit either, so it was a disappointment all around. The quality and style of the items were similar to Old Navy, but cost less.Looks like I will be sticking with Old Navy where I can fit into many xl and xxl tops. And I never seem to go wrong with Lane Bryant jeans.

SizeAppeal.com
2007-08-09 03:27:00
Grand in green and pink $24.99I love this pink and green together. LOVE IT. Tara in blue $34Tara in Pink $34This print is made of awesome!
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Lilli Jean
2007-08-08 04:46:00
I am pretty much in love with the dresses over at Lilli Jean The dresses go up to 4X, but according to their size chart, that is 18-20. For $25 they state any of our garments can be custom made, just for you, according to your unique measurements! The whole retro attitude of the clothing? Loving it! Check out 2 of my favorites (there are many more on their website!!)Gwena Dress The "Gwena Dress" is the epitome of 50's era lady-like style. Made from crisp cotton fabric with lots of body and a vintage bird print toile on a soft ivory background. Invisible back zipper. V-neckline, front and back. Full swingy skirt. Removable grosgrain ribbon belt at waist. An absolutely delightful dress! Fabrics: 100% Cotton - ...

Silver Jewelry Club
2007-08-06 23:05:00
I have been talking about Silver JewleryClub .com to anyone who will listen, for oh a year or so now. If you like sterling silver jewelry, this is the place to go. The items are "free", you just pay $5.99 shipping on each item. No, you can't combine items.The way it works is pretty neat. The site has 4 items up at a time, with one falling off every 5-10 minutes. Im not even going to tell you how much time Ive spent watching the items change!i'm posting the photos of all the items Ive bought. I have been 100% happy with the representation and quality of every item I've gotten.Oval Cut Swiss Blue Topaz Ring Sterling Silver GemstoneGenuine Swiss Blue Topaz 1.00 caratOval cut 7x5mmvibrant color & clean clarityRingpure sterling silver stamped .9252.28 gramsCrown width North/South: 1/4 inchapproximate finger size 9 (available only in this size)contemporary design with channel settingincludes a gift pouch Oval Trillion Garnet Drop Earrings Sterling Silver Gemst...
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Carson Kressley
2007-08-06 18:27:00
Not only am I a fat ally, I'm a gay ally as well. Imagine my excitement when I discovered that Carso n Kressley not only has a clothing line out, but it goes up to 3x/28W! Carson with Jai and Kyan from Queer Eye for the Straight GuyI just love adorable gay men! Its being offered through QVC.com. In fact, a large majority of QVC clothing goes up to 3x. This maybe a hit or miss experience, but exciting none the less. Price wise, I do find it on the expensive side. While I would consider spending $100 on a nice jacket or dress, my budget conscious brain tells me to steer clear of $80 shirts. I am considering buying a jacket for the fall, and of course I'll let ya'll know how it works out. Ive included some pics of my favorite pieces. Carson Kressley at QVC.com Item Number A7113 Perfect by Carson Kressley Trench Coat w/Lining Retail Value $135.00 QVC Price $112.00 Introductory Price $101.88 Item Number A7116 ...
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Old Navy Trapeze Tank Top
2007-08-06 01:37:00
A few weeks ago I picked up two Old Navy Trapeze Tank Tops. It is super comfortable, thin but not too thin, and its a perfect length for me. It ends right past my belly. I dont generally like things that fall mid belly or too far past by belly. The way it gathers at the top, combined with the slight v-neck makes for an attractive cut but not over the top with cleavage. I have worn them alone with a strapless bra, and under other shirts with a bra. Both ways work well. I was surprised to find that I fit into the XL. I've noticed that a lot of their cotton/stretch type tops fit me in both XL and XXL sizes. For reference, I am a 22-24/44C, so this is more than generous. Perhaps this is the trade off for removing plus sizes from the stores. I purchased one in black and one in white, but I got them on clearance for $7 each. This one is currently running "reduced" at $15.
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Casual Outfit - Purple and Black
2007-08-05 11:36:00
When I first saw this top I thought it would be perfect for a casual night out. Maybe a night out with the girls, or a get together with family. I combined it with a wristlet because I prefer to carry a wristlet if Im out at a bar or resturant. As long as I can fit my ID, cash, cell phone, and keys in it, I am set. I dont have to worry about lugging around a bag all night. Urban Black Leather Wristlet by Avenue. $24. Black patent flats. By Classified and on sale at Cutesy Shoes. $5.99 The Cora Top by b & lu. Described as a "brownish, mauvish, plumish" color. $38Amethyst color dangle earings by Lane Bryant. $9.95 Solid cuff gaucho pant in black by Lane Bryant. $44.50 Total: $122.44
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Fun with Orange!
2007-08-04 23:34:00
Orange has always reminded me of summer. To me, its bright, fun, and exciting. I really like the pattern of this dress, and how you can play it up with orange, white or browns. The dress is by Lane Bryant and runs in sizes 18-26. It currently costs $49.95I found the orange shoes on amazon.com. They are called "hype womens glitz sandal" and are currently running on sale at $41.89. This is a 70% savings off the list price of $149.95. This is a fun and sexy shoe. Open toe, strappy, and orange. This is a hot summer shoe! This shoe is offered in a variety of sizes. The bracelets are by Torrid. I lke the mix of brown, oranges, and yellows, combined with different textures and shapes. This is a 6-pack of bracelets and is currently $9. I chose a brown handbag from payless.com. Lets be honest. Handbags can get expensive, but I am on a budget. Payless's line of handbags are fun, functional and affordable. This brown bag is only $22.99. I really am in love with the earings I f...
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Plus size clothing (red and pink outfit)!
2007-08-04 21:17:00
Plus size clothing does have to be frumpy or ugly, and it doesn't have to fit you like a tent. It doesn't have to be expensive, and it doesn't have to be in dull colors!I am constantly looking around various websites, checking out clothing, shoes, and accessories. I love bright colors. I love patterns. I love dressing up. Today I bring you fun with pink and red! What a lovely summer outfit! Hot Dot Dress by Blue Plate $54Fuschia Aldo42 pumps by Wild Diva $14.99Siam crystal teardrop earrings by 1928 $16Siam Teardrop Pendant by 1928 $18Silver Linen Clutch by Xhilaration $14.99 Total: $117.98 Alight.com offers a lot of fun, hip, and bright plus sized clothing. They have pants, tops, dresses and more. Wild Diva is a line of shoes I came across a few years ago, and they offer a ton of funky, fun shoes. I happened across 1928 costume jewelry about 7 years ago while working in retail. I'd have to say they are one of my favorite costume jewelery companies, and I find their styl...
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Where does my money go?
2007-05-29 13:48:00
Where does my money go?Lane Bryant-This is my good ol standby, and the number one place I shop. I love a bargain, and its not too hard to get one here. I dont normally pay full price, Im on the mailing (both snail and email) to get coupons. The coupons are what seal the deal for me. It usually $25 off a $75 purchase, $50 off a $150 purchase, or $75 off a $225 purchase. Once in a while I'll also get the $15 off a $15 purchase. Several times a year they run a promo called "Real Woman Dollars". For every $100 you spend, you get a $25 off a $50 purchase to be used during a specific time. I like Lane Bryant because they offer a wide selection of pants in petite sizes. I caught a great deal a few weeks back; all pants were buy one get one free. Considering most pairs cost $30-$50, this was a fantastic deal. I also live not too far from a Lane Bryant Outlet store. The outlet store is pretty different than the regular store, and you cant use the normal coupons there (you must g...
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First Post / Why I am here
2007-05-29 05:19:00
I maintain a livejournal but I felt like I wanted to branch out more and talk about things I find important. I think that I use livejournal more as a space to vent frustrations, talk with friends, and socialize with communities. I like it for what it is, but I've been burning to connect to others who are in the same state of mind as me.This blog, first and foremost, is fat positive. That should go without saying, but I am going to put it out there. I don't have a strict plan of where this ship is going, but it will be a place I can talk about my "fat experience". My fat experience is not your fat experience, but I hope you enjoy the ride anyway. I won't tolerate hate, and I encourage discussion.I am fortunate that I grew up in a family that did not force some sort of idea that I had to be thin to be of any self worth. I did, however, let other people around me, the media, and those I thought knew best, to warp my views on things. From the classmates that made fun of the f...
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