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Hot Fresh Links!
2007-09-24 15:18:00 Have to run out today for a LONG day of work, so enjoy these hot fresh links on a platter:Red Carpet Style AwardsThe Fashion BombStained CoutureLook BookObsessed HooplaFab SugarI Like Her Style!Keep it strictly stylish! More About: Links , Fresh
Who Looked More Fab?
2007-09-23 21:00:00 in this Thread Social mod shift dress: J Lo while shopping at Barneys in early August or the expecting Halle Berry recently traipsing through LAX? Who looked more fab in this Thread Social mod shift dress? Jennifer Lopez Halle Berry Created on September 23, 2007 View Results more at twiigs.com...
DATE DOCTOR EDITION: Deal or No Deal
2007-09-21 15:15:00 So you got the number and are ready to make that call. Now what? Will he or she say "deal" or "no deal?"I have been on my fair share of first dates prior to finding my dreamboat, so I have a lil' bit of expertise in this area...This is an example of what NOT to do on a first phone call before the date (this is a true story):Him: So, what do you like to do?Me: Well, I love to loiter in museums, sneak into movies for free, and excessively sample fruit and veggies in supermarkets.Him: So you wanna come over to my condo?Needless to say, this date died an excruciatingly painful death before it could ever come into fruition...no deal!Here are some general guidelines to how to close the deal:Do discuss your general interests. I know this seems basic, but, let's keep it very real, during 99% of the first convo, you are really most concerned about how that person looks sans clothing. It's mighty hard to concentrate on what your new person is saying while daydreaming about playing nekk... More About: Deal , Doctor , Edition
Remember the Jena 6
2007-09-20 15:16:00 I am taking today off in observation of the Jena 6 rallies across in Jena, LA and across the nation.Keep it strictly socially conscious!
MAN DAY: Let Me Upgrade You...
2007-09-19 14:59:00 Hello fellas! Hope that your week is going splendid. I want to make it even better--click on the links below to enlarge and find out how to upgrade your image by doing these 10 simple things:Oh--this is all me---no substitutions allowed! Keep it strictly stylish!
Party Like A Rock Star: How to Act Like You Know How to Taste Wine Edition
2007-09-18 16:08:00 I have to go to a few chi-chi-poo-poo parties this week, so I had to update my wine tasting skills. I can't order Pinot Grigio forever and I'm tired of hearing people ordering White Zinfandel and think that they are stepping it up a notch. For those who want to upgrade their dining and wining etiquette, swish this around in your mouth and swallow:Directly excerpted from The Wine DoctorHow to Taste Wine Wine, especially that for which you have paid a premium, is worth more than a quick swallow. So perhaps this section should be entitled 'Wine Appreciation', because there is a lot more to judging the quality of a wine than just tasting it. Predominantly it involves smell, using that organ which protrudes from the front of the face just above the mouth. Despite this simple fact, however, many regard those that know enough to swirl and sniff their wine as pretentious wine 'snobs'. But this is not the case. This is how to get the best out of a bottle, and I do it with ever... More About: Party , Rock Star , Rock , Star
My Personal Fashion Week Pics
2007-09-18 15:40:00 Just to prove that I actually went to NYC Fash ion Week ....enjoy! Plus, I have to take the boys to the doctor for physicals and shots as well as return a truckload (Hummer, that is--my hubby's mistress--I swear if he could marry that truck, he would..) of items from a magazine shoot yesterday, so more posts will come this evening after a few consultations...WARNING: I may look sweaty or shiny or a combination of both--a sista was working the events!Mary J. Blige and lucky me at the infamous Baby Phat ShowThe Predator of Fashion, Andre Leon Talley and me post-Tracy Reese fashion show (I'm mad that I didn't get his fab man-bag in the shot!)Me and my most favorite feline and style guru Tim Gunn. I had the biggest smile inside....And just for you man-bag enthusiasts:And he rocked a DIFFERENT bag of SIMILAR size every day....yes he did, darling!Other highlights: I was interviewed on camera by the Fashion Police and Amber Mag. Yes, this is shameless self-promotion....Until later, ... More About: Personal , Fashion Week
Random Look of the Day: Kelis
2007-09-17 16:43:00 Kelis looks so fresh, young, and untainted in this pic. She is celebrating hubby's 34th birthday at party in Vegas held this weekend. Married life looks good on her.... More About: Random , Kelis
2007 Emmy Awards Best Dressed List and a Few Extras....
2007-09-17 15:19:00 I only watched a few seconds of the 2007 Emmys, but I caught a glimpse of Vanessa Williams' dress and knew that she would be on my best dressed list. This woman, even through some scandalous pictures and even more scandalous husbands, always manages to look completely fab! She is soooo my beauty role model.....Anyways, I have to prepare for a photoshoot in B-more, so I "borrowed" (wink, wink) these pictures from Red Carpet Style Awards . I do not possess even a scintilla of the creativity that it takes to arrange the headshots and body shots....hence the pictures seen on this post marching very neatly in a vertical single file line....Here are my top picks of the night:1. America FerreraShe certainly wears blue very well. I love the way that the belt creates a waistline. It gives definition and accentuates her curves well.2. Vanessa WilliamsI love the feathers. Only true divas can pull this look off....3. Ellen PompeoOk, I LOOOVE Grey's Anatomy, but that's not why I picked... More About: Emmy Awards , Extras , List , Emmy Award
People Magazine's 2007 Best and Worst
2007-09-14 15:55:00 Okay...since everyone one is abuzz about this list--I might as well discuss it. I normally don't do the "best" lists because they are highly media driven--we common folk usually have an entirely different idea of who looks the "best"....According to People , these female celebs rock the best looks:Beyonce-The ShowstopperCameron Diaz- The LegsKatie Holmes-The ClassicPenelope Cruz-The ContinentalJessica Biel-The All AmericanDrew Barrymore- The ChameleonJennifer Lopez- The Glamour GirlReese Witherspoon- The SophisticateGwen Stefani-The TrendsetterAli Larter- The NewcomerFor once, I actually agree with this list. The only one at which I wince slightly is Beyonce...her everyday normal is sometimes off-kilter, but she definitely knows how to bring a room to a standstill while performing. Just for that reason, and for that reason only, can she remain on the list in my head. No mention of the House of Do-Me-Wrong here....There was a much more interesting list that I would LOOOVE to di...
A short hiatus today...
2007-09-13 16:31:00 I have to work in Baltimore all day today, so I will post this evening. Until then, stay outta trouble and keep it strictly stylish! More About: Today , Hiatus , Short
MAN DAY: The Haute Couture Edition
2007-09-12 18:01:00 Firstly, I must apologize for taking such a long break. But, I must warn you, from time to time, I will have to take some break for work purposes.Secondly, instead of showing all of the pictorials of the shows (plus, I really don't have the time to do it), I will showcase some highlights (I almost shudder as I write this) of a few of the many shows. If you want a more in-depth look at the Spring 2008 fashions shown here, check out the designers official websites.Thirdly, I had to change the colors--it was getting too difficult for me to read my own posts..curse these over-30 eyes!Let's get started!DieselI had fun at this show. It was a throwback to 80s apparel and I was feeling right at home. I know that some of you men remember wearing skinny jeans...they weren't just for the ladies....However, I found some looks to be just downright disturbingI mean, unless you are going to be dropping it like it's hot as a Chippendales dancer, this ensemble need not be in your style reper... More About: Couture , Edition , Haute Couture
I'm Back!
2007-09-11 04:40:00 I am officially back from NY Fashion Week...and I am on the road to catching up in EVERY area of my life...it's so hard to be Superwoman! I will begin full posts on Wednesday with a fabulous MAN DAY post...wait with baited breath! More About: Back
MAN DAY: What to Wear to the Club
2007-09-05 18:02:00 Sorry guys, I am on my way to NYC--no original content here. I do have a most suitable substitute: Be Better Guys!For some great advice on what to wear to the club, check out this article by Brian Joyner: What to Wear When: Club Hopping Written by Brian Joyner It’s Friday night, things are popping all over town. You’re heading out with the fellas/ your crew/ your posse (does anyone actually use that expression anymore?), or maybe it’s you and your girlfriend/wife/someone you want to be your girlfriend or wife. You want to look right and you want to be comfortable. Your clothes make a statement about you and it'll be obvious to everybody if you aren’t comfortable in you gear. Wear what's considered "club-appropriate." The last thing you want is the bouncer stopping you because you're dressed like K Fed while letting your boys or you lady head inside for a sla... More About: The Club
Style File: Fall 2007 Absurd Shoe Edition
2007-09-04 13:00:00 I found this swanky assortment of shoes among the Fall 2007 line up at Barneys.Here are my astute observations:1. Miu Miu Anklestrap Mary Jane: I am not a fan of any flat shoe at all. This shoe looks like an episode of "When the Glue Gun Went Wrong." Huge rhinestones on my tippy toes does not a diva make. I believe that a woman's legs look best in a pair of high heels--the higher, the better! What's the purpose of woman's leg is her calf isn't pumped up past sexy? I only wear flat shoes on my bad days---my very, very, bad days. But, if you like flats, you do you...you are certainly not dressing for me. If you spend ALL your time caring what others think about you, it's a waste of time. Besides, when I see you, I will only be concerned if you noticed my fabulousity!2. Marc Jacobs Cuffed Wedge Boot: Okay--why do I want to wear a boot that looks like a mini-me of a pant leg. And, white suede at that? To top it off, it looks like you're wearing opaque tights with a w... More About: File , Style , Shoe , Absurd , Edition
The Jena Six
2007-09-04 00:31:00 Here's something to chew on while you enjoy your holiday. If you haven't seen it already, it's because it's now only getting widespread media coverage. It's gotta stop, people.... More About: Jena Six , Jena
Maternal Style File-Give Me Body Edition
2007-08-31 09:22:00 Ok--this makes no sense at all. I mean, the chick has 3 kids--and this is how she turns out? I have 2 and my baby pooch is still living fiercely and free. But, then again, when you the resources to have a personal chef, a personal trainer, and a personal gym, you really don't have any excuse not to look like Heidi Klum, aka THE BODY, post baby. I just need to know her workout plan....Anyways, repeats of Season 3 of Project Runway will begin to air on Sept 6th during NYC Fashion Week. What a co-winky-dink! I know that we fashion starved addicts will be watching the repeats religiously.Her favorite BFF Tim Gunn and his ultra-fine, rico suave self will be back to host the season. I am sure that it will be filled with dragalicious cat fights and second career-dream job angst. My favorite feline Timmy also has a new show on Bravo called Tim Gunn's Guide to Style that will premiere on Sept 6th at 10 pm EST. The companion book, A Guide to Quality, Taste and Style is due to h... More About: Body , File , Give , Edition
Tips on Style from Victoria Beckham
2007-08-30 16:00:00 Of course, you all know that I absolutely adore Victoria Beckham . Apart from keeping a strongly held belief that she should eat more than once a day, I think that she is absolutely fabulous! 3 kids, 1 mega-husband, and a budding fashion line....this woman is definitely on the move. In my daydreams, I am the black Posh---I just need to add one more kid to the repetoire!Here's an excerpt from her new book, That Extra Half an Inch. I was a bit surprised, there are actually some really good tips. I shouldn't have been, though...look at her! You can find the original article here in the LA Times.A sneak peek from That Extra Half an Inch, Victoria Beckham's style guide. It was published in Britain last year; a U.S. release is planned soon. But for now, put up your "Party Feet" and listen up. • Looking effortless is actually fashion code for "this involved lots of thought," and it's a tragic truth that this generally is the best strategy. • However you're built, be mindful ... More About: Tips , Style
MAN DAY: Booted and Suited
2007-08-29 17:12:00 Welcome to MAN DAY! First let me preface this by telling you that NONE of the information below was written by me. I straight jacked it from Be Better Guys...It's okay, I happen to be acquainted with the owners....so it's alright, it's okay....I would have written a similar post, but today is a truly hectic day. I am in the midst of preparing for NYC Mercedes Benz fashion week, working on some new projects, organizing some photoshoots, meeting new clients, and preparing for my oldest son to come home from summer vacation.....and that just describes my responsibilities until mid-morning....Anyways, now that I have properly vented, feel free to enjoy this breathtaking and refreshing article below. Men, take notes.....Consider a Custom Suit Written by Matt Landsberg When many people think of custom suits, they often think of one of two things: either a “Neon” Deon Sanders-type suit with unusual colors and some, uh, very unique features (eight button...
MAN DAY: the man bag lives on
2007-08-08 15:30:00 Today's MAN DAY topic took me completely by surprise. Please follow this exchange I had with a male fabulite associate of mine for more details:Me: So you carry a purse, eh?Him: It's not a purse. It's my carrying bag.Me: Oh--so it's a man purse?Him: No. It is what I use to carry my important items.Me: Like what?Him: My wallet, my phone, my, iPod, my important papers...Me: (I cut him off) What happened to your pockets and a briefcase?Him: I don't like to look bulky.Me: What in the man-bag hell are you talking about? You have a manbag!Him: Whatever. As long as you don't call it a purse.Me: OHHHH--so you're a metrosexual....Him: Did you just call me a homosexual?The conversation then wandered off into an unnecessary convo about his "manhood." I just wanted to know if dude was carrying a purse or not....Anyway you put it, the man purse, oh, excuse me, manbag, is still on the rise. No longer confined to the celebrity crowd (see examples of the uber fine David Bec... More About: Lives , The Man
Party like a rock star...
2007-08-07 18:56:00 Even though our mid-summer night dreams have long approached and passed us by,it's not too late to dazzle and sizzleor add a simple touch of eleganceand provide a decadent and demulcent (you might need to look that one up, it's my word of the day!) atmosphere to have the party of the summer!Here's a step by step guide to have the most talked about 'intimate' soiree of the summer--make those who weren't invited covet an invite and did attend have "what happens here, stays here" memories....1. It's all about location, location, location. Ponder carefully over where you want to hold your summer soiree. To keep it intimate and under crowd control, it's best to party at home or some fabulous place with a medium outdoor garden patio. Choose your location at least 3-4 weeks in advance. Regardless of whether it's in your home, a local hot spot, or the beach, you need to prepare each setting. Instant upgrade: rooftop patio party.2. Choose your theme. If you want a sweaty, rock ya b... More About: Party , Rock Star , Rock , Star
Fantasy toys
2007-08-06 17:00:00 Just melt your frustrations away...From style.comLove the feel of a refreshing steam bath but hate sharing the experience with strangers? European home design company Ideal Standard has an elegant solution: this three-in-one sauna, hammam, and shower. No bigger than a well-appointed closet, the mini rejuvenation cabin is just the right size for one person, but we don't think there'd be any harm in testing it out with two. At $20,000, it isn't cheap, but who can put a price on uninhibited well-being? Fendi--the new take on the convertible mini...There is nothing I like more than a convertible....bag that is. Fendi accessories designer Silvia Venturini has created the seventies-inspired To You bag. For whatever occasion that you even dream of, this bag can be utilized. The daytime hobo, with a flick of the wrist, converts to a evening clutch. It' s not available until this September, so you better believe that I will put myself on the list---like yesterday! Bathing suit alert-... More About: Toys , Fantasy
Maternal Style File
2007-08-03 15:44:00 Just wanted to post this uber-deluxe and strictly fabulous flick of Mel B and Nicole Murphy. Although Eddie Murphy shows nay ounce of couth in his paternal functioning, he sure knows how to pick some stylish women (including Tracey Edmonds). These ladies need to teach a course on how to look so fab post-baby and post-bitter breakup. The course would be overbooked....anyhoo.., I absolutely adore the shoes! Do it ladies! More About: File , Style
MAN DAY: "Pretty bracelets that tell time..."
2007-08-01 14:31:00 First let me apologize for the late posts---my home Internet was acting up. After a lengthy but helpful convo with Comcast, all is well....Now on to MAN DAY.....I was speaking to a gentleman friend and he asked me the time. I kindly looked at my timepiece and told him. I then asked, "Where is your watch?" (He was a fellow attorney who did pretty well for himself--he really had no excuse) He said that he didn't need a watch because he used his cell phone to tell time. He then told me, "Watches are now useless. They are basically pretty bracelets that tell time."Hmmm, okay.....I completely disagree. I am an ardent proponent of complete personal branding--meaning that you have to distinguish yourself in order to get noticed---and for men, the watch is a major part of that total look.Here are some watches that may need to be included in your style swagger. Since you all know about the Rolexes and Audemars Piguets, let me introduce you to some non-rap lyric watches. I'll go fr... More About: Time , Pretty , Bracelets , Tell
Weekend Wrap Up--Thank you Lord!
2007-07-31 16:27:00 And fun was had by all....This weekend was chock full of Christian loving and style. I had the unique opportunity to assist with wardrobe styling with the Dr. Bobby Jones Gospel show at the BET studios in Washington, DC (thanks to Genevieve Nixon, uber producer!). I had the pleasure of meeting premiere gospel artists (Tonex, Mighty Clouds of Joy, Wess Morgan, Ricky Dillard, Canton Jones, Shirley Murdock, Lexi, Shirley Ceaser, Karen Clark-Sheard, Vanessa Bell Armstrong, to name a few) and Dr. Bobby himself. His choir, the Nashville Super Choir, was an awesome group of vocalists who hailed from the great gospel families of legend (Pace sisters, etc.) Not much too commentary---it was a wonderful weekend and I was able to learn from some great wardrobe stylists (Tanya Bailey of BET and Shelly of Image 7 Studio),meet the gospel greats, and network, network, network! You can find some photo ops below (please don't mind the sweaty version of me....they had me working like a fie... More About: Weekend , Lord , Hank , Wrap
Date Doctor Edition (for men only, but ladies, please pass along!)
2007-07-27 15:55:00 I have had a few requests to give some dating tips to the menfolk (actually, I was accused of being bias because I am married). I am really still a newlywed in my mind, so I still feel a bit in touch. To be fair to all, here is some fruit from the tree of life for the men in your lives:1. Women do care about how much money you make and your credit score (regardless of what they tell you), but they don't want you to splash them with dollar-dollar bills or rain on them when you first meet. Not only is it super duper pretentious, but it makes it look like you think the woman is a gold digger. If she turns you down, don't be surprised. If she takes up an offer, I'm not saying she's a gold digger, but she don't mess with no broke...2. Please, please, please check your hygiene before you high step it over to us. Funky breath, body odor, or cologne does not sit well with us. If we lurch forward because your funky self has come close, it's not so we can get closer...we are trying to p... More About: Pass , Ladies , Doctor , Edition , Ease
THE LOOK: Grey top, white pants and the summer tunic
2007-07-26 17:00:00 SourceLong thought to be only a fall or early spring fashion, the summer tunic will definitely distuinguish you ladies from the standard sundresse or tank tops/cute blouse/skinny (or the dreaded high-waisted) jeans combo.Gray top/White bottomTake a stroll down any of your city's trendy hot spots and you will find this summer/spring/fall look in abundance on your hippest socialites, trendsetters, and celebs. Which category do you fit in? The gray counterbalances the white for a nice, soft muted effect. Also, fuller tunics hide everthing that needs to be hidden (pooches, turkey arms, muffin tops, baby bellies, etc.)Well, if you want to belong, you better get the look:Free people tiered lace pulloverFree people party pocket jumperMarc Jacobs The bottomRich and SkinnySeven Jeans Tufi DuekBCBGFor my fuller size fabulites:SilhouettesAvenue (a multitude of selections!)If you want to buck the gray/white color trend like Amerie and simply don a tunic-inspired look, you may find the followin... More About: Summer , Pants , Grey , Tunic
First Date Look 101
2007-07-26 06:47:00 The Basics : How to look sexy all the time!Note: I was up all night preparing for a huge upcoming project--gotta pay the bills and private school tuition (these kids need some jobs...), so please enjoy this date guide from clikdate.com...I will do an original post once I can pry my eyes to half-open...When you're on a date, you're out to make an impression. Needless to say, its a good impression that you're trying to make. So you want to look your best, but looking your best (without actually looking like you've been trying to hard to look your best) isn't always the easiest thing to do. You've got grooming, accessorising, clothing, etc. There are actually some simple basics that you can always fall back on, no matter what the occasion and where the venue.The Basics Basics are the staple of any wardrobe. They are the clothes that you add on to, to build a whole new look. Usually, these items are timeless, so all a person has to do is buy the occasional new and trendy item to m... More About: Look
MAN DAY--Survivor Mode
2007-07-25 07:46:00 MAN SURVIVAL KIT I always get EXTREMELY irritated when I meet a man and one of the following happens:1. He has bad breath..like a small pet just up and died in his mouth2. His off-the-rack clothes fit very poorly (either he has on smedium or double double XXL)3. His odor overpowers my sense of smell and nearly renders me unconscious4. He has stains on the most vital parts of his clothing...what was HE doing before?5. He has the "ashy Larry " syndrome--meaning white knuckles, chapped hands, dry face, cracked skin, unforgiveable ash on legs, etc.As according to my hubby, this is your MAN survival kit (keep it with you at all times--car, briefcase, manbag, i.e. wherever it is handy and accessible):Keep in mind that I am referring to small containers of the following items... (my hubby says keep it in the armrest or glove compartment of car)small mouth washflosscolognesmall toothbrush and paste (have you ever heard of Brush-Ups?)small lotiongum or altoidschapstick--NO VASELINE, PLEASE!T... More About: Survivor , Mode , Vivo
"I want a girl with extensions in her hair; bamboo earrings, at least two p
More articles from this author:2007-07-24 19:36:00 THE LOOK: BAMBOO EARRINGSI am an 80s baby, so I remember all these revolving trends coming back to haunt us. Unlike the pure disdain that I have for high-waisted mom jeans, I am loving the return of the doorknocker earrings (as immortalized in the classic "Round the Way Girl " by LL Cool J). Celebs like Hilary Duff, Rihanna, Bey, Cassie, and Fergie have become addictive fans of the look. You can glam up or glam down most outfits with these fun, decorative hoops. I have a few pair myself--peep the profile pic below!See how your favorite celebs rocked the look:Hillary DuffRihannaCassieLily AllenBeyonceYou can buy Hilary's pair from CC Skye here or a pair like Rihanna's here or like Fergie's hereORyou just go to your neighborhood flea market (like I did) and purchase them for $7.99! To stay fab, you need to keep moolah IN your pockets...take note....I just got from Vegas, so I have a lot of catching up to do today...stay strictly stylish! More About: Extensions , Earrings , Hair , Bamboo 1, 2, 3, 4 |
